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Karen Oakes Obituary

Oakes, Karen A.
Perinton: January 3, 2010, suddenly, at age 63. Predeceased by parents, Donald and Phyllis Uhl. Survived by husband of 40 years, Brian; daughter, Lisa (Robert) Harris; sons, William and Gregory; brothers, Christopher (Marcia) and Jason (Ruth) Uhl; grandchildren, Reed, Blake and Seth Harris; brothers-in-law, Wayne, Thomas and Timothy Oakes; sister-in-law, Deborah Oakes; several nieces and nephews.
Friends are welcome to call at the Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home, 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport, Egypt location, Thursday, 4-7 PM. Funeral Mass, Friday, 11 AM at St. Louis Church, Pittsford. Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Diabetes Association or American Cancer Society.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle from Jan. 6 to Jan. 7, 2010.

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Scott Burns

January 10, 2010

Dear family:

It deply sadden me to hear about your Karen's passing. On behalf of the Burns' family, please accept our deepest sympathy on this most somber moment for you and your love ones, may the peace and love of the lord be with you now and always.

Karen will live each each of us who knew and loved ger so!

Your cousin,

Scott

January 8, 2010

Thank you all for attending this celebration of my sisters life.
I am honored to be the brother of such a beautiful person who is in front of us this morning.
I will do my best to get through this reading that I wrote in her memory.
This is my big Sister

Our sister, our mother and our friend so divine, who always put others ahead of her in line.
She gave us the strength to be who we are, and her love never stopped flowing no matter near or far.
She sat at her table with pen in hand often writing a note you would fully understand.
Her cards would show up unexpectedly in the mail, they would lift our spirits without fail.
She was the Martha Stewart of her house and den and always took the time to invite a dear friend.
My sister always planned her shopping ahead, your Christmas was bought in July, she said
She loved her children and grand kids with all her heart, so much that she was sad when they were apart.
She had a will to extend and to provide and she did this always with a ton of pride.
She gave and gave and never asked for it back, with an abundance of love there was never a lack.
So with heavy hearts we bid you goodbye, off into the winds like a bird you will fly.
Someday we will meet and be joined again, but until then we will miss you our sister, our mother, our friend!
When I would stop over I would park where it was sunny, When I opened the door I will miss her words Hi Honey.

Love Your Brother Chris

January 8, 2010

Dear Brian, Lisa, Bill and Greg, We were so sorry to hear of Karen's death. We are thinking of you with sympathy and know that Reed, Blake and Seth will miss her terribly. I'm sure Lisa's presence is a great comfort. God bless you all. Love, Petie and Joe

Linda Rezak

January 7, 2010

Brian, Bill, Debbie and Greg and the Oakes family,

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in our thoughts at this most difficult time.

With our sympathy and prayers,
The Marchione family

Kelly and Joe Manza

January 7, 2010

Bill,
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this difficult time. We are so very sorry for your loss.
With our sympathy and friendship,

George & Carol Garvey

January 6, 2010

Brian and family,
Our sincere sympathies to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

January 6, 2010

To Brian, Bill, Greg and the entire Oakes family our condolences on the loss of a truly good person. Karen will be missed.

With sympathy & prayers,
The McNamara Family.

January 6, 2010

Bill and family:

Our condolences on the loss of your mother. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Sincerely,
Francine Beth and Martin Knebel

Margie Shaw

January 6, 2010

Brian, my heart goes out to you and your family for your loss. Please know I am thinking of you.....Margie Shaw

January 6, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family in the loss of Karen. With sincere and heartfelt consolences,
Steve and Ann Austin, Dunnellon, FL

January 6, 2010

My sincere condolences to the Oakes family. Karen was a great mother and a kind person.
Jay Bouman

January 6, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with the entire family at this time of grief. Karen was the most wonderful, caring woman. We loved her so much and are thankful to have had the chance to know her. We have many wonderful memories! I once read this saying and I liked it so much...it said, cry today because she is no longer here, smile tomorrow because she was. Karen...We love you and will miss you very much.

Love,
The Wrona Family

Patti Oakes

January 6, 2010

My heartfelt condolences to the entire Oakes family. My love and God's guidance to all of us.

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