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Jack Heiligman Obituary

Heiligman, Jack James

Webster: October 15, 2016, age 3. Survived by his loving parents, Anne Marie and Andrew Jay (AJ) Heiligman; brother Joseph (Joey); grandparents Jeanne and Hon. James Mulley Jr., and Sharon and Daniel Heiligman; Aunts and Godmothers Kimberly Mulley and Kimberly Heiligman; Great-grandparents Jean and Kenneth Keating, Ruth Heiligman, Edmund and Sally Heiligman, and Antoinette Falvo; and many great aunts, uncles, cousins and other relatives and friends.

Our beloved and treasured Jack is best remembered for his love of mom, dad and baby brother Joey; his grandparents; books; baseball; dinosaurs, the Seneca Park Zoo and anything the color blue.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the Josh Rojas Foundation (P.O. Box 17507
Rochester, NY 14617) or the Webster Volunteer Fire Department (PO Box 361 Webster, NY 14580).

Calling hours Thursday 12-2 and 5-8 at the Falvo Funeral Home, 1295 Fpt Nine Mile Pt Rd, Webster (Route 250). On FRIDAY at 10 AM Please meet the family for a celebration of a Mass of the angels in St Josephs Church (43 Gebhardt Rd), Penfield. Entombment Oakwood Cemetery.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Oct. 19, 2016.

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Peggy Rynne

October 26, 2016

Anne and Family, There are no words that can express my sympathy. You are in my prayers and thoughts.

Joan Waggoner

October 26, 2016

Anne and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May your happy memories of Jack bring you comfort.
With deepest sympathies.

Mary Pitlick

October 23, 2016

Dear Susanne,

I am thinking of you with heartfelt regrets for your tragic loss.

There are no words, but my thoughts are with you and all your family at this terribly sad time.

Pete Varlan

October 23, 2016

My deepest sympathy to you all. May God bless your families.

Diane

October 23, 2016

Dear Heiligman Family, We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. May God's loving comfort surround your family and be with all of you during this most difficult time in grieving the loss of your beautiful boy Jack. Like many here who have writen and are unknown to you, your family has been heavy on our hearts as we have been praying for you and for your healing and gaining comfort. I hope you find peace knowing your beautiful boy is resting in God's loving arms...your angel watching over you.
God Bless each of you and be with you!

October 23, 2016

Sleep in heavenly peace

Lori & vito Potenza

October 22, 2016

Dear Anne and AJ,
We are so very sorry for your loss. You and your families are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you both with great strength and watch over you at this very difficult time. Your beautiful son will always be in your hearts and watching over you and his brother.

With great sympathy, Lori and Vito Potenza

Laurie O'Hara

October 22, 2016

Dear Heiligman Family,
Jack has already been welcomed into the beauty of Heaven. May God comfort you all <3

Dave Allen

October 21, 2016

Your family is in our prayers and thoughts. Your son will always be with you and is watching over you. Stay strong and better things will come with that.

the Allen family, Webster NY

Audrey Mikewicz

October 21, 2016

Dear Jeanne and family,

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your grandson, Jack. You and your family are in our prayers and thoughts as you go through this difficult time.

Audrey, Lee , Brian and Daniel Mikewicz

Kathy Brown

October 21, 2016

Dear Sharon and family,
My deepest sympathies to all the families of this sweet angel. I'm sure right now there are no words to ease the pain of such a loss. Please know that so many of your friends are thinking and praying for you all.
RIP Jack James and God Bless

October 21, 2016

I have no words to express my deepest sorrow for the loss of your Sweet Precious Angel Boy... Blessing of Prayer, Love and Peace to your all... Lisa La Delfa

Christopher

October 21, 2016

You are in my prayers.

Judi Flanders

October 21, 2016

Jack's soul left his body and is watching. His soul will return in a new body many times the same family. I hope this helps, it is what happens.

Maria Guilamo

October 21, 2016

I am really sorry for your lost. I have been praying for your family. Now you have an angel with God taking care of your family.

Lori Leiby

October 21, 2016

There are no words to express our sorrow for your loss. Our prayers are with your family at this time. God Bless.

Jim and Donna Englert

October 21, 2016

We are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Terry & Donna Tydings

October 21, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of your family. No words can express the pain and sorrow at this time.
God Bless

Andrea Tarquinio and the late Irene Gossin

October 21, 2016

There are no words to ease your pain. Just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers as you mourn the loss of dear Jack. He and his memory will forever be in your hearts. God has welcomed him home, into His loving arms and now Jack shall be your guardian angel. May God grant you the strength to get through these difficult times and to bind together in family. May He also bless you with comfort and peace.

Tom & Barb Brindisi

October 20, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. We are so very sorry. for your loss.

Debby Miller

October 20, 2016

I am so sorry for the loss of your son....I pray for comfort while you all grieve. May you feel God's loving presence.

Mary Knorr

October 20, 2016

My heart goes out to Jack James family and friends....rip Jack

Roseann Trotto

October 20, 2016

Our daughter Melissa Sidore is a good friend of Erin and Chris Bory. Our heart aches for the loss of your beautiful son Jack. Although, there are no words that can ease your pain, we wanted to extend our deepest sympathy and to let you know we are praying for your family. God Bless you, Roseann and Lou Trotto

Cindy Kyle

October 20, 2016

God bless His little angel Jack and grant peace to his dear family and friends.....

Maryann Locigno

October 20, 2016

I didn't know sweet little Jack, but knew about him thru friends. I'm so deeply sorry that this precious little guy left so soon. My love, prayers and heartfelt sympathy to his family and friends. I can't even imagine such a devastating loss. I know that God and His Angels will love and watch over him. R.I.P. sweet Jack !!!! xoxo

Kristin Weingartner

October 20, 2016

You will always be remembered sweet Jack. Much love to your family during this most difficult time :(

First Name Diana Schlegel

October 20, 2016

Add your message here.My heart breaks for this family, so sorry for your loss .

October 20, 2016

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Sara Roser

October 20, 2016

My heart aches for your family. Thinking and praying for all of you and your sweet boy.

Cathy Versage Lesniewski

October 20, 2016

Dear Jeanne and your lovely family,I just found out about the loss of your beautiful grandchild. I am praying especially for your daughter and son-in-law, for you and your husband and the rest of your family to find strength during this devastating time. There are no words other than extending my sincerest sympathy to all of you. May God bless and hold precious Jack in His arms. With love, Cathy

Capri Mull

October 20, 2016

Continued prayers being sent to Jacks family. May they one day find some peace and comfort knowing he is in Gods arms and will be smiling down on them eternally❤

Denise Wittmer

October 20, 2016

God bless you Jack! God and his angels will be watching over you!

October 20, 2016

So so sorry for your loss. I pray that you find comfort in your loving memories of Jack.

Jo-Ann & Joe Palma

October 20, 2016

Jeannie,
Pleas accept our sincere condolences on the passing of your precious grandson. Your family is in our prayers.

Kelli Swingly

October 20, 2016

Dear AJ, Anne Marie and Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy. We are keeping you close in thought and prayer today and in the days to come.❤
With Love, Ed and Kelli

Audra Denniston

October 20, 2016

Anne and AJ,I am so sorry for your loss. I'm heartbroken for you and your family. I hope you all find comfort in each other during this incredibly difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.Audra (Pollatta) Denniston

Judy & Dave Pollatta

October 20, 2016

Jim and Jeanne,I know there are no words we can say to ease your heartache. Just know your friends are praying for you and your family to help you through this.

Capri Mull

October 20, 2016

Sending prayers to this little boy's family❤

PMC Energy Services

October 20, 2016

With deepest condolences from our family to yours. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Maureen & Bruce Cady

October 20, 2016

So very sorry to hear about your loss. Your family will be in our thoughts as you struggle to get through this very difficult time. I pray your memories will bring you comfort.

Mary Kay Hayes

October 20, 2016

Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.

Carolyn Palmeri

October 20, 2016

Words can not express how sorry I am to hear about your loss. My condolences to the family
LOVE CAROLYN PALMERI & DANTE WALKER

October 20, 2016

I am so sorry for the loss of your dearly beloved child. I am not a family member or neighbor but I wanted to wish you my deepest sympathy. May God Bless you and your family during this most difficult time. Heaven has received another angel.

God Bless

October 20, 2016

My deepest sympathy to the Mulley and Heiligman families. But know that God has him in his arms. He will always be with you. Love, Josephine Pusateri

Darlene Bullock

October 20, 2016

My deepest sympathy and prayers to the family. May your angel Rest In Peace.

Kathy Fedison

October 20, 2016

Our children are our gifts and miracles of life. Keep all the joys and memories he gave you close. Your dear sweet Jack will never be far and will be the shiniest star in heaven. Many prayers and thoughts to all the family for strength at this most difficult time.

Patricia and Donna Raimondi

October 20, 2016

Our hearts go out to you, our deepest sympathy. Thoughts and prayers. God Bless everyone.

The Bach Family

October 20, 2016

I know I'm not the only one who took notice but Jack was such a kindred spirit of A.J. and I will cherish the photo's of you both doing the various projects & "tooling around" you two did together. My family's thoughts are with you and yours...... Godspeed sweet little Jack.

October 20, 2016

Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Little Jack's smile will forever be in our hearts.
God Bless,
The Bachman Family
(KA Family)

Nancy Murray

October 20, 2016

I don't know this dear little boy, but I know his aunt, Julie! Anyone who is a part of Julie would automatically be very special! It seems so many of my fb friends have been touched by Jack! Words cannot take your pain away, but please know we are all praying for Jack and your family. May your wonderful memories get you thru your sadness. Lots of prayers being sent up, and I'm wearing blue on my way to Florida!

October 20, 2016

May the God of all comfort be with your family now

Vivian Floyd

October 20, 2016

Anne and Family,
My heart is broken for you since I heard about the tragic loss of your son. There are no words to express my sorrow, you remain constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Heaven gained a little angel to watch over you and your family.

October 20, 2016

I didn't know Jack or your family, but do know his aunt, may he Rest In Peace and may your family stay strong, my prayers for you all

Jean

October 19, 2016

A smile so beautiful is never gone. It will live on in your hearts forever, as will he. So very sorry for your loss.

October 19, 2016

I am sending my deepest condolences to you and your family! I am so sorry for your loss!

October 19, 2016

May your little angel rest in peace

October 19, 2016

My deepest sympathy, prayers to all the family

Kirk

October 19, 2016

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My family's prayers are with you during your healing.

Linda Decker

October 19, 2016

I did not know this family but I am sending my deepest condolences for your horrible, tragic loss. May God send you strength and may you feel the love and healing power sent to you from everyone in this community.

October 19, 2016

There is nothing more tragic than the loss of your child. My heart goes out to you, parent to parent, and your family. I hope that you may find peace in your heart, over time, and cherish all the memories and joy that your little boy gave in his time here. He was your gift, ever short, but a gift nonetheless. God bless.

October 19, 2016

Praying for the Heiligman family and friends. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Paul & Susan Maier

October 19, 2016

Our prayers to all the family so sorry for your loss

Carol/Derrell Alcott

October 19, 2016

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief

Roberta Arnold

October 19, 2016

My prayers are with this family for comfort and grace and I am sorry to hear about your loss. May your son Jack rest peacefully. God be with you all.

Lillian Mendez

October 19, 2016

Our deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers go out to all. Wishing everyone peace to bring comfort and courage to face the days ahead. May loving memories of Jack forever hold in your hearts. Rest in peace little angel.

Lillian Mendez

October 19, 2016

Praying for the family of this little angel, may he rest in peace. May God bring comfort and peace to his family.

Lynne Slat

October 19, 2016

I am so sorry for your incredible loss.

Robert Sicker

October 19, 2016

So Sorry for your tragic loss.My heart was broken when I heard this.Praying for your family

The DelNagro Family New York State Police

October 19, 2016

Judge- our thoughts, prayers and thoughts are with you and your entire family. God Bless!

David Muench

October 19, 2016

AJ, Anne Marie, Sharon and Dan my deepest condolences to you. The tears have fallen like rain and the pain you endure is deeper than I have ever known. May you find peace some day. Love from Dave and Stacey Muench and Family

Steve Gallucci

October 19, 2016

The Steve Gallucci Agency would like to say how deeply sorry we are for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

October 19, 2016

The Steve Gallucci Agency would like to say how deeply sorry we are for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lynn Doescher

October 19, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss, I can't even being to imagine your pain, just know there are a lot of people right now sending you love and prayers.

Barbara and Jim Cieslewicz

October 19, 2016

So very sorry for your loss. May God Bless you and help you cope. Heaven has gained an angel to watch over you both and baby Joey.

October 19, 2016

To Jeanne and family,
So very sorry for your tragic loss. Praying for you all. With thoughts and deepest sympathies.
Ed and Sharon (Meli) Hockwater

Joe and Holly Tripi

October 19, 2016

We are deeply saddened to hear of the sudden, tragic loss of your son. Our hearts ache for your entire family. May God wrap you in his arms during this very difficult time.

October 19, 2016

Nicole and I send you our heart felt condolences during this time. Words can not express our sorrow for your loss.
-Andy & Nicole Moore

Janice Caruso

October 19, 2016

I do not know you or your family, but my heart breaks for you. I will continue to have you in my prayers. God must have a plan for your special little angel.

KATIE MCKERNAN

October 19, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Wendy Kurtz

October 19, 2016

I truly am sorry for the loss you and your family are experiencing. When my sister lost her 9 year old it left a big whole in our lives.. I feel for you and your husband during this. I am sending prayers to you all!! God Bless...

Mary E. Hughes

October 19, 2016

I didn't know this little boy but he was friends with my great nephew Lucas and my niece and nephew are neighbors and good friends of the family. My heart is broken for the family and all who knew this precious angel. You are all in my constant thoughts and my continued prayers. Hold onto the thought that this little man is an angel in Heaven now and is safely in the arms of our Lord. With my sincerest sympathy and love!

October 19, 2016

We did not know Jack but his amazing smile tells a story of the adorable little boy he was. May God Bless you all with comfort. Our heartfelt sympathy.
The Sirianni Family, Webster NY

Colleen Costanza

October 19, 2016

in my thoughts & prayers...

Doug & Kim Gaylord

October 19, 2016

Thoughts and prayers to the whole family at this difficult time.

Jack's smile shows his zest for life. Remember all the good times with him and know you have an angel with you at all times.

God bless!

community Ontario

October 19, 2016

we are so very sorry for your family's loss, You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God be with you.

Carol Charvella

October 19, 2016

While I don't know Jack or his family, my heart and prayers go out to your family at this tragic time.

Bari Krull

October 19, 2016

Anne and A.J., my heart goes out to you. There are no words to take away the pain you must feel. Just know that you gave Jack the very best of everything and he only knew happy times thanks to you both and your wonderful families. Just keep that precious little smile and those happy memories going and know that you are surrounded by love near and far. Love you guys.

Phoenix Energy Supply

October 19, 2016

There are no words to express our sorrow and easy your pain, wish we could do it. Our thoughts and prayers are with You and your Family in this hard time.

James Carlin

October 19, 2016

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Randy and Cheryl O'Brien

October 19, 2016

May angels lead him in...

Van Hee Mechanical

October 19, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. His smile says it all. Jack must have filled your lives with so much joy. He may be absent in body, but his memory will live on forever.

Lynn Ratzel Scott

October 19, 2016

Anne and family,

I am so heartbroken for your loss. You have been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard about this tragic accident. I wish you peace for you and your family.

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