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Katherine Louise Caffarelli

1923 - 2020

Katherine Louise Caffarelli obituary, 1923-2020

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1923

DIED

2020

Katherine Caffarelli Obituary

Katherine Louise Cuburu Cafarelli
"Kay"
September 19, 1923 - October 5, 2020
My mom, Katherine Louise Cuburu Cafarelli, passed away Monday morning, October 5, 2020. She was 97 years old. Mom was born to Charles Jean Cuburu and Mary Bonomo on September 19, 1923, in Price, Utah. She attended Notre Dame grade school and graduated from Carbon High School in 1941. Mom left Price to attend St. Joseph's School of Nursing, graduating in 1944. Mom married the love of her life, Armand Cafarelli, on November 29, 1943. Their marriage was celebrated over a bowl of chili and a beer before Dad left for the war. They had two daughters - Armone Jean Cafarelli Gardner and Mary Jo Cafarelli Owens. Mom and Dad were married for 70 years before his passing on January 12, 2014. Their home was filled with love, respect, and acceptance for all. It was not unusual to arrive at their home to find them enjoying a glass of wine and dancing to the "Big Band Sounds." Mom's career as a registered nurse was extremely important to her. The majority of her nursing career was spent in her ironed, "blinding" white uniform and starched nursing cap, always the first to want to help.
Like the rest of her family, Mom treasured the family trips up to Hebgen Lake, where she could provide a delicious breakfast to everyone before they headed out to fish, boat, or tour Yellowstone, and a filling dinner upon their return. Nights spent around the dinner table sharing stories, memories, and laughs over her famous rigatoni and fried chicken left indelible marks on all.
Mom is preceded in death by her husband Armand, daughter Jean, son-in-law Alan Owens, parents, sister Margaret Miller (Russ), brother Charles Cuburu (Bobby), and other extended family. She is survived by daughter Mary Jo Owens, son-in-law Greg Gardner, grandsons Chris (Marcie), Anthony (Ashley), Tim (Alli), Nate, and Dan, as well as her great grandchildren Cayten, Katie, Makena, Chloe, Evie, Anna, Finley, and Izzie.
We would like to thank Dr. Xyline Gregg and Dr. Allison Schlishman, as well as the staff at The Ridge Foothill and Ashby Home Health and Hospice, for the kindness and care they provided to Mom. Due to the risks posed by COVID-19, no public services will be held. The family will hold private services and Mom will be entombed next to Dad at Mt. Calvary Cemetery in Salt Lake City.

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Published by Deseret News on Oct. 11, 2020.

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Ethel Taylor

October 5, 2023

SUCH A GRAET LOVING PERSON FANATASTIC NURSE,will miss her smile ethel

Patti Mortensen Wagstaff

October 26, 2020

I believe that Kay was a nurse that worked along side of my father, Dr. JD Mortensen. I met Kay when I was very young. I admired her crisp nurse's cap and her cheery personality. For years afterward my goal in life was to be a nurse - just like nurse Kay!

Charles Bonomo Family

October 13, 2020

Aunt Kay .... peacemaker, people builder, healer, voice of reason, matriarch. A small woman with a mighty presence and a nourshing source of comfort, love, happiness, hope, a good laugh and a hearty plate of pasta. This Italian-Basque "testarossa" will be sorely missed. My family thanks our dear "Aunt Kay" for the indelible mark she has left on our lives and heart.

Charles Bonomo Family

October 13, 2020

Aunt Kay .... peacemaker, people builder, healer, voice of reason, matriarch. A small woman with a mighty presence and a nourishing source of comfort, love, happiness, hope, a good laugh and a hearty plate of pasta. This Italian-Basque "testarossa" will be sorely missed. My family thanks our dear "Aunt Kay" for the indelible mark she has left on our lives and our hearts.

Charles Bonomo Family

October 13, 2020

Aunt Kay ..... peacemaker, people builder, healer, voice of reason, matriarch. A small woman with a might presence. A nourishing source of comfort, love, happiness, hope, a good laugh and a hearty plate of pasta. This Italian-Basque "testarossa" will be sorely missed. My family thanks our dear "Aunt Kay" for the indelible mark she has left on our lives and in our hearts.

Sally Hemminger

October 13, 2020

Kay was such a loving and caring woman with a beautiful soul. She brought joy and sunshine to everyone she came in contact with. Heaven and her loved ones are definitely welcoming her with open arms. Be at peace Kay.

Clyde Larsen

October 12, 2020

Wonderful family, memories go back many years, New Years party atFrank and Irene Mezek home. Kindly accept my condolences. Clyde Larsen

Phyllis Polster

October 11, 2020

I knew Kay from working at the Postal Service. She was the one bright spot down there, always kind, sweet, loving, accepting and helpful.

She had a young spirit about her; I saw her I believe last year sometime at Target and would’ve never guessed she was in her 90s!

You had a good mom, grandma, neighbor, friend, etc. and I hope knowing that helps bring you comfort and peace.

Frank W Taylor

October 11, 2020

I knew Kay while she was at the USPS in 1980s. She embodied all the characteristics mentioned and much, much more. Everyone felt better spending time with her. She will be missed. Prayers for her family.

Eugene Dennis

October 11, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. She was the second mother to me, and I am very sorry for her passing.

David and Rae Dennis

October 11, 2020

We are deeply saddened to hear of your mom’s passing. She was a great friend to Georgia and was like a second mom to us. Her sweet and caring nature will never be forgotten. Her legacy lives on in all of you and everyone she ever came in contact with. We are blessed to have known her. Please let us know if there is anything you need. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Love you all....David and Rae.

Ethel Taylor

October 11, 2020

I am so sorry to read of Kay passing,she was a great LADY ,she nursed the mail carriers & clerks at the post office, she helped everyone at Guadalupe Church,always had a kind word,I can not say how sweet and wonderful she was,I will miss her dearly, When my husband George passed away, she was one of first to call,they had known each other for years..She is in GODS hands now.God Bless you KAY..Ethel

Charlotte Mates

October 11, 2020

Dear Mary Jo, Greg, & precious Family & Dear Friends -
My thoughts & prayers are with your beautiful family as you celebrate the completion of Kay’s incredible “Circle of Life”.
Her legacy is apparent in each & every one of you.
May your memories be held dear throughout your lives in tribute to one of our best examples of loving kindness, compassion, equanimity, and sympathetic joy.

In sympathy & love
Charlotte Mates

Lennie Dennis

October 11, 2020

Mary Jo and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I know Georgia cherished the wonderful friendship they shared. I have great respect for Kay. She put flowers on Carmen's grave a number of times. I have not forgotten her kindness nor will I forget. I send my love and my thought.

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