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Michael J. Neary

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Anthony Funeral & Cremation Chapels - Brighton/Rochester Chapel

2305 Monroe Avenue

Rochester, New York

Michael Neary Obituary

Neary, Michael J.

Brighton: Suddenly on Friday, January 17, 2014 at the age of 64. Predeceased by his parents, James and Ruth McDonald Neary of Carbondale, PA. He is survived by his wife, Mary Cowden; son, James; daughter, Bridget; cousin, Girard (Maryellen) McDonald and their children Kevin, Timothy, Jeffrey, and Tracey and their children.

Mike was one of the founders of Pictometry, Inc., where he successfully coordinated defense of their intellectual property, among many other achievements. He was a lifelong supporter of his alma mater, Penn State University, where he received his B.S and M.B.A. degrees.

A special thank you to Dr. Nancy Schaefer-Clark, for her excellent and loving care over the past several years.

Friends may call Wednesday, 2-4 and 6-8 PM at the funeral chapel (2305 Monroe Ave.). A Funeral Mass will be held on Thursday, 11 AM [Note Time Change] at St. Mary's Church, 15 St. Mary's Place. Interment at Our Mother of Sorrows Cemetery, Carbondale, PA. To share a memory of Mike or send a condolence to the family visit www.anthonychapels.com.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle from Jan. 21 to Jan. 22, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for Michael Neary

24 Entries

Josephine Loomis

January 15, 2022

Michael will always be remembered, a quiet and gentle soul. He was my neighbor and friend. He never forgot his roots and visited many times. His memory is always here as I look at the house he grew up in everyday. He was a special man, never to be forgotten.

Josephine Loomis

January 15, 2021

Miss Michael and his visits to Carbondale. We exchanged all happening with each other and family. He’ ll always be in my memories. Continue to stop at his place of rest with his parents.. We were like family. We grew up together and had such good times. Mike was an only child so of course he spent a lot of time with me and my sisters. Rest In Peace.

Josephine Loomis

January 16, 2020

Michael will always be remembered as my neighbor growing up together. He was a kind and gentle soul. May he rest in Gods peace

Ronald Crowell

February 18, 2014

I met Mike about 40 years ago when we rented apartments in adjacent buildings on Meigs St. in Rochester. We developed a friendship and although I moved south, we kept in contact ever since, along with his wife Mary. I will miss our annual and "whenever" phone conversations and his friendship over all these years and distance. To Mary, James, and Bridget, I am so sorry for your loss.

James Mullally

January 24, 2014

I went to St. Rose high school with Mike. He was a great classmate. We went our separate ways then, and unfortunately didn't have much contact after graduation.

My deepest sympathies and prayers to his family.

Michael Crowley

January 22, 2014

When we purchased our home about four years ago we said that our shared driveway could turn out to be either a blessing or a curse. When we met our new next door neighbors Mike and Mary, we immediately knew that we not only were blessed to have them as next door neighbors, but that we hit the great neighbor jackpot.

We will miss our nearly daily driveway conversations about family, life, politics and the mysteries of the universe more than I can say. It is especially sad because the sudden loss of Mike to his family, friends, neighbors, fellow Penn State fans is truly a a mystery that I wish I could speak to my good friend Mike about and have the benefit of his warmth and wisdom.

I didn't know Mike except as a neighbor and neighborlyness is perhaps a lost art...but Mike and Mary mastered the art of being great neighbors and friends...truly caring and concerned...ready to pitch-in and help on a moments notice with a smile and a hearty handshake that was Mikes signature.

Ellen, Erin and I will truly miss Mike as a great friend and great neighbor.

We want to express our condolences to Mary, James and Bridget on their great loss. You can trust that he is at peace and that we will all meet again one day in heaven...assuming I make it there myself, of course. If I do make it there to join Mike, I pray that we share a driveway...because that is what heaven should be...a place of love and friendship where neighbors can share a great chat

All our love and support to the Neary Clan from the Crowley Clan. We will be here to help any time...just a half a driveway away.

Gary Mirabeau

January 22, 2014

My condolences for your lost, I had the pleasure of knowing Mike during our time at Pictometry and came to know him as the competent, caring and compassionate gentlemen we called a friend. Take comfort in knowing there is one more angel above us. God took him in his loving arms and saw he needed rest, his garden must be beautiful, for He only takes the best.

Theresa Devita-Tolerico

January 21, 2014

I pray for the repose of Michael's soul and for peace and comfort to Mary,James and Bridget during this most difficult time.

Ceil Masella

January 21, 2014

Mike was a kind and quiet man with a great passion for Penn State. I would see him at the board meetings and he would always make sure that he spoke to my husband me. We greatly appreciated all of his support and his presence will be greatly missed. He made an impact on all of his with his gentle smile and kind ways. May he rest in peace.

Jeffrey Marcus

January 21, 2014

Mike Neary was a true gentleman and had a tremendous influence on my career. He was the first person I called when it came to business matters as well as career advice. He was my mentor and he was my friend. His door was truly open. Mike was a family man and for 10 years we exchanged stories of growing children and what I could expect. We spoke of the family trips he and Mary would take. We spoke of traveling through South Carolina, his time as a manager at Burroughs and his love for Penn State. He enjoyed talking about the early days of Pictometry and his work with Scott H. to get the technology working. We joked about the stacks of papers that cluttered his office and that he was the one who would turn out the lights. He loved technology and how it could improve our lives. When we did meals outside of the office, I no longer accepted a handshake greeting. I just gave him a big hug because he was so deserving.

Mike will be missed by all and has been and will always be loved.

Michele Rhoades

January 21, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. I only met Mike once over lunch at a Penn State Board meeting I was impressed with his dedication to what he believed in. He was a kind and thoughtful man, he will be greatly missed. I will keep Mike & his family and friends in my prayers, may you find comfort in this difficult time.

Josephine Loomis

January 21, 2014

Words can't express the sadness I feel about Michael's passing. Michael grew up with me and my sisters. He was like family. Mike never forgot his roots, would always visit when in C'dale. He was a special man and will be deeply missed.

Frances and Ed Edenfield

January 21, 2014

Our deepest sympathy to Mary and her children. Michael was a kind gentle man.
May he rest in peace.

Thomas Burns

January 21, 2014

While at Pictometry I had the very distinct pleasure of working with Mike for over 10 enjoyable and exciting years. During that time I witnessed his interactions with coworkers, customers, attorneys, and vendors… Mike was always the consummate gentleman. Those days at Pictometry we all shared a common culture and aligned goals, he was a true team player… Mike was joy to work with; intelligent, competent and hardworking.
I always enjoyed our conversations, he was well versed in so many areas; and Mike's love of his family was as apparent as his generous smile.
May we all pray for God's Grace and Blessing to be bestowed upon Mike, and for God's love and protection to envelope Mary, James, and Bridget.

Paul D. Underberg

January 21, 2014

My sincere condolences to Mary, James and Bridget, and the whole Neary family at this time of sadness and loss. Mike's kind heart was always in the right place.

Helen Woodyard

January 21, 2014

Mike's many contributions to his Penn State family will be sorely missed. He made a difference. My condolences go out to his family.

January 21, 2014

Michael was a very special person. Through the years at Pictometry and after, he always had a smile on his face and kind words for all. He will be missed by all who knew him. Dick and Marcia Kaplan

Carol DeVico

January 21, 2014

Mike was a kind man who helped everyone he knew. He was always there when he was needed. Mike was devoted to Mary and was so proud of James and Bridget...he spoke of them often. There are so many memories of Mike...more than I can list here. He was a great boss and friend. My condolences go out to Mary, James and Bridget.

Shari Hughes

January 21, 2014

Unfortunately, I never had the opportunity to meet Mike in person, but was well aware of his passion and dedication to his beloved university through Penn State related groups. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. RIP, fellow Lion.

Alice Pope

January 21, 2014

I met Mike at a Penn State trustees meeting in November 2012, and saw him regularly in meetings after that. Mike helped with letter writing campaigns to address the problems at Penn State and was a thoughtful presence on several FB pages devoted to improving post-scandal Penn State. Mike was a steadfast friend to Penn State and all Penn Staters. We will miss his tenacity, his moral compass, and his kind and gentle presence. Sending love and light to Mike's family.

Liz Grove

January 20, 2014

I met Mike during his many trips to Penn State for the BOT meetings. He was so passionate about our school. He was the last person I chatted with when I left the November meeting. He was so kind. I am so saddened to hear of his passing. My heart goes out to his family. Please know that he made a difference. Rest in peace, Mike. We will carry on with our mission.

Nancy Reece

January 20, 2014

Mike hired me in 2003 at Pictometry. We shared many recipes, but the one that stands out was his bolognese. He supported me through everything. Even when I lost my job at B+L, he showed up unexpectedly which filled my heart. I will miss him. Rest In Peace my friend.

Deborah Beidel

January 20, 2014

I met Mike at several Penn State Board of Trustees meetings. He was a kind, gentle soul with the heart of a gentleman. Although I did not know him well, I considered him a friend. My prayers for his family.

Monica Thomas

January 20, 2014

To Mike's family...I am so sorry for your loss... Mike is usually at the PSU BoT meetings and he had mentioned he would be missing the one last week. He was a wonderful guy! In the short time I knew him we spent a lot of time commiserating at the meetings and over meals. A very kind, inspiring man. He will be missed.

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