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February 12, 2015
I can't believe it has only been a month. It still hurts like the first day. I miss you. So much. I wish I could have just talked to you once more, seen you once more, told you how much you mattered. I'm sorry.
Debbie Kraft
January 16, 2015
Jean and Bob ~
There are no true words for me to express how sorry I am to hear about the loss of your son. May the memories of Jeff help in the days ahead. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
Kathi Bowen
January 13, 2015
You know I've always been good at putting my feelings into words but this one has been hard for me. I know our time ended a while ago but I never stopped thinking about you and praying for you. All I ever wanted was for you to be happy and healthy. We went through so much together, so many ups and downs - we had so many great memories. My heart breaks with the knowledge that we will never be able to talk again. I always hoped that one day we would be able to catch up and talk about life and everything we had been through in our time apart. So many of our old friends have reached out to me in this time, so many people in VA still loved and cared about you, I hope that somehow you knew that. I will never forget you or our time together ? until we meet again JRH - forever in my heart.
Bob & Jean - i don't know how to put my thoughts into words for you two. I know how much you love Jeff and you would do anything for him. I hope that you both can find peace in all of this also. My heart has hurt for both of you since the moment i heard.. still sending my love your way every day.
Davie Whealn
January 11, 2015
Jean,
So sorry for your loss of your loving son. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
David Whelan
Susan Fox
January 10, 2015
Jean and Bob,
I am so sorry for your profound loss of Jeff. He should have been my son-in-law, but the Lord had other plans for him. We have our beautiful granddaughter, Kathryn Mary Hillsgrove, to love thanks to Jeff. He will be missed most assuradly by all who knew him. Thank you for sharing your son with my family for so many years. May God heal your hearts and ease your pain in this time of grief.
Love to you always.
James & Tamara Flaherty
January 10, 2015
We are so sorry Bob and Jean. Much love and prayers as you go through this difficult time. There simply are no words adequate enough. We love you!
Brenda and Alyanna DeTillio
January 9, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss Kat. Your father is always going to be with you. Kristen, there are no words to express the sadness I feel for you and Kat. I love you both.
January 9, 2015
Tomorrow is the day we say goodbye to you. I never thought it would ever happen this way. I thought we had found our little piece of forever. The pain is so raw when I think about how I will never see you again or hear your voice. I hope you found the peace you were so desperately searching for. We will meet again. Someday. Xo

Kathy Staples
January 9, 2015
Auntie Kathy will miss you. RIP xo
January 9, 2015
I am so deeply sorry for your loss, jeff was a truly special person to me and I will never forget the moments we shared.loved by so many and forever in our hearts.will miss you jeff everyday until we meet again.
brandon burton
January 9, 2015
Sorry buddy
David Gann
January 8, 2015
Jean and Bob my heart is very heavy right now it is sad to loose such a great guy so young I will keep your family in my preys
January 8, 2015
You had such a fire about you. You lit up the whole room just by being in it. You were so loved Jeff by so many people, especially your daughter. Rest easy my friend. Until we meet again.
Kathy Stoodley
January 8, 2015
Dear Jean, Heartfelt sympathy for you and your family. God Bless you all.
Marty Canney
January 8, 2015
Dear Jean and Family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies are with you.
steve lantz
January 8, 2015
bob and jean our hearts are with you steve& janet
Danny and Dianne Buttrick
January 8, 2015
Jean and Bobby, we are so very sorry for your loss. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Michael Murphy
January 8, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Diane St Pierre
January 8, 2015
Bob and Jean, I am so sorry for the loss of your son Jeff and the pain you are going through. I remember him as a young kid with plenty of energy but very nice. From reading about him, he could do anything and you must be so proud of him. Lean on your friends to help get through this difficult time. Sending thoughts and prayers.
Pat Colello
January 8, 2015
Dear Jean and Family - Thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Missy
January 8, 2015
Kristen,
My heart goes out to you at this time. Sending you healing hugs and prayers your way.
Julie Frost
January 8, 2015
Jean, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jessica Gouin
January 8, 2015
I am so sorry to hear about Jeff's passing, and he and his family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. There are so many fun times that I remember hanging out with Jeff and Josh Alex (RIP) back in high school when Jeff was dating my sister Jamie. I remember listening to DMX as we drove through the South Berwick Streets in Jeffs blue Acura. We were kids then and everything was carefree. You are watching us now Jeff, until we meet again.... Rest In Peace!
Lynn Boston
January 8, 2015
Jean and Bob and family, I'm so very sorry for your loss of your son and the pain you are going through. I havent seen Jeff since he was a baby but I know how very proud of him you are. Hold tight to your good memories and know he is in a better place. God bless Jeff and all his family and friends.
Jan & Judy Wood
January 7, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Karen Buehne
January 7, 2015
Rest in peace Jeffrey. Love and Prayers to Jean, Bob, Kristen and Katherine and the rest of the family.
Kathy & Dennis Frye
January 7, 2015
The last time I saw Jeff he was a teenager. We are so sorry for your loss Jeanie and Bob. You are in my most heartfelt prayers.
Katy Hills
January 7, 2015
I am so very sorry. I pray for peace for you all in the days ahead. Keep his memory close.
(Dot's daughter)
Katy Dorfman
January 7, 2015
My heart is very sadden to hear of Jeff's passing we will truly miss you. Thank you for being so very kind to our family and always being there when we needed your help. Our family dog just loved you when you came to our door he coudn't wait for you to come in we will miss you very much. I'm very sorry to the family for your loss. Your all in our thoughts and prayers.
Pat Mullaney
January 7, 2015
I never knew Jeff or his family but he knew my daughter Kate Dorfman and her husband Adam. Only a few weeks ago Jeff went over to their house and found an electrical short which had burned some of the insulation around some wires. I honestly believe he saved the lives of Kate and her family and for that I will forever be grateful to him. I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. Even though I never knew Jeff I know the world has lost a wonderful person.
Sincerely,
Pat Mullaney
kenny everett
January 7, 2015
so sorry bob and jean to hear about little pencel jeff i will pray for you both
sandi whitehouse
January 7, 2015
bob and jean our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jenn loves you like her own and we hope you will stay in touch. she will always be there for you
al & sandi whitehouse
January 7, 2015
bob and jean so sorry to hear about your boy you are in my thoughts and prayers kenny everett
Nathan Shirley
January 7, 2015
I'm so so very sorry for your loss Bob and Jean my heart aches for you both and am here if you need anything. Jeff you were a true friend and was always there for me when I needed anything no matter what. I will never forget that just like I will never forget you, you will be forever missed!!! I know you are in a better place now, rest in peace my good friend see you on the other side. Gone to soon...
Sarah Boyle
January 7, 2015
We are so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. He will be very much missed. our love to all.
Patty Eaton and family
January 7, 2015
Jean and Family,
So sorry for the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Brenda Cormier
January 7, 2015
Dear Bob and Hillsgrove family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Matt Cooke
January 7, 2015
My condolences to his family. I remember Jeff as a kind person who always had a helping hand or kind smile for anyone.
Lois Gile
January 7, 2015
Dear Family: My deepest and heartfelt sympathy is with you. My prayers will be with you during this most difficult time.
Lois Gile, Eliot, Maine
Cindy O'Tash
January 7, 2015
Jean and Bob,
I'm very sorry for your loss.
Seona Lawrance (Class of '99)
January 7, 2015
So sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. Thoughts of love and prayers of healing to family and friends.
Adam Dorfman
January 7, 2015
I am very sorry for your loss. He was a very thoughtful and giving person. He will be missed.
Rhonda Patten
January 7, 2015
Jean,
My dear friend. Words cannot express how deep my warmest thoughts are for you and yours. Hugs and sympathies
Ray & Marianne Lafontaine
January 7, 2015
Jean and Bob,
Sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Angela
January 7, 2015
Gone to soon. :-(
Selena (Picott) Gately
January 6, 2015
You were a great friend through school, Jeff. Thinking of your family at this difficult time. Fly high my friend.
Rebecca Eastman-Derrow
January 6, 2015
I grew up with Jeff though hadn't seen him in years. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. I have so many memories growing up literally on his couch. He was a great guy and will be missed. I had the opportunity in the last few years to meet his beautiful little girl. My thoughts and prayers are with Bob, Jean and the family and loved ones left behind. I prayers your memories of Jeff's amazing smile and sense of humor bring you some comfort in the difficult days to come. Rest in peace old friend.
Rebecca Lee
January 6, 2015
Miss you Jeff. Fly high my friend!
Don & Melissa Viel
January 6, 2015
Bob & Jean,
We are so sorry for your loss. Jeff had a big heart and we enjoyed Kat & his company at our backyard fires. He will be truely missed. If you need anything at all please let us know.
Pamela Elder (Gould)
January 6, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with Bobby and Jean.....and the entire family.
Joe & Terrie Killman
January 6, 2015
Bob & Jean,
So sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Stephanie St. Laurent
January 6, 2015
Rest in peace old friend. I know it's been a long time since we saw each other; but I'll never forget all the fun times we all had as teenagers.
Dear Bob & Jean, I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you find some comfort with time. Prayers for all of you ??
Bonnie &Tim Siranian
January 6, 2015
Dear Bobby & Jean, So very sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts at this difficult time. In the days ahead, I hope you find comfort in all your memories of happy times and in Kathryn, your bright light for the days to come.
Sincerely,
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