Mother of two (Paul and Janet); grandmother of four (Abby Grintjes, Noe, Devin, Dylan); partner of Doug Knudson for 20 years; widow of David Lyons (married for 42.5 years); sister of three brothers, one remaining (Jim (Jean) Peterson); aunt of 16; friend of many, Judy (Judith P) Lyons (daughter of Harold and Margaret Peterson) died on February 6, 2026.
Judy was born in Minneapolis and grew up in St. Paul until she went to college (Oberlin '57-'59 and Drew University '59-'61). She lived in Ohio for 27 years with her clergy husband, who served three churches there. In 1988, they moved to Wisconsin for David to serve First United Methodist Church-Madison. Judy was a licensed marriage and family therapist (UW-Madison, MS) for 32 years.
In addition to her husband, Judy is preceded in death by her parents, two brothers, one sister-in-law, and twin grandsons. She is survived by her partner Doug; son, Paul (Cindy); daughter Janet (Matt); and four grandchildren.
Judy's ashes will be co-mingled with David's and spread by the children and grandchildren.
No flowers, please. Memorial gifts may be given to the charity of your choice or to First UMC-Madison.
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David and Lynee Bixler
February 15, 2026
Paul, Janet, and family members,
We too are so sorry for your loss. So many great memories from many years ago, but I remember them like it was yesterday. Mom and Dad loved your parents so very much. The fun we had on all the camping trips. I cannot remember a trip to Duck where that the conversation didn't include what weeks are the Lyon's going to be here. We will keep all of you in our prayers.
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Tom and Jill Bixler
February 13, 2026
Paul, Janet, and family members,
We are so sorry for your loss. We have many wonderful memories of camping/vacationing with you and your parents. From rafting down a river to Cape Cod to the Outer Banks, it was always a great time. Camp pies, smores, and hotdogs around the camp fire. We will be thinking of you.
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