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Kimberly Illig
May 4, 2024
My Uncle Alan Illig was one of the most intelligent yet nicest human beings I've ever known.
He & my Dad, Donald Illig, were simply wonderful people, both cared about every person they interacted with as well as the community, the greater good, serving humanity to leave the world better because they were here.
They were both fair, just and pleasant beyond any other qualities, both believed education and had faith in the strength of the human spirit.
I always looked forward to visiting Rochester, my Grandfather, Grandmother, Uncle Alan, his beautiful wife and his 3 boys, who were his world.
I am the oldest of the 5 children of the 2 Illig brothers. After my Dad died, I reached out to Uncle Alan. I needed his gentle wisdom.
He is part of the reason I've studied law for 29 years. Although I've lived in California for 35 years, Alan Illig is a man in my life who's memory will remain in my heart. My condolences to Aunt Liz, Karl and Robert (for John as well).
I hope the few things I've accomplished in law to protect parents and children in California would make him proud.
I believe our loved ones remain with us in many ways. I'll miss him. I'll miss my Dad's voice too.
My Mom, Joy Illig died March 31, 2024, at 96 years + 1 week. I'm glad they are all together now.
Thanks to all three for the amazing examples of human decency in my life. I wouldn't be who I am but for knowing Uncle Alan & his family.
Kimberly Jean Illig
Niece
Rolf Zerges
April 8, 2021
My friendship with Alan goes back to our involvement with a foreign affairs discussion group in the 60's, and his encouragement of me to lead the Lewis Street Center. I've never known a more thoughtful, modest and caring person. Like me, he has touched many with his kindness. My thoughts are with Liz and his family.
Laura Bledsoe
March 30, 2021
He was 100% of the reason why I joined the HSE Trusts & Estates practice as a paralegal almost 30 years ago. Just the nicest man I've ever known.
Jim Guido
March 29, 2021
Elizabeth & family, Alan was always so positive about everything, even his upcoming procedure. You are in my thoughts and wishes for healing from your tremendous loss.
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Kirsten Fannon
March 29, 2021
May you feel God's loving peace in your hearts.
As you sit with the sorrow of great loss, turn your pain and fears over to the one who has been sent to lift the burdens from you.
Lift your voices in thankful praise to the Wonderful Creator who has restored Alan for his life with Him in Eternity.
May this image help in your understanding that the pain you feel today is of your flesh, but the image of Alan walking beside his Lord can only bring healing and Joy to our souls.
Love others, be kind to all you meet. Let the legacy of Alan Illig continue to reach out and help those that need it most.
The Strong National Museum of Play
March 29, 2021
The team at The Strong National Museum of Play was saddened to hear of the passing of Alan Illig. Alan was an honorary member of The Strong's Board of Trustees, having served actively on the board from 1969 to 2012. Alan played a crucial role in the creation and development of the museum before it opened to the public in 1982, and he was a leader, visionary, and driver of museum growth in the decades after, including playing a large role in the museum's acquisition of the Elaine Wilson Carousel. We send our heartfelt condolences to Alan's family along with our sincere thanks for his transformative contributions to The Strong and so many other organizations and programs in our community.
Patrick Madama
March 29, 2021
I learned of the talents and the kindness of Alan when he served on the board of the SUNY Brockport Foundation. He was of great assistance and reconozed the importance of the institution to the community as it was his mother's alma mater. Condolences to all family and friends.
Fred Holbrook
March 28, 2021
My condolences to the Illig family. I practiced law in Spencerport for 50 years & had contact with Alan many times. A gentleman and excellent attorney.
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