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Matthew Patey Obituary

Matthew L. "Matt" Patey

WILLARDS — Matthew L. "Matt" Patey, 37, of Willards died suddenly Friday, April 27, 2012.

Matt was a farmer and a hard worker, and would do anything for anyone. He ran Patey Farms Inc. and Patey Demolition & Excavation, working hard to make sure his family was taken care of.

Matt was a member of Mount Pleasant United Methodist Church and was president of the Mount Pleasant Cemetery Committee. He also served as chairman of the Wicomico County Farm Service Agency, was on the board of directors for the Wicomico Farm Bureau, was a member of the Wicomico Young Farmers & Ranchers and was also a past director of the Wicomico Farm and Home Show.

Although Matt had few hobbies, his greatest pleasure was spending time with his family. He will be deeply missed by his wife and daughters.

Matt was the beloved husband of Tracy A. Patey; the awesome father of Macyn Leigh and Anna Claire Patey; the son of Herman Lee and Janice Patey of Willards; and the brother of Laura P. Lowe of Willards.

In addition Matt is survived by several aunts and uncles, cousins, his father-in-law, sisters-in-law, brothers-in-law, nieces, nephews and a multitude of good friends.

He was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Howard and Laura Patey; and his maternal grandparents, Dewey and Eileen Fenton.

A funeral service will be held at noon Wednesday at the Willards Lions Club, 36393 Hearn Street in Willards. Friends may call on Tuesday from 5-7:30 p.m. at Hastings Funeral Home in Selbyville and from 11 a.m.-noon Wednesday at the Lions Club. Burial will be in Mount Pleasant Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Macyn and Claire Patey Scholarship Fund, in care of the Farmers Bank of Willards, PO Box 10, Willards, Md. 21874. This scholarship has been graciously set up by the Wicomico Young Farmers and Ranchers in memory of Matt.

Online condolences may be sent by visiting www.hastingsfuneralhome.net.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Daily Times on May 1, 2012.

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Cydney Pruitt

April 25, 2020

Always remembered..

Sharon Phillips-Taylor

May 6, 2012

To The Patey Family, No Words Can Ease Your Sorrow! May You Look To Each Other For Strength And Somehow Help Each Other Through All Of The Hard Times! Matt Loved You ALL! No Time Can Ease Your Pain!

Patty Blevins

May 4, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God hold you in His arms.

Brenda Bowden

May 3, 2012

RIP Matt....you will be greatly missed by so many

Kristin Massey-Bivens

May 2, 2012

RIP Matt, I know you will be greatly missed. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to the Patey family. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Chris & Megan Hudson

May 2, 2012

You will be missed greatly! RIP Matt

Kathy and Bill House

May 2, 2012

To The Patey Family,
So sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our thoughts a prayers.

Dana & Terry Lank

May 2, 2012

Things will be different around Baker Road without Matt. His smiling face and helping hands. Tracy, girls and the Patey Family, we are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. You all are wonderful neighbors, it was a pleasure to know Matt.

Joanne O'Neill

May 2, 2012

May God Comfort You.

Ken & Linda Holland

May 2, 2012

You are all in our thoughts and prayers. What a wonderful person Matt was and his positive influence on those he loved and worked with will be everlasting. May God grant you peace and comfort of heart and mind.

TeriLyn Darby

May 2, 2012

Thoughts and prayers to the family. I am so sorry to hear of your lose. May God give you the stregth to get through all this and may you find peace in your heart knowing Matt is with God. Remember all the good times, the smiles and the laughter with love you shared.

betsy palmer

May 2, 2012

matt's family- sorry to hear of your loss - his aunt billie always spoke so highly of him

Joe and Jacque Parker

May 2, 2012

So sorry for your loss. I have great memories of the times Matt and I shared years ago.

Jc Richardson

May 2, 2012

Mat you you will missed. Rest in peace brother

Amy Evans

May 1, 2012

Matt will be missed by many. Prayers go out to the entire Patey family. R.I.P. Matt.

Christina Graves

May 1, 2012

My prayers go out to the family. May God walk them through this tragic loss.

Doug Lewis

May 1, 2012

Thoughts and prayers to the Patey family.

Melissa & Ron Metzger

May 1, 2012

Our hearts break for the entire Patey family. Hold on to the memories you have and knowing that Matt had an impact on many lives.

Your dear friends,

Disharoon Family

May 1, 2012

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Elaine Lynch

May 1, 2012

So sorry for your loss.I will keep you in my prayers.God bless you and the children.

Jeff Ellingsworth

May 1, 2012

I haven't seen Matt since high school. He was great person to be around! He always had a smile. Just remember he will always be with you.

Stephanie Parsons

May 1, 2012

May God keep His arms around your family and comfort everyone during this time of sorrow. The world has lost an amazing person but Heaven definitely gained an angel.

David & Anna Brumbley

May 1, 2012

To The Patey Family,
Words cannot express our deepest sympathy.Hold on to your memories of Matt. He will forever live in your hearts.

Lowell Graybill

May 1, 2012

May God grant you peace that goes beyond our human understanding.

Gary Bratten

May 1, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family, matt was a great man any time the fire service needed him he would always come without question..

Rhonda & Joe Donaway

May 1, 2012

So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and the family

Steve & Lisa Collins

May 1, 2012

Our love and prayers to Matt's family now and in the days to come.

Alan & Ethel Scott

May 1, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dink and Marcia Jones

May 1, 2012

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Joanne Evans-O'Neill

May 1, 2012

So so sorry. Prayers and thoughts are with your family at this difficult time.

Joanne Evans-O'Neill

Andy, Kim, kayden, & gage Jones

May 1, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time! We are truly sorry for your loss!

Harry & Sandi Bodine

May 1, 2012

Tracy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Macyn and Claire during this difficult time.

The Elliott's

May 1, 2012

Thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

May 1, 2012

Deepest Sympathy,
Jason Massey and family

Tom & Theresa Fountain

May 1, 2012

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Sue Jenkins

May 1, 2012

Tracy, Awe Tracy! There are no words to say that could express my sympathy for you, the girls and the rest of the family! What a tragedy! Never forget your memories, they will get you all through the future! Life is so short but Love lives on!

Mark and Carol Hastings

May 1, 2012

We were saddened by the news of Matt's passing.Heartfelt sympathy to you Tracy and the girls and the rest of the family.The world will be different without him,but you'll always have him in memories.

Simkins Family

May 1, 2012

My Heart goes out to the Patey Family such a sad loss. My prayers are with you all.

Walter and Pat Patey

May 1, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss prayers and love . With deepest sympathy.

Sandie Timmons

May 1, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I will miss saying to hi to him
a couple of times a week at the store.
Remember love lives forever in our hearts.

Jo Ann Horner

May 1, 2012

So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family

Nelson Brice

May 1, 2012

Words cannot express my shock and sorrow. Working with Matt through his farm and excavation business was truly a pleasure. He was a good friend and a man you could always count on. He will be missed !

May 1, 2012

my prayers and thoughts are with your entire fanily. the girls and will be paige is the best niece you could have been blessed with. Annetta Bradford and Paige Croswell ( Willards Md)

Darrell & Kim Dashiell

May 1, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Matt & his family have dealt with our company for years and to learn of his death just pulls at our heartstrings. The Patey family are an awesome family and we are sooo sorry for your loss!!

David Rayne

May 1, 2012

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Marcia Jones

May 1, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Try to remember all the good times you shared with Matt. He will be truly missed by alot of people.

Jackie & Phillip Church

May 1, 2012

Tracy,Words can not express our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts & prayers are with you the girls & the rest of the Patey family. Matt was one of a kind and will be missed by so many.

Keith Brown

May 1, 2012

My deepest sympathy For Matt's family. You will be missed buddy

Cydney Pruitt

May 1, 2012

To Matts Family and friends, I am so sorry to hear of this tragic accident. Matt and I worked at Watermans Seafood many years ago, and I will always remember his kindness, helpfulness, and gentle nature. God Bless his family, He will always be with you. Cyd

George & Carol Richardson

May 1, 2012

Tracy and girls. We are so sorry for your loss. Remember all the good times, laughter and love you all shared with Matt. He will be missed.

George & Carol Richardson

May 1, 2012

Tracy and girls. We are so very sorry for your loss. Just remember all of the good times and the love you all shared with Matt.

JC and Heather Richardson

May 1, 2012

Words can not express our deepest sympathy. Tracy our thoughts and prayers are with you, the girls and family. A good ole' country boy will be truely missed.

Danielle Kellam

May 1, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you Tracy, Macyn, Claire & all of Matt's family. He will be missed!

Your neighbor & friend

Michelle & Jerry Hadder

May 1, 2012

U will be missed by all. God bless ur wife & children

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