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David J. Starner

1964 - 2021

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1964

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2021

David Starner Obituary

Starner, David J.
1964 - 2021
David John Starner, age 56, passed away Thursday, February 18, after an 11 year, courageous battle with ALS. Dave was preceded in death by his adored mother, Gretchen. He is survived by his loving wife, Laurie, of 27 years, and his father, William, who was so proud of Dave. He is also survived by his brothers, Steven, and Michael (Kiley) and nieces, Hailey and Zoey. In addition, his mother-in-law, Ruth, along with his brother-in-law, Scott (Fran), niece Lindsey, and nephews Adam and Nate. Dave leaves behind so many friends and family who meant the world to him - particularly his cousins from Miamisburg, Ohio and California, his concert going friends, and closest friends from Reynoldsburg High School in the class of 1983. Dave is best known for his keen intellect, his orneriness, his love for music (in particular Phish and the Grateful Dead), anything Ohio State, the Cincinnati Reds, and the entire state of California. At this time, there will not be a service; however, there is a tentative plan for a "celebration of life" sometime this summer. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to OSU Neuro Research and Dr. Stephen Kolb, or a go fund me to be announced in an effort to plant trees in Dave's name as he loved the outdoors and nature. The details of this will be released via Facebook.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Feb. 21 to Feb. 22, 2021.

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Jill Shaffer Rashdan

March 4, 2021

We have known our cousin David all our lives. From earliest memories, he was fearless and confident. We admired him for those qualities and for how bravely he fought his long battle ALS. We will cherish the many, many incredible memories. Our Love & most heart felt condolences to all of our Family in Reynoldsburg. Todd & Jill
" Like the Morning Sun You Come, and Like the Wind you Go"
Jerry Garcia

Shannon Kenney

March 2, 2021

Dave and I shared too many fun times together growing up to count!
Playing sports together and just hanging out....
Nobody made me laugh harder than Dave
The more time you spend on this planet the more you realize that life isn't always fair.....
Dave was taken to early
I will always remember Dave and the great times we had together and I know he will make me laugh again someday!!!

God Bless
Shannon Kenney

Sara

February 26, 2021

Dave was an exceptional human being. He was a bright spot in my day every time I saw him. Laurie, sending lots of love and condolences to you and your family. Love, Sara Watson (Barley’s)

Lisa Peper

February 23, 2021

Sending my deepest condolences! Dave was such a great guy with the biggest heart. I’m glad I got to call him a friend! I will always cherish our memories!

Bruce Albaugh

February 23, 2021

Dave was well liked and respected at Joe Jost's in Long Beach, CA. We had a FEW beers and discussed a FEW Dead shows. I'll miss you!

Barbara Neff

February 23, 2021

David will always be remembered as a GREAT man with a huge zest for life.
RIP, Dave! Barbara Neff

Sharon Letterle

February 23, 2021

Laurie and family,
Deepest sympathies on the loss of Dave.
While I never had the pleasure to meet Dave, it is absolutely apparent his courage and love for his family and friends was amazing. I am sure his beautiful legacy will live on in the hearts of many.
Sending you strength and peace at this time.
Keeping you in our prayers.
Sharon and Greg Letterle

Craig Reed

February 23, 2021

I grew up with the Starner’s in cobblestone.awesome memories he is going to be missed so much.rest in peace Dave till we meet again.

February 22, 2021

Lee Hoover

February 22, 2021

Dave was a great friend all throughout our school years and I have many great memories of us running around our neighborhood in elementary school and middle school. High school we grew apart but we would always say hi and smile . Dave you will be missed and you fought ALS with everything you have won a job well down . May God bless your Wife Laurie and your families in this time of loss. Dave thank you

Lee Hoover

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