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Joseph Hawthorne Obituary

Joseph R. Hawthorne, Jr.
of Shirley; 69

SHIRLEY - Joseph R. Hawthorne, Jr., 69, of Shirley, died Tuesday Morning, January 23, 2018, at his residence.

Joe was born in Fitchburg, November 25, 1948, a son of the late Joseph R. and Anne (Dunleavy) Hawthorne and has resided in Shirley for over 40 years.

He was a graduate of St. Bernard's Central Catholic High School in Fitchburg and later attended Fitchburg State College. He had been active in the Fitchburg Scouting program and had attained the level of Eagle Scout.

During the Vietnam era Joe served his country for over four years in the United States Navy.

Joe began his career of 36 years as a professional firefighter when, in 1977, he was appointed to the Shirley Fire Department. In 1984 he rose to the rank of Lieutenant and in 2003 became Captain of the Department and in 2012 was named of Deputy Chief of the Shirley Fire Department. He continued to remain active in the activities of the department after his retirement in 2013.

In December 2009, Joe was the first to respond to a house fire on Phoenix Street in Shirley where he was able to single handedly rescue an injured woman from the burning building.

As a result of his heroism he was honored by the Commonwealth of Massachusetts as the Firefighter of the Year in 2010. Also, that year, Joe was honored with the American Legion Silver Star Medal of Valor.

He was instrumental in the formation of the Shirley Legion Youth Baseball League and had coached in the youth sports programs. He was a member of St. Anthony's Church, Shirley.

He is survived by his wife of 39 years, Mary E. (Legere) Hawthorne; a son, Jonathan T. Hawthorne and wife, Lisa of Ayer; a daughter, Katie A. Hawthorne and boyfriend, Jason Strniste of West Brookfield; two stepsons, Alex Mechachonis and wife Alisha of Granville, Michael Mechachonis and wife Melissa of Suffield, CT; a brother, Mark Hawthorne of Fitchburg; three sisters, Brenda Santucci and Mary Foley both of Leominster, Anne "Honeybear" Smith of Texas; six grandchildren, Cameron Hawthorne, Emma Hawthorne, Holden Mechachonis, Anna Mechachonis, Ayla Mechachonis and Alex Mechachonisand nieces and nephews.

He was predeceased by his brother Thomas Hawthorne.

HAWTHORNE - A funeral Mass will be celebrated 10 AM Saturday, January 27th at St. Anthony Church, 14 Phoenix Street, Shirley.

Burial will be in the parish cemetery.

Calling hours are 4-7 Friday at the Anderson Funeral Home, 25 Fitchburg Rd., (Rte. 2A) Ayer. Please see www.andersonfuneral.com for additional information.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Shirley Hose Co. # 1, Shirley Fire Department, 8 Leominster Rd., Shirley, MA 01464.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Sentinel & Enterprise on Jan. 24, 2018.

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Roger Beaulac

January 28, 2018

So sorry to hear about the death of your Brother we just saw it today the 28th.

January 26, 2018

Mary,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Butch. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

John Smith, Shrewsbury MA

Jean Macaione

January 25, 2018

Dear Mary,
We are so sorry to hear of Butch's passing. He was a good man and will be missed by many--especially his family. Keep the wonderful memories you have of him close to your heart and he will always be with you. Sorry we live so far away but you are in our thoughts & prayers.
Will talk to you soon.
With much love & sympathy.
Jeanne & Tony

Craig and Tyler DeLisle

January 25, 2018

Jon, we were so sorry to hear about your father. Our deepest condolences to you and
all of your family.

Bill Harley

January 25, 2018

So sorry to hear about Joe. He was one of my true friends in my life. Always there to help. He was so dependable and humble. Great football teammate and true friend even after high school. Spent a lot of time with "Butch" working at the Burbank Hospital and many a touch football games on Sundays. Gonna miss you "Butch"

dennis n susan selinga

January 24, 2018

brenda,mary n honeybear im so sorry to read about your brother joe my thoughts n prayers are with you n your whole family

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