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Bertram Penders Obituary
"Charlie"
Irondequoit: Wednesday, March 24, 2010 at the age of 69. Predeceased by his parents, Harold & Gladys; sister, Beverly. Charlie is survived by his loving wife of 42 years, Diana; son, Bertram (Kerri) Penders; grandchildren, Collin & Erin Penders; brothers, Richard (Edwina), Harold (Joan); sister, Dawn (Joe) Desimone; many nieces and nephews.
His family will receive friends MONDAY 5:00-6:00pm at the funeral home where his memorial service will follow at 6:00 PM. Interment Private. Memorials may be directed to American Cancer Society Lakes Region, 1400 Winton Road N., Rochester, NY 14609.
PAUL W. HARRIS FUNERAL HOME
570 Kings Highway So. 544-2041
www.harrisfuneralhome.com
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kathy polfleit
April 1, 2010
Diana We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Bert.It was a shock so soon 2 weeks after my mom past.I know my mom is up there woth him, It is very hard.try to stay strong.Bert was a wonderful person.We all loved when he came to visit,he will truly be missed RIP Bert we love you!!!
March 30, 2010
Dear Penders Family
Though 50 years has passed I still remember the ties we had as children. Dawn you were one of my favorite playmates. We share your grief in losing your brother. Deenie Stoll Zannoni
Jan Adair
March 30, 2010
Diana, I am so sorry to hear of Charlie's passing. My prayers are with you.
Jan Adair
The Gormels
March 30, 2010
Pender Family,
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Bert. He will be sadly missed . He will always be remembered as "Bert & Ernie", thats what he always told my kids. We looked forward to your visits. I know my Mom was there to greet him in Heaven..this here is the hardest part. Will be keeping your family in our prayers. God Bless.
Joe and Rose Platania
March 29, 2010
March 29, 2010
Dear Diana,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at this time. We are truly saddened and shocked by Burt's passing. His beautiful smile, his twinkling eyes, and easy laugh will never be forgotten. He will always hold a special place in our hearts. God Bless and keep you.
Jim Tuite
March 29, 2010
Deepest condolenses to the Penders family..."Burt" was a great guy and will be sadly missed, I really enjoyed playing euchre with him, but I know he will liven things up in Heaven!
Debbie Penders
March 29, 2010
Diana,
My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family. May your memories bring you comfort at this time of sorrow.
Ronald McLane
March 28, 2010
To my long time friend, I will never forget the good times we spent together. We have been friends for more than 50 years. I have lost my wife and best friend in the last 2 weeks and that is very hard. I will miss both of you very much. Dianna and Family,I know your loss is great and I will pray for you.
BUSTER SMITH
March 28, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
George and Carol Garvey
March 28, 2010
Dear Diana,
What a shock to hear about Charlie. We are so very sorry for your loss. We had some good times at the Kodak picnics and Christmas parties years ago. We are in Myrtle Beach until April 1st and won't be able to see you. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this very sad time. God bless.
Barbara and George Clark
March 28, 2010
Diana,
George and I were so saddened to hear about Chuck's passing. Even though we didn't see too much of each other over the years, I still remember dancing at your wedding and thinking about what a beautiful couple the two of you were. I'm sure you have many happy memories and they will bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Barbara and George Clark
Goodyear, Arizona
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