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JOAN N MURPHY
March 5, 2025
Barbara, Happy Heavenly 82nd Birthday!! Sending Love and Praying for the Family as they continue cherishing Your Beautiful Memories. Blessings,
Comfort and Peace.
Always,
Joan Marie
Aristide Collins
February 28, 2025
Hi MeMe.
Happy Birthday. My thoughts are about you. I'm very sorrowful you are not here. I'm very happy to be here comfortable safe. A great environment. Enjoying the life. I love you I miss you. I gave you all the Love I had. See Ya!!!!!!!
Love You" Harry"
Willie C. LeBeau Jr
September 18, 2024
Barbara, I miss yu so much at this stage of my life because there is so much I could talk to you about that only you would understand. I love you and miss you.
willie Charles
Aristide Collins
September 16, 2024
Hey MeMe. Love you, miss you so very much.
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Joan N Murphy
August 27, 2024
Cuz, "Memories Keep Our Loved Ones Close"!! This is so true because I often think back to our childhood and the many fun times we had. As we get older that long term memories come back so fast. Continuing to remember the good times.!!
Love,
Joan Marie
Aristide James Collins, Jr.
March 2, 2024
Mama, your 81st birthday! Miss you, love you. So much has happened since you have been gone. Thinking of you always. Love Aristide
AR[STIDE J. COLLINS Sr
March 1, 2024
Hihi. MeMe.
Happy Birthday. I miss you ,talk about all the time. I Love you. Thank you for watching over me. Doing good.
Love you, Harry
JOAN MURPHY
August 29, 2023
Hey Cuz, As you celebrate your 20th Heavenly Homegoing may you continue
to be happy and at peace in God's Presence and Everlasting Light!
Love,
Joan Marie
Aristide Collins
August 27, 2023
Mama, I can´t believe it has been 20 years today since you joined the choir of God´s angels. So much has happened since you have been gone. I think about you everyday... what would you say, what would you think? I miss you and love you. Love Aristide
Aristide J Colins Sr
August 26, 2023
Hi, MeMe.
Love you , Miss you. Iam doing well. Love you.
Aristide J. COLLINS Sr
June 5, 2023
Hey ,miss you.
Aristide J. COLLINS Sr
May 14, 2023
Happy Mother's Day. Love you.
ARISTIDE J COLLINS
March 1, 2023
Hey, MeMe.
Miss you. Love you. Thank you , for watching over me . As you know I was not in the best of health. Happy Birthday. Love you.
Aristide J. COLLINS Sr
August 27, 2022
Hey, MeMe. Miss you, Love You are in Glory.
Love you.
"Harry"
Joan N Murphy
March 1, 2021
Hey Cuz,
Dropping by to wish you a Happy Heavenly Birthday! I continue to
reflect on the happy times we've spent together. I love you and miss
you Cuz. Continue to RIP until we meet again.
Love,
Joan Marie
Joan N Murphy
August 29, 2020
Hey Cuz,
Thinking of you on the Anniversary of your "Homegoing"! Time flies
but cherished memories remain.
Love,
Joan Marie
Aristide Collins
August 28, 2020
Mama:
Always thinking of you and missing you.
Love Aristide
ARISTIDE COLLINS
August 27, 2020
Hey, MeMe.
Love you Miss You.17 years,
Much Love to you.
'Harry'
March 2, 2020
Happy Birthday Fat. Always in my heart.
Willie
Aristide Collins, Jr.
March 2, 2020
Mama:
Thinking of you on your birthday and always! Love you and miss you!
Love Aristide
ARISTIDE.J. COLLINS
March 1, 2020
Hy, MeMe. I love you, miss you. Thank you, for caring for me. Love 'Harry'
Joan Murphy
August 29, 2019
Dear Cuz,
Happy Heavenly Anniversary! Remembering you on the
16th anniversary of your "Homegoing"! Time flies, but
special memories remain.
Love,
Joan Marie
Aristide Collins
August 28, 2019
Mama:
Always thinking of you. It has been 16 years. So much has changed without you. Love you and miss you.
Aristide
ARISTIDE.J. COLLINS
August 27, 2019
Hey, MeMe. I Love You, and Miss You.
Love, Harry.
March 1, 2019
DEAR CUZ,
JUST DROPPING BY TO WISH YOU A HAPPY HEAVENLY
BIRTHDAY! WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH!!
UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN...........
JOAN MARIE
Aristide Collins
March 1, 2019
Happy Birthday, Mama! Thinking of you always. Miss you and love you. Can't believe I will be 50 in a couple of weeks. Wish I could get your advice on so much.
ARISTIDE COLLINS
March 1, 2019
Hey, MeMe. Your Birthday,and Carnival time. Love you, miss you.Thank you for helping me. Love "Harry"
Joan Murphy
August 27, 2018
MY DEAR CUZ,
Remembering YOU on THE ANNIVERSARY OF YOUR
"HOMEGOING" and THANKING GOD For YOUR LIFE And
for the MANY BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES YOU have left for us
to CHERISH!!
Love YOU,
Joan Marie
ARISTIDE.J. COLLINS Sr
August 27, 2018
HEY, MeMe. Love you, Miss you.Thank you. LOVE "HARRY".
Joan Murphy
March 6, 2018
Hey Cuz,
So sorry I'm late signing in to wish you a HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY!!! As the saying goes better late than never. Just couldn't let another day go by without letting you know that
you will always hold a special place in my heart!
Love You and Miss You Cuz,
Joan Marie
Aristide Collins
March 3, 2018
Happy Birthday Mama! Celebrating your 75th Birthday. Miss you and love you! Aristide
ARISTIDE.J. COLLINS
March 1, 2018
Hey, MEME. Love you and Miss you.God Loves you and Me. Love "HARRY"
Joan Murphy
August 27, 2017
Barbara,
I'm continuing to treasure beautiful memories of you.
Love you and Miss you!!
Joan Marie
Aristide Collins
August 27, 2017
Mama,
Today marks fourteen years since you joined God and the Angels in Heaven. We miss you and think of you always. Love you. Aristide
ARISTIDE J. COLLINS Sr
August 26, 2017
Hey, MeMe. Miss You, Love You.We doing well. Love 'Harry'.
Joan Murphy
March 2, 2017
Happy Birthday Cuz,
Beautiful Memories of You still remain with me. Love you and Miss You.
Joan Marie
Aristide Collins, Jr.
March 2, 2017
Mama,
I love you and miss you!
Aristide
March 1, 2017
HI, MeMe.
Thank you for watching over me.I'am better.
Love You.
'Harry'
March 1, 2017
Willie LeBeau Jr
Anitra - Mama's Baby
December 20, 2016
Hi Mama! I miss you sooooo much! I still don't understand why you were taken from us so soon. I know God has a plan for all of us, and I will see you again. You come to me in my dreams most every night, so I know you are still with me. I do wake up disappointed, as I know it's just a dream and you are not here-but I treasure every minute of my memories of you. I hope I am making you proud. I know Nia is. We love and miss you dearly!
JOAN MURPHY
August 28, 2016
CUZ,
A LOT OF PEOPLE LOVE YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY!!!
MISS YOU, LOVE YOU
JOAN MARIE
ARISTIDE.J. COLLINS Sr
August 27, 2016
Hey, MeMe.
Laughter has great face value.Love you Miss you
Love
"Harry"
Joan Murphy
March 2, 2016
Happy Birthday Cuz,
I'm a day late, but your Cuz is still sending you greetings with much love! Miss you and love, Joan
Willie C. LeBeau Jr
March 2, 2016
Happy Birthday Sis.
Willie Charles
March 1, 2016
Hey, MeMe.
Sunny day in N O L A. Feed on GOD.
Love you.
"Harry"
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ARISTIDE.J. COLLINS Sr
August 27, 2015
MeMe.
To Love is like Medicine. Love You.
"Harry"

March 2, 2015
Happy birthday Barbara, you are really missed, RIP
Aristide Collins
March 1, 2015
Happy Birthday Mama!!! It seems that as time passes, I miss you more. Love Aristide

Aristide and Mama
Aristide Collins
March 1, 2015
Joan Murphy
March 1, 2015
Happy Birthday Cuz!!! Recalling wonderful memories of you.
Love you and miss you,
Joan Marie
ARISTIDE.J. COLLINS Sr
March 1, 2015
MeMe.
This is a Great Day for Your BirthDay.Love You, Miss You.
"Harry"
Willie LeBeau Jr
March 1, 2015
Happy Birthday Fat. Love You.
Willie
Anitra
August 28, 2014
Missing you......
Aristide Collins
August 27, 2014
Thinking about you today and every day. Love always. Aristide
Willie LeBeau Jr
March 1, 2014
Happy birthday, Fat. Love you and miss you.
Your brother, Willie Charles
Aristide Collins
March 1, 2014
Happy Birthday, Mama. I love you and miss you everyday. Love always, Aristide
ARISTIDE j. COLLINS Sr
March 1, 2014
Hey, MeMe.
GOD is Great. Thanks to GOD. I miss you. Love you.
"Harry"
Anitra Collins
September 18, 2013
I wish you were here. I need my Momma.
Anitra
September 1, 2013
Mama! Thinking of you today and everyday! We love and miss you! I wish you were here-I could use your advice and love, but I know you are in a better place. Nia is in 11th grade now-can you believe it! She is such a beautiful person inside and out and she reminds me so much of you! Sail on Mama! I love you!
Joan Murphy
August 30, 2013
Barbara,
We know you're happy with the Lord,but we missed you. Love you, Cuz!
Joan

Marilyn Thomas
August 28, 2013
I can't believe it's been 10 years either. I wanted to let you know they closed Santa Fe School, it is now being used by Emeryville Senior High. You are missed by The Thomas family. RIP!!!!!
Aristide Collins
August 27, 2013
Mama,
It is hard to believe that it has been 10 years since you left us. We miss you so much. I love you and think of you everyday.
Love you.
ARISTIDE J. COLLINS Sr
August 27, 2013
Hey, MeMe.
It has been Ten years. I Love you, and Miss you. The Good Shepherd cares.
MARILYN THOMAS
May 14, 2013
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO YOU BARBARA. THE THOMAS FAMILY MISSES YOU. RIP.
Joan Murphy
May 12, 2013
HI CUZ,
JUST DROPPING IN TO WISH YOU A HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!! LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU.
Marilyn Thomas
March 2, 2013
Happy 70th B'day Barbara. RIP. You are missed.
March 2, 2013
Fat, all my kids wish you a happy birthday. With all their love.
Willie
Aristide Collins
March 2, 2013
Mama, Happy 70th Birthday. Thank you for smiling and guiding me. We miss you and love you! Aristide
JOAN MURPHY
March 1, 2013
HEY CUZ,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! YOU WILL REMAIN IN OUR HEARTS ALWAYS!! LOVE YOU,
JOAN MARIE
ARISTIDE J. COLLINS Sr
March 1, 2013
Hi MeMe,
Your Love, left a memory no one can steal. You remain truly, Loved in my memories.
anitra collins
January 18, 2013
I don't always write here-as my relationship with you-is deeper than any words can describe. I miss you and love you. You have been in my dreams alot lately-although you make appearance often :-). It makes me miss you more, but appreciate you more-and I know that means that you are with me and want me to know that you are always watching over me. I on many occasions have dreams that you are alive and healthy and I wake up sad, because I know that is not true-but those dreams always seem so real-and are a reflection of what I want and need. But I keep on keeping on-Nia's 16th birthday is Monday-I wish you were here in the physical to join in on her celebration-but I know her MeMe-will somehow "be in the house" :-) Love you always-Your BabyGirl
August 27, 2012
Hi, MeMe.
Miss you Love you, another year has past.
Willie LeBeau
March 5, 2012
Happy Birthday Fat.Sorry I'm running a little late. You know that's not normaally like me. Love you and miss you.
Willie
ARISTIDE J. COLLINS Sr
March 2, 2012
Hey, Meme.
Happy Birthday.Miss you.Love is forever.
Joan Murphy
March 1, 2012
HEY CUZ,
JUST DROPPING IN TO WISH YOU A "HAPPY BIRTHDAY"!!
LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU,
JOAN MARIE
Aristide Collins
March 1, 2012
Happy Birthday Mama. We miss you and love you... ALWAYS!!! Love You... Aristide
ARISTIDE J. COLLINS SR
August 27, 2011
Hi,Meme.
In the past Eight years, everyday in some way.Memories of you come my way.Though absent, you are always near. You are Loved and missed.
Joan Murphy
May 9, 2011
Hey Cuz,
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!
Love You,
Joan Marie
ARISTIDE J. COLLINS Sr
May 8, 2011
Hi MEME.
Happy Mother's Day. Love you.
"Harry'
Aristide Collins, Jr.
April 17, 2011
Mama,
Just checking in... I miss you and love you.
Aristide
March 22, 2011
Stopping by again.....I miss you!
Anitra Collins
March 21, 2011
Hi Momma! Thinking of you! I love you!
Aristide J. COLLINS Sr
March 20, 2011
Hi, MEME.Thanks for Aristide and Anitra. They are doing so, great taking care of me. I miss you, and love you I will never be separated from your love.
Joan Murphy
March 6, 2011
Hey Cuz, We know that we're a little late, but it's never too late to wish our favorite cousin Happy Birthday. We miss you,Barbara, and love you so much.
Joan Marie and the Murphy Gang
Aristide Collins
March 1, 2011
Mama,
Happy Birthday. There is not a day that passes that I don't think about you. I love you and miss you.
Aristide
March 1, 2011
It's hard but i know that you are in a better place.I miss you, especially because It's your BIRTHDAY,Love you.
"Harry"
Willie LeBeau Jr
March 1, 2011
Happy Birthday Fat! Love you and miss you more than anyone will ever know.
Willie, Jackie, Mame, and the kids.
Marilyn Thomas
October 26, 2010
Babara,
I still think about you all the time, especially, when I drive pass your street. RIP
October 24, 2010
Hey, MeMe. I Have clear vision of you meeting Donna, at the gate.You came to welcome Donna. What a reunion !!!. Everybody's fine. I love you and miss you.
"Harry"
Anitra Collins
April 2, 2007
Hi Mama!!
It is interesting..I continue to have these dreams about you. I know you are always on my mind...but I am having a hard time figuring out why I keep seeing you in my dreams-and get the awful reminder when I awake-that you are not here-and that I won't see you again until we meet in Heaven. I even had a dream last night-where I rolled your hair-because you wanted me to give you that "style" you used to like-but the bottom line in my dream as it was in real life-you just knew I liked to play in your hair :-) and me "styling" it was your way to let me have my way :-)!! Nia misses you too!! For some reason-she really feels like she has to stand in for you at times :-). Its cute..but I have to remind her that I am the Momma :-)!!!
Love,
Anitra
Aristide J. Collins, Sr.
April 1, 2007
HI Meme,
Hey love you and miss you.
Willie LeBeau Jr
March 27, 2007
Hi Fat,
I guess the previous entry I made didn't make it. I probably didn't enter it correctly . Everyone is well . I love and miss you. Belated Happy Birthday.
Your Brother,
Willie Charles
MARILYN THOMAS
March 2, 2007
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BARBARA, I WILL KEEP HARRY,ARISTIDE,ANITRA & NIA IN MY PRAYERS. I THINK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME.
BLESS YOU ALL
MARILYN THOMAS
920 54TH STREET
OAKLAND, CA 94608
510-547-4183 HOME
510-879-8356 WORK
Anitra Collins
March 2, 2007
Hi Momma!
It has been hard for me to write in your Guest Book..as I am always reminded of the day you left and how I felt you drift out of hands! I know you had a celebration yesterday...March 1st :-) We all miss you! Love you always, Anitra
P.S. Would you believe Miss Nia is almost as tall as me? I know you know that already :-)...but it is so funny looking at her-she has grown so much!!
Aristide Collins, Jr.
March 1, 2007
Happy Birthday Mama. You are always on my mind and in my heart. I love you and miss you everyday. Life has changed a lot, but you know all of that. Keep looking over us. Please look over Daddy, Anitra, and Nia. I know you are always with me.
I love you.
Aristide
Marilyn Thomas
October 3, 2006
Hi Aristide & Anitra I still pray for you and your family. Stay strong. Call me sometimes.
Marilyn Thomas
[email protected]
510-547-4183
920 54th Street
Oakland, CA 94608
Aristide Collins
May 25, 2006
Mama,
Just wanted to tell you I have been thinking about you. I miss you. I love you. Life goes on, but the love and the memories live on forever.
Love Aristide
Joan Murphy
May 16, 2006
REMEMBERING MY DEAR COUSIN ON
THIS VERY SPECIAL DAY
H A P P Y M O T H E R ' S D A Y
Joan, Candace, Craig & Chance
Joan Murphy
April 27, 2006
Hi My Dear Cuz,
Happy Belated Birthday!! I have never been this late wishing you happy birthday, but Katrina (hurricane) has me so stressed out and falling behind taking care of business. God, His Angels and our family (with you) must have given you a wonderful birthday celebration. Give my "Boo" a hug for me. I have been talking with Boobie lately. You must be smiling and very proud of him, Anitra and Nia for all of their accomplishments. Cuz, you did a good job. Oh, by the way, he received his birthday card on time.
Cuz, I love you and miss you. I promise to check in more often.
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