Thomas A. Nesser

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Thomas Nesser Obituary

Nesser, Thomas A.

Pittsford: Saturday, February 26, 2011, at age 80, passed away peacefully after a valiant battle with cancer. A lifelong resident of this community, Mr. Nesser was predeceased by his parents, George and Turkmaine Nesser; brothers, Joseph (Mary) and Peter (Sophie) Nesser; sisters, Rosaline Nesser and Sister Mary Josephine Nesser, OCD. He is survived by his loving wife, Deborah (Mortellaro) Nesser; children, Thomas G. (Barbie) Nesser, Linda (Brian) Cotton, Charles (Chris) Nesser, Lori (Anthony) Garcea; grandchildren, Kristin (Anthony) Felo, Karin (Shawn) Myrick, Larry (Gina) Bach, Thomas (Amanda) Bach, Timothy Bach, Amy, Carli & Michelle Cotton, Melissa Verbridge, Danielle Kasinowski; great-grandchildren, Michael, Anthony, Emma & Nathan; sisters, Mary Nesser, Idell Nesser, Sister Sadie Nesser, RC; nephews and nieces, Barbara (Lenny) Federico, Susan (Arthur) Kaufman, Peter Nesser, Carole (Mark) Wahl; mother-in-law, Delores (Arnie) Brooker; many great nieces, great nephews and cousins.

Mr. Nesser was founder and president of Sirness Coffee Services for 34 years. He was a graduate of Aquinas Institute Class of 1949. He served in the US Army during the Korean War, and enjoyed golfing, and his annual trips to the West Coast with his wife and good friends.

Friends may call Tuesday from 4-8PM at the DiPonzio Funeral Home, Inc., 219 Spencerport Road, Gates. On Wednesday, March 2, friends are invited to attend his Funeral Mass at 10:00AM in St. Nicholas Church, 1492 Spencerport Rd. Entombment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be directed to St. Nicholas Church, 1492 Spencerport Rd., 14606, or to Pluta Cancer Center, 125 Red Creek Drive 14623, or to Aquinas Institute, 1127 Dewey Ave., 14613, in his memory.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Feb. 28, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Nesser

14 Entries

Marlene & Dick Adams

February 25, 2020

Tom was a neighbor at first, then a good friend. He was sweet, kind, funny and true blue. He loved to laugh, always shared the bounty, and loved people. He loved Debbie. They made a great couple! Miss him!Still!

Vern West

March 11, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the Nesser Family.

Fred W. Sarkis

March 6, 2011

Over 72 years ago, my family lived near the lovable Nesser family in Rochester's inner city. His father along with my father were part of the founders of the St. Nicholas Church which was then on Remington Street. In all of these years, in both good and difficult times, Tom was there to help support St. Nick's. His goodness to his church and family over these many years will be noted by the angels that greet him in heaven. My love and sympathy to all of his family members.

March 2, 2011

To the Nesser Family -
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God grant you peace in knowing that your loved one is with Him now. All our love, Wayne and Marycarla Hausburg

March 2, 2011

We were fortunate to have you as neighbors in 1985. Since then we have called you our dearest friends, sharing good times and life. We have loved you both! Tom was handsome, bright, upbeat, warm and loving. He loved to laugh and always looked on the bright side. He was always taking care of people. He was so proud of his children and grandchildren, so loving toward his sisters, so proud of Deborah. He loved his business, his wife and family and life. We loved him and will miss him always. Our deepest sympathy for you and your family. Marlene and Dick Adams

March 1, 2011

We are praying that the Lord Bless and comfort you all at this difficult time. And that you'll embrace wonderful memories with peace and be encouraged by his testimony of Faith and strength. Mr. Nesser will be fondly remembered and missed at Sirness. Dianne Long and Family

March 1, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Nesser/Sirness Family. Tom ran a great company and will always be remembered. With Love, ADT's National Dispatch Center.

March 1, 2011

My prayers are with the Nesser family. Linda is my best friend and I spent many days and nights at the Nesser house, alot of good memories. Mr Nesser always with a smile on his face. May you remember all those special memories and keep them close to your heart. Blessings always Audrey Paro Maisenbacher

Dale Palka

February 28, 2011

To the family,
I didn't have the honor of knowing Mr. Nesser, but I have had the pleasure and privilege of knowing his daughter Lori. Our children are a reflection of who we are and through Lori I know that her father was a great guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this hard time.

February 28, 2011

My heart and prayers are with the Sirness family. Tom was such a dear, sweet man. I am grateful to have known him and have had the honor to work for him over the last year. With deepest sympathy, Valerie

February 28, 2011

Tom,Barbie and family, we are praying with you. Your faith and fond memories will see you through. Love you bunches, Jon and Cheryl.

Keremi Valle

February 28, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family Aunt Barbie & Uncle Tom. We love you. Love Matt,Keremi & the boys.

Jim Verhey

February 28, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

February 28, 2011

To my second family, though I cant be with all of you during this very sad time know that I am thinking and praying for all of you. Dad was a wonderful man and will be missed greatly. As you go through this difficult time just think of what dad would be saying to each and everyone of you and that alone will get you through. We all know how he was nothing but a positive person. love you all.
Carla

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