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JOSEPH MICHAEL "JOE" MILLER Jr.

JOSEPH MICHAEL "JOE" MILLER Jr. obituary

JOSEPH MILLER Obituary

Joseph "Joe" Michael Miller, Jr., 38, of Lafayette, CO, died June 22nd in Eldorado Canyon, CO. Joe was born September 7, 1971 to Joseph M. and Madeline M. (Volpe) Miller, Sr., in Troy, NY. He graduated from Shenendehowa High School in Clifton Park, NY and attended Siena College in Loudonville, NY. Joe married Lara Hairgrove on July 6, 1996 in Lexington, NC. He was a speaker, an author of various sales books and wrote "Find Your Spinach" a book about two brothers who found the missing ingredient to a well balanced life. He was a serial entrepreneur, including his most recent venture, "Sales Monkeys." a sales training consultant service for corporate clients. He was a member of the Entrepreneurs Organization, the Boulder Rock Club and was on the Board of Directors of the Nyland Cohousing Community in Lafayette, CO. Joe was an amazing and prodigious man who lived life out loud. He was never afraid of following his dreams, and one of them was to become a climbing guide. He died in a tragic climbing accident, doing what he loved to do in the mountains of his adoptive home, Colorado. He was a deeply devoted father to his three children and a loving and adoring husband to his wife, Lara, his partner in adventure and love for 16 years. The family had moved to Colorado two years ago, after traveling around the United States from North Carolina to Alaska and back again for 15 months in their RV. Joe was beloved by his friends and neighbors, was an active community member and had a wondrous spirit. He was a successful entrepreneur who also ventured away from his desk to climb in South America and around the United States. He was a man of great passion, vitality and childlike wonder who will be deeply missed. Survivors: wife, Lara Hairgrove Miller, Lafayette, CO; sons, Joey Miller (11), Timothy Miller (8), Lafayette, CO; daughter, Miranda Miller (10), Lafayette, CO; parents, Joseph and Madeline Miller, Sr., Venice, FL; brother, Christopher (Kristin) Miller, Bradenton, FL; sister, Mary Anne (David) Pogan, Bradenton, FL; maternal grandmother, Antoinette Volpe, Mechanicville, NY; step-grandmother, Rose Miller, Mechanicville, NY and seven nieces and nephews. Preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Christopher and Mary (Carmella) Miller; maternal grandfather, John Volpe. Miller-Fest Memorial Celebration, 10:00 a.m - 2:00 p.m.., Saturday, July 17th, The Gate House, 1055 South 112th St. (Hwy 287), Lafayette, CO. Contributions: Miller Kiddos Education Fund, c/o Wells Fargo Bank, 1137 E. South Boulder Rd., Louisville, CO 80027 or Colorado Mountain School, attention, Joe Miller's Climbing Scholarship for Kids, 2829 Mapleton Ave., Boulder, CO 80301.

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Published by Denver Post on Jun. 27, 2010.

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Kim Kozik moynihan

July 5, 2011

Just came across this looking for Lara and family...it's been a while. I'm so sorry to learn of this news. I send all of you love light and peace from my family. We will pray for you in the coming year...there are no words. Peace. -Dr. Kim

August 21, 2010

To the Miller Family,
I just heard the tragic news last night and was shocked and sick at heart. I did not know him but he sounds like someone I would really like, he had a real zest for life and I am sure lived each day to the fullest. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May time help to heal the ache in your heart.

Connie Boschwitz, Waterford, NY

July 24, 2010

Madeline, Joe & Family,
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of Joey. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace Joey.

Joe & Nancy Loudis

July 22, 2010

My condolences to the famil of Joe Miller. As a fellow New Yorker from Albany, and now residing in Denver, I never knew Joe, but I can see from his life story that I certainly would have liked to have know him. It is a great loss for all.

Tim Campion

Diane Smith-Sadak

July 17, 2010

Dear Joe, Madeline, Maryanne and Chris --

I was so shocked to hear from my brother and mom and dad about Joe. I only remember him in person as a boy, but of course have kept track through the years as our families intertwined in marriage and friendship with John and Dave, and when Meg worked for Joey. He clearly grew into an extraordinary human being, and the world and those he touched were better for having known him. Mostly, I grieve your loss as parents, and mourn the life of his widow and children in having to go on without him in their daily lives. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers in this most profoundly difficult time.

With fond memories and love,
Diane (Smith)-Sadak and family

Michele and Andrew Sokolski

July 13, 2010

Dear Lara, Joey, Miranda and Timothy
Memories of your family's visit to Warren still brings smiles to our faces. I hate that this has happened and hope you can find happiness and smiles again soon. We're thinking of you and sending love and good energy to you through the winds : )
Much love and support,
Andy, Michele, William, Sara and Edward Sokolski

Jen Silver

July 8, 2010

I didn't have the pleasure of meeting Joe personally, but I wanted to send heartfelt condolensces to your family. The loss of a husband and father is tragic in ANY situation, and even more so when the man was clearly soa passionate, adventurous and supportive of his family and community.

I'm sure the time you had together on the road is even more cherished now that there won't be more opportunities. I know words may not be helpful, but I hope it is of some comfort that this story has helped me to be even more sure to make our road trip happen sooner rather than later. Blessings, Jen Silver

Gwen Peterson

July 8, 2010

Madeline,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.

Gwen Peterson

Dr. Steve Youker

July 7, 2010

To the Miller and Pogan Families,
I can't tell you how badly I feel for all of you with the loss of Joe. I never met Joe or Lara, I think they may be a couple of the only people from your wonderful immediate families I haven't met. But after talking with you and listening to your great stories about them and watching his videos, I feel like I really did know them, and his passing sincerely saddened me. I send along my deepest condolences and am holding a good thought for all of you.

Suzi Lorenz (Nation)

July 6, 2010

A friend that I will always love and cherish the memories of!! I love you Joe! I love you Lara, and know I am here for you. You and your family are in my prayors.

Suzi, Jeff, Shelby, Wesley and Sydney!!

Sue Hartz

July 6, 2010

Joe inspired me with his energy, enthusiasm, confidence, dedication, teaching, and infectous love to live life and learn lessons! He is a true mentor and inspiration not only in my career but for me as a person. My thoughts go out to his family and friends. He will be missed but never forgotten!

Daniel Norris

July 4, 2010

Lara, I am sorry to hear of your loss. I only had the pleasure of meeting Joe one time, but I could tell he was truly a sincere person. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Kevin O'Connor

July 2, 2010

Dear Mary Anne,

I am deeply sorry to hear of the loss of your brother Joe. He was clearly an extraordinary person and will be missed. Please know that I am thinking of you, Dave and your family during this most difficult time.

July 1, 2010

Dear Madeline and Joe, Our deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family on the tragic loss of your dear son, Joe. May the love and support of family and friends help to ease your pain.
Alice & Art Isenberg

Kim Babowicz Cole

July 1, 2010

To the entire Miller family- What a heartbreaking loss. Joe was such a wonderful guy that I have so many fond memories of. May your own memories help you get through this difficult time.
My deepest sympathies to your entire family.

Kerry Schmidt

June 30, 2010

To the Miller Family,
My deepest condolences to all of you. Joey was a guy of great fun who had a warm and welcoming smile. His laugh was contagious! I feel blessed to have shared part of my high school years with him. He will be missed by many.

June 30, 2010

Dear Madeline, Joe and family-our hearts go out to you on this tragic occasion. Your son was a fine young man who enjoyed life. He was personable and engaging each and every time we spent time with him. We will remember his big smile. Love and prayers to you all. Dan and Kathy Dombal

June 30, 2010

Dear Madeline,

My heart goes out to you - you and Joe and your son's family will be in my prayers.

Betsy Riley - CSR '64

Bob Bicknell

June 30, 2010

Madeline,Joseph,Mary Anne,Chris Lara and Children. My deepest sympathies and prayers to your Family. I am so saddened by the loss of your dear Family member. I can recall anytime I was in Joe's presence he brought smile an lightened up the room. He had an unbridled passion and enthusiasm for life. I will truly miss him.

June 30, 2010

Madeline, Joe and Family:

Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with all of you. We in the small town which we live have been sadly touched by your loss. May god be with all of you now and in the futre.

Catherine DeSorbe

June 29, 2010

Live life out loud! We've never met the fellow but deeply passionate of his endeavors. I know his brother, Chris, and couldn't imagine better men to lead life as it should. Nothing but love for you.

Larry & Jane

June 29, 2010

My sincere condolence to your family.

Barbara Mac Arthur Done (sister of Nancy Mac Arthur O'Meal and Shen graduate class of '86)

Frank & Denise Volpe

June 29, 2010

Dear Madeline, Joe and family,
I am shocked and saddened to hear the news about Joe. We are so very sorry. I can only imagine the sorrow that you and your family are feeling. It is hard to understand why the good guys, the ones who have so much to offer this world are gone too soon. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May God bless you all and see you through this most difficult time.

Laurie Robens-Tyrrell

June 29, 2010

To the Miller Family,

In your time of grief our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May all your wonderful memories bring you comfort and always keep Joe close to your hearts.Please accept my deepest sympathies.

P Famiano

June 29, 2010

My days with Joe go back to Koda Jr High, and all the way through our years at Siena. While it has been many years since we have seen or spoken, I am truly heartbroken. Joe left me with many great memories, which now don't seem so far away. My deepest sympathies to his entire family.

June 29, 2010

Dear Joe, Madeline, Lara and children,

We were deeply shocked and saddened to hear of Joe's passing. Our profound sympathies go out to you all.

We instantly thought about the blogs that Joe and Madeline shared with us about Joe's recent family travel trip.
The picture that emerged was one of a happy young family living life to the fullest!

We promise to keep Joe's family in our thoughts and prayers as time goes on.

And we plan to give Joe and Madeline hugs when we see them in upstate NY this summer.

Sincerely,
Marty & Donna Canavan
Saratoga Springs, NY

Donna Volpe-Perkins

June 29, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Juanita Robiou

June 29, 2010

Chris, I know how much you loved your brother, one time I heard you talking with him on the phone with a lot of love in your voice and even sent him a kiss over the phone..that was love!! Now he is with God with love around him like when he was here on earth. God bless his family!!

Terri Hill

June 28, 2010

Joe was a wonderful man & the perfect match for my niece Lara. Joe gave Lara 3 beautiful children. He gave love freely to those lives he touched. And he has left an irreplaceable love in our lives & hearts. He was 1 of the most generous & intelligent men I've ever known. I will never forget Joe or his laughter or his smile or his childlike adventurous nature or his love of life, I could go on & on. I'll just conclude with-Joe I love you-I'm going to miss you greatly & I will do anything I can to help Lara, Joey, Miranda & Timothy on this leg of their journey. Love, Aunt Terri!

Tom & Bonnie Malone

June 28, 2010

Dear Madeline & Joe,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. We never had the pleasure to meet your son Joe, but knew him through your wonderful stories and his inspiring book. He will be missed by all.

Phyllis Myers

June 28, 2010

Dear Mary Anne,
My heart is aching. You spoke with so much fondness and love of your brother, Joe. My prayers are with you, Lara and the children, your parents and brother Chris-as well as Dave and your children, who are grieving, too. With love, Phyllis, from the Garden of the Heart Yoga kula.

Lisa Seeber

June 28, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

June 28, 2010

Our sincere condolences to the Miller family.
Joe Maier & Family
Melbourne Australia

June 28, 2010

Dear Miller Family:

The video of Joe was amazing. Clearly this man lived his life to the fullest. As skydivers we can appreciate his passion for high adventure. We are deeply saddened for this great loss to such a close knit family.

Mark & Mary Jensen (Stuart, FL)

Marlene Kelly

June 28, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time. I had the pleasure of working with Joe and Chris and Lara at Roland J. Down in NY many years ago. I look back at the time spent working with them and can do nothing but smile at the memories.

joe sorrentino

June 28, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Gary Machina

June 28, 2010

To the whole Miller Family, I'm truly sorry for your loss.

Sandra Lloyd

June 28, 2010

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Jennifer Colindres

June 28, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with Joey's family. I am so glad we had a chance to reunite last year and through emails about the house! Joey planted the trees in back in honor of his children and I will make sure they continue to grow in Joe's memory as well.

Jim, Connie, Jimmy & Danielle McCormick

June 28, 2010

To the entire Miller family. Our prayers and thoughts are with your entire family at this most difficult time.

Hector Campos

June 28, 2010

Joe,

You were indeed a unique and special guy. My thoughts of you always come with a smile and good feelings as I remember our HS years. My thoughts and deepest condolences for your family. You will be missed.

Denise DeChiaro

June 28, 2010

Lara,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am still in shock when Ray told me the news of your tragic loss. I remember the fun times we had on Fieldstone Drive and as Jim Early said at the annual Miller-Fest summer parties. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Ellen Leszczynski-Jefferson

June 28, 2010

Mary Anne,

I was so sorry to learn of your brother's passing. (My younger sister Amy passed in July.) "Only the good die young." My prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.

Bob Malloy

June 28, 2010

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Joe. He was a good friend in High School and it was a pleasure seeing him at our 20th reunion last summer - I'm glad we had that time together.

Kimberly Gregg

June 27, 2010

God bless and you you and the kids Lara. I never met Joe but have been told by Tanya what a wonderful amazing man he was. My heart is with you and the kids!!! Please give my sympathy to his parents and the rest of his family. I am so sorry for your loss!! Love you Lara!!!!

Susan Margolius-Rousselle

June 27, 2010

Dear Madleine, Joe, Chris, Mary Anne, Lara and children, I am so very sorry to hear about Joey's passing. My heart breaks for you all. My prayers, thoughts and love are with you. Susan

Andrew Timmis

June 27, 2010

I am so sorry for your tragic loss. Joe was a great person and I enjoyed working with him. I called him my friend.

Tami Micheli Furlong

June 27, 2010

Anyone who knows Joey can tell you a story that will just make you smile! We spent our high school homeroom years together and he always brightened my morning. What a great guy - the Shen community is mourning! Mr. and Mrs. Miller, our thougths and prayers are with you and with his wife and babies! May you find peace in knowing how many lives Joey touched!

Renee Fondacaro & Henry Sowizral

June 27, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We hope Joe can climb every day in Heaven! Take care of yourselves...

Jim Earley

June 27, 2010

Lara,

I was shocked and saddened to hear the news of your tragic loss. I will always remember what good friends and neighbors you and Joe were and the great times we all had at the annual MillerFest summer party's. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at your time of grief.

June 27, 2010

Joe had a contagious smile and an infectious spirit. His strength in pursuing his dreams and ability to balance that with showering his family in love is something this culture needs so much more of. Losing Joe is truly a tragedy for all.
Much love, prayers and peace for Joe and to Lara & kiddos.
The Raymonds - John, Jenny, Dory & Jack
Charlotte, NC

June 27, 2010

From your neighbors on El Dorado Dr. in Clifton Park. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Know as Joey in our days, fond memories will stay with us forever. It sounds like he lived life to the fullest...but much to young to be gone. The Burmasters.

Sue Sullivan

June 27, 2010

We are thinking of you and available for you should you ever need us. Hugs, healing and hope to you all,
Sue, Steve, Willow and Harry

June 27, 2010

Much sympathy....Paula Kennedy Cody

Susan and Michael Schnitzler

June 27, 2010

Madeline, Joe and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. I only met Joe and his family once, but remember how full of life and beautiful they were...in just meeting him that one time I know for certain Joe will be dearly missed. May you find peace and comfort in knowing that so many are praying for you and supporting you in your time of grief.

Janet Campanella

June 27, 2010

Lara , Joey, Miranda and Timothy and Mr and Mrs Miller,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Joe. He was our neighbor on Fieldstone Drive and we have many happy memories of 4th of July celebrations each year in the backyard. He was a tremendous person and radiated such energy and enthusiasm. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, the Campanella family

Chandi Wyant

June 27, 2010

Joe brought us so much light. He was a source of affection and support and FUN for us all. Our hearts are so full of love for him and for his family.
With admiration and love,
Chandi

June 27, 2010

Deepest sympathies from the Lovejoys.

Barbara & Ray Kappes

June 27, 2010

Lara....our hearts are breaking here!! Joe was such a wonderful man!! We could never have wished for a better neighbor and friend!! We are so deeply sorry about this horrible tradgedy!! Please know that you and the children are in our prayers. If there is anything you ever need please contact us!! God Bless ....Ray and Barbara Kappes

June 27, 2010

Dear Madeline and Joe,
What a tragic ending for your boy Joey. We remember how you often spoke of him with such pride and enthusiasm with sparkle in your eyes. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you both and all of the Miller family. May he rest in peace and guide his children from above as you have guided him on earth. Love to you, Marie and Tony Brock - Marco Island, FL

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