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Joseph William Sylvester Bate

1979 - 2020

Joseph William Sylvester Bate obituary, 1979-2020

BORN

1979

DIED

2020

Joseph Bate Obituary

Joseph William Sylvester Bate
1979 ~ 2020
Joseph William Sylvester Bate passed away October 2, 2020, in Temple Texas, a 41-year-old victim of Bush II's Iraqi adventure. He was born August 27, 1979, in Salt Lake City to Kerry William and Marilyn Eileen (Turner) Bate where he found himself with five older sisters (the late Doris Bushnell, Marilee Borden, Jennifer Bate, Rebecca Bate, and Gwendolyn Flores) and one older brother (the late David Bate). Adoptions later added Tanessa (Alfredo Ibanez), Eli (Nayeli Ortiz), and Joshua Bate (Josie Taylor). His niece, the late Martika Bate, was like a sister. He was also preceded in death by his grand-nephew, Marco Raul Ibanez, and step-niece, Charisse Azevedo.
Joe had a questing, inquisitive mind.; He loved insects, fish, amphibians, and other wildlife and by the time he was eleven he had collected 247 fossils. He graduated from Horizonte in 1999 and began his career in maintenance for the Salt Lake City School District; he became head custodian at East High. Joe joined the Utah National Guard to further his education and was deployed in June 2004 as part of Bravo Battery 1-148. He received several Army Commendation and Achievement Medals. Joe was especially tormented by two tragedies. First, he was guarding a checkpoint when a car ran it; he fired and killed an Iraqi man and a pregnant woman, who were only transporting oranges. Second, Joe's close friend and fellow soldier Ron Wood was killed by an IED; Joe, who was next to him, was devastated. Joe returned home in November 2005 with crippling PTSD; he was tormented with self-accusation and grief and threw his medals into the Jordan River. He will be missed by his large family and others; interment will be at Camp Williams at a future date.

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Published by Deseret News on Oct. 9, 2020.

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Melody Flitton

August 27, 2024

Happy heavenly birthday Joe <3

Kerry Steadman

October 9, 2020

Kerry and Marilyn, so sorry for your loss. Knowing what caring and supportive parents you are to your children this must be hard to take. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. May you find peace in the memories you have and be blessed for all you have done.

Phd

October 9, 2020

God Bless

October 9, 2020

May you rest in peace. Thank you for your service, yet so sorry for the tragedies you experienced while serving our country. May you fly high with the angels.

October 9, 2020

Thank you for your service. It is not an easy thing serving in the military. Many of us take your service for granted. May you find your much needed peace to your heart and soul with you Saviour, as well as those you served with. Thank you.

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