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Jess Hays Obituary

The Navajo medicine man said that "people who get pancreatic cancer have a sweet soul." Such was the case with Jess William Hays. A man with a profoundly strong vital life force, and a heart as big as the mountains, he battled this disease for over 19 months. But like any good gambler, he "knew when to hold 'em, and when to fold 'em," and finally surrendered on March 24. Jess was born in Uniontown, PA, and thus was a lifelong Steelers fan. He graduated from The University of Akron and Bowling Green State University in Ohio, and devoted his career to teaching marketing and helping thousands of students achieve success in college. Jess was a member of the Association of Deans and Directors and NACADA. He held several positions at U of A, including Assistant Dean of University College. Jess retired from The University of Akron in 2007 as Director Emeritus of the Academic Advisement Center. After retirement, Jess and Debbie moved to Deming, NM, where he had five good years doing the things he loved most, fishing, hunting, hiking and archeology. He loved New Mexico and the friends he made in their new home. Jess was preceded in death by his son, Jess Nicolas, and his younger brother, Joseph. He leaves his beloved wife, Deborah Gwin of Deming, NM, his daughter Carolyn Hays of North Royalton, Ohio, his parents, Jess and Irene Hays of Uniontown, PA, and brothers Jack and Jim, also of Uniontown. Jess also leaves three grandchildren, Jess Robert Hays, and Chase and Chloe Normant, as well as several nieces and nephews. He will be dearly missed by his Theta Chi brothers, his Canada fishing buddies, his Akron colleagues, and so many dear friends all across the country. Our gratitude to Dr. Bruce Greenfield and the incredible nursing staff at Memorial Cancer Center of Las Cruces for their role in this fight. Gratitude also to the Cancer Support Center of Deming. Cremation has taken place, and Jess has requested that his ashes be scattered in his favorite fishing spots in the Pennsylvania mountain's. At his request, there will be no service or flowers, but please feel free to listen to Garth Brooks sing "The Dance," and raise a drink in Jess' honor. Memorial donations may be made to the Pancreatic Action Network for research at https://www.pancan.org/section_donate/donate_now.php# or to Cancer Support of Deming & Luna County, Inc., P.O. Box 1746, Deming, NM 88031. Entrusted to the care of Baca's Funeral Chapels and Mimbres Crematory. To sign the online guest book or to send a card, please visit our website at www.bacasfuneralchapels.com.811 S. Gold Ave., Deming, NM 88030. Phone: 575.546.9671

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Published by Deming Headlight on Mar. 27, 2014.

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August 4, 2014

My son, my son---my dear son Jess. the love,respect and joy you gave to me will stay in my heart forever. when you
left a part of my heart went with you.
Love and memories forever--till we meet again.
Mom

Rayla Williams

May 28, 2014

Jess and Debbie both mean so much to me. He will be sorely missed.

April 5, 2014

Jess was a great fraternity brother. I knew him for far to short a time. I remember running in to him in his office on campus after many years away from campus. I never knew that he shared my passion for fishing. We talked about getting together someday to do some trout fishing. I now look forward to meeting up again with him. I am sure he knows all the best places to fish in heaven.

"Theta Chi Forever"

Ed "the runt" Dieringer

Mary Dick

March 30, 2014

I read about Jess's passing in the Beacon Journal,
And that he enjoyed piroghies for his last meal.
He was a fine person. I believe I met him during
Freshman orientation in the fall of 1970. I don't
recall in what capacity,but I imagine he was in-
strumental in helping me adjust to life on campus.
I didn't recall his interest in archaeology, which I
loved also. Please extend my deepest condolences to his wife and other family members,
Rest in peace Jess.
Mary Caldwell Dick

March 28, 2014

Life is best lived with heaping doses of courage, dignity and grace. The same can be said about one's approach to death. You exemplified the best of both. God rest you well.
Dick Wootton

Esther & Ron

March 27, 2014

May the beauty of your life be forever reflected in the lives of those you loved.

March 27, 2014

To my dear sweet friend. I will always smile when I think of you.
Toni

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