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for Aalok Modi
Kris McNabb
April 7, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. I can't even imagine your feelings at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
May God grant you peace and give you memories of your times together to get you through this difficult time.
Ashwin Rai
March 15, 2008
I never met Aalok, but reading about him compells me to sign. I can tell he touched many lives and was a positive influence while he worked towards his goals. It's a shame, I never got to know him. Rest in peace, Aalok, and my condolences to the Modi family.
Rashmi & Haresh Patel and Deval
March 6, 2008
Dear Vasantibhabhi, Shishir and Nina,
We are deeply saddened to learn about Aalok's untimely demise. No words can express the significance of this loss... Our heartfelt sympathies and thoughts are with you...
Mukesh, Varsha, Nisha, Niti Majmudar
March 1, 2008
Nina Bhen, Shishir Bhai, & Saumil,
We were very sorry to learn of Aalok's death. For years we have heard nothing but wonderful things about Aalok from Daksha, Dilip, and Rohan. They have always described him as a kind and brilliant individual. Rohan has always looked to him as a role model and from reading the many posts about Aalok it is obvious many people were touched by his presence. We give our deepest love and sympathy as you face this difficult time in your lives. May his memories live forever.
Mike Kubitza
February 29, 2008
Nina,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of your son's untimely passing. You and your family have my deepest sympathy and will be in my thoughts.
Rajul Shah
February 27, 2008
Dear Ninaben, Shishirbhai and Saumil,
We are very sorry to hear of Aalok's untimely demise. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you peace and strength in this tough time,
Rajul, Paresh Shah and Acharya family
Kathy & Paul Smithberger
February 23, 2008
Dear Modi Family -
We just heard today about your sudden loss of Aalok, and wanted to send condolences immediately. I was going to stop over at your house tonight, but saw that there were many people there.
Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. We wish you peace, hope and much comfort during the difficult days ahead.
Anita Liebhart
February 21, 2008
Nina,
I was very very saddened to get the news of your sons passing. I am soo sorry I was not there to help in whatever way I could.
Please know that you have my families and my sympathy.
You will be in my thoughts in the coming days.
Know that your son is watching over you and that he loves you very much.
I am here if you need me. Whatever you need.
I love you.
Harish, Smita and Neil Shrimanker
February 21, 2008
Dear Shishir, Nina, Saumil, Masi, Hemant, Alpa, Asim and Sujal
My deepest condolences to you all! We still can not believe Aalok is no more with us! He had acquired a special place in our hearts and we can not forget his zest for life and smile!
May God give you strength to recover from this loss!
May his soul rest in peace!
With deepest sympathy,
Harish, Smita and Neil
Thomas Bryska
February 20, 2008
Early in the summer of 2007 my wife and I drove to Duke to help our son David and his roommate Sahil move from dorm room to apartment. The weather was hot as we transferred boxes, many boxes, from the dorm to the cars to the apartment. About six hours later we were unloading the last two carloads. We were tired, hungry, and growing weak but the largest and heaviest load still waited to be carried upstairs from the cars. As we walked downstairs from the apartment to the courtyard, along came a group of students that all new David and Sahil. Amongst them was a tall, smiling young man who immediately offered to help. We carried the last of the load and I was in awe as this tall young man cheerfully carried the largest and heaviest box upstairs. He never stopped smiling and joking with the others. I mentioned to him that I wish I would have met him three hours earlier, so that he could share more of the joy of moving with us. He just looked at me and chuckled. I don’t recall who the other guys were but I remember just this one. I remember thinking he’s so young but he’s got what it takes and the world is his oyster, a truly unique individual and a very old soul indeed.
Now several months later David called home at two o’clock in the morning and told my wife that he had just gotten back from the hospital. He told the story of what had happened to this young man. He talked of the basketball game, the desperation, the shock, and the loss. He talked about holding his friend in his arms and feeling helpless. He said that he now understands why we worry so much. He said that now he knows life has to be savored because it is so short. He said that he has learned all these things and more from his good friend Aalok.
We talk of things that could have been and we grieve for ourselves because we feel the loss. I am so grateful to Aalok for so many things. I only met him once and then briefly but he touched me very deeply. I know that he also touched everyone around him in this same way. Fortunate are the people who knew this fine young man. His spirit lives on and so does his love for everything and everyone that he has ever come across.
Alicia Durewicz
February 20, 2008
Dear Modi Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you in this time of need. It was a pleasure being in orchestra with Aalok, and he will be missed by everyone who had the delight of knowing him.
Tom & Nishi Bryska
February 20, 2008
We are saddened to hear of your loss. Aalok was a great friend to our son David. Our heart goes out to you. We will keep you in our prayers.
Kirsten Chrzan
February 20, 2008
To the Modi family, my deepest sympathies go out to you during this tragic time. Aalok was brilliant and destined for great things-and he still is. He was a true inspiration to everyone interested in medicine, his passion was like no other and will live on with his memory forever.
Dave Johnson
February 19, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of the tragic passing of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pam/Mike Mesharer
February 19, 2008
Aalok,
You and Saumil have been like second sons to us since you were very small. Vincent and Howard don't remember a time when they did not have you and your brother as good friends. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to your family and we know you are at peace. Much love, Pam and Mike Mesharer
Heather Mellquist
February 19, 2008
Dear Modi Family,
I cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I could not respect anyone more than I have respected Aalok since the day I met him, and I will continue to cherish his memory. I feel so blessed to have my life influenced by him, and to have had his friendship. He was honestly the best friend and most remarkable man I can imagine, and I know that the world was made better through him.
susan kemp
February 19, 2008
Nina and Family
I am deeply sorry to hear of your loss. May you find some comfort and peace in the memories you share of your son.
With sincere regards,
Dr. Susan Kemp
Jay Ganesan
February 19, 2008
Shishir,
Very sorry to hear about this tragic loss. From whatever little I have heard about your son, he seems to have been a great person and an inspiration to all around him. I pray that you and your family are able to get through this tough period.
Sangeeta and Rajesh Shah
February 19, 2008
Shishir, Nina and Family,
We are very sad to hear about Aalok. We pray to God to give you the strength to deal with such a difficult and sad time. Our prayers are always with you.
Michael Poland
February 19, 2008
Aalok was truly a great young man and he improved the lives of everyone around him...he made the world a better place for many. He will be remembered and admired as an example of what a leader is supposed to be.
Ryan Mahoney
February 18, 2008
Aalok will be missed by all who knew him. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. My condolences go out to his family in this time of grieving.
Debbie and Bill Stolzenbach
February 18, 2008
Dear Nina and family,
Our deepest sympathies are with all of you.Your family will always be in our prayers. If you need anything at all PLEASE call.
John, Barbara, and Ryan Dodd
February 18, 2008
We were so very sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
David & Becki Sawyer(Kyle Hilborn's Parents)
February 18, 2008
We were saddened deeply when we heard the news of your tragic loss of Aalok. Our sympathy and thoughts are with your family.
Kathy Price
February 18, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
cathy Sanzo
February 18, 2008
Nina,
I remember back at RHC you talking fondly of your children, my heart aches for you. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Addie Arnold
February 18, 2008
Dear Nina and family,
Just wanted to let you know that you are all in my heart and prayer. If there is anything I can do,please feel free to let me know.I will pray that you all find the strength you need doing this very sad time.
God Bless you all
Love
Claudia Crews
February 18, 2008
Dear Modi family,
I am so sorry to learn of your son's death. Nina, I am sure Aalok's spirit will remain with you always. I am thinking of you, as you celebrate his life and mourn his passing.
Gayla and I send our deepest sympathies and prayers to you.
Claudia and Gayla
Kim Stewart
February 18, 2008
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Rolenda Sawyer
February 18, 2008
Nina,
My heart is with you, I can not imagine your pain, I hope for you to be able to find peace and comfort somehow, and know that we are all here for you.
We love you,
Rolenda
Dr. Christopher Vincent
February 18, 2008
Our hearts go out to you and your family.
Scott and Karen Poltor
February 18, 2008
I was saddened to hear of your loss. No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. You are in my thoughts and prayers as I grieve with you.
Joyce Stevens
February 18, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Aalok was such an inspiration to his former classmates and to my daughter Christine Stevens. I looked forward to hearing her "Aalok" stories because they always made me smile. What an amazing person he was, he touched so many and how devastating that he was taken so soon. My heart goes out to you and his memories will live forever.
Catherine Chang
February 18, 2008
My deepest sympathies are with your family in this time of grieving. I will keep you in my thoughts and in my prayers.
Diane Schumacher
February 18, 2008
Dear Nina and Family,
I am so sorry about your loss. Even though I didn't know your son personally, I feel a tremendous loss because of my friendship with you. I did meet him once when he came into the office. I will keep you, your family and your son in my prayers. If there is anything you might need, please feel free to call me. Please let your whole family that I send my love to them at this time.
Aditya Desai
February 18, 2008
Aalok,
You were one of the finest people it has ever been my privilege to know. I always looked forward to seeing you, and talking about everything from politics, to college, to sports. You were not only an incredible mind you were an incredible person, who was so outgoing and friendly. You clearly had a love of life. I will miss you so much. You were more than a friend, you were a mentor and like a brother. You were always an inspiration for me, and you will be forever.
Love,
Aditya
Dr. Raj & Nita patel
February 18, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Sumita Desai
February 18, 2008
Aalok - you were with us for such a brief time, but have left such a large gap in our lives. You were a son any parent would be proud of, a loving brother, and a role model to so many. We will miss your gentle smile, your brilliant intellect, and your ability to reach out to others. We will keep you forever in our hearts.
Love,
Sumita Auntie and Premal Uncle.
Claudia Loysen
February 18, 2008
Nina & Shishir,
I cannot imagine your feelings at this time. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the coming months.
Aalok was a wonderful son and brother and will be missed. Memories of him will sustain you in the coming days.
Melissa Sladoje
February 18, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss. Words can never express my heartfelt sympathy. I was blessed to have spent time with Aalok when he volunteered his srvices at the Eastside Imaging Center. He was an inspirational young man to work with.
Staci Canterbury
February 18, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your Loss. You and your family are in my prayers. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you...... I love you Nina and we are all here for you...... May God grant you peace into your life.
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