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Steven Dicochea Obituary

Oct. 26, 1985 - Febr. 27, 2009 Resident of Newark Passed away on February 27, 2009 at the National Naval Medical Center in Bethesda, MD at the age of 23. Beloved son to Steven Dicochea, Sr. of Newark and Tonya Madden of Oregon. Beloved step-son to Maria Dicochea. Loving brother to Nicholas Dicochea, his twin sister, Stephanie Dicochea, and Nicole Dicochea, all of Newark. Proud uncle to his one & only nephew, Jacob. Cherished grandson to Jeanette Anderson of Union City, and Shirley Madden of Redding. Also survived by many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. Born October 26, 1985 in San Leandro, Steven enjoyed sports and listening to music. He was an avid reader. He loved to entertain, dance, and make people laugh. He also loved his red mustang. In 2003, Steven graduated from Washington High School. He served two tours of combat in Iraq with the Marines as a military policeman. Visitation Thursday, March 12th, 5-8pm with a vigil at 7pm at Fremont Memorial Chapel, 3723 Peralta Blvd., Fremont, 94536. Funeral Mass will be celebrated Friday, March 13th, 10am at Holy Spirit Catholic Church, 37588 Fremont Blvd., Fremont, 94536. Burial will follow at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Hayward. Fremont Memorial Chapel (510) 793-8900

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Published by Bay Area News Group publication from Mar. 8 to Mar. 9, 2009.

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Stepmom for life

March 2, 2025

Hello Steven, I think about you often, missing your sweet smile and voice. We miss you. Love ya

LaTonya Keller

March 2, 2024

Aww my love my little cousin this year has been a little crazy but I know you know. Just thinking about you this morning we miss you so much

Adam Nelson

March 2, 2024

I have many fond memories of Disco , he was a good guy and one of the best Marines I ever met . I was with him In Wounded Warrior BN and knew he previously. I will never forget his voice lol He was a character and a lot of fun to be around. We were good friends.

Cpl Adam Nelson

- Brandon

April 1, 2023

Miss you bro! I remember our times in MP school and at Quantico. I wish to this day that we could of talk more at Quantico about the similarities we shared besides being Marines. You always know that your impact and love by others show when you get updated posts from friends, family, and your Marine brotherhood.

Debbi Dresser

March 2, 2023

Have been thinking of you all on this anniversary. Steven is thought of often....he will NEVER be Forgotten.

Adam Nelson

January 31, 2023

I was a friend of Steven's. I still think about him . He is loved and missed . He was a good friend of mine .

Cpl Adam Nelson
USMC

LaTonya Keller

March 2, 2022

My We miss you

Ramon Grullon

January 30, 2022

You'll never be forgotten my brother. I miss you.

Ramon Grullon

February 15, 2020

Miss you and love you

David Peters

August 5, 2018

You're missed, Dicochea. Started thinking about you.

I hope you found peace.

LaTonya Keller

June 5, 2017

Missing you Rip Cousin

M HD

May 10, 2014

We think of you every day. We love and miss you so much.

Ramon Grullon

December 31, 2013

I miss you bro... I remember seeing you that night and joking around with you.....That next morning was like a Nightmare. I miss you bro but know you are always in my thoughts...Semper Fi Disco...

Debbi Dresser

December 25, 2010

Merry Christmas Steven. You & Your Family are in my thoughts & prayers today....you are NEVER forgotten. God Bless You All!

Stephanie Dicochea

November 19, 2010

Stephanie Dicochea

June 21, 2010

Thinking of you.....

Eulalio Lopez

February 26, 2010

I had the great honor to serve with you in Iraq as one of your "Docs". But really you were my Doc. Your jokes were my medicine Brother. And made my time away from my family during my first deployment a little easier. Semper Fi,
Doc Lopez

Debbi & Steve Dresser

May 25, 2009

Dear Steven & Family...You are all in our thoughts & Prayers on the Memorial Day as always. We shall never forget. Thank you for your service & sacrifce. God Bless You All.

BJ

May 21, 2009

Disco,

You were like my little brother from another mother, and not a day goes by that I don't think about you. When I need to feel happy, I just mentally go back to the long nights we spent on patrol wishing we were anywhere but there. I can honestly say I would give anything to go back to that. Thank you for being a friend, and more importantly, a brother. Until we meet again, Disco. "Awake and breathe in."

Kimberly Guerrero

March 25, 2009

The Dicochea Family,

My deepest condolences go out to your family. I knew Steven growing up at Niles, then Centerville and finally Washington. He was such a warm hearted loving person. I will never forget the sound of his voice, and how sweet a person he was. What an honor to have known him. RIP Steven, you'll be missed! God Bless you. `

Nancy Helms-Cox

March 16, 2009

Dear Dicochea Family,

Our family is saddened to hear of your loss. We remember Steve as a fun, sweet, outgoing, loving kid. He used to let Nick join in the basketball games out on the street even though he was much younger than everyone else. Nick remembers going to the globetrotters and A's games with Steve.
One cannot imagine your pain right now, but we are upholding you in our prayers and thankful for the life he gave.
The Helms Family - Nancy, Nick, Cameron and Katie

Viki & Shelby Raab

March 15, 2009

Steph, Steve & Mavia..
It seems like only yesterday the kids were running around the neighborhood. Boys vs. girls. The girls always won! Then, time moved on.....Steven's beautiful service really made me realize how the time passes us by so quickly. I am happy for all of you that Steven chose his own path and has left a legacy of which you can be so proud of. I know I am proud to say that I, once, knew Steven Dicochea, Jr..
Your friends....
The Raab Family
Gordon, Viki, Courtney & Shelby
(corner of Rivercreek & Cobblestone)

Nicole Jesse

March 14, 2009

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Dicochea and family,
My family was very saddened to hear of your loss. All of you are in your thoughts and prayers. We are truly honored to have known Steven. He is the person who encouraged and helped my sister join the Marine Corps. May God bless you and your family and may Steven rest in peace.

The Jesse Family - Jim, Pam, Nikki, and Sara

The

Linda Bayer

March 12, 2009

Dear Dicochea, Please know that others share in your grief and sorrow. It was wonderful to hear so many family and friends share their memories of Steven. May you find comfort with these fond memories. Your family showed great strength and courage tonight. You truly honored this fine young Marine.

He will not be forgotten and will always be in our hearts. We thank him for his service and ultimate sacrifice. May he rest in peace.

Linda Bayer
South Bay Blue Star Moms

Armida Dominguez/Alameda County Blue Star Moms

March 12, 2009

To the family and friends of Steven W. Dicochea Jr. My condolences to you. Let me take this time to say THANK YOU for the service you gave to our country. I know no words written or said can heal the pain in your hearts. I pray God comforts your heart.
God Bless You.

Travis McConnell

March 12, 2009

Disco, it was an honor to serve with you in the great MP Co. God Bless You on your final deployment. We will all miss you!

Jenny Valley

March 12, 2009

Stevie,
We grew up just down the street from each other, and I always remember your energy and passion to make other people laugh. My fondest memory of you was when we were at your house for you and Stephanie's birthday. Steph gave me a hug after she opened my present and, for the first time, I heard you say "aww, what a Kodak Moment!" It sounds silly that that is the memory that sticks out the most to me, but it's one I'll never forget and it makes me smile!
Thank you for defending your country, for defending your family, and your friends, and always keeping positive. You'll be dearly, dearly missed.

Bless you.

Chris/Sonja Loob (A.C. Blue Star Moms and Proud Parents of a O.E.F Vet)

March 12, 2009

To the Family and Friends of Steven W. Dicochea Jr. Our deepest and most sincere condolences go out to all of you. In this time of such a tradegy please know that we thank and honor Steven for his selfless act of Heroism. We know no words can bring comfort to you at this time but know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless.

March 11, 2009

Steven,

A true hero is one that would voluntary leave this country to go and fight for the freedom for all and make this world better for generations to come. That hero is YOU! I salute you for you courage. May you rest in peace.

Selina Zapien & Family
Livermore, CA

Englese Family

March 11, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss.

Sasha & Ricky Kevwitch

March 11, 2009

Disco was a great marine with a one in a kind personality you could never forget! he always made me laugh and even though i didnt know him that well he served 2 tours in Iraq with my husband and got transfered to VA with us as well. Thank you disco for serving our country and may you rest in peace in heaven and watch over your marine corp brothers and your family and friends.I am so sorry for your loss to the Dicochea family, may god comfort you in this difficult time.

Victoria Venegas

March 10, 2009

Steven, how the years passed by so fast. I can still remember you being this cute lil boy that used to run around with us when you came to our house. The time flew by and we all grew up. I have always been so proud to be your cousin. You took a rough road that many of us would not want to take. It takes alot of courage to do what you did. I salute you. Thank you cousin for defending our freedom and country.In the short time that we had you here with us you accomplished many great things. May you rest now with God. You are missed! Until we meet again - Your cousins, Vicky & Natalie Venegas

Andrea Vicochea

March 10, 2009

God has called Steven home and he will forever be in the families thoughts,prayers and forever in heart. May God bless him and receive him and let him keep watch over all of us until we meet again...

God Bless from the Vicochea Family

Rick, Debbie & Jessica Peterson

March 10, 2009

My Dear Cousin Steven, why God decided to take you first we don't know.. but you will be deeply missed by the entire family. You were taken from us so fast it was a shock to all of us and we still can't believe it. But we know that you will be watching us from up above. Another Angel to keep us from harms way. We know you're in a better place and you are no longer suffering so that helps us a little but we still miss you so much. You did such a brave thing by joining the Marines, you are a true hero and have honored our family in all you accomplished. We are so very proud of you and we will always remember you! I just pray that God Give all of us the strength to get through this... We love you so much cousin Steven!

Jonathan Kellogg

March 10, 2009

Steven "Disco Stu" Dicochea, you were one hell of a Marine! The Corps and the whole world lost a great person. Of the Marines that passed through MP Company, you surely were one of the great ones and will be remembered, respected, emulated for years to come.

Richard Conner

March 9, 2009

I had the honor and privilege to bring you home Disoc. You took care of me in the begining of my enlistment as well as Iraq, and i can honestly say our Corps has lost a great Marine.
We all miss you in our own way.
Semper Fi brother, until we meet again.

Gary Ham

March 9, 2009

I was saddened to see the passing of Steven, I will always remember him as a polite and respectful young man. He was a pleasure to coach and it was a joy to see him run the bases. "Lay down a bunt Steven and beat it out" and he would. My condolences to his family.

VIRGINIA FLORES

March 9, 2009

I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY. I AM SENDING MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO ALL THE DICOCHEA FAMILY. I HAD THE PLEASURE TO MEET AND WORK WITH STEVE. HE WAS SUCH A JOYFUL PERSON. HE WILL BE DEEPLY MISSED. OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO ALL OF YOU. BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER STEVE WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU. DONT EVER FORGET

Terry Fischer

March 9, 2009

I don't know your family or Steven, but there are many of us that want to thank you for your sacrifice. Because or our brave women and men in the military, America is protected. God give you strength and pride in what Steven did for his country.

Debbi & Steve Dresser (Alameda County Blue Star Moms & Patriot Guard Rider)

March 8, 2009

To the Family & Friends of Steven W. Dicochea, Jr., USMC: Our condolences to to you all. We wish to thank him for his service to our country as well as the sacrifices made by all of you. We know there are no words that can go as deep as the grief you all feel...there are no words that can ease the pain...but we pray you will know that there are many, many people grieving with them; that care very deeply about them; and that care very deeply about this fallen hero. Steven will never be forgotten!! Please let us know if we can help in any way.

Blessings,

Rita Coughlin

March 8, 2009

We are all sadden to learn of your loss. We are and will always be proud of Stevie for serving his country as a USMC Marine. May God Bless you in heaven. Semper Fi. From The Coughlin's and The Gamez's family.

TERESA MENDOZA

March 8, 2009

R.I.P LIL STEVE MISS YOU SOOO MUCH COUSIN LOVE YOU! YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS!!!

Tony & Marie Hernandez

March 8, 2009

In memory os Steven....Soldier, rest! Thy warfare o'er Dream of fighting fields no more: Sleep the sleep that knows not breaking, Morn of toil, nor night of waking.

And, though the warrior's sun has set, its light shall linger 'round us yet, Bright, Radiant, Blest.

As our Steven rests, having given the last full measure of his devotion to our Country, May his light linger 'round you with a blessed radiance, bringing you comfort and solace, brightening your days.

A life so important to so many. Remembering one who gave the ultimate sacrifice. He is one of the few yet finest he is our HERO! With deepest sympathies

Love Your Cousins,

Tony, Marie, Gabriel & Yvonne
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March 7, 2009

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