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Deborah Mutter Obituary

DOVER - Deborah R. Mutter, of Dover, died peacefully Sunday, October 28, 2018 at her home surrounded by her family and friends after a courageous battle with cancer. She was born May 28, 1966 in Winchester, Massachusetts the daughter of Paul and Aurora (Kasparian) Cusolito.

Her main joy was spending time with her family and friends throughout the years, walking on the beach and visiting with her brothers.

Members of her family include her husband of 27 years, Jeffrey Mutter of Dover; two sons, Dominic J. Mutter of Dover, currently serving in the U.S. Navy and Joseph P. Mutter of Dover; two brothers, Paul (Kathleen) Cusolito of Atlanta, Georgia and her twin-brother, Richard (Theresa) Cusolito of West Lake Village, California; four nieces and one nephew.

She was predeceased by her parents and by her sister, Diane Decastro.

SERVICES: Visiting hours will be Thursday, from 4-7 p.m. at the Tasker Funeral Home, 621 Central Ave., Dover. The funeral will be Friday, at 9:30 a.m. at the funeral home. Burial will follow in St. Mary New Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorials in her name may be made to the Seacoast Cancer Center, 789 Central Ave., Dover, N.H. or to the American Cancer Society. Please go to www.taskerfh.com to sign the online guestbook.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Oct. 31 to Nov. 3, 2018.

Memories and Condolences
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Deb Keim

October 27, 2020

Miss my best friend dearly each and every day.

Jeffrey mutter

February 19, 2019

Missing you every day my love

Elizabeth LeClair

November 13, 2018

I was so saddened to hear this news, had worked with Deb for many years at Frisbie Memorial Hospital. She was always kind, helpful and had a calming presence. She will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Pam Gibson

November 9, 2018

Deb will be forever missed. She was a wonderful woman and co-worker.

Diane Dubay

November 9, 2018

Dear Jeff - I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know I am thinking of you, your wife, and your sons.

Rick and Terri Black

November 8, 2018

Dear Mutter Family,

We are so sorry to hear of your loss and remember Deb fondly. We have been friends of Paul and Kathy Cusolito for over 30 years from our old Atlanta days. Many years ago they invited us to join them at Lake Winnipesaukee. We had a wonderful visit spending time with Deb and the entire family. Deb's warm and fun loving spirit was contagious and quite memorable. Sending you our deepest sympathies.

Tom Powers

November 3, 2018

Dear Jeff- Nancy and I were saddened to read of Deborah' passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong brother!

Christine

November 2, 2018

I worked and ate many lunches with Deb years ago at the Edgewood center. We were with her during her medical onset, but she pressed on, was positive, kind to all, and spoke about her loving family frequently. I am so sorry to hear about her passing,....... such a loss,.......my sincere condolences to her loved ones,........ she will be missed.

Joe Galiette

November 2, 2018

Jeff & the Boys, I can't express adequately enough the sorry I feel for you in this time of grief. It is always a mystery to me why some people have more years than others. I can only suspect that what happens is the way of God's plan. I have questions when I get there but until then I take comfort in believing in the Promise He made for those with faith. May she rest in the Peace of that promise and may you take comfort in knowing she is there with Him.

November 2, 2018

SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS JEFF AND THE BOY'S. THE WORLD WAS A BETTER PLACE WITH DEB IN IT. ANTONE WHO KNEW HER WAS A FRIEND FOR SURE.

Judy Nye-Keating

November 2, 2018

My sweet friend from highschool . I took Deb to the Bahamas with me our junior year and had a blast. Always so happy and the cutest and kindest!! She will be missed ❤

Margie Turner

November 2, 2018

To the Mutter Family,
So saddened to learn of Deb's passing. Was a co-worker at Frisbie with Deb. She was a very compassionate and dedicated worker. Her family was everything to her. Prayers continue for you and your family.
With Deepest Sympathy,

PAUL AND DONNA SAMUELIAN

November 1, 2018

We were saddened to hear about the death of Debbie. Our deepest sympathy goes to her family. Although a cousin I felt she was more my niece. She will be missed. May she rest in peace a

Mary Chick

November 1, 2018

My heartfelt sympathy to the Mutter family. I worked with Deb at Frisbie hospital.

Tim & Mary Walsh

November 1, 2018

Jeff & family. We are incredibly sad to hear of your loss. We are thinking about you and remain in our prayers.

Tim & Mary Walsh

Brian Hester& Family

November 1, 2018

Our deepest condolences Jeff, to you and your family. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Mark Riss

October 31, 2018

Deb and I were very sorry to hear of you and your family's loss, Jeff. We remember your wife as the perfect host and a genuinely warm and friendly person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

kathy Leavitt

October 31, 2018

Dear Jeff, Dom and Joe,
I'm so very sorry to learn of Deb's passing. What a genuine and kind, down to earth, lovely woman. A great mom. I have so many wonderful memories of conversations over the years watching our boys play hockey. Talking about school, family,sports,work,and so much more. Her love for her family was obvious, yet Deb still had much to give to others. love and strength to you all. - kathy

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John Kelly

October 31, 2018

Jeff and family I am so very sorry for your loss. Im certain no words will alleviate your anguish, however I am deeply saddened for all of you.

Melinda Perez

October 31, 2018

My deepest and most heartfelt sympathies to the Mutter family. Deb was an amazing woman that lit a room up like sunshine, she will be missed greatly. Many prayers to you all during this time of loss.

Wayne Sheehan

October 31, 2018

Deb was a wonderful Mom and just easy to be around! She made you feel comfortable. Thoughts, prayers and love to Jeff, Dom & Joe. Wayne & Sherrie

Colleen Bessette

October 31, 2018

Jeff, I'm so sorry to learn of your loss. Please know I'm thinking of you and your family.

Mike & Cathy Masselli

October 30, 2018

Dear Jeff and Family, We are so sorry for your loss. You all are in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. Love, Mike, Cathy, Jennifer, Gina and Brian Masselli

Donna Glidden

October 30, 2018

I have worked with Deb for 5 years at Frisbie hospital dietary .Very kind and thoughtful positive person . You always found the good and people . Very warm heart ❤ .Great sense of humor you will be missed so very much . I will cherish the memories we had and the lesson we learned . Thoughts and prayers are with your family . May you Rest In Peace my friend. .

Donna Glidden

October 30, 2018

I worked with Deb for 5 years at Frisbie Hospital in dietary . She is a kind hearted person .. I never knew she was going through this had a great positive out look on life . Great sense of humor.She knew when to step in and make everyone laugh. She would do what ever it takes for a patent to get well .. go above and beyond. Care very much for everyone. And thoughts and prayers for her loved ones . We will miss you Deb . You kind smile . ❤ Rest In Peace .

Dawn Wolfert

October 30, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with Debs family...I will miss her dearly. I worked many years with her at Frisbie and will miss her smile.

Lynn Brown

October 30, 2018

I worked with Deb for many years at Frisbie Hospital - she always had a positive attitude and a great sense of humor. She was fun to work with, she was a friend. My deepest condolences to her family.

Sunny McNally

October 30, 2018

As part of Debs Frisbie Family I can assure you, she will be missed. She was a wonderful coworker and friend. Wishing peace and comfort to all who knew her

Stormy Burke

October 30, 2018

Deb, you'll be greatly miss by everyone that knew you. You always found the positive in people almost to a fault. My heart goes out to your family for their tremendous loss. Rest well my friend.

Lynn Larsen Levreault

October 30, 2018

I went to Framingham State with Deb graduating with her from the nutrition program. I had no idea she was going thru this. My sympathies to her family and friends-she was a amazing person and will be missed. With Love, Lynn Larsen

Karen Gallagher

October 30, 2018

My sincere condolences to you and your family. May loving memories of Deb comfort you all at this difficult time.

Wilma Martel

October 30, 2018

Worked with Deb many years at Frisbie. One of the kindest ladies I've ever met. Always having her patients and staffs best interest in mind. Never had to ask twice for anything . We sure will miss her. My sincere condolences to the family at this time of loss and sorrow.

Marilyn Rand

October 30, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss . I worked with Deb for 4 years . She touched my life deeply as she did so many others . Her incredibly warm heart and kindness was like no other . I will miss her so much ! Praying for the Mutter family for peace and comfort.. Our loss but Heavens gain ! Deb is home with Jesus !

Gary McNally

October 30, 2018

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Debra Grondin

October 30, 2018

Worked with Deb at frisbee for six years, Deb was a caring and giving person. Always willing to help and teach she is missed. Deb touched a lot of people with her kindness and I pray that peace is with the family with all there memories of her and what she gave of herself daily helping others. My sincer condolencse.

October 29, 2018

My sincere condolences. May our loving Father comfort you and your family at this time of great sorrow.
JW

Mary McKernsn

October 29, 2018

Dear Jeff, Dom, and Joey,
So sorry to hear of the passing of Deb. What a great lady! Take care.

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