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Jackie Fiddler Garnon
November 25, 2024
Oh my gosh! I was just talking about Mr Stillings this week! He was my guidance counselor at McDowell and helped me find the small liberal arts college I went to - Wittenberg University in Springfield OH. I had never even heard of it and it turned out to be a great decision! I loved it there! In an interesting twist, he had also mentioned Bridgewater Univ in MA, just south of Boston, which I had never heard of either. I decided it was too far away. And right now, I am actually visiting my sister-in-law and family who live in the town of Bridgewater MA! (I still live in Erie) What a coincidence! He truly is forever in my heart!
December 19, 2015
Keith,Mary...know that we are thinking of you at this sad and reflective time. We are here if you need anything. Your favorite neighbors.
Donna Schell-Howles
December 11, 2015
As I have read thru the Guest book postings I'm brought to tears at such fond memories of Mr. Stillings. He was my guidance counselor at McDowell. He brought hope to me during a time in my life that I couldn't see very much hope. He always had a kind word and smile. Every Friday he'd pass by and say "TGIF" with such enthusiasm you couldn't help but smile back and instantly feel better. His door was ALWAYS open and there was never a time limit. Everyone who knew him was touched in a positive way. He rests know in Heaven and we thank God for his life with us. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Bill Michetti
December 9, 2015
It is quite clear that he was an inspiration to many ,gave his time to others and is remembered fondly.What a full and rewarding life . My thoughts are with your family!
Patty and Mike Hall
December 6, 2015
We worked with Dave at McDowell Intermediate High School. He was not only one of the best guidance councilors there, but was a one of a kind, "special man". He had an outgoing personality and an infectious smile that lit up his entire face. You loved being around him. He always had a kind word to share with you and loved to bring a smile to your face. He was missed when he left and he will be missed now. Our loss is heaven's gain.
Lynn Morris-Goard
December 4, 2015
So sorry to learn of Mr. Stillings passing. He was my guidance counselor in 1986. Without a doubt, I would not have gone to college without his encouragement to do so & his belief that I could handle it. All students should be as fortunate to have a counselor such as him. My sincere condolences to his family.
Eileen Moser
December 4, 2015
Dear Keith and Mary I am so very sorry to hear about Keith's Dads passing. Although I never met him it sounds as if he was very accomplished and he sure had a wonderful son that I know he was very proud of. I am thinking of you at this difficult time.
Melissa Dougherty
December 4, 2015
Mary, Keith and Family,
I was sad to hear of your loss.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. My sincere condolences.
Joseph Abal,Ph.D
December 3, 2015
A Tech Memorial classmate informed me of Mr. Stillings passing. My friends at Tech entered 9th grade from the parochial school system in Erie. We were required to take General Shop which gave us a insight to woodworking,machining,electrical,and sheetmetal. We then would choose our vocational area for the next 3 years. Mr Stillings taught all the areas in one room with about 30/40 students. He was a very knowledgeable instructor and always took the time to answer one on one student questions. I had the additional pleasure of running into him on the Behrend campus while I was a Master student. The meeting was accidental, but he took the time to discuss my life at that time. He was very friendly and extremely knowledgeable in the trades. He influenced many of my classmates to make positive decisions on a pathe to pursue as a career. On behalf of the graduating Tech Memorial class of 1967, as the class President, I offer the family our condolences and sympathy. May God Bless his eternal soul for a life of commitment to his fellow man. God Bless.
Alan Karns
December 2, 2015
I had the pleasure and honor to work with Dave at MIHS in Millcreek. Dave had a wonderfully kind and caring way about everything he did, and he took a young guy trying to run the building and shared both his wisdom and kindness with him. My sincere condolences.
December 2, 2015
Dear Keith, Mary and Family
So sorry for your loss, God bless all of you.
Joyce & Bill Raynor
Karen Bishoff
December 2, 2015
Dear Keith, Mary and Family
My deepest condolences to all of you during this sad time.
Arthur Sandy
December 2, 2015
I worked with Dave in the counseling department at McDOWELL. He had a special way of making your day a little brighter. He and Brenda will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Murray-Hogan
December 1, 2015
Mr. Stillings was my guidance counselor and literally gave me the start to my life today. Due to financial reasons, my parents could not afford college, but when I told him, he began pulling out forms and helped me get financial aid. He then put my name in to get a special PTA scholarship to pay for books. That was 1975, and after pursuing my bachelors, I worked in the criminal justice field for almost 14 years. I then received my master's and eventually my Ph.D. and today I am a professor of criminal justice. I have told this story to my students as they prepare to work with deviant populations. One person can positively influence another person's life forever. Thank you Mr. Stillings for influencing mine. God bless you--you will always be my guardian angel.
George Hanks
December 1, 2015
Dave was one of a kind I will deeply miss him. My deepest sympathy to Brenda and all of the family.
Jean Evans Williams
December 1, 2015
David was in my brothers class at SHS and I was a year ahead of him. I was also at Kent State when he was there. So grateful that he was at McDowell for my son Tim, and daughters Robin and Holly. Great guy.
Debbie Markey Lang
December 1, 2015
We were neighbors in the late 1960's and I remember baby sitting for him, a truly wonderful man.
Todd Lorenz
December 1, 2015
This is the man who told me about how to apply for college and financial aid, which I needed. I ended up going to Case Western for both college and medical school. Now I am a researcher in the biotech industry and have gotten drugs approved for treatment of cardiovascular disease. None of this would have happened without his advice.
Richard B. Elberfeld, Jr. Secretary
December 1, 2015
The Valley of Erie Scottish Rite extends our sympathy to the family and friends of Brother David. Be comforted by his Scottish Rite motto, "spes mea in Deo est" (my hope is in God).
Jackie Fiddler Garnon
December 1, 2015
Mr Stillings was my Guidance Counselor at McDowell in 1968/9. I have fond memories of what a great guy he was. He touched many lives and has left his mark in this world.
michael wernicki
December 1, 2015
Mr Stillings taught us general shop at Tech Memorial 64-65, great memories and good instructor for moral character. May his soul rest in peace with our savior Jesus Christ. Peace, Mike Wernicki
Mike Andrae
December 1, 2015
I enjoyed our friendship at McDowell...rest in peace.
Sam Lewis
December 1, 2015
One of the good guys at McDowell. I'm sorry to hear of his passing.
Mary Stillings
December 1, 2015
My father in law was such a wonderful man and I will miss him dearly. His passing is a significant loss to our family. My thoughts and prayers to his wife, Brenda and continued strength to Lisa, Simon and Keith. Love, Mary
Gretchen Tome
December 1, 2015
Mr. Stillings was my Guidance Counselor at McDowell and definitely impacted my life in a positive way. Please know that I am holding you all in prayer.
Lora Brown
December 1, 2015
My prayers are with you as you celebrate the life of Mr. Stillings. He was my guidance counselor at McD. in 1975.
Tom Dubik
December 1, 2015
I had Mr. Stillings at Tech for freshman year he was a true friend that you could talk to any time. Rest in Peace
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