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Jacob Conjerti Obituary

Conjerti, Jacob Daniel
Rochester: Infant Jacob Daniel Conjerti, born December 27, 2007, passed away on January 1, 2008, at Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester. Beloved son of Philip and Erin (Lundin) Conjerti of Rochester. Cherished maternal grandson of Sue and Mick Graziano (Fredonia) and Jeff and Kim Lundin (Fredonia). Paternal grandson of Russell and Mary Conjerti (Spencerport).
A private graveside service will be held on Saturday, January 5 at 1:00 PM. Friends and family are invited to attend a service at Bethel Christian Fellowship, 321 East Avenue in Rochester at 2:00 PM with a reception immediately following.
Jacob blessed his family with his birth and brought joy to everyone during his brief life. A special thank you to the staff at Strong Memorial Hospital and Strong Memorial NICU for their compassionate care during this difficult time. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Jacob's name to the NICU at Strong.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle from Jan. 3 to Jan. 4, 2008.

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Julie Lascola

January 19, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Erin Walsh

January 11, 2008

Phil and Erin,
I am so sorry for your loss. I can think of few things that are as emotionally painful as what you are going through. Your love for each other and your son will get you through this. You are a great, loving couple and your future together outshines this sad moment.

Megan Lundin

January 11, 2008

Erin and Phil, I am so sorry for your loss. He was such a little fighter. I wish I could have been there on Saturday. I love you guys. Stay strong!

Kelly Weaver

January 10, 2008

Though he might not fill your arms let him fill your hearts and dreams. From My family to Yours with deepest sympathy.
Luv~Bruce, Linda, Kelly, Kristy Weaver

Kristin Lundin

January 8, 2008

Dear Erin,Phil and Baby Jacob

REMEMBERING JACOB
(SON,GRANDSON,AND NEWPHEW)

We thought of Jacob today,
but that is nothing new.
We thought of Jacob yesterday,
and will tomorrow too.

And we also think of you as well,
even though you make no outward show.
For what it means to lose a child,
we will never truly know.

Remembering Jacob will be easy,
he was such a special joy each day.
But we will remember your
heartache as well,
Which we know will never go away.

Our hearts and prayers go out to you guys....we love you!!!

LOVE- TIM,KRISTIN(big sis)
BREANNA AND TYLER

Katharina Schultze

January 8, 2008

Phil and Erin,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss of little Jacob.
You are probably sick of all those phrases but I just want to let you know that we think of you every day and feel with you! I was so shocked when Jen told me about Jocob but please keep your head up. Everything happens for a reason, don't give up.
I know we are sooo far away but please, please let us know if there is anything we can do for you!

Katharina & family

Tamara Dittmer

January 7, 2008

Saddness can overwhelm the living durring tragic times such as the loss of a precious little one. Time can not change the heavyness in you heart that you feel, but as time passes the pain will lighten. Cherrish your memories. I am sorry for your loss.

Melanie Kelsey

January 7, 2008

Phil and Erin, my heart goes out to the two of you and the entire family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Love Melanie Kelsey
(Jen's sister)

Joanne Lotter

January 6, 2008

Dear Erin and Phil,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss, your baby boy Jacob.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow- you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely, Joanne and Mark Lotter

Cassidy,Cheyenne, Caleb, and Seth Rasmus

January 6, 2008

Tonight Cheyenne told her Nana, "Now Mommy gets to hold baby Jacob!" with true happiness in her tone. All of Jeni's children were touched by his story. My heart says she was truly onto something with this declaration!

-Love from the hearts of children

Sarah Moran

January 6, 2008

Jacob's arrival brought incomperable gifts to the heart. God's decision to bring him back home again brought an exponential expansion on those gifts. We do triumph from tragedy by learning lessons of the spirit that couldn't otherwise have emerged. We become better. We learn how to love just a little more. My genuine compassion and love to Erin, to Phil, to the family and friends, and in the most precious form----to baby Jacob.

January 6, 2008

"The Day"

A tiny hand I one day held
an angelic radiant young face,
broke my heart deep down inside
and emotion was set ablaze.
This day shall never be forgotten
it's memory shall never die,
the hand of God upon our little one
shall forever with us lie.
Words could never be written nor said
to explain that day and time
It was only short and truly brief
Heart breaking for our Angel so fine.
The memory and presence of you little one
shall forever with us stay
until In Heaven we meet again
Until then, For this I Pray.
* WE LOVE YOU BABY BOY JACOB *
Always and FOREVER, Uncle Mike, Aunt Jill, and cousin Emily Schwertfeger

Maggie Valvo

January 6, 2008

Erin and Phil,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Jacob. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.

Laura LaDuca

January 6, 2008

Erin and Phil,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Jim Quagliana

January 6, 2008

Our deepest condolences are with you all during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

louann volpe-white

January 6, 2008

Phil and Erin I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers and if there is anything I can do for you guys let me know. Cousin LouAnn

Jamie and Lisa Panek

January 5, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with the two of you during this difficult time.

Melinda McElheny

January 5, 2008

I am so sorry, Erin and Phil. I am sending you love and I hope that the support of all of your loved ones helps you through this time.

Janet Johnson

January 5, 2008

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son Jacob. I have such sympathy for your grief and sorrow as you mourn the loss of this precious child, along with all your hopes and dreams for him. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jennifer & Clyde Adams

January 5, 2008

We are so sorry that you have to go through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mary Davey

January 5, 2008

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. It doesn't seem fair. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love Aunt Mary & Uncle George Davey

Lindsay and Dan

January 5, 2008

Who would have ever thought that someone you meet for such a short time can forever take a place in your heart. Jacob Daniel is now not only your first born son, but now also your gaurdian angel. We love you.

Jason, Chris, Nate, and Kristen Graziano

January 5, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Jen Conjerti

January 5, 2008

I am terribly sorry to hear of your loss, my heart goes out to you during this time of sorrow, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Annemarie Crouse

January 4, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort and strength in each other. God be with you both, Tim & Annemarie Crouse

Kate Lundin

January 4, 2008

You shared with us a journey
that only you could see
and helped us understand God’s way
as it was meant to be.

Life had so restricted you
your spirit is now free
to go explore the universe
for all eternity.

**You were a miracle from the second you were born. Your strength was incredible and you will never be forgotten. You made a positive impact on everyones hearts. Have fun in heaven, free from all the pain baby boy. Love you always Jacob.**

Vitaliy Victorian

January 4, 2008

There are no words, no notes, no thoughts, that can begin to touch the anguish of a child's passing. With regret, I send my condolences; and my love.

Darrell and Kim Waag

January 4, 2008

Phil and Erin,
We are sorry that the time you were able to spend with Jacob was so short. Treasure the love you showed him and find peace in knowing that he felt your love. Let God pick you up and carry you through the days ahead, as He holds Jacob in His arms. He will be there for you when times seem darkest...let Him be your light. We are praying for your comfort and strength.

Barbara Butler-Morris

January 4, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

marti mcelheny

January 4, 2008

So sorry about your loss. You are in my prayers.
Love,
Marti McElheny(Melinda's Mom)

Joe and Carolyn Conjerti

January 4, 2008

Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your son, Jacob Daniel.
Joe and Carolyn Conjerti

barbara szczublewski(cacioppo)

January 4, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Lisa Ann Conjerti-Panek

January 4, 2008

Jen's poem beautifully sums up any words I could ever say. My heart just breaks for Phil and Erin. I felt like I already knew little Jacob, and am sad to see him leave us so soon. He is doing "Da-da-da, da-da-da...", cheek to cheek with Pa now, let that thought bring a smile through this difficult time.
with love, Aunt Lisa

James Terhune

January 4, 2008

Erin & Phil, you two are a special couple. There is a plan, even though it may be almost impossible to see sometimes. Lots of Love, you're in my prayers.

Ginalyn Herbst

January 4, 2008

My prayers go out to you both and your family during this time of loss. I love you both.

Laura Washburn

January 4, 2008

May the Lord bless you and keep you strong during this time. May you find comfort in each other and your loved ones.

We Love You

January 3, 2008

Little hands and little feet
So eager to arrive and so many to meet
You gave us love, happiness and joy
And were such a beautiful baby boy

Your cute little cheeks so many times kissed,
Our hearts ache, for you will be missed.
Your fight was short, but seemed so long
Who knew a baby could be so strong?

Find peace now, with God you rest
Our strength is now put to the test
Families together so strong and true
We will never forget you.

***********************************

January 3, 2008

Sandy Kaufmann

January 3, 2008

I just wanted you to know that I'm sorry for your loss. It's hard to understand why people are taken from us, especially a child. Try to find comfort in each other, family, and your friends. I hope that God will lighten your burdens.

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