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Rome Milan

1959 - 2021

Rome Milan obituary, 1959-2021, Fort Worth, TX

Rome Milan Obituary

Rome Milan
January 29, 1959 - April 23, 2021
Fort Worth, Texas - Rome Milan passed away April 23rd after a 3-year battle with ALS, Lou Gehrig's Disease. His gymnastics filled life began as a young gymnast competing for Sokol Fort Worth, then Euless Trinity High School, followed by being the captain of the gymnastics team at his beloved University of Texas in Austin. After graduating, he started his high school coaching career at Weatherford High School then Boswell High School. During those years, his teams qualified for the state championship 14 out of 18 years. After a break from coaching, he returned to finish his coaching career for the Birdville School District until his diagnosis with ALS.
In addition to competing and coaching, Rome was also an international gymnastics judge and also held numerous positions at state, national and international competitions including the Pan American Games, Goodwill Games, World Championships and Olympic Games. He served on the USA Gymnastics Board of Directors and Advisory Council, the Gymnastics Association of Texas Board, and the Texas High School Hall of Fame Committee. As an avid gymnastic historian, he curated a vast collection of vintage memorabilia which he loved to share and display.
He was a lifetime member of Sokol Fort Worth and SPJST Lodge 154. He filled many positions including serving as the American Sokol Southern District Director of Men and on the National Board of Instructors.
While attending the 1972 Summer Olympic Games in Munich, Germany with his parents and brother, the Olympic flame ignited his lifelong love of gymnastics and all things Olympics. He attended a total of 12 Summer Olympic Games and had the honor of running a segment in the Olympic Torch Relay in Rome, Italy before the 2006 Torino Winter Olympic Games. Of his many collections, his Olympic torch and pin collection were some of his favorites. Rome was a pin trader extraordinaire and was known internationally for his collection. While attending the 2016 Rio Olympic Games he was recognized often while proudly wearing patriotic shirts and waving a large American flag at events. He had a knack for being in the perfect spot to show up on camera during television coverage. His many TV sightings prompted NBC to challenge viewers to "Find This Man Everyday" on one of their Olympic broadcasts.
Rome was an established impressionist artist whose artwork was represented in several art galleries across the country. Many knew him as the artist that would paint in the window at Milan Gallery in Sundance Square, always wearing one of his many crazy hats and listening to The Beatles.
A surprise performance was held in Rome's honor on April 18th at Sokol Fort Worth by a group of former gymnasts, friends and family members. A special routine was choreographed for him with songs from The Beatles. He watched the routine and saw many friends and family who were there to show their support.
Rome was preceded in death by his infant daughter, Matisse Milan. He is survived by his wife, Pauline; children Paris, Sydney, Athens, stepson Matthew David and Caity Gregory. He is also survived by his parents Jerry and Henrietta Milan, his brother and travel companion, Tal and wife Lesli, and his special Czech sister, Vera Janeba. Rome leaves behind a huge family of "favorite" cousins.
Rome was truly one-of-a-kind. His infectious enthusiasm touched the lives of so many people in ways far greater than gymnastics or painting. Many, many will feel his loss.
Remember Rome – A Tribute to Rome Milan will be held on Sunday, May 16th at 4pm at Sokol Fort Worth. If you would like to honor Rome with a memorial donation, please consider the Sokol Fort Worth Centennial Foundation, c/o 6500 Boat Club Road, Fort Worth TX 76179 or IamALS.org.

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Published by & from May 1 to May 2, 2021.

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Meg Parker

September 22, 2025

Rome, you were always so kind to our family. I was so sorry to hear you passed away. First met you on a road trip to Norman, Okla in 1983 where you and James were judging a boys' meet and we got to talk to Bart Conner that day. I was lucky enough to visit the art gallery in downtown FTW several times and remember you liked to paint while standing inside the front windows. You came to the funeral when my father in law, Charlie Sergeant passed away in 2013. You are missed. Rest in peace. Meg

Michelle Hayner

May 20, 2024

So very blessed wete we all by his life, his work and his heart. He missed. He memory like his art remains a joy.

Paul Von Vogt

April 20, 2023

His art will last forever. Our sample of his work is cherished in our art collection.

Blessings,

Paul and Janice Von Vogt

Lisa Garrett (1984-1988)

April 6, 2023

Coach Milan, you were a great coach who had the best interests of your athletes at the forefront of your mind always. I'll never forget the years I was able to train under your guidance. You were one of the best and you will be sadly missed by so many. Rest in peace, Coach.

Alice Gregory Hunter

May 19, 2021

My deepest sympathy to his parents and family during this time of remembrance of your beloved son, husband, and father.

Cynthia Hokr

May 16, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. You will be missed my friend

Dennis Kossakowski

May 10, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. Who will be missed. My prayers go out to the family .

Steve Bomar

May 10, 2021

I will never forget wearing a silly hat while listening to the Beatles discovering that painting with a knife is possible.

Paul and Janice Von Vogt

May 10, 2021

We are deeply saddened at this news.
We wake up every morning to Rome's 3 fine paintings that hang in our bedroom. We view them as precious amidst our collection of Milan fine art, including his Mom's work of course. My wife's favorite is Rome's rendition of Santa Klaus. A second, a Tuscany landscape also signed on the back by assisting children. And a third, a beautiful lighthouse/ seascape capturing the New England coast that I grew up with and loved..

We regret that we did not know Rome personally. However we did get a glimpse of him standing up indulging his artistry through a window as we passed the gallery. I regret that being rushed we didn't go in. It was clear through his spirit of animation and dance that he was living life to its fullest and with joy. And that is enough.

We deeply miss the the downtown Fort Worth Gallery and lively conversations with Tal, which in so many ways offered us many hours of respite over the years from the world we live in. We were honored to meet Henrietta and her husband.

Blessings,

Paul and Janice Von Vogt

R Fluke

May 9, 2021

I am lucky to have met him, and seen his paintings, and even to have seen him at work. Thank you Rome for all the beauty you put into your art.
RF

Jana Hamman

May 9, 2021

So, sorry for your loss. Jim and Jana Hamman

Carol Driscoll

May 8, 2021

Rome lived a beautiful life. I am so happy to know the Milan family and to own one of his wonderful paintings.

Roland Rangel

May 5, 2021

No more pain just heavenly peace. T’s up. Go Trojans.

Billie Jo Allred

May 4, 2021

My wonderful cousin that I grew up with will be missed! I love you ROME ! May God Grant You Peace! Billie Jo Allred

Becky Hamilton Snodgrass

May 3, 2021

Fly you Sokol, fly on high. I remember all the goofy performances you put on at Slets and exhibition. Now you get to do that for God.

Molly

May 3, 2021

My late husband Rodney Houdek was a huge fan of Rome and all the Milan’s as am I. Rome you lived a life few have the honor or opportunity to live. You inspired so many on your journeys. Heaven has gained another sweet Angel much too soon. Praying for your family during this time of great sorrow. Hugs and Love to you all.
Molly Breeland Houdek Dickerson

Tracy Hamilton Toupal

May 3, 2021

Rome, you will be dearly missed. I remember the instructor course and you teaching me and the sorts and how good of a gymnast you where.

Diana McDowell

May 1, 2021

Sending prayers to the entire family. He was a treasure.

Holly Garrington

April 28, 2021

It was always exciting to attend gymnastics events and reminisce of the things Rome would display, showing what this sport started as to what it is now. Olympic torches, pins, equipment and loved meeting Bacon. I first meet Bacon walking on a beam as a tiny thing at Norberts Booth at a Congress event. Romes painting were so beautiful as well. Rome will be greatly missed as well as the history of gymnastics that he graciously shared with us all.

Cheryl Ranger

April 27, 2021

We finally got to meet Rome in Stuttgart and spend some time with him and Pauline. What an amazing colourful character. Condolences to his family.
Rest in Peace Rome.
Cheryl and Mike Ranger
NZ

Don & Janet Sabo

April 26, 2021

Please accept our sincere condolences and we pray God's peace and comfort for the family.

Kenny Lange

April 26, 2021

Rome was an incredible man in a family of incredibles! Such energy he had! The Milan’s are a strong, spiritual family and they know that he is resting in peace in God’s arms. My prayers are to give them all strength in this extremely difficult time.

Janet Erlinger

April 26, 2021

May the many memories Rome made with so many keep him alive and comfort those who loved him.

Stephanie Spencer

April 26, 2021

He sounds like he was a wonderful man. I’m sorry I never had the opportunity to meet him. I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you family and friends.

Diana Engelke

April 26, 2021

To the Milan family, please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Rome will be truly missed.
John and Diana Engelke

Kelly Greene

April 26, 2021

He was a good person and comes from good parents. Rest in peace Rome. Long time friend from Sokol Fort Worth. Kelly Greene

Keely Greene

April 26, 2021

Rome was a special person and comes from good parents. Rest in peace. Long time at Sokol in Fort worth. Kelly Greene

Carla Bezner

April 26, 2021

Sending love and prayers.

Tony Didomenico

April 26, 2021

Rome was the Spirit and Strength of the Sokol Movement !!
We Love You Brother Rome !!

Tony DiDomenico

April 26, 2021

Rome you are the Spirit and Strength of the Sokol Movement !!
We Love You Brother Rome !!

Lynda Oldham

April 25, 2021

Rome and I liked to argue but he was so important to our wonderful DAEP team at Shannon. Our team was very close and dependent on each other professionally and emotionally. Rome, you will have jewels in your crown in heaven!! Eternal love, Lynda O

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