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Patti Rispoli Obituary
AGE: 58 • Wilmington
Patti MacDougall Rispoli, 58, of Wilmington, left for her final resting place in heaven with the sun on her face and sand between her toes, on February 20, 2016, surrounded by the love of her family after a courageous two and a half year battle with brain cancer. Patti was born on June 14, 1957, the daughter of Joan Casarella and the late James MacDougall. Patti was a proud, life-long postal worker who loved her job and co-workers. She had a playful outlook on life, an attitude she was able to retain right up until the time of her passing. Patti excelled at any competitive activity she participated in, and found her true passion on the field playing and coaching softball. She also enjoyed being a diehard Phillies and Eagles fan, no matter how lousy the season. Patti's humor and liveliness were unforgettable. All of those who knew her have fond memories of singing and dancing, especially if it meant embarrassing her daughters. Patti truly cherished her time with family and friends. To say the least, she was extremely dependable and selfless. Patti went out of her way to make the people in her life happy in nearly everything that she did.
Patti is survived by her daughter Kristen Schneider and partner Andrew Watson, and daughter Laura Schneider and beloved grandson Matthew Baker; her sister Nancy Kaminski and husband Dan; her sister Lynne Cirillo and nephew Tommy Rispoli and fiancé Katrina Malloy; niece Amanda Toney and her son Kolby, as well as other nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles; partners in crime, and god- parents to her children, Angie Bogush and Linda Christina; her beloved dogs Remi and Cali, and Grand-dog Ollie. She was preceded in death by her brother Steve MacDougall.
Patti made it clear to her family that she did not want a traditional service, therefore we ask that all who loved her please join us in a celebration of her life on Friday, Feb. 26, at Minquas Fire Hall at 21 N James St, Newport, DE 19804 from 5-9pm. The family would ask that in lieu of flowers, please make a donation to The Delaware Brain Tumor Walk Team/Patti Rispoli.
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Doreen Whelan
February 18, 2024
Time here on earth can go slow or fast. Missing a loved one puts you in neither category. You are so missed by your daughter and family and friends. WE Love Kristen and you would be so proud of her. She´s created a beautiful life with this beautiful family and your beautiful grandchildren. Please watch over them and keep them safe. CONTINUE TO REST IN PEACE.
Victor Cirillo
February 22, 2022
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Patti always made me smile. NEVER FORGOTTEN...NEVER WILL BE
Eric From
February 18, 2021
The time she left this earth is getting longer but her memory is never forgotten. Always thinking about you.......
Victor
February 18, 2019
Gone, BUT NEVER WILL BE FORGOTTEN.
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eric from
March 23, 2016
great friend and great neighbor-hope to see you in heaven in the future
Laura Schneider
February 27, 2016
Love you so much mom. No one will ever be able to replace you. You were definitely one of a kind. Matthew and I will miss you so much.
VICTOR CIRILLO
February 25, 2016
Patti, you were my sister-inlaw, and a great person all around. We had great time always when we were together.Your out of sight, but will never be out of mind.you were 1 crazy woman , and thats what made you so special. You will be missed by many.
Paula Alton Black
February 25, 2016
May god bless you and your family. Rip
Katie Williams
February 24, 2016
I'll love you forever my friend. I know your soaring high with the angels above watching over us all. I would like to send my prayers and condolences out to all her friends and family at this difficult time. I hope you find comfort in each other and the love she had for all of you. Sending a million xoxo!
Eric From
February 24, 2016
Patti we were friends from the time we were born . Hope to see you again when it's my time. Kristen you and Andrew have been incredilble these last few years. Now it is time to take all that knowledge that she taught and use it and pass it on. She loved even though it hurt. God Bless you Patti and family
Debbie McClafferty Willard
February 24, 2016
Patti was one of the nicest people I have ever known. When I would run into her we would talk for hours. She was so funny and very caring. She is at peace now but will be missed.
Cindy Wallin
February 24, 2016
I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope all your wonderful memories help to ease the pain.
Doreen Whelan
February 24, 2016
She watches over you while we will help keep you in loving arms and a smile on your face
My Deepest Sympathy and Condolonces to you Kristen
Love you and will ALWAYS be here for you
Elizabeth Cooke
February 24, 2016
My condolences to the family. We miss her so much at Edgemoor, her contagious laughter and wonderful, happy spirit. A great friend she is and I love you forever Patticakes❤
FideliTrade and DDSC
February 24, 2016
Our condolences on the loss of your loved one. Patti we love you and will miss you. from the staff at FideliTrade and DDSC
Kismat Oza
February 24, 2016
Kristen, I am very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy Day
February 24, 2016
My condolences to you all! I knew Patti through the WPFCU and she was always such fun to see! I am now battling the same thing and will be participating in the brain tumor walk as well! Prayers to you all!
Nancy Biddle(Sturgis mom)
February 24, 2016
Kristen and Andrew, Sorry for your loss and my family will continue to keep your family in our prayers.
Eileen Muzzi
February 24, 2016
She will be missed
cindy evick
February 24, 2016
Such a fun and happy person was the Patti I remember. So sorry to hear about her passing and know she will be resting in peace with the angels.
February 24, 2016
My condolences on the loss of your loved one. God is the source of our strength and a stronghold in times of distress.
Psalm 18:1-3.
February 24, 2016
Words cannot express how deeply sorry to love Patti in our life. We will miss her dearly. Our sincere condolences to all of the family.
Rae & Bob Christina
Rae & Bob Christina
Marjie & Joe Ritter
February 24, 2016
Lynne and family, I am so sorry for your loss. May your sister RIP.
February 24, 2016
Sorry to hear of your loss, knew Patti from Lancaster Ave. Post office.
John J Samluk
Christina Austin
February 24, 2016
My favorite cousin/aunt growing up,you will forever be missed but never ever forgotten. A very loyal and loving woman,we love you very much
TINA T
February 24, 2016
I AM SENDING MY HEARTFELT CONDOLENCE TO YOUR FAMILY.PLEASE BE COMFORTED BY ISAIAH 61:1-2 WHICH STATES IN PART:"GOD HAS SENT HIS SON TO BIND UP THE BROKENHEARTED AND COMFORT ALL WHO MOURN".
anna mcdonald
February 24, 2016
so sorry for your loss,she was alot of fun.
Bonnie Dresser
February 23, 2016
I have great memories of Patti during many years of grade through high school school and good times at the Woodland Heights park. Her smile was true and heart was gentle and kind. Although I'm saddened with her passing and wished I could have seen her one more time at our 40th class reunion, I'm happy she's now pain free.
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