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Daphne Miller Obituary

Daphne Louise Miller
Resident of Walnut Creek, California
Daphne Miller, a long-time community volunteer in Contra Costa County, died in her sleep at her Rossmoor, Walnut Creek home on December 11, 2019. She was 95.
Born in Burlingame and raised in San Francisco, she was the daughter of Arthur and Serena Wells. After high school, she performed as a chorus line dancer at Bimbo's 365 Club and The Golden Gate Theater. She met her husband, William "Bill" Miller, while he was on tour as a bassist with the Jimmy Dorsey Orchestra. They married on June 13, 1943. Bill, who later became an English professor at Diablo Valley College, preceded Daphne in death in 1988.
Daphne had six children: Arthur, the late Edward, John, Michael, Stephen, and Mary. She is also survived by 10 grandchildren, 20 great-grandchildren, and 1 great-great-grandchild. She was also a foster mother.
Daphne worked for many years as a bus driver for special education children in the Mt. Diablo Unified School District. She was a lector, and the first female Lay Minister, at Queen of All Saints Catholic Church in Concord, where she also taught religion classes for developmentally disabled children.
After retirement she taught independent living skills at Concord House, a group home for developmentally disabled adults. She also volunteered with several organizations, including St. Anthony's Dining Room in San Francisco, The Crisis Nursery in Concord, Contra Costa County Food Bank, The American Cancer Society, Meals on Wheels, and many others.
In retirement, Daphne also rediscovered her love for dance, taking jazz and ballet classes at DVC well into her 80's. She also pursued her passion for travel and adventure: she hiked Machu Picchu; took bicycle tours in England, France, and Austria; and did a Walking Safari as well as a volunteer project in Africa. She also enjoyed educational trips to Cuba, Southeast Asia, Russia, Madagascar, and New Zealand, to name a few.
A long-time San Francisco Giant fan and season ticket holder, Daphne was honored by the SF Giants organization as a Giant in the Community in 1997. In 2007, she received a Threads of Hope award from Diablo Magazine as an outstanding volunteer in the East Bay.
Though she gave up her body after a long, full life, her spirit remains intact in the lives she touched.
A private memorial party in her honor will be held for invited guests, as her large family and circle of friends precludes opening it to the public. Donations can be made in her name to Planned Parenthood, or any of the volunteer organizations listed above.


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Published by East Bay Times on Dec. 22, 2019.

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Karen Adams

January 17, 2020

To all the Miller kids: I hope you remember me and my family. My dad, Sture Johnson, was a pianist who used to play with your dad. My mom was a dancer just like yours; they may have even met dancing at one of those old SF clubs. She danced at The Copacabana which is where she met my dad.

Your mother was such a sweetheart!! Even when I was a youngster, I sensed she just had something of a spark in her that made her very special. We were all pretty young when, occasionally, our families would get together. But we all remember you kids and your parents. I remember we used to call Edward, "Poe." Remember that??

So there are five of us Johnson kids. From the eldest down: Jeff, Sture Jr., Shirley, Karen (me) and Harold. I hope you remember us.

Anyway, the names Bill & Daphne were heard with frequency in our house growing up, and mentioned with great affection by my parents (Sture and Patsy). Your parents showed us a wonderful time at your big house out in either Pleasant Hill or Concord. Hard to imagine how your parents managed having 10 or 11 kids running around at the same time!

Shirley and I thought your mom's obituary was very touching and was a wonderful tribute to a really wonderful lady! Please accept our condolences over her loss.

Shirley and I both live in Danville. If any of you Millers ever want to chat or visit, we're up for it! My cell # is 650-400-8001. Or email: [email protected]

Very best to all of you!

Karen (Johnson) Adams

December 23, 2019

To son Art...I was taught by your Dad and was happy to work with you. Your Mom must have been an inspiration. Bob

Sue Rohlicek

December 22, 2019

I had the honor of dancing with Daphne for years at DVC with the legendary Joan Burke. She was an amazing woman. This beautiful tribute gets it right when it says her spirit remains intact in the lives she touched. Including mine.

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