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Helen Stone Obituary

Stone, Helen G.

Retired Fond du Lac school principal, Helen Stone, died peacefully on Saturday June 29, 2013 at St. Francis Nursing Home in Fond du Lac at the age of 83. She was a loving mother and grandmother, a devoted educator, and an advocate for her community.

Born in 1930 to Ted and Margareta Givans, a farming family in rural Iowa, she attended a one room country school with her sister Evelyn and brother Max. During high school her parents sent Helen, as they had with her older sister, into town every school week to stay in a room rented from a widow. Helen often told stories of how she studied by the light of a 15 watt bulb, the highest wattage bulb the widow allowed in her house! She graduated from Washington Iowa High School in 1948 as the class Valedictorian and began her career working as a receptionist/secretary in a local office. She married Donald Stone, also of Washington, in 1951 and in the next few years had two sons Stephen and Craig.

Helen assisted in the Stone family business until her own family moved to St. Cloud, Minnesota. She continued to work full time and began college at St. Cloud State. The family next moved to Winona, Minnesota where Helen completed her degree in Elementary Education at Winona State University, graduating Phi Beta Kappa. She started her teaching career in nearby Trempealeau, Wisconsin, and then moved to the Winona Public Schools, where she also continued taking advanced education coursework.

After the family moved to Appleton, Wisconsin in 1968, Helen began taking graduate courses part-time at UW-Eau Claire and UW-Madison while she continued teaching. In 1975 she received her Master's degree and was hired by the Fond du Lac School system as an Administrative Trainee. In 1977 she received her first assignment as principal.

Helen served as an elementary school principal in Fond du Lac for 19 years, first at Franklin, then at Waters, and finally at Rosenow. She was devoted to the children who passed through her schools and worked tirelessly with her staff members to bring the children a strong education. She retired in June of 1996. Beyond her career she was an active member of Delta Kappa Gamma, and her church, Pilgrim United Church of Christ. She was an avid reader and gardener.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Ted and Margaretta Givans and her brother Max Givans. She is survived by her sister Evelyn (Wayne) Witthoft of Washington, Iowa, son Stephen (Karen) of Madison, son Craig (Kristin) and granddaughters Kate and Libby of St. Paul, Minn.

The family wishes to thank her closest friends Betty C., Lorna, and Betty B., Parish nurse Sue, and the wonderful staff at St. Francis Terrace and St. Frances Home for their devotion and friendship. Memorials should be directed to St. Francis Nursing Home, 33 Everett St, Fond du Lac, Pilgrim UCC, or your local Alzheimer's Association.

Visitation will be held on Monday, July 8, 2013, at Pilgrim United Church of Christ, 535 Stow Street, Fond du Lac, from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. with a funeral service at 7:00.

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Published by Fond du Lac Reporter from Jul. 3 to Jul. 8, 2013.

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Sally Smith

December 24, 2017

Helen was the worst possible principle at Waters School.

July 8, 2013

Craig and Steve, My deepest sympathy to you. I was in Delta kappa Gamma with your mom. She was a great lady!
Mary Ann Salter

Julie "Givans" Canfield

July 8, 2013

Steve and Craig,
I have many fond childhood memories of Aunt Helen - she was a poised and elegant, yet fun, lady. I know my father, Max Givans, thought a lot of her. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers ~
With Deepest Sympathy,

Denise Kemmel

July 8, 2013

Dear Steve and Craig, I'm not sure if you will remember me but I was a caregiver for your mother when she first came to live at St. Francis Terrace. What a beautiful lady she was! I truely enjoyed helping her with her daily needs. She was a pleasure to know and spend time with. I was sad when she had to leave the Terrace and live at the Nursing Home. I feel bad that I didn't visit her much after she had moved, but I thought of her and the two of you. I remember visiting with you guys when you would visit your mother. You have my deepest sympathy and know that she is in a better place and will be waiting for you with open arms.

July 7, 2013

I taught with Helen @ Lawrence University in the mid '70s. She was a great mentor and an elegant lady--and yet treated me, a young dedicated instructor, as her equal. I'm sooo sorry for your loss--she will be remembered fondly by many.
Mary Lee Powell, former Appleton Area School District reading specialist

July 7, 2013

We send our condolences. Are family lived 2 houses down fron Helen for several years. Very kind lady.. The Schultz family

July 6, 2013

Steve and Craig
I'm the youngest of Max's daughter's. I was very tiny and don't have a lot of memories but do recall several visits Aunt Helen made back home to visit with Dad while I was still at home. She always had a smile and we kept in touch by Christmas cards until a few years ago. Please know you all are in my thoughts and prayers and one day we will all be reunited in the heaven with all those loved ones that have passed before us.

With Deepest Sympathy,
Amy 'Givans' Beckham
Burlington, IA

July 3, 2013

I have many fond memories of Helen as she was our neighbor in Fond du Lac. We spent some time together in the evenings having some great conversations. She was a wonderful neighbor. My condolences to her family. Donna Plummer

Marcie Givans

July 3, 2013

I will always remember the trip to Wisconsin to see Aunt Helen and my two cousins when I was just a little tyke. She was a wonderful lady and I know my Father thought a lot of his sister. I'm sure she is missed by all and my deepest sympathies to Steve and Craig.

July 3, 2013

Dear Steve, Craig and family: This is your cousin, Lori "Givans" Taylor from West Burlington, IA. I'm so sorry for your loss. I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Our family in heaven just keeps getting larger and larger. One day we will all be together again. Please accept my sincerest sympathy. Lori

scott johnson

July 3, 2013

I enjoyed working for her she was very devoted and was dedicated and as hard working as they come with a no nonsence attitude ,God bless you Helen

July 3, 2013

Many fond memories whan I think of Mrs. Stone. I had her at both Franklin and Waters school.

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