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Brian Cincotta Obituary
He was born Aug. 11, 1962, in Dover, N.H., the son of John and Collette Cincotta.
Brian was a graduate of Somersworth High School. He worked and enjoyed many years in construction with his business, Capitol Builders.
To most, Brian was a jack of all trades, the "MacGyver." He had many hobbies including fishing, snowmobiling, going to camp and vacationing with family, but most of all his love for building and smashing cars for demolition derbies with his partner in crime, his son, Anthony.
He is survived by his beloved wife of 29 years, Sandi Cincotta, his son, Anthony Cincotta, his mother, Collette Cincotta, of Somersworth; his sister, Karen Cincotta, and boyfriend, Dave Kenny, of Berwick, Maine; his brothers, Marc Cincotta, of Pembroke, N.H., and Karl Cincotta, his wife, Jennifer, and their two children, Ryan and Renee Cincotta, of Somersworth.
He was predeceased by his father, John Cincotta.
The family would like to thank everyone for their love and support for Brian over the past few years.
SERVICES: Friends are invited to come join in a Celebration of Life from 4 p.m.-6 p.m., on Friday, Aug. 7, at the Bernier Funeral Home, 49 South St., Somersworth. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Scleroderma Research Foundation, 220 Montgomery St., Suite 1411, San Francisco, Calif. 94104; or at their website https://www.srfcure.org.
Care for the Cincotta family has been entrusted to the Bernier Funeral Home.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian Cincotta
Kevin Hughes
August 11, 2015
Karen, I am sorry to learn of your loss. May you and your family remember him and know that you all will be together someday. Bless you and your family.
August 10, 2015
Dear Sandi and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Brians passing. I just heard. What a wonderful man. I know that he will be
missed and loved forever. I will pray for you all. I will never forget him
God bless you all.
Love Ellen Kulig (retired nurse of Dr. Mendoza)
Brendan Connelly
August 9, 2015
My sincerest condolences to the entire Cincotta family. Brian was a very kind and thoughtful man and will be greatly missed.
Anita Sorice
August 8, 2015
Dear Sandy, So sorry for your loss.My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Susan Grimes
August 7, 2015
Dearest Sandi and Anthony
I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband and Dad. He will be remembered with much Love, Kindness, a fighter and Humor.
My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family.
Ann Williams
August 7, 2015
Dear Sandi and Anthony
If Only
If only memories could become a chain
I'd climb it to bring you home again
If only tears could turn into rain
I'd create a storm to carry you home again
If only love could labor to build a lane
I'd connect with you and you'd be home again.
My heart is heavy for your loss
Olive Morest
August 7, 2015
Dear Karen & family,
My thoughts & prayers are with you in this time of great loss. May God comfort you & give you peace.
Betty Gagne
August 7, 2015
Sandi, Marc, Karl, Colette and all the Cincotta family: All my sympathy in the loss of Brian. Thinking of all of you right now and hoping you will find peace. Unable to attend his celebration of life today but sending warm and caring thoughts from California. God bless all of you.
Tom, Dawnmarie Pound and Family
August 7, 2015
Sandi, Anthony & Family
I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Our Deepest Sympathy
Denise & Talia Michaud-Blaisdell
August 7, 2015
Sandi and Anthony,
Our thought and prayers are with you in this time of heartbreak and sorrow. May he rest in peace.
August 6, 2015
Dear Karl, Sandie and Cincotta families.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely.
Georgette at Horizon Travel
August 6, 2015
Sandi, Anthony & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Our Deepest Sympathy
Theresa & Jim Butterfield and Family
Amanda Burpee
August 5, 2015
Sandi, sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Davis-Carpenter
August 5, 2015
Dear Sandi, Anthony, & Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of a wonderful husband, great dad, and brave brother. Sandi we shared a lot of fun moments as friends. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
noel biggs
August 5, 2015
I did demos with this man he was a great guy he will be missed very much but you bet are butts we are gonna have r.i.p 43 on are derby cars just for man rest easily man until we meet again
Alisha Wrobleski (Wood)
August 5, 2015
Sandi, Anthony & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort & strength in your memories. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. If you need anything please let me know.
Steve CRASH603
August 5, 2015
I met Brian an Anthony thru Demo Derbies.We became friends.Brian I know you are at rest my friend.You are the strongest man I have ever met in my life.Thank You for being my friend. Sandi,Anthony You are in my thoughts everyday.
Heidi Holmberg
August 5, 2015
Sorry for your families loss.He was a great man
scott torrey
August 5, 2015
it is with great sadness learning of brian's passing....He was a good friend, Sandi/Anthony..you are in my thoughts and prayers...I will always think of him at quiet times like this at the lake..best wishes my freind.
Terry Morrill -Howard Berry-PamelaBerry Berry Family
August 5, 2015
we were neighbors for years. The whole Cincotta family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Nancie Cameron
August 4, 2015
Death is never an easy path to travel, cherish the memories, relive the laughter, smiles, and talks. Hold close to your heart friends and family who will help ease the pain just alittle.May Brian finally be at peace after his long struggle and know he is just a whisper, a thought, a gentle breeze away from watching over you. May strength be your friend at this time, I'm so sorry for your loss. Nancie Cameron & Sean Marshall
Michele Michaud
August 4, 2015
Sandi, Anthony and Cinncotta family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all! I can't imagine the pain you are all feeling. I hope he can rest in peace!
Brendan and Mercedes Connelly
August 4, 2015
Our heart goes out to you and your loved ones. We are so sorry for your loss.
Sandi
August 4, 2015
For all those that knew Brian..
The man I married an life long partner to the end.
Brian's fight was long an very hard but he fought to the very end.
The amazing strength he had was far the most remarkable memory I will always have.
He refused to give up an so did I...
We were fighting this together till Death Do Us Part....
I will miss him more then I can express but I know in my heart that he is at peace an safe from harm.
He will forever be apart of me.
All my Love, until we meet again
R.I.P. My Darling Brian D. Cincotta
Nancy Covino
August 4, 2015
Aunt Collette and family, I was so sorry to hear about Brian all he went through at least now he can rest. My prayers are with all of you love Nancy
August 4, 2015
May God be with you in this difficult time. Patricia Maddocks (Mathews)
Kerry Hammond
August 4, 2015
Sandi, Anthony and rest of the Cinncotta family, I am so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. We spent some great times together back in the day. He will be greatly missed. Not enough words. Take care
Fran & Shane WILSON
August 4, 2015
Prayers and fond memories are what we have to remember our loved ones. May the love of family and friends comfort you during these difficult days, our most heartfelt condolences. We are so sorry for your families loss.
Paul Vachon
August 4, 2015
My condolences to the Cincotta family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Adrien & Ambrose Family
August 4, 2015
Dear Cincotta family,
Our prayers & thoughts are with your family.RIP
Mike,Ann,Jenn,Kim Gosselin
August 4, 2015
Sandi,Anthony and the whole Cincotta family. We are so sorry for the loss of Brian. He was a great guy!! Our thoughts are with all of you.
Father Thomas Coover
August 4, 2015
I send to the Cincotta Family my sympathy and the promise of my prayers. May Brian be welcomed into his promised heavenly home.
Bernard & Evelyn McKenney
August 4, 2015
Colette, so sorry to hear of your grandson's passing, Mac and I are praying for you and your family at this time. Didn't know Brian, but it sounds like he had a lot of special friends and family.
MARCIA CORNELLIER
August 4, 2015
KARL & JENNIFER
SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR BROTHER/BROTHER-IN-LAW.
KARL: MY CONDOLENCES TO YOUR MOTHER
August 4, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Audrey chapman
August 3, 2015
Sorry for your lost he was a good man he will always be in our hearts.
August 3, 2015
Karen and Family, My deepest sympathy for your loss. John Panteledes
Ted & Linda Lyons
August 3, 2015
Karl and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Ted & Linda
martin dumais
August 3, 2015
Sandi, Anthony, good friend, a great man, I will never forget all the good times we had over the years.God bless his soul.
Michelle (Missy) Bernth (Powers)
August 3, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Laurie Hillsgrove
August 3, 2015
Sandy and Anthony so sorry for your loss he is not in pain anymore and will remain in u hearts forever God bless you both at this difficult time
August 3, 2015
To all the Family, I am sorry to hear of your lose, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Jean Gendron
Kevin Bernier
August 3, 2015
Brian is gone but for me he remains in every part of my home. Over the years Brian has touched fixed and remodeled almost every square inch of my house, and I see him everywhere I look. Brian not only worked on my home, but he Anthony and Sandy became great friends. He is already missed by Debbie and I
Bob Kenney
August 3, 2015
Sandi, Anthony, and the Cincotta Family:
So sorry to hear about your loss. He fought
his illness with tooth and nail, and
despite losing that last battle, he still
won The War.
Dawn Lapierre
August 3, 2015
Sandy, Anthony and all of Brian's family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Brian was a good man and fought a hard fight. May he find comfort and peace in God's loving arms.
Dawn Lapierre & Brent Reardon
Ray and Julie Mathews
August 3, 2015
Dear Sandi and Anthony,
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of Brian. We both remember him fondly. He was a great man. Please know we are thinking and praying for you.
Ray and Julie Mathews
David Snow
August 3, 2015
My heart goes out to Sandi and Anthony.
Brian will be missed. He was a cool guy.
Betty, and Bob Masse
August 2, 2015
So Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sincere Sympathies.
Raymond Millers
August 1, 2015
MLH&R... <3 Geek, Red Eye, Mikey, Janis and now Brian... Plus so many more great warriors... Now working for God's Armies... Missing them more than anyone can imagine... Heavy Losses , but I know God's Got this!!!... Sandi and family please share Brian's Passions for life forever!!!
Robin Wentworth
August 1, 2015
Sandi, Anthony, and the entire Cincotta family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the up coming days. Brian will be forever missed by so many. We had so many years of fun time's. Those I will cherish forever! He is now at peace where there is no more pain, suffering, or everyday struggles He was one of the strongest men that I had the pleasure of calling my friend! He fought a very long hard battle, now he is your guardian angel that will be watching over you, Sandi, Anthony and his family/friends from above...I will hold close to my heart the last grin he gave me on his final day. Fly high Bri and may you RIP. God Bless with love. Sincerely, Jon & Robin
Robin Wentworth
August 1, 2015
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Kathy Hennelly Sessler
August 1, 2015
Cincotta Family, so sorry for your tremendous loss...the support of family is special and you have a wonderful family. Thinking of all of you...
Hennelly Family
Melanie Curran Goodwin
August 1, 2015
Sandy and Family, I am deeply saddened to hear of Brian's passing. I think back and can't remember not knowing him,I think we met in first grade. He was a great guy! My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Donna Vallee
August 1, 2015
Sandi so very sorry sorry for your loss.Deepest Sympathies and Prayers go out to you and his Family. Always liked Brian though hadn't seen him in Many years.Heaven has Gained another Angel.
Carolyn Kidney
July 31, 2015
Mrs Cincotta and family, I'm thinking of you all at this so very difficult time. Sending love and prayers. God Bless
Claire & Arthur Guilmette
July 31, 2015
Our deepest sympathies - hugs and prayers to all - God Bless!
Pauline Baillargeon
July 31, 2015
Dear Colette. Its been a long time. I didn't know you lost John and that is sad. I pray that you recover from the loss of your son. May your children remain close to you in your time of need . prayers for your recovery.
July 31, 2015
we are so sorry to hear this karl, his days here have ended, but so has his pain and suffering, our hearts go out to sandy,you and your entire family,all our love, john & tammi
Dino Angelopoulos
July 31, 2015
Oh my! I am so sorry to hear this. I shared so many good times with Brian and worked with him for a few years. Sandi, Anthony, and the rest of Brian's family, please accept our deepest sympathies.
Jean & Elaine Shepard
July 31, 2015
Sandi, Anthony and extended Cincotta family,
We were so very saddened to hear of Brian's passing even knowing how sick he was. He was such a good person, worker and family man. Please accept our sympathies for you loss. May God Bless you all through these next difficult days and may you hold in your hearts all the great memories you all have of Brian.
Kathy Kuneck
July 31, 2015
Aunt Collette and all of my cousins. I'm so sorry to hear of Brians passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May he rest in peace♥
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