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VONNIE SINGH
March 8, 2007
HI HAVEY,
IT'S BEEN OVER A YEAR NOW SINCE YOU AND OSCAR WENT TO HEAVEN. I MISS YOU BOTH SO BAD. THE PAIN NEVER GOES AWAY. I CAN'T BELIEVE ITS BEEN SO LONG SINCE IVE SEEN YOU, HEARD YOUR BEAUTIFUL VOICE OR SEEN THAT SMILE. I'LL MISS YOU TILL THE DAY I DIE. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
LOVE YOU MOM
Harold Roy Rainey
June 18, 2006
To the cousin I cared so much for and i will miss u dearly because all the stuff we used to do and I still can't belive ur gone but I will be with u soon in the near future theres only one thing that hurts the most that u won't be able to see my kid and it really hurts me alot and I'll miss u so much love u and miss u.
juanita maria rodriguez
June 17, 2006
to a wonderful girl who is no longer with us but is looking over us. you are a great person who everyone will miss dearly you will never be forgotten and your daughter will be taken care of and will know how much she was loved by her mother and father who is no longer with us. You will always be in our prayers and may you watch over us as we grow and become stronger people knowing that you are in a better place we miss you dearly and one day we will all be together again.
Harold Roy Rainey
June 17, 2006
U were one of the best cousin I had and I will never forget u I also remeber all the time's we use to run around hanover and mess with people and I'll miss the way we use
sit in the house and jam to music all the time and the way u made me smile when i was down u one of the best people in my life and now ur gone but i know ur in abetter place and ur with are other family that is in heven and i will never forget u ever.
Wanda Messinger
June 17, 2006
Heather a niece that i will always love and will remember every time i saw you my heart lit up .when i first met you i thought you were a angeland you were a shining star. And i know that you are still shining bright,i look up in the sky at night and see your star.love your aunt wanda i will always love you.
Karen Dentler
June 2, 2006
love and miss you!!!! aunt Karen.
Amanda Sebastian
May 14, 2006
Heather, 5-14-06
Hi baby sister.I miss you so much and wish you were here with me sometimes I smoke a cig in the bath room and start crying because I will rember when you would come in there and sit and smoke with me.i'm so sorry that it tolk me so long to write you but i try not to think about it.I feel like if I was/nt in Vergina I could of been here for you. I love you so much and hope that you know just how much i realy do.sorry about all the times that we didnt get along i cry all the time thinking about you and the fuuny things we did.love you so much baby sis........
mom
May 14, 2006
heather, my sweet little girl. Its been over three months since you went away. I will love and miss you all the days of my life. love you mom
mom
May 14, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
April 23, 2006
Heahter,
I miss you so much! I still can't believe your not here any more. You will always be my baby sister, and I will never forget anything. I will remember the good and the bad. I'll tell you when you were here I never really noticed how beautiful. Now I look at your pics. and you are a very pretty girl. When we talk about memories of you I feel like crying because I wasn't ready to let go of you. Then this happend and I had to. But I will never let go of the memories.Mya acts like you so much sometimes. She asks about you sometimes and I tell her you live with jesus. I love you so much! Hugs n Kisses!
Love Always
And Forever
Michelle
Melanie & your big brother Joe
March 14, 2006
My dearest Heather, you have been gone now for a little over a month and the pain hasn't lessened. Not a day goes by that we do not think about all the times that we have spent together. It saddens me that such a long time passed since I saw you last. I can't forget all the times that you begged me to take you with me to Cambridge or Virginia to visit and just hang out. It always seems that there is never enough time to do all the things that we want. I wish now that I would have taken the time, but never in a million years did I expect you to be taken from this earth at such a tender age. Now I can only hope that you knew how deeply you touched my heart. You were like a little sister to me. We love you more than words could ever express. I hope you know that your precious little Mya will be well taken care of and loved. No one could ever love her more than you did, but we all sure will try.
Joe will also miss his fishing buddy! He is hoping to teach Mya to follow in her Mommy's foot steps and bring home the bigger fish.
Love Always & forever,
Candy Donley
March 14, 2006
Heather I miss you so much, and I wish I could have told you how
much I loved you. Your Grandma
Muskant Singh
March 14, 2006
Heather and I would throw thw ball back and forth, and hit each other in the head. She was my big sister and we had alot of fun together.
and I will always miss her very much. I love you Heather.
Kerri Rodriguez
March 12, 2006
Dear Vonnie and family,
I am sadened to hear of your recent loss. Heather was a wonderful person and loved everyone. I know we will all miss her very much and she will never be forgotten. Her memory will live in our hearts for many years to come.
Justine
February 21, 2006
My heart reaches out to your family in this difficult time. I know what you're going through and you'll be in my prayers. God bless you now and always.
April Snyder
February 15, 2006
Vonnie, Michelle, Amanda, Mya and Joey. Our hearts and prayers are with you. If you need anything at all we are here for you. Heather was a wonderful girl and she shall always be missed. Love, April, Bean and Angel
Uncle Tim Clapper
February 15, 2006
This is for one of the greatest Nieces out of the Bunch that an Uncle and Aunt could ever have. You're life was taken from us at such a young age, But you left us a lifetime of memories. You may be gone but will never be forgotten. We will always remember your sweetness, kindness, innocence and most of all that Beautiful, Bright Smile you always wore. You sure knew how to light up a room! You will be forever in our hearts. We love you very much! Love; Uncle Tim and Aunt Dannielle
Ashley Dillsworth
February 15, 2006
Heahter and I were very good friends. The last time I talked to her was on Super Bowl Sunday. I will miss her very dearly. All my prayers go out to her family.
Stephanie Berkheimer - Riley
February 15, 2006
I am so sorry for your lose. My brother was friends with Amanda in school, and he hung around Michelle and Heather also. I lost him three years ago. I understand what Michelle and Amanda are going through right now. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you. Be there for Mya now and let her always know how much her mommy loved her. God Bless All of You!!
Courtney Neiderer
February 14, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family at this time. I did not know the couple personally but was at the accident. My heart goes out to Mya and the family.
beckie
February 14, 2006
it is such a shock to loose someone so young and beautiful. i only knew her as a coworker but she will be missed!!! my prayers are with you and your family always
Diane Flowers-DeFord
February 13, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with the friends and family of Heather and Oscar. It is clear from the picture that they were very loving parents, and I am so very sorry that their lives were cut short. They had a lot of loving and living yet to do.
My heart just aches, and I pray for peace for all those who were touched by their lives and affected by this tragic loss.
Stephanie Feeser
February 13, 2006
Vonnie, Amanda and Michelle,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Heather was a true sweetheart that touched me in many ways. You all will be in my prayers. If any of you need me feel free to give me an email. Im so sorry I dont have a phone on right now.
Love you guys!
Stephanie and Clinton Feeser
Benjamin Martz
February 13, 2006
vonnie amanda michelle joey... i am sorry for your loss.. it seems i knew you all for my whole life and the world has lost a very loving person..
Valerie
February 13, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss, Heather was a sweet young lady. She was friends with my daughter Danielle in 7th and 8th grade and then she moved to York. We just saw Heather, Oscar , and Mya on trick or treat night at our house, what a sweet family they were. May God bring you peace and help you through your grieving, take care of that darling little girl. Love and prayers to all of the families
Felicia Boyers
February 13, 2006
Heather and I were friends a long time ago. We havent talked for a long time. When we were friends she was like my best friend. I will miss her dearly. God bless all and im praying for Mya to hang in there!
Ashlyn Lovett
February 13, 2006
You're family is in our families thoughts and prays. Heather was a wonderful person. May god bless you all!!
Love-Brenda,Lois, Ashlyn, Johnnie, Brianne and Doug
Elizabeth Williams
February 13, 2006
My heart breaks for you - Heather's family - and for her life that just seems undone. Too soon - I just cannot even imagine how this feels. I really do believe that there is another part to being and Heather is on that journey. I believe that it is a good journey and it is my prayer that after the shock and terrible grief lessens you have comfort in that. This precious child she and Oscar left will allow you always to have them with you - my heart weeps for you and prays for you and asks for your comfort. My deepest sympathy.
Kristin Miller (barnett)
February 13, 2006
You all are my family and when one of you hurts, I hurt too! Vonnie, I am so so so sorry about Heather. She was a beautiful girl with nothing but life and love infront of her! To Karen, Sharon, Joann, and Brenda...I know this is hard and I know you all are hurting know I am here for you and I love you all! Bam...I love you and I am HERE!!!! To candy, Get better and remember God protected her before she would be in any pain or have any suffering!
God bless u all and God please lift up that beautiful little Mya and be her insperation to FIGHT!
Alisha
February 13, 2006
Heather and I went to school together. We haven't talked in sometime, but she was a great person. She was very caring and outgoing. My sympathies are with the family.
Terri and Jamie Bigelow
February 13, 2006
we are going to miss you very much. i know that you are in peace and looking down on all of us. We know the one you are really looking down on is your daughter but don't worry she is in good hands and noone will let anything happenend to her. You were such a sweet young girl and didn't ask for this at all. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers for always. We love you and miss you so much may god be with you now.
Amber weaver
February 13, 2006
To Amanda Michelle Vonnie and all of Heathers family i am very soryy for your loss you are all in my prayers this is truely tragic and i hope everything works out for the best but i know shes in a great place now and shes being taken care of my hearts go out to you all with love amber
MEGAN GLADFELTER
February 13, 2006
HEATHER WAS ONE OF THE SWEETEST MOST LOVING PEOPLE THAT I KNEW. WE WILL ALL MISS HER SO MUCH.
Theresa Manning
February 13, 2006
Charles and I are very sorry to hear of your tragic loss. We are close friends with Sharon & the news of the accident shocked us. Please take care of yourselves & may God be with your entire family.
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