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James Stirling Obituary
Rochester - June 26, 2019. Predeceased by his parents, Joseph and Anne. He is survived by his children, Emily (Ryan) Shaughnessy, Dylan Makovec, Stanley Powers; sister, Maggie Vandemar; niece, Anne Vandemar (Aaron Coder); nephew, Michael Vandemar; great-nieces, Jenna and China; and great-nephew, Casey; mother of his daughter, Jackie Powers; many dear friends including Andy and John.
A Celebration of his Life will be held Monday, July 1, 4-7 PM at Pane Vino, 3400 Monroe Ave. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Pancreatic Cancer Action Network at www.pancan.org. To share a memory of James or send a condolence to the family visit www.crawfordfuneralhome.com .
His kindness, generosity, and great humor were unsurpassed and he will be dearly missed by the many who loved him.
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david delaney
June 24, 2023
Jim, you are here right inside me, teasing and wryly smiling and keeping me on my toes. Always.
Frank Palermo
June 22, 2023
It's hard to believe that it's been four years. It seems like yesterday that we would meet at Wegmans East Ave Sunday Mornings for coffee.
Jane Stets
June 22, 2022
We all knew the beating of your heart was the glue that kept hundreds of friendships together. You're missed more and more as time passes. RIP.
Kevin Crego
June 22, 2021
Jim was the best. Old school. Solid. Honest and someone who I always enjoyed talking to....he is remembered and missed.
July 21, 2019
The PNH, Westminster, Woodstock, the Seneca Lake boat wreck, Cape Cod, The CCD ,Cedar Grove, softball, Stirling's, Quincey's and supper club. I'll never forget You were a great and good friend Jimmy. I'llnever forget you. Mahunchy
rich (baco) rokosz
July 5, 2019
Far too many memories & good times to express. Jimmy was a true friend...he will forever be missed. Chances are he's already "open for business" and pouring for Max...Sonny...Warren...Jack, etc.
Rest in Peace, Jimmy.
George Haefner
July 1, 2019
If Neil Young had only dropped by The Wintonaire back in the 70s, he could have saved himself a whole lot of searching.
Jimmy had a heart of gold that was 24 karat. And he shared it freely with everyone including me and my big brothers, Alan and Bob,
Right about time Al was entering his second year with pancreatic cancer, Jim got his own bad news. While Al only made it for two years, we're glad that Jimmy was able to squeeze out so many more.
Bob and I will catch you later, Jim. In the meantime, we hope you and Al are already getting reacquainted over a few cold beers.
Patti Schucker
July 1, 2019
Jimmy was a steadfast friend. I'll always remember his visit in '96 after Jack's serious surgery. His sense of humor at that time was so needed. Then after Jack passed in '06 Jimmy stopped at the house many times to see if he could do anything for me. I'm sure he did the same for others as that was his nature. His passing too soon is so sad. Hugs to Maggie and his loving family.
June 30, 2019
I am so saddened and sorry. A wonderful friend, and a great guy has left us.
John Annechino
June 30, 2019
I will greatly miss Jim. He was a great guy, stop notch. I will miss our conversation and seeing him at the club. joking around. I know there is a special place for him in heaven. John Annechino
June 30, 2019
Jim is a great guy , greatly missed. always looked forward to seeing him at the club and share stories and joke around. Rest assured Jim has a special place in heaven. Thank you Jim for being a friend.
John Annechino
June 30, 2019
To Margaret and all the family, we were very sorry to hear about Jimmy , thinking of you.
Margaret and Jeff Canberra Australia.
Jane Stets
June 29, 2019
Your passing is our tremendous, heartbreaking loss, but I know you are heaven's pure joy. "With all due respect", I pray we will meet again. Deepest sympathy.
Jane and Bud
Elizabeth Stirling
June 29, 2019
You will be sadly missed jim RIP .Your family from England .Liz joe Dave Millie mckelvie. Xxx
June 28, 2019
Max, Sonny and now Jimmy another good guy gone too soon.
To his family and many friends a loss for us all.
For long time friends of Jimmy, we immediately reflect back on the good times at the Wintonaire and Sterlings Pub (Quincy's).
Jimmy served up many a drink to the softball teams and served up many a jokes. He could dish it and take it.
The banter would fly at the monthly dinner club night once Jimmy arrived. Attending only a few dinner club nights before moving to Florida, I'm thankful for the memories and special times we shared.
- Denny
Helen Dunlap
June 28, 2019
Jimmy's passing brings back many fond, funny and cherished memories starting in the late 70's. He was always the one with a witty remark and funny joke or story as a bartender and bar owner. I still shake my head at some of his most memorable antics! He was a performer and his magic has left many with personal memories and giant tears...
God speed, Jimmy....
Carla Snell
June 28, 2019
There are no words to convey how much I will miss this man. He brought a kind of joy to my life that very few others have, and I am so thankful to have called him my friend. Sincerest condolences to Emily and Maggie, and the rest of his loving family and friends.
Skip Otterbein
June 28, 2019
So sorry to hear of Jim's passing Rest in please myfriend.
Roiann Bruno
June 28, 2019
I was so saddened for the passing of Jimmy. May he RIP
June 28, 2019
Our deepest sympathies.
Drew & She Young
June 28, 2019
Our deepest sympathies.
Drew & Sue Young
david delaney
June 28, 2019
And while we knew the tiger was in the tall grass, Jim held and held and held. I've seen this strength of his forever. Jim was an honest, call-it-as- you see-it man; champion for the underdog. To coin the old song; he did it his way. His sense of humor and is he kidding wit drew people to him like a free beer sign (yes Jim did buy on occasion). Jim's friends are and were true friends, and this loss to this tightknit wonderful group shakes the very mirror we measure with. Through his life and end battle his family was his Stirling Castle, a fortress of love and of commitment as iron willed as Jim himself. By now, my guess is Jim has closed the deal; thistle will now adorn the pearly gate entrance, and Jim will get one of his friends up there to plant them. God's speed my warrior with a heart of gold and gentle cutting wit.
June 28, 2019
Jimmy was the kindest man I've ever known. The most awesome brother, father , uncle, son and a great friend to all who knew him. His kindness and generosity cannot be measured. He will live on in the hearts of all who loved him forever. Miss you Jimmy love you with all my heart.Maggie
Kevin Crego
June 28, 2019
Jim was a class act. What I call old school. He was always one of the nicest gentleman I encountered in life and in real estate. I will always remember him. I call him a friend. Gracious and positive. He will be missed.
June 28, 2019
...... you were sunshine in a dark forest ...... thanks
Laine and Peg
June 28, 2019
Adieu Semaj Gnilrets. We will remember our last visit fondly. Bless you.
June 28, 2019
Adieu Semaj Gnilrets. We will remember our last visit fondly. Bless you. Laine and Peg
Diane
June 27, 2019
You will be much missed Jimmy
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