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Judy Singer
August 26, 2025
Arnold was a kind and caring gentleman. Above all, he loved his family. I hope his family is comforted by warm and loving memories. Special thoughts go to Susan..
my cousin and friend.
Judy Singer
August 26, 2021
Arnold was my mother's (Marcella "Lala" Carver) 1st cousin. She was soooo fond of him...as was I. Arnold was the consummate gentleman and family-man. I know he is missed by family and friends, but a bit of him lives on in all who knew and loved him.
Judy Singer
August 26, 2020
Arnold was the ultimate gentleman...he was kind, caring, loving and a real family man. His legacy lives on in his family and friends.
magali roman
September 8, 2013
Susan, Ellen, and Bobby,
I was so sorry to hear of Mr. Kaplan's passing. Having met him at age 17 I had the pleasure of working with him and his staff and meeting you all. I'm blessed for that and will always remember him. May god grant you all strength.
Phil
September 7, 2013
With deepest sympathy to the family during your time of grief...God is for you a refuge and strength, A help that is there to be found during difficult times...May God provide you with peace and comfort to endure the days ahead.
September 4, 2013
Arnold was one of my most favorite people in the world! He was kind, caring, smart, funny and a very fair person- always looking at the positive side of things.....and trying to make this world a better place. Bob joins me in wishing his wonderful memory to be a blessing to all he touched. He knew how to love and give. He will be very missed. With great affection - Meryl and Bob Kessler
Mary Jaques
September 4, 2013
Bobby, Ellen, Susan and families;
I was so sorry to hear of Arnold's passing. I have had the pleasure of knowing him for over 45 years. He was my first boss and have remained in contact throughout the years, most recently for his last birthday when he acknowledged my card with a recent photo of him & Bobby. May his memory be eternal!

Danielle Stewart
September 3, 2013
Written on January 27th, 2013:
Dear Arnold,
I have to admit that writing a letter to someone nearing the end of their life is a first for me but it is something I feel compelled to do. I simply want you to know that I love you very much. I have so much to thank you for and to be grateful for. It is a privilege to even have a grandfather well into my adulthood. Many of my friends lost their grandparents long ago, as children. It means the world to me that I got to know you as I became an adult and that you know my children and they know and love you, too.
As a family patriarch you modeled for my parents how to be kind, loving, generous, and fun and they in turn passed those qualities down to me and I hope that Steve and I are honoring that legacy and doing the same for our girls.
I will always remember and share with the girls how much you value learning and that you continued to have an open mind and expand your knowledge throughout your life. Not only did you continue your own learning journey but you also gave back by sharing what you learned with others. You gave your time, knowledge, and money selflessly to help others. I can only hope to pass that love of learning and generosity along to future generations of Kaplan / Gittleman / Stewarts.
I will always remember your witty sense of humor and how important it is to maintain a sense of humor even in difficult times. Perhaps most of all I am so very lucky to have witnessed your long and loving marriage and friendship to Bobby. It has been a beautiful, consistent presence in my life that I will always remember. I love how the two of you adore and respect one another. I also admire how you shared common interests with each other like traveling the world, playing golf and tennis, and being with friends and family.
Arnold, if I can be half the person you are and live even a glimpse of the life you've lived, then I will be a very blessed and fortunate person. Thank you for everything you've given me and done for me and my family. We all love you very much and you will always be in our hearts.
Your loving granddaughter,
Danielle (on behalf of Steve, Sydney, Avery, and myself)

Danielle Stewart
September 3, 2013

Danielle Stewart
September 3, 2013
September 1, 2013
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2.

Arnold & Bobby - Arnold's 99th Bday 2013
Judy Singer
September 1, 2013

Arnold & Bobby - Arnold's 95th Bday 2009
Judy Singer
September 1, 2013

Arnold & Family - Arnold's 95th Bday 2009
Judy Singer
September 1, 2013

Arnold & Cousin Marcella "Lala" Carver - Arnold's 95th Bday 2009
Judy Singer
September 1, 2013

Arnold & Bobby 3-2005
Judy Singer
September 1, 2013
Arnold was one of the nicest, most well-rounded and kindest people you would ever want to meet and know. He always had a positive attitude, a youthful spirit, a love for learning and sharing, a terrific sense of humor, and a curiosity which he partially satisfied by reading and traveling. His smile would warm a room and always made you feel special and loved. His love was shared with his wonderful and devoted wife and best friend of 73 years, Bobby, and his terrific children, Ellen and Susan, as well as grandchildren and great-grandchildren. They will all carry on his legacy of helping others and being people who have a good heart and an open-mind. Arnold also had a close brother, George, who is equally as nice and devoted to his family and will also miss him very much. I send my love to the family, and they should have peace of mind that they all did everything possible to enhance the quality of Arnold's life, and they should have no regrets. Arnold lived well and will always be in our hearts. With lots of love to the family...cousin Judy
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