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Anita B. Butler

1942 - 2020

Anita Butler Obituary


Anita B. Butler, nee, Johnson, age 78, passed away peacefully in her home on Saturday, August 8, 2020 after a brief and sudden illness.

She died in the presence of friends, family, and her beloved pets. The youngest of three girls, Anita was born January 14, 1942 at the Independence Sanitarium to Clyde and Birdene Johnson of Leavenworth Kansas. She graduated from Leavenworth High School with the goal to further her education in a time when women were encouraged to stay home and care for the family. She attended Graceland College (now Graceland University) in Lamoni, Iowa and graduated with an AA in Business. It was there that she met and married Arthur Butler in 1962 and moved with him to Nuneaton England where their son Christopher was born. They returned to the United States in 1965 and from 1967 to 1969 Anita attended CMSU in Warrensburg, Missouri receiving a Bachelor's Degree in Business. She then went on to law school at UMKC Law School in Kansas City where she earned her Juris Doctorate and was accepted to the bar in 1972. After graduation she worked as a Trust Officer at First National Bank of Kansas City, eventually earning the title of Senior Vice President. Upon leaving the bank she became a partner with the law firm of Slagle, Bernard and Gorman,after which she worked with the firm Kriegel and Kriegel in Kansas City.

She retired in 2011 as a highly respected lawyer in estate planning. During her career she served on the boards of Park University, Jackson County Mental Health Levy Board of Trustees, Crittenton Children's Center, The Planned Giving Council and Children's Mercy Hospital where she received an award in 2005 for outstanding service to the hospital. She was an Originating Member of The Central Exchange in Kansas City Missouri; an organization established in 1981 for the advancement of women's equality, and in 1983 she was named Woman of The Year by the Dimensions Group. She was also given an Outstanding Achievement Award by the Missouri Chapter of National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys in 2004.Anita was very passionate about Women's Rights, the rights of the LGBTQ community, and the prevention of cruelty to animals. She served as a committee member for Community of Christ on the topic of full inclusion for people of all orientations in the Church. She was a pioneer in the field of Law for women, and advocated strongly for equal rights.

She will be profoundly missed by those closest to her yet her legacy and her spirit will live on. She enjoyed Sundays with her friends at the Center for Spiritual Living in Kansas City, Missouri. She lived life to the fullest through simple pleasures; movies, chatting with friends and family, walking her dogs, and enjoying her country home in Oak Grove where she lived near her son.

Anita is preceded in death by her parents, Clyde and Birdene Johnson, and her sister, Betty Ann Johnson-Roberts of Austin, Texas.

She is survived by her son Chris; her former husband and lifelong friend, Arthur Butler; a sister, Marilee Aldana; nieces and nephews, Silvia Aldana, Milton Aldana, and Jonathan Roberts; grandchildren, Devin Moore, Fenix Winkler, and Bailey Winkler; and great-grandchild, Evelyn Carter. A special thank you to Breca Myers and Kelly Murphy for their dedication.

Family, friends, and others whose lives Anita touched are invited to celebrate her life on Friday, August 21 between the hours of 2-4 p.m. at Heartland Funeral Home at 6113 Blue Ridge Blvd, Raytown, MO 64133.

In place of flowers, Anita would have liked contributions made to Wayside Waifs. Donations may be left at the funeral home where envelopes will be available or paid online to secure.waysidewaifs.org under the donate menu.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Examiner on Aug. 19, 2020.

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Martha p.

April 28, 2021

Anita was a kind person who dearly loved her pets. I was unaware she had grandchildren. I do remember she had a partner and dear friend Jeanie of many years. I hope she is doing ok with the news. God bless.

Gayle Humphrey

August 24, 2020

Arthur, I am so very sorry for your loss. I praying for peace and presence for you. All my love, Gayle

Jill Adams

August 21, 2020

Chris, my sympathy to you and your family. Your Mom was an inspiration to many. Jill Adams

Chuck

August 20, 2020

Sorry to hear of Anitas passing. She was great to be around. Always loved her pets. Didn’t know she had any grand children, bless them.

Jennifer Nicholson

August 19, 2020

Chris, I am so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. She and I had such a great time working at the old First National Bank in the 70's. What an amazing woman she was. A real trailblazer. I am sorry I will be out of town Friday but will have you and her family in my prayers. Jennifer Nicholson

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