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Thomas Tykodi

1929 - 2019

Thomas Tykodi obituary, 1929-2019, St. Albans Township, OH

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Thomas Tykodi Obituary

Tykodi, Thomas
1929 - 2019
Thomas Theodore Tykodi, age 89, was born November 24, 1929, in Cleveland, Ohio and passed away Sunday, September 22, 2019, in St. Albans Township, Ohio from congestive heart failure. Tom was born into a strong Byzantine Catholic Hungarian family. He graduated from Maple Heights High School in 1947 (National Honor Society) and from Ohio University in 1951 with a B.S. in Education with a major in mathematics and minors in science and English. He served in the U.S. Air Force during the Korean War, 1951-1953. He returned to Columbus and completed a Master of Education in Mathematics from the Ohio State University in 1956. It was there that he met the love of his life and future wife, Martha Ann Nichols, in a class for mathematics teachers. They lived most of their lives on the Nichols family farm in Harrison Township, Licking County, Ohio. He spent his career teaching mathematics at Whitehall Yearling and Bexley High Schools and was involved with numerous education-related activities including local, state and national education associations, Councils of Teachers of Mathematics and Phi Kappa Delta (a Teacher's organization). Class advisor, National Honor Society Advisor, Student-Faculty Council and Mathematics Department Chairman were among his many career titles. He retired from teaching in 1989 but never retired from his passion for education. Over the years, he had been heavily involved in the community through the Pataskala Presbyterian Church (Deacon, Elder, and Youth Fellowship Advisor), the Pataskala Library Board of Trustees, the Pataskala City Council, member of church choirs and the Golden Clefs, a senior citizen choir. He was one of the Grand Marshals of the Pataskala Street Fair in 2004. In his retirement years, he and his wife, Martha, became charter members of the West Licking Historical Society in which he remained active until his death. Through this affiliation, he helped with the publications of People Make a Difference (1976) and Preservation 2000 and became a co-owner of the Mead-Needham Museum. He had several long-time hobbies that included photography and travel. Through camping, RV-ing, and flying, Tom has visited all 50 states, all but two of the Canadian Provinces and 5 of 7 continents. Tom is preceded in death by his parents John and Mary (Vojtko) Tykodi, brothers Ralph Tykodi and Jack Tykodi, brothers-in-law Gerald Nemeth and Robert Fairall, and his son Thomas L. Tykodi. He is survived by his wife of 64 years, Martha Ann (Nichols) Tykodi; sister, Loretta (Tykodi) Nemeth; daughters, Tammy (Matt) Seifert and Teri (Mark) Berliner; daughter-in-law, Debbie (Webber) Tykodi; sisters-in-law, Lois Tykodi and Mary Lou Fairall; grandchildren, Reid (Brittany) Seifert, Jill Seifert, and Becky (Tykodi) Wisma; great grandchildren, Reid Seifert Jr., Roen Seifert and Elliana Wisma; many nieces, nephews and cousins. Above all, Tom (a.k.a. Dad, Grandpa, Greatpa and Uncle Tom) was a family man. He never missed an opportunity to spend time with his siblings, children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, nephews, etc. and was the host of many Tykodi family reunions that included slide show "pictures on the wall." His uncanny wit, puns, puzzles and jokes will be dearly missed by all, especially his grandchildren. His philosophy of life was simple but powerful: Handle the present the best you possibly can, and the future will take care of itself. His passing leaves a giant hole in the Tykodi and extended families, the Pataskala Community and the world itself. Visitation and the sharing of memories will be 4-8 p.m. Friday, September 27, at the Kauber-Fraley Funeral Home, located at 289 S. Main St., Pataskala, Ohio 43062. A private graveside funeral service will be held for the family at the Pataskala Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be sent to the American Heart Association, the American Cancer Society, the Mead-Needham Museum (4300 York Rd. SW, Pataskala, Ohio 43062) or the National Spinal Cord Injury Association.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Sep. 24 to Sep. 27, 2019.

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Rickie Kay & Dale Longfellow

October 3, 2019

Martha & Family,
Dale and I just found out about Tom's passing. We are both very saddened. Tom was so loved by everyone who knew him. (And you) Sending you our love and prayers.

September 28, 2019

I was sorry to read of your loss and wanted to offer my condolences to you and your family. I hope you will find the needed comfort and prayer during this difficult time.

Harry &Pat Gardner's

September 28, 2019

I thought that Tom livedi life to the fullest and treated everyone with respect and dignity. A person I always respected and admired. He will be sorely missed.

Tom Schindler

September 28, 2019

Tom was a Prince among us..

September 27, 2019

Many great memories from our friendship!
Charlie & Millie McClay

September 26, 2019

"Now grant rest, O Lord, to the soul of your departed servant, Thomas, in a place of light, joy and peace where there is no pain, sorrow, nor mourning . . ." - from the Byzantine Catholic Memorial Service for the Faithful Departed.

The world is a little less bright without you in it, but heaven has gained more radience!

Love,
Lory

September 26, 2019

Karen Porta let me know of Mr. Tykodi's passing. The following is an excerpt of my reply to her:

As I look back on high school now through many years I still recall some faculty I remember with special fondness for their kindness and for their seeing more in me than I was able to see at the time. Mr. Tykodi was one of them who beyond his native kindness handed me challenging problems in algebra II and later found a way for me to learn calculus even though it was not taught and he didn't feel up to teaching it. I recall your saying he was having health problems, and am reminded of a line from Dylan Thomas, " ...When like a running grave time tracks you down" that none of us escape our mortality. He lived a long life; I like to think his kindness and humanity bespoke an inner peace that made his long life a joyful one. May he rest in peace.

September 26, 2019

Karen Porta let me know Of Mr. Tykodi's passing. What follows is an excerpt of my reply to her:

As I look back on high school now through many years I still recall some faculty I remember with special fondness for their kindness and for their seeing more in me than I was able to see at the time. Mr. Tykodi was one of them who beyond his native kindness handed me challenging problems in algebra II and later found a way for me to learn calculus even though it was not taught and he didn't feel up to teaching it. I recall your saying he was having health problems, and am reminded of a line from Dylan Thomas, " ...When like a running grave time tracks you down" that none of us escape our mortality. He lived a long life; I like to think his kindness and humanity bespoke an inner peace that made his long life a joyful one. May he rest in peace.

-John Mercer
Biology and Physics
Duke University

VIC HURST

September 26, 2019

YOU WILL BE MISSED BY MYSELF AND THE CLASS OF 1963 WYHS

Robert Angell

September 26, 2019

Remembering a man well loved and a life well lived. Condolences, love and prayers to my favorite math teacher and all of her family.

Bob&Tamara Ries

September 26, 2019

A great teacher, was so good to see him at the class reunion in August 2018. Bob and l are sending our thoughts and prayers to you and your family, we have a lot memories at Whitehall, I remember when the girls all got together and gave you, I believe a high chair or a playpen for your first child. God Bless!

Mike & Nancy Wood

September 26, 2019

He was the best teacher I had while attending Bexley back in the early/mid 70's. He will be missed. We are diminished by his loss.

Bob & Kay Wallace

September 26, 2019

Martha & family-
It was truly an honor and pleasure to have known and worked with Tom. He was an excellent teacher and a real gentleman.His is truly a life to celebrate. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of loss.

Bob & Kay Wallace

American Heart Association

September 25, 2019

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always

John Salisbury

September 25, 2019

I taught math with Tom for several years at Whitehall-Yearling High School. Although I had been teaching 10 years when Tom came back to Whitehall from Bexley, I always considered him a mentor. He was always willing to offer me help and support and he got me through some rough times. He always had a positive attitude. Tom was known among the staff as a true gentleman. The world is a better place for having been blessed with Tom!

September 25, 2019

Great teacher Janet Adams rhoades class of 1959

Melaniie Webb

September 25, 2019

Sorry for your loss he will always be in are thoughts.❤

Helen Frazer

September 25, 2019

I will miss that wonderful smile every time I saw him. He will surely be missed.

September 25, 2019

I was in Mr. Tykodi's 9th period algebra class when word came that President Kennedy had been killed. Mr. T was a very nice and fair teacher. Math was a very difficult subject for me and I just didn't get it. He graciously passed me with a D and suggested that if I did not plan on going to college that I not take any more math. May your memories be a comfort to you. Sincerely, Connie Cobb Ambos 67

Sharon Campbell

September 25, 2019

The man who inspired my love of math. God bless you and your family.

September 25, 2019

I have so many good memories of Tom. I only taught with him for 3 years, but in that short time I learned so much from him. I will always remember his smile. My thoughts and prayers are with all of him friends and family during this difficult time, but his love and wisdom lives on in all the lives he touched.
JoAnn Kauffman

Robert Adams

September 24, 2019

I was a Math major at WYHS and Mr. Tykodi was my teacher many of those classes . We gained a special bond from all the classes but then he had that effect on everyone he had in every class . He went to our reunions and eas always a delight to see . He is my best and favorite teacher .

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