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Don
June 21, 2016
I went to WSU with Bruce. Well, let's just say I've been Googling his name for 15 years and today, for some unknown reason, I found this notice. When I saw his picture it really took me back, that is the exact same smile I recall from Detroit. Apparently, my very brief moments with Bruce were the same as every other person he met - what a predictable fellow. I really only knew him for the first year and drank with him maybe 5 times (Third Street Saloon, Circa), and he remains, to this day, the only person I went to Law School with who I wonder about now. I was sure he was on an adventure of some kind, and if only I could be a part of it for a few hours it would change my life somehow. He and I both lived near campus, which meant living with cockroaches. He didn't mind a bit. He would capture them under an empty can and see how long they would live, and show them off like a personal zoo. When I drank too much and passed out, he looked out for me, poured me in a cab, and paid the driver. He was, as they say, in the moment, and living life, and not bothered by things which would stop some in their tracks. He was smarter, more engaging, and more interesting, than almost anyone. You're all going for second place, friends of Bruce. I hope this short note finds his family well, and I wish them only the best.
blair mcgowan
October 7, 2013
When I sit and type in my cubicle, I can look to my left and there is Bruce, with his funeral white cotton shirt, his left hand raised with ring in place in passive wave but no facial comment... on the walls are a Modigliani beauty, Timothy Leary smiling with Allan Ginsberg and the Beatles from a 1971 concert To End the War featuring the Grateful Dead. Bruce is the dominant force here. For reasons I do not know, my Bruce is upon me this evening, all over me. Its not at all unpleasant. Just hanging out with my little brother who heard a distant different drum beat beat beating...
October 1, 2013
Heidi,
I want you to know that I think of Bruce often and remember the great times we had when he came to visit us here in Massachusetts.
Eric
William Houston
December 27, 2010
Dear Heidi,
Thought of you yesterday because I had a vague memory of your birthday being either the day before or the day after Christmas. Either way, a facebook search for you sadly revealed a link to your husband's obituary. Reading about the kind of man and father that Bruce was, and the adventurous life that you two shared all too briefly, was inspiring and heartbreaking. I hope that you are finding ways to smile and laugh every day, and that your children provide a comforting reflection of their father for you.
Take care,
robyn hurtig
October 7, 2010
Dear Heidi,
Our friend Jay Schwartz told us about Bruce and what a spectacular person and friend he was. Jay passed along his obit, which I just read, and needed to let you know how sorry I am. He sounds amazing and I'm sure with so many family and friends that his memory will be kept very much alive for your girls.
You and your girls are in my heart,
Robyn
Quinn and Shirley Van Paepeghem
October 6, 2010
Dear Heidi and girls.....our hearts are full of love and compassion for you at this time. We will continue to pray as you begin this journey. We count you all as a blessing to our family. Quinn and Shirley Van Paepeghem Meridian Idaho
October 3, 2010
Dear Heidi, Jay and I heard of your loss while visiting in Cambridge and speaking with Grace Wood.
"We too are so sorry and thinking of you." Your marriage and friendship sounded like a GREAT love for each other with many fun adventures.
What a legacy and great memories he has left with you, your daughters, and his friends.
Much love, Jay and Denise Reiss
October 3, 2010
Dear Heidi, I have just heard the sad news and want you to know that my heart is breaking for you and your girls. I am so very very sorry. I wish I could give you a big hug. I pray that God will comfort you in the days ahead. Love, Mary Jane Swope
Sus and Fred Helpenstell
October 1, 2010
Heidi, what a tragic loss. I just read about Bruce. What a wonderful guy!!! I wish I had been able to meet him. We're thinking of you and your girls.
Jackie Van Paepeghem Mullaney
September 30, 2010
Hello Heidi,
I only know that your pain is great and that you have many, many special friends to get you through for awhile. God is always with you, will always be with you and your girls. He will be the True Wind Beneath Your Wings - and keep you safe. It's been a long time since we saw each other - have courage. We cannot know the true loss experienced by another; you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Blessings on you and your girls.
Jennifer Kerr
September 26, 2010
Heidi,
Sending you and your family love and strength as you deal with such a tragic loss. I am so deeply sorry.
Pam Tinkham-Pugh
September 25, 2010
I first met Bruce in the third grade at Queen's, and he was the kid who always had his nose up against the chalkboard in a circle...I also remember him waxing the bottoms of our boots on more than one occasion when Mrs. Kerwin invited him to spend alone time in the hall. I also remember giving him a Valentine that year that had a pirate on it, because it was obvious even back then that Bruce WAS a pirate! He was great. He grew up to be one of the sweetest guys in our class, and from the sound of it, one of the sweetest men. I am thankful that he didn't change; that he was still the happy go-lucky guy I knew from childhood on. I'm thankful he touched so many lives in a positive way, and I'm thankful that I knew him.
Michael Ross
September 24, 2010
Mike
My deepest condolences at this time.
Catherine Johnson
September 23, 2010
Dear Mary Jo and all the McGowan clan, I am so sorry about your loss and the loss of Bruce for the UFD. I watched the funeral on-line and it was beautiful just like I knew it would be. I have friends in Salt Lake and visit there every couple years. Once they take you into their community as family, you are family forever so you can take solace in knowing Heidi and the girls will be well watched over.
Dee Wheeler
September 23, 2010
What a fantastic tribute. Sounds like a wonderful man from a wonderful family. Have never met any of you. Thoroughly enjoyed reading about this loving man and family. Blessings and prayers and peace to all of you, his wife, and those dear little girls - today, tomorrow, and all your tomorrows.
JB Hogan
September 21, 2010
Bruce was a such a wonderful man... The world is a poorer place without him. My heartfelt condolences to Heidi, Stella, Ruby, and all his extended family.
Damon Bundy
September 20, 2010
Bruce was truly a joy to be around and had that great adventurous spirit that I shared with him. I remember when he hitched-hiked out towards Alaska and made it to Washington. He met a few characters along the way, especially in Minnesota, and encountered a huge Moose protecting her baby. He was like all McGowens I have met, classy and quick with a smile. Miss you and will hook up in heaven with the assembling of the saints. Damon Bundy and family
September 20, 2010
My heart is breaking for the family & friends of this outstanding man - he touched many with his sweet soul. My condolences & love - Diane Kinnaman
Denise Olding
September 20, 2010
My my cousin Heidi and her family and friends- We are so sorry for the tragic loss of your husband. Even though I haven't seen you in many years, I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your girls.
- Your cousin
Ed Vandermeide
September 19, 2010
It has been a pleasure to know and work with Bruce over the years at the Magna station. I will miss his energy and smile, he was a true brother and friend and I will relish in the memories I have have working with him. Bruce you will be missed, thanks for the friendship we shared. Retired fellow firefighter Ed Vandermeide. My prayers and condulances too the family.
September 18, 2010
I KNEW WHEN I SAW HIS PICTURE ON THE NEWS THAT HE LOOKED LIKE A MCGOWAN, BUT NO IT WAS JUST A COINCIDENCE! TODAY AS I READ ABOUT HIS FAMILY I REALIZE IT IS THE LITTLE BOY WHO WAS SO FULL OF ENERGY AT THE MCGOWAN HOME, I LIVE IN SLC NOW AND REMEMBER MANY VISITS TO THE MCGOWAN HOME, LAUGHTER, ACTIVITY AND LOTS OF ENERGETIC BOYS. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY FELICA SLUGAY GROUT/ DRAPER UTAH
September 18, 2010
I had the opportunity to meet you at the Midway park one day with my daughter and young son. My daughter loved playing with your girls. I chatted with Bruce about my own husband becoming a firefighter one day. I kept thinking what a nice family you were. Then I saw the news...I can only say how sorry I am for you and your family.
Cassi Knecht
Woodland, UT
Tom Hausmann
September 18, 2010
I am so sorry to hear about Bruce. When I lived in Jackson from 3rd to 7th grade, my brother Paul, Bruce and I had hundreds of adventures doing all kinds things that Bruce's older brothers and sisters suggested might be fun. In the winter we bumper hitched or threw snowballs at cars, we loved to climb the roof at Queen's. When we were at Clarke Lake there was no greater fun that flipping a canoe over, singing "we all live in a yellow submarine" and going over to the CP club to bug the lifeguards. When I met Bruce years later in Madrid we both sat down at a bar and marveled that we were in Spain having yet another adventure. I know that he will be missed greatly by his family and friends and I am so sad that he is no longer with us.
Bettina Giese
September 17, 2010
To the entire family- know that hearts are aching for you- What a sad thing to happen-The memorial today was beautiful, and such great photos to display...of many happy days and adventures.
Brigitte Boyer Laketa
September 17, 2010
Heidi,
I went to high school with Bruce and he was always so kind. He had a way to make everyone laugh. I know he was a wonderful husband and father because of the man he was. He will be missed. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your two little ladies. God bless you.
Brigitte
anna faris
September 17, 2010
I dont know bruce, but I loved reading about his life... thank you so much for writing an obituary that was so fresh, and real... My sis passed away 4 years ago at 38... maybe some people know there going to leave this place early so they live full throttle... amazing story, beautiful smile...
September 17, 2010
Bruce,you were one of the finest paramedics I ever had the opportunity to work with. I will miss your sense of humor and your big heart. I will never forget your family, they will always be taken care of.
Cathy Allen
Sharon Pointer
September 17, 2010
Heidi,
I am a friend of your Mom and David. I have heard many stories of you, Bruce and the girls.
What a special man he was. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take one day at a time.
Sonja Thompson
September 17, 2010
Heidi, I am so sorry and I want you to know that if there is anything we can do for you and your beautiful girls I'm there! We are going to be in UT on the 11th of October we'd like to come see you if that is at all possible. Again I am so sorry and you are in our thoughts, my heart, and prayers. I love you!
Sonja
September 17, 2010
Dearest Heidi,
We are so sad about your loss of Bruce and are thinking of you and your daughters each day. What a tragic turn of events for what was such an interesting and happy life of the person so dearly loved by you, your children and so many others. We can only imagine how much he will be missed and hope that, as time passes, your wonderful memories will help sustain you all.
Fondly,
Jeannine & Lionel Ickes & Family
Nick
September 17, 2010
I had the pleasure to go to Bruce's first fire academy with him. His attitude and laughter were contagious and he always brought joy to those around him. Sorry I haven't talked to you for so long, Bruce, my thoughts are with you and your family. May you rest in peace.
Shanna Salmon
September 17, 2010
Bruce's laughter, smile, and good humor will definitely be missed within his fire department family. Bruce was an amazing person who will not be forgot. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends throughout this difficult time.
Kristi Long
September 17, 2010
Heidi,
You are in my heart and mind. I am so sorry about your husband. While I was never able to meet him he sounds extraordinary! Bruce's spirit lives on in your girls, when you look at them he is there. You are strong and you will be in my thoughts every day!
Love you-
Kristi
Victoria~Andrew
September 17, 2010
'for ones we hold Dear'
Sentiments of condolences
to all of the McGowan Family
circle of Friends..In regards
of his accident
'Bruce'
is gone but not to be forgotten
for those who knew him well..
In sorrow of grievence
Its known to all weve Loss a true
Son'Brother,father and a Friend..
As in ones member of the Firemens
Associates of Utah and to
those across UnitedStates of America
he will be gifted with ones tribute
of salute with honor and tribute
~rip~Bruce McGowan~
Lynnette Fisk-Shimmin
September 17, 2010
The world is just a bit darker without Bruce's smile and personality. His love for life and ability to put even the most critical patient's fears to rest were a gift. Whether he was bringing in a patient to the Emergency Department or simply bumming around doing "equipment checks", he had an energy that you couldn't match...Bruce, you'll be missed.
PAM thomson
September 17, 2010
DEAR MCGOWAN FAMILY
I DON NOT KNOW BRUCE BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW EVEN THOUGH HE WAS A TRAINED PROFFESSIONAL BRUCE WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN ABLE TO REACT TO AVOID THE ACCIDENT, I WAS IN A SIMILAR ACCIDENT 18 MONTHS AGO WITH MY HUSBAND WE WERE FOURTUNATE TO SURVIVE, WE SEEN THE BLUR OF THE HEADLIGHTS ALSO AND BEFORE MY HUNSBAND COULD MOVE TO SWERVE TO MISS OR EVEN HIT THE BRAKES THE OTHER CAR HAD ALREADY HIT US HEAD ON WE WERE HEADING SOUTH AND THE OTHER CAR NORTH, JUMPED THE MEDIAN ALSO. BRUCE PASSED AWAY A HERO, I HOLD YOU IN MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS THAT YOU WILL BE COMFORTED BY ALL THE LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU RECIEVE, AND TO KNOW THERE WAS NOTHING BRUCE COULD HAVE DONE TO AVOID THE COLLISION, GOD BLESS YOU ALL FOR YOUR LOSS
Cindy Dion
September 17, 2010
Heidi,
We are praying for you and your little girls. We are so sorry!
Much love,
Cindy Hokenson Dion and Family
FF Mont Andersen, Chaplain
September 17, 2010
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you at this somber time. I never met Bruce but several of our men had and spoke very highly of him. May Peace be with his friends and family.
The Firemen of the North Davis Fire Disctrict
Jack Homen
September 17, 2010
Brother rest easy, your family is now our family. Godspeed
George Starks
September 17, 2010
Please know that our family's thoughts and prayers are with you during this dfficult time. Even though we didn't know Bruce, the love your family radiates for your lost member is obvious. Please know that we share your grief and keep you in our thoughts always.
Josh Thayn
September 17, 2010
We lost one of the true good guys. Our Condolences to the McGowen and UFA families, God bless.
Joe Herrick
September 17, 2010
I was lucky to meet Bruce only because our wives are friends. Even though my only time with him was just a few days last summer at Lake of The Woods in Oregon with our families, I will never forget him. We went on a mountain bike ride, enjoyed time on the lake with good friends and food. Our last night there, we stayed up late chatting around the campfire over a beer talking about exciting adventures and the crazy twists and turns that our lives have taken. Even though we had really just met, I felt after just that one weekend that Bruce was an old child hood friend. I envisioned our families growing up together and I was so sad to hear that I will not have the privelage to ever go on a hike, a bike ride, or have a beer with Bruce again. There are not many people in the world that are as friendly, enthusiastic, and genuine as Bruce McGowan. My sincere sympathy goes out to Heidi, Stella, and Ruby.
Leslie Hofheins
September 16, 2010
Heidi - as a current student in firefighting, you husband Bruce has completely inspired me to reach for my goal of becoming a firefighter. I have heard so many stories about Bruce and he sounded like an amazing spouse, father and co-worker. I am sad that I was not able to meet such an incredible person. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
Jim & Carole Olding
September 16, 2010
This is all so sad. A young father's life snuffed out way to early. We pray for Bruce, and you Heidi, and your special little girls.
Uncle Jim & Aunt Carole Olding
Norma Ramos
September 16, 2010
I am truly sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your loved ones. I know he will be missed terribly. I am grateful that there are such wonderful people who give so much to help our communities. May the lord keep you in his glory in the days to come. Norma Ramos
Craig Butler
September 16, 2010
Fun,kind,respectful....there are many ways to describe Bruce. I knew this young man when he was growing up and was buddies with my younger brother David. I am thankful I saw him recently in Jackson, and we laughed about various things he and his buds did when growing up. My condolences to his wife, children, the McGowan clan, and his firefighter brothers. Prayers to all; RIP Bruce.
September 16, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure he will truly be missed from all who knew him. My prayers are with you and your family. Janet Atkinson Pres. of The Utah State Firemen's Association.
September 16, 2010
Heidi,
Clinton & I are deeply saddened by this terrible tragedy you and your girls have just experienced. Our love and prayers are for you and your entire family. Knowing Bruce, even slightly, you immediately sensed his kind and generous loving nature. We count ourselves among the lucky who knew him. We wish you courage in facing the days ahead. Clinton & Judy
Mitzi Roderick
September 16, 2010
I have worked with Bruce at the UFA for the past six years. I didn't really get to know him until I was invited out to breakfast at his station one day last year. It was so much fun and Bruce kept saying we would do it again. He was a wonderful person and a joy to be around. We will all miss him. My condolences to his family. Mitzi
Allene Nicholson
September 16, 2010
Every visit from Bruce to my home in Florida to visit my son Darrell was a delight. His humor, sense of adventure and ready grin made him one of my most favorite! I was delighted to meet Heidi when she and Bruce visited Darrell and Theresa on their boat in Thailand. They were clearly made for each other. My heart goes out to all who loved and will miss Bruce, especially Heidi and his girls. With Love and prayers, Allene Nicholson
R.J. Kistka
September 16, 2010
I first met Bruce when his family purchased a summer residence at Clarke Lake. My family lived on the lake year round, so when school was out I could not wait until Bruce came back for the summer. We spent the majority of our days fishing and turtle hunting. When we were not on the water, we were terrorizing the lawn maintenace crew at Consumers Power Summer Club. We were very creative at how we would gain access into the club, as many times it would be by boat or mask and snorkel. Bruce's family was the greatest as I spent the majority of my time as another brother, not that his parents would ever notice because they had so many children as it was. The last time I saw Bruce was in Ann Arbor in the summer of 86/87. He was riding his bike and I was walking down the street and we ran into each other. We immediately headed into the first bar we could find and spent the next 8 hours, and cases of beer catching up. I'll never forget the last words he said to me as he tried to navigate his bicycle " Long may you run" words from a Neil Young song. To Bruce's family, I am mortified by this, you always think in the back of your mind that you will have a chance to see your childhood friends some day. I was truly robbed of mine. I will never forget my summers at Clarke Lake, and will never forget Bruce. God Bless.
Lisa Henrie
September 16, 2010
While we did not know Bruce personally, we knew that his service to our families, our community, were immeasurable. Our hearts go out to the McGowan family and to our UFA Family, Magna Station. To B Platoon & all the Platoons who serve our area, thank you for your service. Thank you Bruce, for contributing your talents to serve us, to help us in need, to make a difference in our lives.
Love and prayers, The Community of Magna
September 16, 2010
My heart goes out to Bruce's wife and children. Bruce always made me laugh, and was a kind person. Bruce's smile always helped him when he got into mischief. I will miss him.
Don Buckley
September 16, 2010
I first had the privlage and honor of meeting Bruce at the West Valley Emergency Services Academy. I had been a firefighter in New Jersey but needed my Utah certifications. And Bruce and I would always talk about class and fishing. After we graduated I did not see him again until I came to work for the UFA. And he never changed he always had this way of no matter how bad a day you were having after hanging with Bruce it was a better day. Heidi and family, all of our thoughts and prayers are with you. I am glad I got the privlage of getting to know Bruce and I agree he will be forever missed by all who had the chance to know him.
September Fisher
September 16, 2010
Your contagious smile and personality will be missed. I am so glad I got to know your "dark" side. Your friend and co-worker, September
Royce Haakenson
September 16, 2010
Bruce was always amazing to be around. One strong remembrance for me of Bruce was his unique athletic ability. It was always amazing to me how he could contort his body in a seamingly straight forward sport like wallyball or raquetball to make a play or get to a return. All who knew him understand what I am talking about. I will miss the positive energy he brought to work with him each day. The community he served as a paramedic/firefighter has lost a true professional. As the Unified Fire Authority Area Commander for Bruce's last duty assignment he will be forever missed personnaly and professionally.
Scott Holda
September 15, 2010
Bruce was such a fun and friendly guy - the world is a little less bright without him.
Peace to all his family, friends, co-workers, and anyone who had the good fortune to spend any time with him.
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