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Allen Bennem Obituary

Bennem, Allen L.

Gates: On Feb. 14, 2012. Predeceased by his son Peter & stepson Jon Sherlock. Survived by his loving wife Connee; daughter Amy Bennem; sons Seth (Cynthia) & Christopher (Lisa Moore) Bennem; stepchildren Linda Kradin, Alan (Patti), Dianne & David Sherlock; many loving grand & great-grandchildren; nieces & nephews. Al was a member of Gates Lions Club & Veterans of Foreign Wars.

Friends are invited to a Memorial Service Saturday 11 am at James R. Gray Funeral Home, 1530 Buffalo Rd. Private burial. Kindly consider Honor Flight of Rochester in Al's memory.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Feb. 16, 2012.

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February 18, 2012

My deepest condolences to you and family Seth! Your father will certainly be missed by your family and all friends. Ben D.

February 17, 2012

Connee, Alan, Pattie, & Chris
We are sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Always remember that you now have a special angel looking over you.
Walt, Connie, & Kristie Leach

Reneita Linton

February 16, 2012

Seth,
I wish you and your family much support as you deal with your loss. Just know that your shared Strengths, Love and Memories will keep your father comforting you always.

Reneita Linton

February 16, 2012

Seth,
I wish for your family much comfort in knowing that your father will be a Hero in his new life as he rests now in peace and your Loving memories. May God keep you all strong as you support each other. His light will burn in your hearts forever.

robin compson

February 16, 2012

Seth and Family my deepest condolences go out to all of you at this time. my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am very sorry for your loss.
God Bless You Robin

Kristy Farrand

February 16, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Bennem family at their time of sorrow...all our love,

The Farrands

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