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David Meckley Obituary

ABBOTTSTOWN David C. Meckley, 68, Good Samaritan to all, passed away Friday, November 7, 2014, at Hanover Hospital. He was the husband of Susan B. (Bankert) Meckley, his wife of 49 years. David was born January 18, 1946, in Hanover, the son of the late David S. and Jennie M. (Hamme) Meckley. David was a member of St. John's U.C.C. in New Chester. He served his country in the Vietnam War during the Tet Offensive, and upon his return, was stationed at the Pentagon where he received a commendation for special works in the engineering drafting department. He owned his own construction company, was an executive board member with the Keystone Contractors' Association, a school board member with the Conewago Valley School District, and was formerly an engineer for Hamilton Twp. on the planning commission. He was a life member of the East Berlin V.F.W., a member of the Good Samaritan Lodge #336, F.&A.M. in Gettysburg, and the Shriners. In addition to his wife Susan, David was cherished and loved deeply by three children and their spouses; five grandchildren; two sisters; and three brothers. Following cremation, a memorial service will be held on Thursday, November 13, 2014 at 12 p.m. at St. John's U.C.C., 2243 Hunterstown-Hampton Road, New Oxford, with his pastor, the Rev. Douglas C. Hahn officiating. Burial will be in Mt. Olive Cemetery in Abbottstown. The family will receive friends at the church on Thursday from 10 a.m. until the time of the service. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, Central PA Chapter, 55 S. Progress Ave, Harrisburg, PA 17109. Feiser Funeral Home, Inc., 302 Lincolnway West, New Oxford, is in charge of arrangements. Memories may be shared at www.feiserfuneralhome.com

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Published by Evening Sun on Nov. 10, 2014.

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Don Rorick

November 16, 2014

Becky and family,

We were surprised and shocked to hear of the passing of Dave. He was a lovely man and one of the best friends I ever had. He will be fondly remembered and sadly missed. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Don and Mary

Jane (Spangler) Lerch

November 15, 2014

Becky & family,
Sorry to hear about Dutch. I hope you find comfort in knowing others are praying for you. May your good memories help you thru this time.

November 14, 2014

I always got to see such a humble man , never spoke of his accomplishments but always held his hand out to you if you were stumbling. Great family man and neighbor. I won't forget you. My condolences to all the family. Jim Wagner and wife Stephanie.

November 14, 2014

So sorry to learn of Dave's death. He was such a nice person. I know Mom always thought so much of him too. He will certainly be missed by many. My sincere sympathy to all of you.
Nancy Walter

Jennifer Detweiler

November 13, 2014

Thad, Mandy, Kathy & Becky; So sorry for your loss. Such a wonderful man to have known. Knowing him from the time I was in high school with Mandy and crossing paths at Motts once again while working with Thad. He was always a pleasure and such a wonderful encourager. Payers for all of you.

Dave & Pam Arndt

November 12, 2014

Dutch had an infectious smile and personality that made you feel happy whenever you talked with him. Our sincere condolences and prayers to all who will miss him, especially Becky and their children.

Jean Seibert

November 12, 2014

Dearest Family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband, father, family member and friend. He was such a wonderful sight to see coming into Hoke Mills to buy his feed. Always loving and kind and always something funny to say to uplift. I will miss him and know that all that knew him will not forget. May you rest in God's gracious comfort that only He can give and relish your wonderful memories.
We love you, Ken and Jean Seibert

Ralph and Jeanne Lemmon

November 12, 2014

Dear Becky, Kathy, Thad and Mandy. We are so sorry for your loss. Although our paths led us into different directions we will always remember the wonderful times we shared. Softball, trips, especially Florida and New Years Eve!!!
Dave was such a great guy. Always making everyone feel welcome and good about themselves. He loved people!!
We are thinking about you all and keeping you in our prayers. Ralph and Jeanne Lemmon and family

Claire Summers/Lewis

November 12, 2014

Becky, i'm so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. I have such wonderful memories of all of us from years ago. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers

Christica Boyer

November 11, 2014

Becky,Kathy,Thad and Mandy and family,

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time. I have so many fun memories of all of us hanging out at pop and mom Meckly' s. Dutch, Herb dad (Ken) picking on all of us. I am sure pop,Dutch,Herb and dad r cutting it up again. Take comfort in the memories.

Hugs, Christica (Simpson) and Todd Boyer and girls.

Jim & Jean Ann Darr

November 11, 2014

I had the pleasure of getting to know and work with Dave thru The Keystone Contractors Association. He will be greatly missed as a friend and colleague.

Paul Ewing

November 11, 2014

Dear Meckley family,
I am so sad to hear of your and this worlds loss. Dave was one of the best men I have ever known, a mentor to all. We will truly miss him. I am comforted by knowing he will take his place in heaven. God grant you strength.

Vicki (Rife) Hughes

November 11, 2014

Becky & Family,
You and Dave were the "sweethearts" of our class. The hope of young love turning into a lasting loving relationship that you lived, for those of us with those dreams. In school Dave was always the happy-go-lucky person you could always rely on to make everyone feel better with his wit and charm. It is obvious, after reading the entries, that his personality continued to influence many over the years. May he rest in peace and his memories comfort you through this trying time. My love and prayers to you and your family.

November 11, 2014

My sympathy goes out to Dave's family. I had the pleasure to work for Dave in the early 1980's, and appreciated his kind manner. He was a first class individual......

Gregory Steger

November 11, 2014

Dave always had a smile and kind words for everyone at the same time fighting a
courageous battle for his life for years.
He also had some of the most spectaculor golf shots I have ever seen, I will deeply miss him.

Michael & Aleshia Hawkins

November 10, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss. Dutch was very special to our family. I have never met a man more devoted to his family. May God grant you peace and comfort during this incredibly difficult time.

Troy and Tara Mummert

November 10, 2014

Troy and I cannot express the sadness in our hearts for the passing of Dave. He was a true mentor and inspiration to all that knew him and we can only pray to be more like him and share a small amount of the love that he shared with so many. Our deepest sympathies....love you all!

Earl Swope

November 10, 2014

Becky and family
My sympathy to the family.
Dave was one of the nicest person that I have worked for he will be greatly missed.
Earl Swope

Earl Swope

November 10, 2014

Becky and family
Dave was one of the nicest person that I have worked for.
He will be greatly missed.
Earl Swope

Betty (Swope) Douglass

November 10, 2014

Becky I was so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. It has been many years since I have seen either of you but always remember what a kind and sweet couple you were. You and your family our in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

The Kepner's

November 10, 2014

Dear Becky and Family,
Dave was such a special person, his smile, his courage, and his kindness. He will be missed by many, but not forgotten. God Bless you all during this sad time, you are in our prayers as always. Our deepest sympathy.

Rev. Sheresa Simpson-Rice

November 10, 2014

Well done, Good and Faithful Servant. My condolences to Becky, Kathy, Thad and Mandy, as well as their precious children who've lost a righteous role model for their lives. I will keep you close in prayer as you walk this earth, anxious for the day we all will see Dave again. May you feel the joy of Dave's life, smile and compassion.

Sherry Stambaugh

November 10, 2014

Becky and family,
They don't come any better then Dave. He always went out of his way to talk to everyone and helped with a smile when he was needed. He truly had a kind heart. May the good memories he left you overshadow his passing.
Sherry and Gordy Stambaugh

Paula Shaffer

November 10, 2014

My sincere sympathy to the entire family. God has certainly gained an angel. Allow your happy memories ease the sorrow of your loss, until you are again reunited in heaven.

Fred & Linda O'Brien

November 10, 2014

Thoughts & prayers are with you as you go through this. Dave will be missed. Always remember that smiling face.

Wanda Dietrich

November 10, 2014

Dear Family,
I am so so sorry to hear the news. My deepest sympathy to all of you. Dave was such a wonderful, kind person. He always had a smile. I always enjoyed sharing grandchildren stories. He's one of those people who I feel very privilaged to have known. Dave will be missed by so many.
God Bless,
Wanda Dietrich

Bill Dubbs

November 10, 2014

My thoughts, prayers, and condolences to the family of my best young childhood friend. May you rest in peace Dutch.

November 10, 2014

So sad to hear of Daves passing. He was such a lovely,upbeat guy who always made you smile when spending time with him. My husband Nick always appreciated his honesty and integrity in their business dealings through Motts. Unfortunately Daves efforts to get me to take up diy so that I could fix things around the house when Nick was away never came to anything,but I have taken up gardening. Dave was also great at sharing a joke with our son Peter,who passed away himself in 2010. Please accept our condolences at the death of such a thoroughly good man,thinking of you,Fran,Nick and Claire Bolton,formerly of Gettysburg,now of North Myrtle Beach.

Dale Reever

November 10, 2014

Becky,Kathy, Mandy, Thad,
I express my sincere condolence in your loss of Dave (Dutch,Coach). Dave was truly a special friend to me ever since I met him in the late 60's and I think of him and your family daily. May the memories and the legacey he has left help all during this sad time.
RIP-Dutch Your friend always Dale

Josh Miller

November 10, 2014

Dear Meckley Family,
I wanted to say sorry for your loss, Dave was always so kind to me, I will never forget that. I'm going to miss seeing him at the golf course.

Dan Hollinger

November 10, 2014

My Thoughts and prayers are to The Meckley Family and to all there loved ones.

Billida Cox (Simpson)

November 10, 2014

There is something to be said about someone who can comfort you by just smiling. Dutch did that for everyone he met. As a child, he was more of an uncle than a friend. He was one of my dad's best friends growing up, and the childhood memories I have will remain with me all of my life. I pray you find peace in your heart, and know my thoughts are with you all.

November 10, 2014

Dear Becky, Kathy, Thad, Mandy and Ruby- I am incredibly saddened to hear of your loss. I always admired Dutch's inner strength and genuine kindness. He was one of my brightest, shiniest stars during my cancer journey. One phone call with him always brightened my day! Allow all your memories to give you strength through this difficult time. I will miss him very much! Love- Jill E. Hamme (cousin)

Bob/Louise Baker

November 10, 2014

Becky my thoghts and prayers are with you and family. Dave was one of my true friends and one that I looked up to with pride and admiration. I will miss him and keep you and family in my prayers. May God bless you and hold you in his hand in this time of sorrow.

November 10, 2014

Mandy,
I am so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Janet Eline

Mary Louise Frey

November 10, 2014

David, a good Samaritan indeed. May God provide a measure of comfort and your wonderful memories help sustain you during this sad time.
David was a special guy and left a legacy that will be felt for years!
Rest in peace dear David I will always remember you!

Belinda Smith

November 9, 2014

Thoughts and prayers to Becky, family and friends. Dave was one of the nicest people on earth and will be greatly missed. He was a gift to many.

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