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Annette Bacehowski Obituary

Annette Bacehowski

South Haven, Michigan

Annette Marie (Van Gessel) Bacehowski, proud mother and grandmother of three sons, a daughter and six grandchildren in Des Moines and West Des Moines, died Sunday, June 18, 2017 at Bronson Methodist Hospital in Kalamazoo, Michigan, from complications related to lung cancer. Annette was born in Grand Rapids, MI on July 28, 1951 to Verna and William Van Gessel and was the second youngest of ten children. She and her husband Dave were married at St. Mary's church in Grand Rapids on July 15, 1972. They relocated to Wildwood, IL in 1976, where they raised their four children. Annette was a loving and dedicated preschool teacher for almost 20 years. Upon retirement, she and Dave moved to South Haven, MI in 2005, where she enjoyed kayaking, fishing, gardening, snowshoeing, hiking the dunes with her dog, spending time with her six grandchildren, and serving her community. She became an active member of St. Basil Catholic Church, where she most recently served on the leadership team for the Restore the Glory campaign and also volunteered for various other ministries including the migrant ministry program, the Equal Exchange program, and others.She and Dave loved spending time in the Des Moines area with their five grandchildren, Anna, Gabriel, Miles, Grant, and Eleanor. Annette is survived by her husband of 45 years, David, and children Christopher of South Haven, MI, Daniel (Sarah) of Des Moines, Bryan (Rebecca) of West Des Moines, and Kelly Joyce (Sam) of Bend, OR, as well as six grandchildren. Her spirit, energy, love and faith will live on through all she touched and cared for in her life.

Memorial services will include visitations to be held Thursday, June 22nd from 5-8 pm ET and Friday, June 23rd at 11:30 am ET at Filbrandt Family Funeral Home in South Haven, MI, with a funeral mass on Friday, June 23rd at 1:00 pm ET at St. Basil Catholic Church in South Haven, MI.

Annette was the VP of Programs for the South Haven chapter of the American Association of University Women. A scholarship will be presented to a high school woman seeking university education in her name. Donations for this scholarship can be made out to AAUW and sent to Mary Lynn Bugge, 70 Gabriel Dr., South Haven, MI 49090.

In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts can also be made in Annette's name to the Lung Cancer Alliance, WeCare In the Name of Christ of Southwest Michigan, the Southwest Michigan Land Conservancy, or the St. Basil Restore the Glory campaign.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by the Des Moines Register on Jun. 21, 2017.

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June 29, 2017

Our condolences to the family. Annette was a remarkable and beautiful woman.
Mark and Marjul Pawelczyk

Wednesday Verity

June 24, 2017

Always enjoyed our talks at the coffee shop. So sad to hear this news. Hugs to Dave and family.

June 23, 2017

Net always made me laugh...Her presence on this Earth will be missed.

Amy Schafer

June 22, 2017

My love and condolences to Dave, Chris, Dan, Bryan, Kelly and all of our family.

Lisa Hintz

June 22, 2017

Sending strength and love to the entire family as you grieve for the loss of such a wonderful woman.

Charlene Blanchard

June 22, 2017

I went to WC with Annette. I knew her as a kind, sweet person and it seemed that never changed. My condolences to the family.

Scott, Ann Kohler

June 21, 2017

Dave and children, so VERY sorry to hear of Annette's passing. Life is so sacred and fragile.
Our prayers to all are with you .
Our distant acquaintance from the days of St. Gilbert and our children growing up are bonds that not easily forgotten.
Ann and Scott Kohler and children Keri, Bill, Beth

Mike VanGessel

June 21, 2017

Thoughts and prayers to our entire family.

Joseph Kaupa

June 21, 2017

We grew up in the same neighborhood (by old St. Anthony's Church) attended kindergarten, grade 1-8, then West Catholic together. If I miss her your grief must be great!

Brewer's

June 20, 2017

I am very sorry for your loss. My family and I give our sincere condolences. May you all have much peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Psalms 145:14
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Carol Perschke

June 20, 2017

Dave - I can't express how sad this is and how you must feel. You two were the best of the best couples and family. Annette always had a smile and made our Fenwal family fun. Please accept our sincere condolences for you and the family. Take care.

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22

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5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Filbrandt Chapel - Starks Family Funeral Homes & Cremation Services

1076 S Bailey Ave, South Haven, MI 49090

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23

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11:30 a.m.

Filbrandt Chapel - Starks Family Funeral Homes & Cremation Services

1076 S Bailey Ave, South Haven, MI 49090

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23

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1:00 p.m.

St. Basil Catholic Church

South Haven, MI 49090

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