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for Matthew Mattingly
Alice
May 27, 2025
My son's uncle David Ginn was flying an OH-58 Kiowa with Captain Mattingly when they took ground fire resulting in Captain Mattingly's untimely death. Dave spoke often and very highly of Captain Mattingly over the years and was never the same after September 13, 2006. We lost Dave February 2021 #22ADAY. I hope they are up there in the great beyond flying together again....never forgotten.
Jane kelly
February 13, 2025
Matthew. I will always remember our short time together in London. Both tourists - you from the states and me from Australia.
When we said goodbye you gave me a letter and in the letter you said the words "if anything ever happens to me .... "
Such a waste of a beautiful life.
Pointless.
rest in peace Matty,
Jane x Australia
Nate Hawk
May 29, 2023
Another Memorial Day is upon us. We think of you and cherish your memory. May you rest in eternal peace. Our hearts always go out to your family, we can only imagine your pain of a son lost way too son. AFO
Meredith
April 4, 2023
Think of you often, and not really sure why. We weren't close, but I had a lot of respect for you. You taught me about kindness.
Loraine Moffett
April 2, 2023
Matt, CSM and I were just talking about you. Thank you for all of the great laughs and mostly for mentoring John. Your impact on this world was great and those of us whom you impacted miss you greatly. Bob and Loraine Moffett
Aunt Paula
June 10, 2022
Hey Matt, I think of you often and fly my flag proudly in your honor memorial day, veterans day, July 4th and your bday. Love Aunt Paula
Sharon & Patrick McHugh
May 30, 2022
Memorial Day 2022....thinking of you today & always. Love you Matt.
Patrick and Sharon McHugh
September 13, 2021
We always love you and always miss you. We will never forget you.
Dan
March 26, 2021
Good memories from college today with you today. Miss you buddy.
September 12, 2019
Hi matty,
Thinking of you today , we are still here in oz, Darren back from France , we will have a beer tonight in your memory .
Missing you ,
Elaine and Darren
Marc Santos
May 27, 2019
Always remembered especially today. Flight school classmate most remembered for his light hearted approach to life and that huge smile. Rest In Peace Matt.
Aunt Paula Swider
March 9, 2019
10 years after his death I ran across this guest book wanted to tell my sister and nieces and nephews how much I love them . Matthew brought them to my mind and heart
Elaine O brien
September 13, 2018
Hi Marty , Darren's in France now thinking of you , I'm still here in Australia , still remembering our time together , rest in peace , my bubs x
Mitch Hutto
September 13, 2017
All the way, sir!
Elaine O Brien
September 12, 2017
Remembering you and the fun we had in Hawaii, miss you always , Elaine and Darren , Sydney Australia
Patrick McHugh
September 13, 2016
We will never forget. Patrick and Sharon McHugh.
Jim Bullard
May 27, 2015
Miss you my friend.
Tammy (Shidler) Layton
May 26, 2015
Thinking of you this Memorial Day, Matt.
Elaine & darren
September 14, 2014
Thinking of you Matty .
Michelle "Sissy"
September 13, 2014
I love and miss you dearly bubba!! I just wish we could go through this life together as we always did!!!
Elaine O Brien
March 1, 2014
Matty,
You are still in our thoughts and prayers and we miss your smiling face. Rest in peace
Dave Smith
January 27, 2014
You are in my prayers.
Charlie Gili
May 18, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and to also let the Mattingly Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Darren Deacon
October 20, 2012
Matt touched lives in more places than you might think...two friends were recollecting the fun we had with him in Sydney, Australia and the warmth and hospitality he showed us when we were in Hawaii catching up with him and his buddies....we lost touch and we devestated to hear why....RIP my friend and can I say again, the waves were 25 foot that day on the North Shore, I had a 6 foot board...didn't see you paddling out!! My (and Elaine's) respect family and friends.
Sam Sewell
Sam Sewell
March 6, 2012
I am sure this has some meaning but I am at a loss to explaian what that meaning might be. When I went to bed last night the name Matt Mattingly came into my mind abruptly and with vividness. I know no one by that name. Several times today the name kept reappearing in my mind. I decided to google the name and that is how aI came to this site. Of course, I add myprayers to those of others. However, I remain convinced that there is an important meaning to this event. I am a Navy vetern who is now a 71 year old Pastor who lives in Naples, Florida. If anyone can help connect the dots so that I can decypher the meaning of this please let me know at [email protected]
Peggy Childers
September 15, 2011
September 13, 2011
To the family and friends of Capt. Matthew C. Mattingly:
Please accept my remembrance of Matthew on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
John Spires
June 12, 2011
what a great friend he was.
Lisa Wood
March 4, 2011
Just read "The Long Walk Home." As someone who has ridden a horse across the country, I wanted to see if I could contact Matt to share some similar experiences. Sad to find I am too late. My best to his family and loved ones.
Lisa Wood
Author of "Mustang Journal"
(about the cross country horse ride)
Mitch Hutto
November 11, 2010
Thank you for your service and sacrafice, sir. Airborne!
ANDY BRUTUS
September 29, 2010
Yet another year has come and gone, but hard to forget the lives lost in far away land. This tribute is for the family and friends of Cpt. Mattingly who will never forget the void of a loved one killed in battle in far away land when everyone else has moved on with their life.
AIRBORNE!
I understand your pain, your lost and you are not alone. Cpt. Mattingly, and others have not been forgotten.
Peggy Childers
September 13, 2010
To the family and friends of Capt. Matthew C. Mattingly:
Remembering Matthew on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Jim Bullard
May 31, 2010
Matt,
Today I am thinking of you so much, my friend. Not that I do not think of you every day, but today is your day and I am missing you and so is the Army. RIP and continue to look down on your Army, for they are making you proud.
May 6, 2010
To Cpt Matt. We miss you!
Roughneck23
Christopher Price
February 6, 2010
Sir, I was behind you a year in school at RHS and I joined the Army to crew the very aircraft you flew. You have made the ultimate sacrifice for my family and I will never forget your name. What you have done in life will echo forever in time. Rest in Peace Cav Trooper.
Richard Luna
December 3, 2009
Hey Sir. Sgt Luna here just wanted to say can't stop thinking about the last time I talked to you in Kuwait. When you told me you had your command of a Troop and how you were going to get married when the deployment was over. I still remember the football games in Hood and the barbecues in Hawaii. Well sir hope you open the gates for me when I get there. Sgt Luna Alpha Company Renegades 1-25 Avn Hawaii. Cya later Renegade 26 Acft 94-00156.
Andy Brutus
November 13, 2009
Happy Veterans day. I cannot believe it has been 3 years already. It seemed like the other day when we, E- Troop, were all informed of your passing. I really never knew you personally, but I have came in contact with you several times as well as refueling your OH-58 several times during my last deployment 06-07. A lost of a trooper in uniform is the lost for us all who wear the uniform. You have not been forgotten. My sympathy to your family and friends.
CW4 Richard Finlan
November 11, 2009
CPT. Matt, I miss you so much. You were the last person I ever Flew with. I rememnber you asking me after the flight if I wanted you to get the -12, and I said no I will get it later. How I wish I would have let you get it. I remember us running the tower at range 68/69, those were some great times. I know you are in a better place now and we will see you again. Love Ya Brother.
SP4 Nilburn Stepp
November 11, 2009
Happy Veterans Day Matthew and Family
September 16, 2009
Missing you Fatty AV! We'll have a few toasts to you this weekend. Livin' the 4th - just like you did! Cheers -
Peggy Childers
September 13, 2009
To the family of Capt. Matthew C. Mattingly:
Matthew gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
CW3 William Crews
September 13, 2009
Wow, I can not believe it has been 3yrs. Still think about him often. Miss you Boss.
Jim Bullard
September 4, 2009
Matt was an awesome Soldiers with great leadership skills. He loved his Soldiers and he loved his Country. He died doing what he loved to do. I am so proud to say that I am proud to have been his 1SG in Hawaii, and I have and never will forget the Soldier that was always their when needed. Matt, rest in peace my fellow Soldier, you are well taken care of now.
MSG Murphy
July 24, 2009
I was recently the Senior Military Instructor at Xavier University, where Matt was commissioned. I am writing to let all know that we installed an absoutely beautiful tribute monument for Matt just outside of St Barbara Hall at Xavier. Here is a link.
http://www.xavier.edu/newswire/editions/081112/
MSG Murphy
Kenna Larra
March 19, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Matt Phillips
February 19, 2009
I was in Mosul the day that Matt was shot down. I was stationed on the north side of the city and was on a convoy that same day that he was hit. My mom told me a couple of days later that he was killed. I played football with Matt at Reynoldsburg HS. He was a senior when i was a freshman but distinctly remember him. Sleep well warrior. God be with you.
CW3 William Crews
February 13, 2009
I was in Matts Troop in Iraq when he was Killed. I think about him and miss him on a daily basis. He was a great man, a great Commander and a good friend. My prayers still go out to his family. We miss you coach, see you on the green!!
Ken Kelley
January 7, 2009
GOD Bless and watch over MATT and those before him that have given their lives so that WE can live in land of peace/freedom. And to watch over those currently servicing this Great Nation....... Chief Kelley, USN(ret) ... RHS'79
Dave Foley
November 14, 2008
Our family was depply saddened today to hear of this event from 2 years ago. I met Matt my freshman year on the intramural football field. As a "newcomer" to the league, Matt and the ROTC guys quickly showed us the ropes and how this league was played. This was back when the fields were up by the train tracks. Having spent hours everyday in the gym, I got to know Matt on somewhat of a closer level. I am not sure if he would remember me, but he made an impact on me and I will not forget him. I offer my sympathy to his family and close friends. Rest In Peace Fallen Musketeer.
You are a true HERO.
Michael Brisendine
November 3, 2008
I was Matt's roomate at XU our freshman year in 1994. Matt always had me laughing with his antics; but, I also got to see his serious, intelligent and passionate side which continued to mature after college. I keep his obituary on my desk as a reminder of such a costly price and how close the war has hit home. I once read that 'Honor is the prescence of God in man'. Matt lived a rich life under that quote. Thanks for your sacrifice, man.
Rox Ann (Pitzo) & William Sullivan (Sully)
November 3, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. We knew Matt from XU ROTC. It was an honor to have known Matt. May God be with you.
JAmes
September 15, 2008
2 years and it is still hard to remember that day without a tear. You were a great leader and a great pilot. My prayers contine for your family everyday....All the Way Sir.
In Memory of Matthew ~ (Debra Estep)
Debra Estep (Aleandri)
September 13, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Matthew, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
.
John Moffett
September 1, 2008
I attend the United States Militarty Academy and was doing an assignment where i had to make a time line of events that have shaped my life. I started writing about one night when my mother called me and asked me to sit down. It was the night i was told matt was killed.
I knew Matt through my father. My dad introduced me to him and I started mowing Matts lawn for him every saturday for a couple of months. I never really mowed his lawn becuase before i could finish matt would always throw a basketball at me and we would play for hours after that. Matt became a mentor of mine, and he inspired me to go after a west point or ROTC scholarship. He even sat down and helped me fill out my registration forms.
I didn't know matt very long, but his life influenced mine greatly. To those who knew him well and loved him I pray that you all know that his good deeds are still evident today. I will never forget him and send my love to his family.
(SGT) Adalbert Lavature
August 29, 2008
To the family of Capt. Matthew Mattingly as I would like you to know that I often think about Capt. Matt. I served with him in Iraq with E troop 1/17th Cav. Though I didn't know him as well as I would have liked to we did engage in conversation and he at all times was the most respectful and professional of soldiers and leader. I know that he touched alot of lives within the Squadron. I pray that the good lord allows your family to find peace and I know matt is looking over you all. God Bless you all.
Former Buffalo Soldier
July 31, 2008
I miss you brother and wish you were here. You were always a good friend and one of the best soldiers I knew.
To the Mattingly family - God bless you all. I'm sorry for your loss.
Robert And Julie Conkel
July 4, 2008
Thanks buddy. It's hard to believe it was so many years ago when your court would block of the entrance, grill out, shoot hoops, and swim. We miss you. Your sacrifice will always be remembered.
Dawn Campbell
June 8, 2008
My husband, Tim, & I went to school with Matt. I personally have known Matt since elementary school. It was such a shock & smack in the face when we heard of Matt's passing. He will forever be remembered in our hearts & our prayers!
June 4, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Capt Mattingly!
Reunion in Iraq. (Jan. 2004)
April 27, 2008
Eric Baden
April 27, 2008
To the family and friends of Matt,
I first met Matt during XU freshman orientation. Before even knowing who he was he was already asking about Ranger Challenge, Pershing Rifles and Airborne School. Based on that initial impression I immediately knew that he was destined to lead.
I knew Matt for 3 years at XU as I was one year his senior. What always impressed me about Matt was his resilience and determination. Nothing was beyond his reach. He struggled with chemistry but willed himself to success. He maximized his awkward running style and became a PT stud. He dedicated himself his freshman year to get selected for Airborne school. He did himself one better by completing both Airborne and Air Assault school in one summer, a feat that is rarely, if ever, accomplished. His singular goal upon graduation was to go Aviation and of course he succeeded.
Not even the restrains of mortality could hold Matt from reaching his ultimate destiny of being among the Angles above us. I only wish he hadn’t overachieved and done it so quickly. He has transcended life and moved onto even greater things. Though he is no longer with us in the physical sense he continues to influence me and many others who got to know him. The 22 pages of personal testimonies are a reflection of just how many lives he has touched.
Your friend for life in this one and beyond. -Eric
April 25, 2008
Live the fourth my friend!
Laura Kirk
January 16, 2008
Randi, Denny, Barb, Sissy & Keth,
Don't know why, but I've been thinking of Matt today. I recently came across a picture of him, Kolby & Brandon at a Pack meeting with Santa. We feel blessed to have had him in our lives
September 18, 2007
It has been a year my friend and you have come to mind on many occasions. We still talk and laugh about the old times at XU and all the fun we had. Although it was a love hate relationship...you know deep down you were like a big brother. We all miss you deeply and had a special toast for you on the day our great Savior took you from us to a greater place..Fiddlers Green. xo
Monty Vizcaya
September 13, 2007
This is a hard one..I miss Matt, from being my first platoon leader, going through numerous excercises from Fort Hood, to having a great time in Hawaii, convincing me that a Jeep was great to have, trusting me enough to let me hold his new truck during his first Iraq deployment, the many football arguments..so many other memories. A great officer, a great friend, and an upstanding Ohio fan. Brother we had some great flying times together. Well after finishing this Korea tour, headed back to Iraq for my 3rd trip...See you on Fiddlers Green Bro.
Mandy, Brandon, Ethan & Aidan Hasson
September 13, 2007
Randi,
Oh how time has come and gone so quickly. It has now been a year, and Matt's name still comes up in conversation weekly around our house. The boys never knew him, but the way they talk you would think they would of known him forever. Ethan loves telling the kids at school about the peanut butter and pickle sandwichs, which Aidan and him eat weekly. Matt has touched our lives in a way that is hard to express, but it has been an honor to have known him. We are thinking of you and we will be in touch.
Betty Nielsen
September 6, 2007
To the family of Captain Mttingly I hope your receive your quilt soon I made sure both prents received a quilt to honor your son. It's not easy what either one of you are going throuh but I hope that you will alway remember that this country does care. It doesn't matter how far what matter is that we can and will not forget our hero nor their families. Thank you both for giving this country the best of the best. My you know that this country is truly proud of your son and his parents. We shall never forget so thank you for the hero that you gave this country and God bless. If you need to get a hold of me my email is [email protected] and my website is www.freeomquilts.net
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 31, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Capt Mattingly and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! It is especially sad to lose a fellow member of the Buckeye state. May God bless all of you!!
July 3, 2007
Im a friend of a friend and would like to extend my condolences. I am sorry for your loss. The beautiful thing is that he did it all his way and truley lived. Well done...
Anand Nilakantan
June 28, 2007
Randi, Denny, Michelle, and Alicia:
Alicia, you most likely do not know me, but Randi, Denny, and Michelle may remember me, Anand, as one of Matt's close childhood friends. I would like to use this space to convey my deepest condolences and deep regret regarding Matt's passing.
I obviously knew Matt in a different age and time when we were both very innocent adolescents enjoying every aspect of our lives in Reynoldsburg. I always remember Matt as a fun-loving, inquisitive, and respectful person that enjoyed life to its fullest measure. I truly feel for your loss.
That being said, Matt seems to have made a very palpable difference in this world, particularly in our lives as Americans. It is a very difficult, and sometimes tortuous, battle we are engaged in in the Middle East, but it can be safely said that we wouldn't be enjoying any measure of the benefits we possess each and every day in the U.S. if it were not for brave warriors such as Matt fighting on our behalf.
May he rest in peace, and Denny, Randi, Michelle, and/or Alicia, please feel free to contact me at any time.
Renee Tobe (Hubbard)
May 31, 2007
I knew Matt in High School. I am truly sorry. My thought and prayers are with the Family and Friends.
SSG. Elvir
May 31, 2007
I just want to say that I didnt personally know Cpt. Mattingly since I was a late deployer but I want to say that everyone talked highly of him and that I am sure if I knew him I would have liked him. My heart goes out to his family and I pray Gods blessings on all of you.
Jodi Burbidge (Hall)
May 30, 2007
I went to school with Matt at Reynoldsburg. My thoughts are with the family and friends who have to deal with this loss daily. He was a hero when he was alive and he is an angel now as well as a hero in heaven. God Bless x
Christopher Dake
May 29, 2007
Dear Mattingly Family-
My thoughts and prayers go out to you for your loss. I knew Matt playing little league in Reynoldsburg, then years later at Xavier. He was always a great guy and an example of what it means to serve. He will be missed, but never forgotten.
Gary Kowaleski
May 28, 2007
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Greg Landwehr
April 25, 2007
I was Matt's Manresa leader at Xavier. He had such a wonderful spirit about him. I am glad I got to know him over my last two years at Xavier. I am proud to say I know someone who died for our country. I just wish it wasn't him. He will greatly be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to Matt and his family. God Bless.
Emil Reyes
April 24, 2007
I had the honor of knowing Matt in college when I was a senior in ROTC and he was a freshman. I remember him as a stand out who earned respect as well as friends. I am truly sadened by your loss.
Gary Doak
April 14, 2007
For the Mattingly family,
I am embarrassed to only now learn of CPT Mattingly's passing. I'm a Blackhawk guy and Matt and I worked together in Bosnia for COL Ball when I was in the 25th. He was one of our "Battle Captains." I really enjoyed his company there. He was full of humor and really great at picking out the truly important issues that had to be dealt with and pacifying those whose "top priority" tasks could be shelved for a while. He served his country well and will always be remembered as a Great American!
Glen
February 2, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Danny Kambel
January 28, 2007
Friends and Family of Matt:
I went to high school with Matt at Reynoldsburg from 1991-1994 and lost touch with him shortly after high school. I was sadenned to read the news about his passing when I discovered it when fellow classmate Brandon Hasson has proposed a memorial to Matt and his fellow fallen soldiers at our high school. I was fortunate that throughout our times together Matt was a friend to me. I extend my sympathies to his family, friends and those that he has touched.
Danny Kambel
January 28, 2007
Friends and Family of Matt Mattingly: I had the privilege of going to high school with Matt. He was a friend and a leader to me - 12 years ago. I am saddened to hear this news and unfortunately, I didn't hear about this until reading about how our classmate Brandon Hasson wants to remember Matt and many of our soldiers.
SSG Belcher
January 4, 2007
CPT Mattingly is a Leader, Soldier, Paratrooper, who I dearly miss.
Capt R.C. DeJesus - USAF
December 17, 2006
What I remember the most about Matt aka "Fatty" from my years at Xavier is how funny and full of life he is. Matt and I would always share a good joke when we'd see each other during the parties attended off-campus. Of course, his jokes seemed to deliver the better punchlines just because he has always been good with people (and to people.)
While he was in Hawaii, he and I exchanged a few e-mails as he was going through some tough challenges. But since that time, we have lost touch. It is only today that I found out of his passing after running into another XU ROTC Alumni at the chapel here at Ramstein Air Base, Germany.
To the Mattingly family and all those who are close to Matt and were touched deeply by him - my sincere condolences. When you hear someone say, "He was a good man," it is often difficult to summarize what "good" means. But for Matt, I can only think of the best qualities one can find in someone who loved what he did and took satisfaction in a job well done. His ability to positively touch the lives of many around him is a testament of the greatness in his character.
Matt,
I was really looking forward to running into you at some future XU alumni function. Heck, you're one of the few rotorheads that I wanted to share some great flying stories with. I still think our C-130s can outmaneuver your helo's ... but we'll save that for a future discussion.
Since I know you didn't normally fly at the altitude you're flying right now, don't forget to transition your altimiter to 29.92 when you get past FL180. Not sure what you do once you get above that Class A airspace, but I'm confident ATC will give you a good frequency.
I'm cool with the raincheck, but when we do hook up again, I look forward to seeing you liven up that function and turn it into a true party! By the way, do they have any Dip up there? Lemme know if you need me to bring a couple of logs up there for ya - I'm sure they'll work better up at that altitude.
Cheers!
kathleen brown
December 14, 2006
I return, for an unexpected 2nd trip to sign the guestbook. I am typing w/my left hand, am nt that great at it yet. met Matt at Ft. Bragg right before he and Alicia re-met and took a step forward in life together. he has the most amazing stories of his life tht wanted to remind his fiance and parents,sister, are still so strong. I was joyfully married in October, and made certain to have his pic on our honor table. As my life just hit the greatest plkace I'd known, A few weeks ago I was attacked by a dog while running, and shattered my r wrist. I am getting better most days, and have a plate and scres in my wrist that i use y memory of what matt went through to relearn yhat which i took for granted. I thank you all for keeping on, and know that his spirit is so strong, and everpresent--even for those who didn't ge to know him all that well. thank u and bless you
Jane Salvage
November 29, 2006
Alicia and the Mattingly family,
I am devastated to hear of Matthews passing. We first met about 5 years ago in a Sydney hospital when I nursed him and his broken arm. He was always so caring and thoughtful and passionate about life. We met again a year or so later in London which was a very special time. We visited the tower of london and Buckingham palace and spent a lot of time mocking each others accents.
I will never forget it.
sending love and sympathies to you all.
Goodbye Matty, love Jane
Sydney, AUSTRALIA
Mardi Pyott
November 6, 2006
To the family of Captain Mattingly,
I did not know your son. My brother and his wife spoke very highly of him and said he was a fine man and a great soldier. I am very sorry for your loss. When I learned of his death, my heart went out to you. I had wanted all of them to come home safe and sound.
Amy Marie Stevens
October 28, 2006
I just wanted to say, I saw your son, brother, fiancee on Nancy Grace's show this evening and I was struck by how much he looked like my own brother who just returned home from Iraq and is stationed in Fort Bragg. Losing Matthew is all of our pain, all of our heart's pride. You are in my thoughts tonight, and I want to thank you for your son and what a true man and inspiration he is to my family.
Mike Hellams, MD
October 19, 2006
A typed message seems so impersonal and inadequate when trying to express condolences for your great loss. From reading these messages, it is readily apparent what a great leader, aviator, friend, and man your Matt was. I grieve for you and for Matt, not only because of his sacrifice for those like me that didn't even know him, or for all those great things he was, but moreover for what he would one-day become and all the special things he was destined to do in his life. 1/17th CAV pilots have always been something special. Just reading these messages lets me know Matt was a very special man. Having been a pilot in B and C Troop of the 1/17th Cav 20 years ago, I have seen first hand what special people such men are, and moreover what great potential CAV pilots have and what they can become. Love each other and don't let Matt be forgotten. (ex-CPT, but always CAV)
Ben Smith
October 16, 2006
I am so sorry for the Mattingly families loss. I did not have the pleasure to know Matthew, but it is obvious that he was an amazing individual. Our country is made greater by men such as Matthew whose dedication, honor, and service inspire so many, and protect us all. Our family has never met you Matthew, but we all love you. May God bring peace to your families aching hearts. My prayers are for you all. May God Bless you.
Brennan Hill
October 11, 2006
Please accept my deepest condolences. I met Matt my freshman year at Xavier and he was a stand-up guy. He was upbeat and full of life. His courageous acts will never be forgotten.
Brennan
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
October 10, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Mattingly family in the loss of Matthew. I did not know Matthew, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Matthew you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Rachael Roeder
October 10, 2006
Alicia and Mattingly Family
Please accept my sincere condolences over the loss of beloved Matt. I had the privilege of meeting Alicia at a training a couple of years ago. Although I never had the opportunity to meet Matt, Alicia spoke so very highly of him I feel as if I knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Alicia, and your extended family, the Mattinglys.
Ryan Foor
October 9, 2006
Dear Mattingly Family,
I can not imagine the pain you must be going through with the passing of your son. I knew Matt well in HS as we played football together. Matt played left guard and I played left tackle and together we made a great tandem on the O-line for Reynoldsburg in 1993. I will never forget the times spent with Matt, as we would formulate gameplans to be a more effective line. He was a senior leader and it did not surprise me to learn as the years rolled on that he had gone on to be a leader in the U.S. army, the greatest team of all. Matt always brought a smile to my face, and I am still in shock about the news. I will always remember Matt as being a great person and true champion. Your son always made an impact on the lives of those he knew, and Im very proud to say that I knew Matthew C. Mattingly.
Zulma Adorno
October 9, 2006
My deepest condolences to the parents and fiance of Capt. Mattingly.
I met your son on august 22, at Fort Bragg before deploying. My son was also deploying that day under Capt. Mattingly's command. He was so kind to me in reassuring me that he would watch over him. My son was very saddened by his tragic death and still speaks of him with deep respect. I am very happy to have had the opportunity to meet your son.
Jesus said there would be a resurrection both of righteous and unrighteous. We have the assured expectation of one day, in the near future, being able to embrace our dear loved ones once again.
Jehovah will remember Matthew in that great day.
SSG Roy Belcher and SGT Jocelyn Belcher
October 8, 2006
Mrs. Mattingly,
Both me and my husband are keeping you and your family in our hearts. Cpt. Mattingly was a great leader and a good person. He was one of the leaders in Brigade that Roy and I looked up to a lot.
Susan Storer
October 5, 2006
My sympathy to all of those who knew and loved Matt. I had the honor of meeting him when he was in the ROTC at XU with my son, Jeff Brown. He has made the greatest sacrifice one can make for his country. I pray that your memories of him will bring smiles to you in the future and hope that knowing so many care and pray for you will help you in your grief.
LTJG Christon Duhon
October 4, 2006
My sincere condolences to Alecia and the Mattingly Family. I pray Matt's kindness, courage and love will continue to live on through all who loved him.
With great respect,
Connor Fitzpatrick
October 4, 2006
To Matt's family,
I went to Xavier with Matt and he always seemed to be a larger then life person. I was deeply saddend to hear about your lose. You will be in my prayers. His sacrifice will not be forgotten.
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