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PHYLLIS ECKMAN Obituary

PHYLLIS CAFFEE ECKMAN, 85, died Friday, Jan. 27, 2012 at Towne House Retirement Community. She was born March 3, 1926 in Chicago, Ill., the daughter of Horace and Ilma (Baum-gartner) Caffee. She attended Downers Grove High School, obtained a nursing degree at Chicago Presbyterian Hospital in 1947 and a bachelor's degree in nursing froom the University of Illinois in 1949. She came to Fort Wayne in 1952 to work as a nurse at the Veteran's Administration Hospital where she met her future husband, Charles Eckman. They were married April 28, 1956. She continued her education at Saint Francis College (now the University of Saint Francis) and obtained a master's degree in education in 1966. She joined the nursing faculty of IPFW where she taught from 1966 to 1980. Passionately committed to life-long learning and self-development, she returned to school in 1980 and obtained a master's degree in library science from IU Bloomington. She worked as health sciences librarian at Parkview Hospital until her retirement in 1991. She had a warm and engaging personality. She loved and was talented at furniture making and knitting. She was a member of Plymouth Congregational Church (UCC) since 1956. Surviving are her husband of 56 years, Charles Eckman; son, Chuck Eckman of Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada; daughter, Catherine Eckman of Columbia, S.C.; seven nieces; and one nephew. She was preceded in death by a sister, Enid Strabel and a brother, John P. Caffee. Funeral Service is 11 a.m. Thursday, Feb. 2, 2012 at Klaehn Fahl & Melton Funeral Home, Wayne Street Chapel, with visitation one hour prior. Visitation also from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday, Feb. 1, 2012 at the funeral home. Memorials to Plymouth Congregational Church. Arrangements by Klaehn, Fahl & Melton Funeral Home. klaehnfahlmelton.com

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Jan. 30, 2012.

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Susan Heller

February 9, 2012

Cathy,

I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful mother. I am also sorry we didn't live closer, I honestly don't feel I got to know her that well until the last 10-15 years. I would have loved to have her nearer in my life. She was a beautiful woman with great integrity, intelligence, and personality. I know she will be missed as she was well loved. I was blessed to have her as my aunt.

Phyllis Beasley

February 4, 2012

Cathy, I've been thinking of you a lot. I'm so sorry about the loss of your mother.

Sheila (Hunt) Cuffy

February 4, 2012

Dear Chuck and Cathy,
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. I remember her as a neighbor.
I'll be praying for you and your family during this difficult time. May Gods love and grace be with you always.

Jacqueline Roller

February 2, 2012

Dear Chuck and Cathy,
PLease know of my heartfelt thoughts as you bury your dear mother. She was always so kind when I came to your home. Words can not express what saying goodbye might mean to you, so let me simply say, I love you both and I am with you in Spirit.
Jacqueline Roller (Sarasota, FL)

Kevin Dunn

February 2, 2012

Chuck, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You mother was a great lady who had a very positive influence on me in my youth. All the best, Kevin R Dunn

Shelley and George

February 2, 2012

Dear Cathy,
Even when we know it's coming, the loss of a parent is so very difficult. You are in our thoughts. Take care.

February 1, 2012

Cathy,
Thinking about you and your family. I love you.
Betsy

Darlene K Garrett

February 1, 2012

To the family of Phyllis Eckman. I had her as my instructor in my first nursing class@ IPFW in the mid-1970s. I noted in her obituary that she had a very engaging personality. I agree with that. She & I really connected & I was her student in class but,also,became her friend along the way in our educational journey.Do I remember all my nursing instructors? No, but I remember& respect her & know she assisted me to get started in the profession of nursing. I will miss her but, I am sure, not as much as you will miss her. May God touch you in this time of loss. I feel your pain & sorrow.
Sincerely,
Darlene K Garrett,PhD. Chief Operating Officer,
Parkview Huntington Hospital

January 31, 2012

To the Eckman family:
My sincerest condolences to all of you. I cannot tell you the impact Phyllis had on my life as my nursing instructur at Purdue University. She played a big part in my life at Towne House,too.
My blessings to you all.
Sincerely, Phyllis Lehman

Marc Manges

January 31, 2012

I remember Phyllis very very well, she and Charles were good friends of my parents Ward and Mary Manges who lived across from them on Otsego Drive. She was very very kind and was always there for my parents as was Charles I thank them for that because I lived quite a ways away. She will be missed by the family and everyone who knew her.

Marc and Kitty Manges

Mary Mallory

January 31, 2012

Dearest Eckmans, I am so sorry and sad that your Phyllis is gone. She remains in the most lively of spirits. Always in our hearts.

January 31, 2012

Dear Cathy and Family,
I was so sorry to learn of the loss of your loved one. I know all of you will miss her greatly, but she has set a wonderful example for you. Know that I am thinking of you and remembering you in my prayers during this time of sadness.
Love,
Virginia

Philip Darling

January 30, 2012

To the Eckman family:
My sincere condolences on the loss
of your wife and mother. She was so
knowledgable about a multitude of
subjects and a pleasure to converse
with. I appreciated her support as pursued my Library Science degree.
My thoughts and prayers are with you
now and always.

Anastasia Hatzigeorgiou

January 30, 2012

Cathy, I am so sorry for your loss. May her memory bring you peace.
Ana Hatzigeorgiou (nee Raptis)

Anne Gill

January 30, 2012

Thank you for being such an inspiration and for your steadfast support all these years. I love you Aunt Phyllis, rest in peace.

Cheryl Allison

January 30, 2012

Cathy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. May God's love and peace surround you all and give you comfort.

Love, Cheryl

Abbie Cook

January 30, 2012

Cathy, I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Deborah Pickett

January 30, 2012

Cathy my prayers are with you and your family. May GOD comfort all of you now and forever. Love Always, Deborah

Michelle Cox

January 30, 2012

Cathy and family:
I always enjoyed talking with your mom about her passion for nursing. I would run into your parents frequently at the House of Hunan at lunch time, and she always would give me motivation to finish my nursing degree. I have you and your family in my prayers.

Tonya Franklin

January 30, 2012

So sorry about your mom Cathy! I will be praying for you and your family. Tonya Franklin

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