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David Daeffler Obituary

CLIFTON SPRINGS - On Sunday (March 15th, 2020) David Daeffler, loving husband, father, grandfather, son and brother, passed away at age 65.
David was born on August 17, 1954 in Clifton Springs, N.Y. to Wayland and Lillian Daeffler. He graduated from Waterloo High School in 1973, where he was a basketball star, fun-loving friend and honorable student. He ultimately married the love of his life, Karen Pierson Schaup. Their combined families included two daughters, two sons and four grandchildren.
David had a passion for music, motorcycles, NASCAR and restoration. From computers to cars - he could repair, rebuild or recondition anything. David loved to volunteer in his church and community, and he was the first to offer help to a friend or stranger in need, He was also a talented DJ, harmonica player and artist. He was known for his authentic charm, his benevolent demeanor and his indomitable spirit.
David was preceded in death by his beloved mother, Lillian.
He is survived by his father, Wayland; his wife, Karen; two children Stacy (Joseph) Daeffler-Otremba and Aaron Daeffier; two step-children Jessica Schaup and James Schaup; two grandchildren Nico and Mica; two step-grandchildren Madelynn and Logan; three sisters Rebecca (Michael) Palmer, Donna Bud and Elizabeth (Stanley) Britton; and numerous extended family members and dear friends.
A celebration of life event will take place in Waterloo, N.Y. at a later date, and announcements will be made through Social Media platforms.
Should friends desire, contributions may be sent to the Donations.Diabetes.org in David's name.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Finger Lakes Times from Apr. 24 to Apr. 28, 2020.

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Steve Marshall

April 28, 2020

So sorry to hear of Dave passing.. A lot of good times working with him. A great friend that will be missed.. R.I.P. Duck...

April 24, 2020

My condolences to the family. I attended school with Dave and remember him as a wonderful person & great athlete. Glade to hear he had a large loving family.

BILL EVANS

April 24, 2020

Gone way too soon. Definitely the kind of person we need more of in this world. Most sincere condolences to those he left behind.

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