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Alan Farkas Obituary
Rochester: My loving husband Alan, father to our beautiful daughter Lara, passed away in peace at his home on October 3. A talented artist and photographer, he was committed to his family & friends, his work & to life. A graduate of RIT, he went on to a successful career which showcases both his commercial photography and his fine art work. He was rock solid in his relationships with family and friends and true to himself and others. He will be missed. He is survived by his devoted wife Wendi, precious daughter Lara, loving parents John and Phyllis Farkas, in-laws Frank and Blanche Grosser and sisters-in-law, Mary Ann and Kathe and her husband Pepe, adopted sister Dayna Orione-Kim, her husband Joon and their daughter Noelani and numerous extended family and family of friends. His home is open to visitors on Saturday, October 4th. A celebration service, also at his home, will be held on Sunday, October 5th, 2 PM. In lieu of sending flowers, the family welcomes contributions to his daughter Lara's education fund.
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Memories and Condolences
for Alan Farkas
Linda Chait
October 30, 2008
dear wendi - I am so sorry for your great loss. You and your daughter have been in my thoughts. I remember sitting with you and Alan at Lisa's wedding and just seeing both of your eyes light up when you spoke of the love of both of your lives - your daughter. I just thought that was so wonderful that this little girl could bring so much joy to two people. I pray for better days ahead for you both.
Take care.
Jennifer Short
October 24, 2008
Wendi:
I am so sorry to hear of Alan's passing. You both have such a special place in my heart. Alan was my mentor and I will always be greatful for all he has taught me about photography. Please contact me with anything you may need.
Evie and Jordan Pizarro
October 16, 2008
Wendi,
We were so sorry to hear of Alan's passing. He was an incredibly talented and fun-loving individual who was very devoted to his family and his art. We enjoyed working with him at our wedding, and will treasure all of our photos he took last year. He is missed by many.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Lara,
Lisa Ashe
October 10, 2008
Wendi...
Alan. What a terrific person... honest, creative, and full of life. We enjoyed knowing him. Our hearts and thoughts are with you and Lara. Much love and sympathy, Tim and Lisa Ashe
Jack & Rita LaPlante
October 9, 2008
Dear Wendy,
Rita & I very sorry to learn of Alan's death.
Jack & Rita LaPlante
Tom Frizelle
October 7, 2008
Wendi,
As with so many others, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Alan's passing. I knew him through my work with the Kodak professional digital cameras. He was an outstanding photographer and will be missed. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
Tom
Cheena Jain
October 7, 2008
Dear Wendy,
I unfortunately never had the opportunity to work with you or Alan when I lived in Rochester, but I had always heard so much about him. I heard from a friend today about his passing. I just want you to know that although I did not have the pleasure of getting to know him personally or professionally, I am very sad for your loss. You and your family are in my heart and I wish you all the strength to move forward from this.
Take care.
Nok and Tim Finke
October 7, 2008
Wendi,
We are deeply saddened by Alan's passing. He photographed our wedding last year and did such a wonderful job. He was so great to work with. He helped us enjoy our day and capture it to the fullest. He'll always have a place in our hearts. We hope and wish the best for you and your daugther.
Mark Johnson
October 7, 2008
Hi Wendi
This note is from Mark Johnson, formerly of Aikido Kokikai Rochester; you may remember me.
I was shocked and dismayed to hear of Alan's death. Alyce Adams told me about it just before the funeral. Though I've been gone from Rochester for over fifteen years, my time with Alan and the other members our Aikido club has always been one of the happiest of my life. I remember practicing with Alan many times, particularly on our intensive weekends. He always had such huge energy and boundless joy. I am married now, living in Washington DC, and I have a four-year-old daughter. The shock of Alan's passing has motivated me to get a cancer screen that I've been putting off--I saw the doctor yesterday. If you are ever in the DC area, you are welcome to stay with us.
Hugs and sorrow,
Mark
lisa woolfe
October 7, 2008
Wendi, Lara and family,
Alan's passing has left a huge whole in my heart. He was my cousin and I grew up with him with the best of childhood memories. Every moment I ever spent with him, were always memorable, positive and good. I am so glad that I had him in my life as I grew up. He was truly a gentlemen and I still can see him smiling and will take that memory with me for always.He will be deeply missed.
Sleep in peace dear cousin,
Lisa and Peter Woolfe
robin lohkamp
October 7, 2008
dear wendi,
i am so very sorry to learn of alan's passing. you and lara have never been far from my thoughts and prayers. please know that if i'd heard sooner, i'd have come to see you and celebrate his life.
with love and support,
robin
Jennifer Wolfe
October 6, 2008
Wendi,
My thoughts and sympathies are with you, Lara, and your family. I was both shocked and saddened when I heard the news. Alan was a truly wonderful person. He always brought great integrity and talent to his work... you both did, and it was always obvious (and inspiring) to me that you were each other's life-love, best friend and creative muse.
My heart breaks at the thought of a couple who loved, and lived, their lives together so fully, having to endure saying goodbye much too early.
I wish you bluebirds in the spring.
Jay Flynn
October 6, 2008
Wendi,
I'm not sure what to say, this is so unexpected, both you and Lara are in my thoughts and prayers. Alan will truly be missed.
Charmaine G WRIGHT
October 6, 2008
DEAREST WENDI, LARA, JACK & PHYLLIS. I WAS SO DISTRAUGHT WHEN PATTY CALLED ME LAST NIGHT OUR DEEPEST SORROW WITH YOU. WOULD CALL, BUT SPENT ANOTHER FULL DAY IN HOSPITAL, AND QUITE WEAK.
LOVE AND MEMORIES. CHARMAINE, BRUCE, BECCA, TOBY & TRAVIS
Don Cochran
October 6, 2008
Wendi & Lara,
Such a shock to hear about Alan and what he and you all have been through. Our prayers are for you all in this very difficult time.
Don & Carmella Cochran
Kent Jioshpe
October 6, 2008
Wendy,
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Alan's death. Jim Lahue contacted me just today to let me know. Had I found out sooner I would have come to your home to show my sorry and support. Alan was a terrific person and talented photographer who always seemed healthy and full of life. He will be missed. My thoughts are with you and Lara.
Paul LaBarbera
October 6, 2008
Wendi: I too am sorry to hear of Alan's passing and your loss. He was a bright energetic and positive force in life for those that he touched. Thank you for sharing him with us all.My thoughts and prayers for you and Lara.
Valarie Welsh
October 6, 2008
Weni & Lara,
I am so very sorry to hear of this loss. Alan has been an amazing man to me and my family even though I didn't personally know him very well. Please know that you are both very loved and prayed for.
Robert and Heather Stanton
October 6, 2008
Dear Wendi, Lara, and Family:
We are very saddened to hear of Alan's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are (and will continue to be) with you all. We remember Alan as the generous and kind person he was.
Sincerely,
jeri gabrielson
October 5, 2008
dear wendi, lara, phylis and john: I knew alan long ago and he was a tremondous man. His work was wonderful and his love for life was even greater. I know we are are all better people for having him in our lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and if there is anything we can do for any of you please do not hesitate to contact us. love and god bless jeri and family. xoxo
Judi Dana
October 5, 2008
Wendi,
Sam & I wish to extend our sympathy to you and Lara at this difficult time. We have many fond memories of all of you from our days at the Newport House Marina
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Warmly,
Sam & Judi Dana
meg colombo
October 5, 2008
Dear Wendi and Family -
I saw K and H today at a baby shower - a celebration of life - and heard the news of Alan's passing. I am shocked and saddened. I had just emailed Alan on Friday - to get back in touch.
I am deeply saddened ~ but also ~ I have learned a little of Alan's last days and Wendi's courage and grace at this period of time in this family's life.
I know that Lara will have a very rich and full life. My thoughts of peace and love and prayers are with you all.
Meg
nancy barna
October 5, 2008
Wendi:
Bob and I are very distressed to hear of the loss of Alan. You and Lara are in our thoughts.
Bob and Nancy Barna
Tom Hess
October 5, 2008
Wendi:
For myself and my wife Laurie McCall, we are both shocked and saddened at the news of Alan's passing. While I knew him only professionally, I knew him to be a top-rate photographer and always excellent to work with. It's our hope that you find comfort in knowing that he will be remembered fondly by those who knew him.
Donna De Capite
October 5, 2008
Wendi,
I am so sorry to hear of Alan's passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and Lara. I have fond memories of Alan at the numerous family reunions.
Bill Cafer Jr.
October 5, 2008
Dear Wendi,
I was deeply saddened to hear this news. A truly excellent photographer and colleague. My deepest sympathy to you and your child.
Lori Webster Koonmen
October 5, 2008
Wendi, Lara and family, our hearts and prayers go out to all of you during this time of sorrow. We are sending loving thoughts your way. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help you. With deepest sympathy,
Lori Webster Koonmen & family
Tony & Tina Lojacono
October 5, 2008
Dear Wendy, we are so sorry to hear of Alan's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Lara.
Julia and Kurtis Kracke
October 4, 2008
Wendi,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Alan was a wonderful person and amazing photographer. He will be missed by us and many, many others. All our best and please let us know if we can do anything.
Dan Larkin
October 4, 2008
I knew Alan since he was a student a few years behind me in the photo program at RIT. I thought of him as cheeful and always appreciated his good humor and passion for photography. When he became a colleague on the faculty I had the pleasure to see him share his enthusiasm for the process with our students. He will be missed.
John Retallack
October 4, 2008
Wendi:
I'm really sorry to hear this. So much, I don't know how to respond. He will be missed at RIT and ASMP and within the professional community. Our thoughts are with you.
Daniel Fields
October 4, 2008
Dearest Wendi,
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't really know Alan but you always spoke of him very highly. If there is anything that you need or that I can do, please do not hesitate to call.
Kelly cerquone
October 4, 2008
Wendi...I am so sorry to hear of Alans passing. Please know that you & Lara are in my thoughts & prayes. May the love & support of your family & friends help you through this time of grief.
Fondly,
Kelly Kita-Cerquone
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