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Steven McElhoe Obituary

Steven E. "Steve" McElhoe, 76, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by his loving family, on October 27, 2025, Born in Fort Wayne, Indiana, Steve was the son of the late Harold and Georgianna (Hansen) McElhoe. Steve proudly served his country in the United States Army during the Vietnam War. He graduated from North Side High School and later earned his associate degree from Ivy Tech. Steve dedicated 33 years to the banking industry as a senior mortgage loan officer-a career he truly loved because it allowed him to help others achieve the dream of homeownership. Never one to sit still, Steve was always tinkering, mowing the lawn, or relaxing in his man cave with good music. A devoted fan of Notre Dame, his love for music and sports was second only to his deep love for his family and friends. He is survived by his beloved wife of 57 years, Cathy McElhoe; children Shayne McElhoe, Christine "Chrissy" McElhoe, and Holly McElhoe; grandchildren Dylan McElhoe, Haley McElhoe, Keiona (Enrique) Corona, Cameron Summers, and Grace McElhoe; brothers David (Kathy) Becker and Danny Becker; and sister Darlene (Paul) Buckel. He was preceded in death by his brother, Dick Teeters. Visitation will be held Tuesday, November 4, 2025, from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. A Celebration of Life for Steve will take place at 11:00 a.m. Wednesday, November 5, 2025, with visitation beginning one hour prior. Military Honors will immediately follow the service. All services will be held at FairHaven Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 6557 N. Clinton Street, Fort Wayne. Memorials may be made to Honor Flight of Northeast Indiana.

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Nov. 1, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Steven McElhoe

Nov

4

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

FairHaven Funeral Home and Cremation Services

6557 N Clinton Street, Fort Wayne, IN 46825

Nov

5

Service

11:00 a.m.

FairHaven Funeral Home and Cremation Services

6557 N Clinton Street, Fort Wayne, IN 46825

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6557 N Clinton Street, Fort Wayne, IN 46825

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Larry Till

November 4, 2025

To a very dear friend, who I have known for more than 40 years. I will always remember you and in tribute here are a couple for you.
"If Dolly Parton married Salvador Dali, she'd be Dolly Dali."
"If Snoop Doggy Dogg married Winnie the Pooh, he'd be Snoop Doggy Dogg Pooh."

Shawn McArdle

November 4, 2025

Steve and I severed on the North Eastern Indiana Mortgage Bankers Board together. He was liked by everyone. He was also one of the funniest guys I knew. There were times when my cheeks would hurt because we were laughing so hard. You will be truly missed Steve. Rest in peace my friend.

Gregory Dolby

November 4, 2025

Knew Steve from the fun we shared living life on the lake these last 8 years...
REALLY going to miss him...

Mary Travis

November 1, 2025

Steve and I worked together for many years. He was the funniest guy I ever met. He brought lots of laughter to your life! Rest in peace my friend , you will be missed

Thomas A Swihart

November 1, 2025

I was saddened and surprised to learn of Steve's passing.I had known him for a long time since he was the brother of one of my former law partners.Steve was just a pleasant person to be around .Always upbeat and energetic.My thoughts and prayers for all those in his family as well as his friends as I know how much they will miss him.

Steve Bulmahn

October 31, 2025

Have known Steve since North Side HS. We worked in banking for many years. Steve had a super sense of humor and was an excellent poet ! We became good friends later in life. I will miss Steve so much. My regret is that we did not get together more often. My prayers to Cathy and their family. He is with the LORD and no longer has pain. I will miss lunch with Steve and Mark as we shared great stories !!! May GOD be with family and friends through this difficult time. Peace be with all of us.

Julie K Rodriguez

October 31, 2025

I met Steve & Cathy through friends Tom and Cindy Henry. We had some fun game nights and a lot of laughs every time there was a gathering of friends & family. Cindy, Tom, Ben, and now Steve, this much loss in such a short period of time is heartbreaking and difficult to process. Truly devastating. We all live our lives forgetting we are on borrowed time. Please be kind always! Pray for all who loved them.

Brian & Treena Garrison

October 31, 2025

He was a wonderful neighbor and friend who made every conversation feel easy and every day a little brighter. We´ll miss those peaceful afternoons on the lake, pontoon to pontoon, sharing stories and laughter. Our thoughts are with Cathy and the family.

"Like ripples on the water, the lives we touch never truly fade away."

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