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Nancy Egelsen Schwartz Sherlock
September 15, 2021
I spent the day watching all of the sadness of that day. It has been 20 years since you were taken from all of us: your husband, your family and your friends. It seems to me it still is as hard as the day it happened. I miss my friend, my classmate, my co worker, my diet partner and my phone pal. Someday we will be together. I miss you more than you know. Happy Belated Birthday to you and Kevin. Miss you and think of you so so often.
Nancy Egelsen Schwartz Sherlock
Cindy Roe
September 14, 2021
Remembering Pamela on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Kathy Lawler-Craig
September 10, 2021
Happy Birthday Pam!
Gayle Navarro
August 31, 2021
On the 20th Anniversary of 9/11 and remembering the loss of so many on that horrific day, I will especially be remembering Pam with a heavy heart. Sending thoughts and prayers to Kevin and family.
As long as hearts remember
As long as hearts still care
We do not part with those we love
They're with us everywhere
Kimberly Divins
August 14, 2021
Kevin, I've never forgotten that day of what happened to all of us but more them anything I alway think of you and Pamela. I pray for you that God will help you to continue to get through this as all of us care about you very much. It's going to be 20 years but the love you have for someone is forever. My friend, know that so many care about you and continue to pray for you . God Bless you Kevin. GOD BLESS AMERICA
Kevin Gaff
September 12, 2020
It's been 19 years, but it seems like yesterday. Thank you all for remembering her. She will always be missed and we will continue to think about her every day.
Subha Chandran
September 11, 2020
Another year has passed by and I can't believe what a legacy you have left behind. I am always grateful for the work ethics you have taught me. Long Live your Memories
Nancy Egelsen Schwartz Sherlock
September 11, 2020
Another year has gone by. You don't realize how many times in a year I still think of you. I thought of you yesterday knowing it was your birthday and we are now the same age. Happy Birthday to you Pam, my friend, my coworker and my schoolmate. Also Happy Birthday to Kevin also. I have said this before, but I am hoping that he has gone on with his life, which is something I know you would have wanted. This year the Memorial will be different for all who lost their lives on this day. That is because of the circumstances with Covid-19, but you all will be remembered. I will continue to post to you each year as long as I can. You know we are getting older. Until we meet again my pal.....
Chester&Ginger
September 10, 2020
You would have celebrated your Birthday today 4-10-20. You've had to do so in Heaven for the past 19 years.
Chester& Ginger
September 10, 2020
Today is another Birthday you celebrate in Heaven. 4-10-20
Gayle Navarro
September 11, 2019
It's hard to believe that 18 years have passed since that fateful day that changed all of our lives in ways we never could have imagined. No matter how much time goes by, we'll never forget the morning of September 11, 2001, when the news broke that the first plane had hit the World Trade Center.
Pam will always be remembered in a special place in my heart. As I listen and wait for her name to be called at the New York 9/11 Rememberance Service, my thoughts and prayers go out to her husband, family, Radford and Aon friends that miss her everyday.
Brenda Barrett
September 11, 2019
Hi Pamela. I didnt know you but saw yesterday was your birthday at the 9/11 memorial ❤. So sad
Nancy Egelsen Schwartz Sherlock
September 11, 2019
Woke up this morning to the flag half mast mourning the beginning of a sad sad day! Brings flooding thoughts of my friend who was taken away at the prime of her life from her husband, her family, and her friends. I think of all the other victims and their family and friends who are thinking of their loved ones who were taken from them. Sent a Happy Birthday message to you and Kevin, but it did not post. Kevin I hope life has treated you well. You both were so special together. Pam know that you are always thought of. Miss you and Happy Birthday to you and Kevin!♥
Debbie Peevyhouse
September 10, 2019
Pam, Another Birthday in Heaven and I still think of you. Until we meet again.
Chester & Ginger
September 7, 2019
So difficult to realize it has been 18 years... for Pamela to again celebrate her Birthday, 9-10-18, in Heaven. She had this honor since the day after her Birthday, 9-11-01. Jesus continues to hold you in His Arms. Peace.
ROBERT EISENHARDT
September 6, 2019
Pamela - does not seem like it has been 18 years ago that I stopped by your office on 103. Miss you and so many others at this time of year. We never forget
Chuck Aidukas
August 31, 2019
In memory of all that was, and all that changed. RIP Pam, and peace to an old friend Kevin.
Anony mous
November 18, 2018
Very kind of Robbinsville to dedicate a memorial to her. It just shows how this tragic event affected so many lives. I never knew Mrs. Gaff personally but it's so sad to see a fellow Robbinsville resident having passed in such a way.
Debbie Peevyhouse
September 12, 2018
Another year remembering your smile and laughter, another year missing you. Rest well my friend, you left a lasting legacy.
Rick Anthony
September 11, 2018
One outstanding colleague! Loved her family. Loved her job. She is missed.
Taken by Gayle Navarro 4/9/17
Gayle Navarro
September 11, 2018
Today on 9/11/18 as I watch and listen to the "Calling of the Names" at Ground Zero Memorial, I am remembering Pam and sending my heartful thoughts and prayers to her family and friends. This picture was taken on 4/9/17 while visiting her memorial last year.
Chester&Ginger
September 8, 2018
Pamela will once again celebrate her Birthday, 9-10-18, in Heaven, as she has done since the day after her Birthday, 9-11-01. Jesus continues to hold you in His Arms. Peace.
NANCY JOHNSEN
September 7, 2018
Pamela, I never met you, but I just met your brother Brian and niece Lauren down in SoCal at my husband's son/daughter-in-law's baby's 1st birthday party. I saw your name and 9/11 date on a car at the house and I had to search the people out. You see, I lost my coworker on Flight 11, Laurie Ann Neira. So it was wonderful talking with your dear brother Brian and your beautiful niece Lauren about you and I can't wait to meet you in Heaven. Until Almighty God tells His Son our Beloved Saviour, "Son, go get Your Bride," and Jesus Raptures us out of here, I will now add you to my thought list for that day and hug you when I meet you in Heaven.
ROBERT EISENHARDT
August 23, 2018
Annual rememberance coming around - worked with Pamela when she was on 103 and saw the morning of the 11th when everything went bad. Remember her smile as I left her office that day. Miss her much and my other colleagues from Aon Consulting,
Laura Davis
September 12, 2017
Well Pam it has been 16 years now. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you. Sometimes at work I think how would Pam handle this situation. Then your answer is there. One day we will meet each other on Paradise earth as Jesus preached about his kingdom here on earth. We also pray for the kingdom in the model prayer that Jesus taught us called The Lord's Prayer found in Mathew. There we will help one another build homes, no more rent or mortgages to pay. I look forward to the animals that will be there. A mere child will pick up a snake or pet a lion and it won't hurt them. There will be no more tears or sorrow the former things will have past.
Rest in peace my friend for now until we meet again.
Love you Laura Davis
Subha Chandran
September 11, 2017
The years Pass by and I still cherish your memories in my heart and it will stay with me as long as I live. That is the legacy you legacy you have left with us. You are with us forever.
Subha Chandran
San Jose/ Radford
Debbie Peevyhouse
September 11, 2017
Another year has gone by and you still live on in our hearts and memories. Happy heavenly birthday, Pam!
September 10, 2017
Sending my thoughts and prayers to Pam's husband Kevin and family on this 9/11 Anniversary.
This April 2017, I had the honor of visiting Ground Zero. My desire to visit New York and Pam's memorial site has been aching in my heart for years. It gave me the closure I needed to say good bye to her spirit and soul. What a beautiful way to preserve some of the memories of these loved ones who we have lost. RIP Pam
Remembrance in Life's passing
is the truest form of love one can give,
for a memory should never die
and a love should live forever in the heart of another.
-Laura M. Phipps-Kelley
Gayle Navarro
Aon/Radford San Jose, CA
Chester&Ginger Mankowski
September 9, 2017
Tomorrow, 9-10-17, would have been your Earthly Birthday. You are blessed to be celebrating these past 16 years in Heaven, standing beside Jesus. Sorry for your family's loss of you: very special Sister, Aunt, Daughter, and Friend.
Chester&Ginger Mankowski
September 9, 2017
We continue to pray for your Peace at God's Table. Surely all your questions about His Mysterious Ways have been answered without having to utter one word.
Your Family & Husband miss you terribly. We pray for them to have found Peace.
08/23/17 Claudio Musso and his family
Claudio Musso
September 9, 2017
claudio Musso
September 8, 2017
After our visit at 9/11 Memorial on August 23 with my family, I was so captured by the 3 white roses standing on her name that this picture is now become the folder of our N.Y. travel book.
Also whitout having known Pamela, I think that she had been a special person in her life.
Claudio from Italy
Robert Eisenhardt
August 22, 2017
Sept 11 coming up for 2017 and she was one of the people I visited on the 103rd floor that morning. Miss her smile much - warm thoughts to all who knew her
Robert Eisenhardt
September 12, 2016
I saw Pam in her office on the morning of the 11th - gave her an office momento for shutting down the servers on the weekend and always carry her smile with me. She was wonderful and miss her much
Bob Eisenhardt, 101st floor survivor
Chris Gaffney
September 11, 2016
I didn't know you or anyone that was lost on that day, but I heard your name during a national broadcast today and thought I would look you up, and say I pray for you and your family.
Chet& Ginger
September 10, 2016
Although we only knew you indirectly, from your Brother & Sister-in-law Damush, we will remember you always. You never knew what happened & when you opened your eyes, you saw Jesus.
15th year remembrance of that Tragedy in our USA will never be forgotten.
Peace for your family, prayers for your Heavenly place at God's Table, and hope for our future.
God Bless you, Pamela Gaff.
Debbie Peevyhouse
September 10, 2016
The years pass and I still think of you often. R.I.P. Pam, until we meet again.
Kevin Gaff
September 14, 2015
Thank you, all, for your continued kind thoughts of Pam. She was such a happy person and still, and always will be, missed.
Kevin Gaff
Maria Molina
September 13, 2015
Pam, I always remember you. God bless!
Debby Damush
September 11, 2015
Miss you Pam
Ginger&Chester Mankowski
September 11, 2015
Pam, I know you are standing beside Jesus, watching over all your family members, friends, coworkers. You are missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing you. We will never forget, 9-11-01 !
Chuck Aidukas
September 11, 2015
Remembering Kevin and Pam.
Maria Cumming
September 11, 2015
You are so missed.
September 10, 2015
Pam is always in my thoughts and prayers especially on this very sad day 9/11. I will be listening for her name to be called during the 9/11 Remembrance Ceremony tomorrow.
Debbie Peevyhouse
September 10, 2015
Today was your earthly birthday and 14 years ago tomorrow you left us but the memory of you still shines brightly in our hearts.
Subha Chandran
September 10, 2015
September 11,2015. 14 Years later Not a day goes by without thinking about you. You are always in my thoughts.
ROBERT EISENHARDT
September 9, 2015
September 9, 2015 - always miss you Pam particularly as I came up to your office on the morning of the 11th.
Bob Eisenhardt
Marissa Grace
September 11, 2014
Pam, you are in my prayers. We may not have known each other, but we will always be neighbors.
Subha Chandran
September 11, 2014
I think of you every day Pam. Not a day goes by without mentioning your name. Your great smile, your dedication to work and your sense of humor can never get replaced. I am blessed to have met with you.
Kathy
September 11, 2014
Your energy can never be replaced. I'll always remember how fiercely you defended your employees even if we may not have been right. I think of you often. Best wishes to Kevin.
Gayle Navarro
September 11, 2014
September 11, 2014...13 years later we still remember and will never forget. I will always remember Pam's great smile and dedication. My prayers are always with her family...RIP Pam.
Gayle Navarro @ Radford
Laura Davis
September 11, 2014
Hello Pam,
I am missing you. I remember when you trained us on our time card system. You were a good teacher. You were always kind to me and listen whenever I spoke to you. I thank God for those years we had together. Rest in peace until we meet again. I may have more questions for you then.
Your friend Laura Davis
Maria Cumming
September 11, 2014
I always wonder if you would think that I am doing a good job running the nubmers for your Aon business units. When I am stuck on a hard issue, I still think - How would Pam handle this? You could never, ever be replace. I miss you everyday but especially today.
Maria Molina
September 11, 2014
Pam, happy birthday! With love, Maria
Chester & Ginger
September 10, 2014
Also, we know the Birthday you celebrated in Heaven with our Lord today, September 10, 2014, has been a glorious one for you.
Chester & Ginger
September 10, 2014
We continue to pray for Peace for Pamela's family and friends. Her soul soars in Heaven, able to watch over all who love her still. RIP, Pam. You are missed, always!
Debbie Peevyhouse
September 10, 2014
Another year, 13 already, and it seems like yesterday. Still missing you and your laughter.
Robert Eisenhardt
September 9, 2014
September 9, 2014 from Georgia. Does not seem like 13 years since I left her office, your office, and gave you a gift from my grandfather's company. A lovely smile was my reward. Miss you very much good friend. Too many years now, and longer still each day.
Gayle Navarro
September 12, 2013
Another year has gone by adding to our nation's saddest tragedies. And every year I remember Pam and the great loss that we all have endured. I joined Aon/Radford in 2000 and only had the pleasure of meeting her a few times but she is missed dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with her family always.
Gayle Navarro
Gina Wellmaker
September 12, 2013
Pam, we didn't see each other often, but I loved it when you came to the San Jose office. You were so kind to me and I came to think of you as a friend. I loved it when we would go to dinner and I have vivid memories of your laugh and your ability to make those at the table laugh. I will never forget how your face would light up when you spoke of your husband and how you were the loves of each other's lives. Each year I say a prayer for him, and wish him comfort. Miss you my friend. God Bless!
Rick Anthony
September 12, 2013
Another year and another million memories. You were one of a kind. God Bless you and your beloved Kevin.
Debbie Peevyhouse
September 11, 2013
Pam,
I think of you often and smile. Thanks for the memories, you are sorely missed! Still keeping your family, friends and coworkers in my prayers.
Pamela Gaff
Debbie Peevyhouse
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
Every year on this sad day, I schedule a meeting for one hour with you and just remember your quick wit and how much I enjoyed working with you. You are so missed.
Maria Cumming
David Carter
September 11, 2013
God bless you Pam.
Chester & Ginger
September 10, 2013
Pamela, your family & friends remember you on your birthday, one day before you met Jesus on 9-11-01. You are standing beside Jesus, talking, laughing, no pain nor regrets... waiting patiently, as all God's angels do!
Robert Eisenhardt
September 10, 2013
Every 11th of September I remember you well Pamela, miss you extremely much.
Bob Eisenhardt
David Carter
September 11, 2012
God bless you Pam. Even after 11 years the memory of your laugh and general good humour remain with me.
Carol Pusinsky
September 11, 2012
Pam, we all remember you especially today, but always.
Chester & Ginger Mankowski
September 10, 2012
We remember our friends' sister today, 9-10-12; it's her birthday. And we remember that she met Jesus on 9-11-01. We will never forget and pray for Pam's family to continue their courage in the future. God Bless America and Pamela Gaff!
September 5, 2012
September 5, 2012
Once again I remember Pamela, who I saw on the morning of September 11 in her office on 103. I gave her an award from my grandfather's company, a mounted 8-ball inscribed "To ease the road ahead." I hope it did for her. On the 7th I will be at Aon Consulting remembering Pamela and the other 18 friends of our division we lost as well as the total of 176 for Aon. But Pamela is dear to me for that special moment on the morning of the 11th.
Bob Eisenhardt
Erin Bakes
August 1, 2012
I miss you Aunt Pam. I wish you could be here to see me get married. Whenever I hear a pretty wind chime I think of you. You are forever in my heart.
Kevin Gaff
July 18, 2012
I'm sorry I don't do the internet or email, but through a friend she showed me this website and read each entry. I would like to thank all of you for such wonderful memories of my wife, Pam. She is truly missed. It's been almost 11 years since that terrible day. I was honored to have such an amazing partner. Rest assured words can't express my loss. May God bless you all. Kevin
Karen (Dabrowny) Stark
April 21, 2012
Dear Family of Pam
For no particular reason, I thought I would do a "where are they now" search online and came across this memorial for Pam, so her passing is still a shock to me. I had no idea she was a victim of the 9-11 attacks. I still remember her as my childhood friend who was always ready for an adventure, usually created by her. My favorite memory is of Pam and I walking into town to the library which was next door to the prison. Pam decided we should send inspirational messages to the prisoners which we wrote down on scraps of paper and flung over the prison yard wall (stone wall 20 ft high). Then we ran to a bench, sat down and read our books and laughed.
Nancy Sherlock
September 11, 2011
Pam, ten years have passed by so quickly, but you can rest now knowing that our country has stood by it's promise to find the people who did this. I felt peace of mind that momemt when our President came on TV to announce just that. I have peace of mind knowing that pay back has been done and in my eyes it is justified for your death and the death of so many other innocent people. You are still on my mind and will always be on my mind. You will never be forgotten by me ever. Rest in peace my friend. Happy Birthday to you Kevin if you are reading this. Again I hope you have been able to go on with life Pam would have wanted it that way.
Nancy Schwartz Sherlock
David Carter
September 11, 2011
Pam,
10 years have gone by so quickly. You are in my prayers today.
Ginger & Chester Mankowski
September 11, 2011
Pamela, we did not know you but learned so much about you from your brother, Rick, and sister-in-law, Barbara. The ceremonies held today, although very sad and solemn, prove that America is strong & resilient. We know you reside in Heaven, standing beside Jesus, completely understanding all of God's mysterious ways.
A "brick", with your name engraved on it, is cemented in the walk-way to St. Mary's Church Adoration Chapel in Barnegat, NJ. It reads: "Pamela Gaff Met Jesus on 9-11-2001."
Today is "Birthright Sunday" and I placed a red carnation on your name.
I will never forget feeling your presence when, during working hours, I met a woman who reacted when seeing some fotos that were on my bulletin board. As we talked, and she mentioned her son's narrow escape, running down all the stairs from his office at Aon. She mentioned that his boss (name not known to her) said for everyone to "GO" because she had a few things to do. As this Mother then talked with Barbara, they both realized... that the boss was YOU. Many a tear of joy, sorrow, and hope flowed from that shared meeting. I know it wasn't "by chance", but occurred because of you, with God's help.
One day we will meet to share eternal happiness.
God Bless America and Pamela Gaff's family.
Maria Molina
September 11, 2011
Dear Pam, I will always remember you my dear friend.
Carol Pusinsky
September 10, 2011
Pam,
You are still very much in my thoughts and your family remains in my prayers. You're missed!
Maria Cumming
September 10, 2011
Pam,
We still keep your memory alive at Aon by sharing stories, you were such an amazing person to work with. I smilie when I think of you but with pain in my heart. I miss you so Pam!
September 10, 2011
To Pam's family.
Pam will always be remembered. My prayers are with you.
Don Ingram
Keely Klenke
September 9, 2011
To the family and friends of Pamela Gaff. I am so sorry for your loss and take comfort that she is in heaven with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I am honored that I will be running tomorrow 09/10/11 in her remembrence in the 9/11 Unity Walk/Run and Ride in Las Vegas, NV. I feel very honored and humbled by this opportunity to represent her remembrence and the remembrence of September 11th. Please accept this small event as my personal honor and tribute to her and her loved ones.
Keely Klenke
Las Vegas, NV
Psalm 147:3
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
Robert Eisenhardt
September 6, 2011
PAM - Now that it is 10 years, I cannot forget visiting your office on the morning of the 11th, giving you a small award and the smile on your face. Miss you good friend.
December 15, 2010
Pamela- We never met, but I knew of you through my association with your loving husband. With the greatest of sadness, we remember the loss of our countrymen and women.
Chuck Aidukas Jr.
Kim Lehl
September 11, 2010
Thinking of you tonight Pam, as I sit with my 6 & 9 year old boys and do my best to answer their questions about that terrible day. God bless you my friend.
Dave Carter
September 11, 2010
Pam - you are in my prayers today.
Chester & Ginger Mankowski
September 9, 2010
September 10, 2010 would have been Pam's 60th Birthday. As she stands beside God, we know she has no need to celebrate; her reward for leading a beautiful and honorable life keeps her happy in Heaven.
Pam is missed and loved by many people on her Birthday! Rest in Peace!
Cheryl Kodis-Wilson
September 11, 2009
Pam ~ I think of you often, and I pray for your family.
Chester & Ginger Mankowski
September 10, 2009
Today would have been Rick's "big Sister's" 59th Birthday. Pamela, we know you rest in Peace inside Jesus' loving arms.
Chet & Ginger
August 19, 2009
Pamela - I will be lighting a candle for you on the September 11 ceremony held by your colleagues in Consulting. You were one of the last people I personally visited on the 11th and always hold those few moments as most special.
To ease the road ahead.
Rick Anthony, Jr
September 8, 2008
Thinking of you, Pam. I knew you well....those pictures of your home and your husband. You were the toughest softee I ever knew. RIP.
Robert Eisenhardt
September 6, 2008
On the morning of the 11th, I stopped by Pam's office to apologize for a server outage over the weekend that cut short her on-line time and, as a token of recognition, gave her a mounted 8-ball on a wooden base (from my grandfather's company). It was intended to be given to those who feel they are behind the 8-ball, and the plaque read simply "To ease the road ahead."
She placed it on her monitor and turned, giving me the lovliest smile. I turned and went down to floor 101
To this day, I can still see that smile.
Maria Molina
February 24, 2008
Pam,
I remember you and Ed all the time. We all made a great team. There were times at work that I would ask myself what would Pam say to this or what would Ed say. You taught me so much and for this I am thankful. I loved going to San Jose to meet you at the office. You were full of energy and humor. I miss you.
God Bless.
Memorial Brick Walk, St. Mary Parish, Barnegat, NJ
Ginger Mankowski
January 25, 2008
I wanted to share this foto of the "memorial brick" at St. Mary parish, Barnegat, NJ.
Ginger & Chester Mankowski
January 11, 2008
For Pamela Gaff's family, husband & friends:
Working w/ Pam's brother's wife, I felt a sadness beyond comprehension... how tragic this entire event! Surely Pamela opened her eyes, saw Jesus with His outstretched arms, and instantly knew ALL the answers to ALL of God's mysterious ways. On that September morning, Pam met thousands of souls whose lives were suddenly terminated, who all shared in the wonderment of Heaven. She is a Hero beyond all others. There is a brick walkway leading to the Adoration Chapel at St. Mary Parish in Barnegat, NJ; only 2 steps away from the door is a brick etched with a phrase which reads "Pamela Gaff met Jesus 9-11-2001". Pam, watch over Kevin and your family; you are missed so much! Your plight has touched so many...
Nancy Schwartz-Sherlock
September 15, 2007
Happy Birthday to my dear old friend. Six years have gone by and it seems like yesterday when you were taken from us. I miss you more than you could have ever known. You were my friend, my rock and the brains of the two of us. Kevin please know that I miss you also we had great times back in the old days. Knowing that Pam is no longer with us is still something that has not totally sunk into my brain as of yet.
I also want to wish you Happy Birthday Kevin, and I hope life is treating you well. Please drop me a line via email sometime. I think of you both alot. Nancy
Doug Abraham
September 10, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
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