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Deb Heck
July 20, 2025
I am so sorry for your loss Tim & family. I have been so sick on and off and been so overwhelmed with losses myself that i am just now getting to wrote. Please know that you all were and still ate in our prayers. We never stopped praying ever since we met you all. May God bless all of you with a peace that surpasses all understanding. Sincerely,
Dan & Deb Heck & family
Roger and Jean Benzinger
September 5, 2024
To Tim.
Thank you for sharing with me yesterday about you loss. You have our deepest sympathy. May Christ be with you and your loved ones.
Your neighbors,
Roger and Jean Benzinger
Kathy and Bob Fruchey
May 20, 2024
We remember Jenny,
I can´t really remember the year the Sauders moved into the house behind us, but I do know Raquel was 3 years old. It was such a joy to have them practically in our backyard. We would hear cheers when one "team" would score a soccer point, we would hear laughter at their pool, and we could hear Jenny call the children in for dinner. It was a joy filled home. Kathy did have to give Jenny a call when Raquel came into our house and surprised her in the computer room. Kathy had quite a scare! Jenny and I had a good laugh over that episode. I can almost guarantee there was a lesson that day about ringing the doorbell when you visit. And there was also Raquel´s short "runaway" day. She stopped in for a chat, telling me she was running away from home, but after our cookies and milk (and the little chat) she decided she had been gone long enough and went home. Jenny was a great mother.
Jenny home schooled her children along with several other friends. She made history come alive for them. Bob and I were invited to the closing of a history unit about WW2. It was a skit, with costumes and detailed reports of what the students had learned. We were really impressed! Jenny was a good teacher!
In the fall of 2002 Kathy was diagnosed with breast cancer. Jenny gave me space but showed up one day apologizing for waiting so long to come see me. She listened to my stories and prayed with me. She was very good medicine for me. Jenny was a good listener!
Through the years there always seemed to be someone visiting their home, long stays, or short visits. That was wonderful in our eyes, because we knew the Sauders were having a good Christian time. Sometimes we could hear the music they played, and the songs that the family sang. So peaceful to hear in the soft summer evenings. In the winter at Christmas time, we would be surprised with the whole family singing carols at our door! Jenny was a lover of music and Hymns.
The action kept happening as the years went by, the boys made a make-shift sled from a spare backseat, hooked it up to one of their "toys" and pulled each other across the fields in a "crack the whip" fashion. The boys gave Kathy and her small grandson a ride too! Those boys would have a yearly jump off the Hurshtown Bridge. We were always glad when that was over, tooo risky for us to even think about. Jenny was good at letting her children explore their surroundings!
Jenny loved the animals at their house. One of the times when the family was gone, their horses found their way out of the pasture where they had been grazing. There were two of them and just Kathy. Kathy didn´t like the odds, so she called a nearby brother to come help. When he arrived, the horses where almost to Klopfenstine Rd. We got them back to the lane and into their field by teasing them with apples. We made sure Tim fixed that escape hatch! This happened a few other times, but apples did the trick every time.
Her vegetable garden flourished, and she shared so much of it with us. She would get bouquets of flowers from me. Tim and Bob would share the snow blowing chores each winter. Jenny and Tim were good sharers.
The Sauders were just delightful neighbors. We missed them so much when the kids slowly started leaving home and getting on with their lives. If we were outside, and one of their kids would be coming home for a visit, we would always see them first. Then they moved to downsize, so we stopped in and in the middle of moving, and both Tim and Jenny gave us a tour of their new home. She never got frazzled over not being settled in, "it will happen" she said. When Jenny got sick, we went to visit just after Christmas, what did we see but Jenny making paper snowflakes with little children that Erica treated to an overnight. She never stopped giving...never...
We miss her.
Kathy and Bob Fruchey
Rick and Rachel Meyer
May 11, 2024
May her memories be a blessing. Sincere condolences.
~ Rick & Rachel Meyer
Jenö and Judith from Stuttgart, Germany
May 3, 2024
We are so sorry that Jennifer with her goodness of her heart and her loveableness cannot be anymore physical with her family and among us. May her charisma and everthing that accounted for her great and calm personality, which we keep thoroughly in mind, inspire many human beings to contribute to a better world.
Jenö and Judith from Stuttgart, Germany
May 3, 2024
We are so sorry that Jennifer with her goodness of her heart and her loveableness cannot be anymore physical with her family and among us. May her charisma and everthing that accounted for her great and calm personality, which we keep thoroughly in mind, inspire many human beings to contribute to a better world.
Dave and Barb (Landes) Schwind
April 29, 2024
Tim, Sauder and Gramm families, our prayers are with you all. I enjoyed being one of Jenny's roommates at Gramm house one summer during our college days. She loved Jesus and she loved others well. May the Lord comfort your hearts until you meet again!
Jane and Dan Steffen
April 28, 2024
Jenny was always a true friend that we will miss greatly. Tim, our hearts our breaking for you. May the Lord be your comforter in this season of losing your loving wife, Jenny.
kent obermann
April 26, 2024
Tim
I´m so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family. May the peace and comfort of God wash over you and yours my brother...Kent Obermann
Michael Moore
April 21, 2024
Rest in peace Jenny, my memories of you are fond memories.
Beverley Wyman
April 20, 2024
Sympathy. We were neighbors on the farm in Chenoa. She was a beautiful soul.
Joe & Barb Zimmerman
April 20, 2024
Dear Sauder & Gramm families,
We continue praying for you as you say good night to your always vibrant Jenny. May our Lord Jesus comfort you as only He can.
Wilmer and Diane Delagrange
April 20, 2024
Tim, we are so sorry to learn of Jennifer's passing. Our deepest sympathies to you and your beautiful families.
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