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Barry Plouse Obituary
Barry Thomas Plouse, age 51, resident of Edinboro, Pa., died at his home on Saturday, February 1, 2014. Born in Spangler, Pa. on July 1, 1962, he was a son of the late Wade P. and Alberta B. Patty Plouse.
Barry was a dedicated father, husband, brother, and friend who was an inspiration to many and will be greatly missed. Despite being confined to a wheelchair for the past 30 years, Barry overcame many obstacles and lived his life to the fullest. He loved the outdoors, enjoying hunting, fishing, kayaking, and boating. He was the co-owner of Trans 58, a transportation logistics company located in Edinboro.
Barry's family includes his wife, Tanis Boden Plouse and their daughter, Ramey E. Plouse; four brothers - Samuel Pelchar (Karen) of Oakridge, Tenn., Wade "Rusty" Plouse of York, Pa., Edward Plouse of Dover, Pa., and Cecil "Scott" Plouse of Edinboro, Pa.; one sister - Margaret "Bunny" Bracken (Dave) of Mineral Point, Pa.; his nieces - Taylor Pelchar, Shawna Bracken, Amber Bracken, Whitney Plouse, Morgan Plouse, and Talyn Boden; and his nephew Tyler Boden.
In addition to his parents, Barry was preceded in death by his stepdaughter, Taylor Cunningham.
Friends and family are invited to a memorial service to be held Saturday, February 8, 2014 at 12:00 noon at McLane Church, 12511 Edinboro Road, Edinboro, Pa. Pastor Brian Kelly will officiate.
Memorials may be given to the Regional Cancer Foundation, 2500 West 12th St., Erie, PA 16505, or to the Kanzius Cancer Research Foundation, 130 West 8th Street, Erie, PA 16501.
Arrangements were provided by the Van Matre Family Funeral Home in Edinboro, and condolences may be shared at www.vanmatrefuneralhome.com.
You can shed tears that he is gone, or you can smile because he has lived. You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back, or you can open your eyes and see all he's left. Your heart can be empty because you can't see him, or you can be full of the love you shared. You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday, or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday. You can remember only that he is gone, or you can cherish his memory and let it live on. You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back, or you can do what he'd want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
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Memories and Condolences
for Barry Plouse
Toni Magnetti
January 31, 2025
You are often in my thoughts and always in my heart. Miss and love you so much, Bar!
Toni Magnetti
February 1, 2021
Miss and love you so much, Bar. The world went a shade darker when you passed, but Heaven gained an extraordinary angel! Love always, Toni
Toni Magnetti
February 1, 2020
6 years... how can it be. I have so many memories with one of my best college buddies, Barry. I think of you often, especially today. You left us for a better place where you can walk again and are an angel watching over your family and friends. I hope that you and Brad are laughing about all of our good times at Edinboro University. You were an amazing friend all through college and our adult life. I can't begin to count the number of people that you inspired along the way. You are thought of often and will never be forgotten by any that were blessed to know you. Love ya, Bar, and miss you tons.
Toni Magnetti Merriam
February 3, 2015
Miss you like crazy, Barry. You touched so many people, and you were loved by all. I pray for your family and friends, especially Ramey as she grows and matures in to a young lady. Tanis and your family will help keep your memory alive. Love you, bud. Toni
Kathleen Broadbent
February 12, 2014
Dear Tanis & Family,
My deepest sympathy to your family. May your memories comfort you during this most sorrowful time.
Heidi Schmidt Gallo
February 7, 2014
Sorry for your loss. I lost a brother last year. God has a special plan for him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
dan rogers
February 6, 2014
Tanis, I am so sorry to hear of Barry's passing. You were at the head of my prayer list. I am so grateful that I was able to provide some little level of comfort with you both times of turmoil and to you in a time of happiness. Thoughout his struggle you were both so positive you were without a doubt the most supportive spouse i have had to pleasure to meet. I have never seen two people so much in love.
Carry on knowing that Barry is watching over you and your family.
Buck, Debbie, Cassi, and David Garner
February 5, 2014
Tanis, Ramey and Family, May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Barry has always been like a brother to me and we are going to miss him greatly. Many prayers to the family.
Jack
February 5, 2014
Tanis, Scottie, Bunny & All... I don't know what to say except I'm sorry. I'm sorry Barry was taken so young. I'm sorry I didn't stay in better touch during our adult years. I'm sorry I can't tell him how much he meant to all of us from his youth.
I could fill pages with all the stories. Mostly how his sense of humor drew everyone to him. From when he carried me into the school nurse from the playground in 2nd grade to toga parties and post-graduate road trips. The laughter will never be forgotten.
Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sam Seggi
February 5, 2014
Cecil,
I can't even imagine the sorrow you are feeling by the loss of Barry. I know he was so much to you and all. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Sam and Diana
Justine Kiser
February 5, 2014
Generous of heart, gentle of soul, undaunted in spirit... Barry was a true legend of inspiration to us all. His spirit will live on in the hearts of many.
Cyndi Hartle
February 5, 2014
Barry was a complete pleasure to know. I will keep his smile tucked away in my heart! My deepest condolences to his family. He will be missed.
steve and sherri krautter
February 5, 2014
No matter what was thrown at Barry , he always had a positive attitude, we all could learn from him, his caring and values. He will be deeply missed in our community, our hearts and prayers to the entire family
Renie Weakland
February 5, 2014
Our hearts and prayers are with all of you and we will keep holding the precious memories Barry left all of us and most especially the inspiration he was to all of us without him even realizing it. Tanis and Ramey go on for him as he would want you to and know he will be there to push a little bit when you think you can't. Love to all of you.
Lori Burke
February 5, 2014
I believe Barry left with a full heart and a ready soul. He will live on through his family. Much love to you and yours Tanis.
Sarah and Ryan Bookhamer
February 5, 2014
Love you Tan and Ray. Upholding you in prayer.
tawni and robert duffer
February 5, 2014
prayers for the tough times ahead he will be missed.hugs from all of us
Michael Hensler
February 5, 2014
Cecil, Mary Jo & I are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our best to you and all of your family. I know that you really loved your brother & that he will be missed.
Mary Jo & Mike
Carol & John Ochs
February 5, 2014
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Raquel
February 4, 2014
He always made me smile,when i would talk to him at Edinboro medical center.My prayers go out to Tanis and family.
TED~JUDI TECZA
February 4, 2014
CECIL,MAY YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FIND COMFORT IN EACH OTHER AND IN THE MANY HAPPY MEMORIES YOU EACH SHARE WITH BARRY OR ABOUT BARRY....PLEASE KNOW THAT MANY CARING THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU DURING THIS TIME OF SORROW.... CECIL,BARRY'S INFLUENCE WILL GO ON THROUGH ALL THE LIVES HE TOUCHED....WHAT A HERO!! DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Toni Magnetti Merriam
February 4, 2014
To all of Barry's family and friends,
We are all heartbroken over the loss of this amazing man. He truly was an inspiration to everyone that met him. I remember when I worked at HealthSouth and asked him to mentor my spinal cord injured patients, he did not even hesitate. He gave his heart and soul to all that knew him. Tanis and Ramey will be at the top of my prayers, along with the rest of his family and friends. Too many to count. Take comfort in your memories, and knowing that he is finally at peace and able to WALK through Heaven's gates.
Much love,
Toni, Mike and Joli
Diana & Steven Carpenter
February 4, 2014
Thoughts and Prayers.
Mark & Marie Hanaway
February 4, 2014
Hey Tanis and Ramey,
Life has been short and challenged by so many things. I remember a time when it was so hard not to be angry at God for changing our plans in life. But, it was through inspiration and faith that opened our hearts to see the sun again. You have the amazing gift of strength and a daughter that will help see you through. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. We love you!
DARLENE GAILEY
February 4, 2014
IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.MAY GOD GIVE YOU ALL PEACE.
February 4, 2014
Tsnis and Ramey, you are in our thoughts and in our prayers-God Bless.
Elmer and Pauline Fournier
February 4, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. God Bless Barry and family.
Frank & Diane Myers and Family
Debbie Feldmiller
February 4, 2014
Tanis and Ramey, you are in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers.
February 4, 2014
We are so saddened by your loss
Louie, Carol and Adrianne Kuhar
Martha Blair
February 4, 2014
The journey was a long one, but Barry has made his way to a new life where he has been made whole.
Dick & MAvis Ropp
February 4, 2014
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
PEACE & BLESSINGS!
Dick & Mavis Ropp
Krystal Halwy
February 4, 2014
Tanis & Ramey, I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Lora Miller
February 4, 2014
Tanis and Ramey, May your memories bring you comfort and knowing Barry is now in Gods hands and no more pain. Your in my prayers.
Gary Senyo
February 4, 2014
Tanis
I am sorry to hear of your loss.
Kay Arlington
February 4, 2014
My prayers and thoughts go out to the family.
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