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Rene Townsend
July 21, 2010
After my husband had renal failure, we had to sell our home and a lot of our possessions. As we looked for a place to rent we felt that we would never find a place that we would call home again. Then one day as we left our church, Anthony Wayne Church, we went down South Bend Dr. to go out to U.S. 24, There was a sign in the yard that the house was for rent. We stopped immediately and called the number from the driveway of the house. We made an appointment to see the house and the minute we stepped into the house, 6402 South Bend Dr., we felt that this was a place we could call home.
I had lived on South Bend Dr., 3 blocks down from your house, growing up as a child until after graduation so I was already in love with the neighborhood.
Your childhood home was a home where we got strength from, peace from, hope from and healing. While staying there, my husband had to have dialysis three times a week but he got stronger and made it on the transplant list after a couple of years. We had family get togethers often at the house and everyone would comment what a great house it was. Your father built that house uniquely and very smart. House built back then didn't have the large closets that your father had built. The woodwork was still rich and warm that he had for flooring in the dining room and the baseboards and doors. We loved to see his notes written on the basement wall or out in the garages of when he would flush out the water lines or how many gallons of paint was used on the house and when and how many hours it took! The only complaint we had was the second floor eves being so low. Especially when our son (6ft 5inch son) and his wife moved in with us and took over the upstairs for a year while they saved money for their own home. I loved working outside in the yard planting flowers and bushes and trimming the existing trees and bushes. I loved walking the grounds and (before they started building the apartments) the land around it. We had asked the landlords if we could even purchase the home but they had other plans for the property and wouldn't even consider it. We were priviledged to live in your childhood home and brought your mother over a couple of times. I loved the stories she told of the home. Then the older ladies across the street Gertrude and her sister, that had always lived in the brick house from childhood on to the present, told me stories about the house and your father building it and the animals your parents had at different times of their life.
After living there for 4 years we had to leave because my husband had gotten a job in South Bend, IN and it was a 2 hour trip one way,so too long to drive daily. We were both sad to leave and say our goodbyes to the home. Your Mom was unique like the home and I was blessed to know each of them!! I will miss both of them very much. Signed Rene' Townsend
Kate Garner
July 20, 2010
Elaine, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. You are fortunate to have had such a special person in your life. Love, Kate Garner
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