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Kathleen Milliman Obituary
Kate was born in Waterloo, N.Y. on April 25,1974. She graduated from Waterloo High School in 1992 and later earned undergraduate and graduate degrees in education and administration from Nazareth College of Rochester (Nazareth University) and the University at Buffalo.
Kate was a force of nature with her charismatic demeanor, infectious laugh and commanding presence. Besides being a wonderful daughter, sister, partner, stepmother, niece, cousin and friend, she was a dedicated administrator for the New York State Education Department Office of Special Education, where she served as Chief of Special Education Services and was a fierce advocate for students with disabilities. There is no question her leadership in that role led to positive outcomes for many children. Kate was also a skilled quilter, who shared her magic with the community by donating hundreds of quilts to nursing homes and other senior residences. She will be deeply missed by all who loved her.
Per Kate's wishes, there are no calling hours or services. Gifts in her memory may be made to The Ovarian Cancer Research Alliance (www.ocrahope.org), the Sisters of Saint Joseph of Rochester (www.ssjrochester.org), and the Verona Street Animal Society (www.vsas.org).
The family extends their gratitude to the physicians and nursing staff of Rochester General Hospital for their attentive care during Kate's last months of life.
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Katy
March 1, 2025
I am so sad to hear of Katie's passing. We were neighbors growing up and played all the time as kids in their basement. Prayers to her family and friends.
Robert Kraft
February 28, 2025
Some people have a smile that can light up a whole room. Katie's infectious smile could light up a whole town. Katie put her rare combination of empathy and strength to great use and made a difference in this world. Her kindness and sense of humor will be greatly missed. I expect to see her smile welcoming me when it's my turn to go to Heaven.
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