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Jeffrey Hillsgrove Obituary

Jeffrey R. Hillsgrove

MILTON - Jeffrey R. Hillsgrove, 34, died unexpectedly at his home in Milton on January 3, 2015.

Jeff was born April 1, 1980 and graduated from Marshwood High school in 1998. He was very mechanical, truly a "Jack of all Trades"; anything needing fixing he could fix. He could build houses from the ground up including plumbing, heating, electrical and woodworking (but not drywall, he hated taping!) to repairing any vehicle with any problem you put in front of him and he was beyond generous helping anyone that needed it whether they could afford it or not (just like Dad). He loved working on cars and learning everything he could from his Dad and had a very special bond with his Mother.

His Daughter Kathryn was the light of his life and she adored him just as much as he did her. His Grandmother "Bunky" also holds a very special place in Jeff's heart, he loved doing things around the house for her and his parents fixing faucets, hanging curtain rods, cleaning furnaces, shoveling snow and anything else he could do to show them his love.

Jeff enjoyed spending time with his partner Cora Soucy and his friend Jen Whitehouse as well as his family; taking Kat to the beach, visiting the zoo, spending time at Bunky's pool, building Legos and celebrating the Holidays.

Jeff lived in Newport News, Va. and Columbia, S.C. for several years before returning home to South Berwick to be closer to his family. Jeff worked as an independent contractor for several local builders and loved staying busy at work.

Survivors include: His Daughter Kathryn Mary Hillsgrove and her Mother Kristen Wanberg of Milton, His Parents, Robert and Jean (Flaherty) Hillsgrove, and his Grandmother, Barbara "Bunky" Hillsgrove of South Berwick, Maine, His Sister Kimberly and her husband Jim Oldham and their children Shaun, Joy and Sarah of Elgin, S.C., Aunt Karen and her Husband Don Turmelle of Berwick, Maine, Aunt Kathy and her husband Bill Staples of Somersworth, Uncle Ricky Hillsgrove and his wife Brenda of South Berwick, Maine, Uncle John Flaherty and wife Donna of Somersworth, Uncle James Flaherty and his wife Tamara of Graham, Washington; Cousins Travis and his wife Carrie Alex, Angela Rideout and her husband Tyler, Brianna Staples, Telly Hillsgrove, Eric and Kylene Robinson, Qudell Richards, Ricky Hillsgrove, Rodney Hillsgrove and Michelle Socarras.

He was predeceased by his Grandfather Richard Hillsgrove, Grandparents Thomas and Catherine Flaherty who he spent many years traveling and exploring the East Coast with, all of whom he adored as well as his cousin Joshua Alex.

A calling hour will be Saturday, January 10, 2015, from 11 to 12 with a service to follow at 12 at the McIntire-McCooey Funeral Home, 301 Main Street, South Berwick, Maine. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to the National Alliance on Mental Illness, 1 Bangor Street, Augusta, Maine 04330, Attn: Suicide Prevention.

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Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Jan. 7 to Jan. 10, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
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February 12, 2015

I can't believe it has only been a month. It still hurts like the first day. I miss you. So much. I wish I could have just talked to you once more, seen you once more, told you how much you mattered. I'm sorry.

Debbie Kraft

January 16, 2015

Jean and Bob ~
There are no true words for me to express how sorry I am to hear about the loss of your son. May the memories of Jeff help in the days ahead. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.

Kathi Bowen

January 13, 2015

You know I've always been good at putting my feelings into words but this one has been hard for me. I know our time ended a while ago but I never stopped thinking about you and praying for you. All I ever wanted was for you to be happy and healthy. We went through so much together, so many ups and downs - we had so many great memories. My heart breaks with the knowledge that we will never be able to talk again. I always hoped that one day we would be able to catch up and talk about life and everything we had been through in our time apart. So many of our old friends have reached out to me in this time, so many people in VA still loved and cared about you, I hope that somehow you knew that. I will never forget you or our time together ? until we meet again JRH - forever in my heart.

Bob & Jean - i don't know how to put my thoughts into words for you two. I know how much you love Jeff and you would do anything for him. I hope that you both can find peace in all of this also. My heart has hurt for both of you since the moment i heard.. still sending my love your way every day.

Davie Whealn

January 11, 2015

Jean,

So sorry for your loss of your loving son. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

David Whelan

Susan Fox

January 10, 2015

Jean and Bob,
I am so sorry for your profound loss of Jeff. He should have been my son-in-law, but the Lord had other plans for him. We have our beautiful granddaughter, Kathryn Mary Hillsgrove, to love thanks to Jeff. He will be missed most assuradly by all who knew him. Thank you for sharing your son with my family for so many years. May God heal your hearts and ease your pain in this time of grief.
Love to you always.

James & Tamara Flaherty

January 10, 2015

We are so sorry Bob and Jean. Much love and prayers as you go through this difficult time. There simply are no words adequate enough. We love you!

Brenda and Alyanna DeTillio

January 9, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss Kat. Your father is always going to be with you. Kristen, there are no words to express the sadness I feel for you and Kat. I love you both.

January 9, 2015

Tomorrow is the day we say goodbye to you. I never thought it would ever happen this way. I thought we had found our little piece of forever. The pain is so raw when I think about how I will never see you again or hear your voice. I hope you found the peace you were so desperately searching for. We will meet again. Someday. Xo

Kathy Staples

January 9, 2015

Auntie Kathy will miss you. RIP xo

January 9, 2015

I am so deeply sorry for your loss, jeff was a truly special person to me and I will never forget the moments we shared.loved by so many and forever in our hearts.will miss you jeff everyday until we meet again.

brandon burton

January 9, 2015

Sorry buddy

David Gann

January 8, 2015

Jean and Bob my heart is very heavy right now it is sad to loose such a great guy so young I will keep your family in my preys

January 8, 2015

You had such a fire about you. You lit up the whole room just by being in it. You were so loved Jeff by so many people, especially your daughter. Rest easy my friend. Until we meet again.

Kathy Stoodley

January 8, 2015

Dear Jean, Heartfelt sympathy for you and your family. God Bless you all.

Marty Canney

January 8, 2015

Dear Jean and Family,

So sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies are with you.

steve lantz

January 8, 2015

bob and jean our hearts are with you steve& janet

Danny and Dianne Buttrick

January 8, 2015

Jean and Bobby, we are so very sorry for your loss. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

Michael Murphy

January 8, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Diane St Pierre

January 8, 2015

Bob and Jean, I am so sorry for the loss of your son Jeff and the pain you are going through. I remember him as a young kid with plenty of energy but very nice. From reading about him, he could do anything and you must be so proud of him. Lean on your friends to help get through this difficult time. Sending thoughts and prayers.

Pat Colello

January 8, 2015

Dear Jean and Family - Thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

Missy

January 8, 2015

Kristen,
My heart goes out to you at this time. Sending you healing hugs and prayers your way.

Julie Frost

January 8, 2015

Jean, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jessica Gouin

January 8, 2015

I am so sorry to hear about Jeff's passing, and he and his family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. There are so many fun times that I remember hanging out with Jeff and Josh Alex (RIP) back in high school when Jeff was dating my sister Jamie. I remember listening to DMX as we drove through the South Berwick Streets in Jeffs blue Acura. We were kids then and everything was carefree. You are watching us now Jeff, until we meet again.... Rest In Peace!

Lynn Boston

January 8, 2015

Jean and Bob and family, I'm so very sorry for your loss of your son and the pain you are going through. I havent seen Jeff since he was a baby but I know how very proud of him you are. Hold tight to your good memories and know he is in a better place. God bless Jeff and all his family and friends.

Jan & Judy Wood

January 7, 2015

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Karen Buehne

January 7, 2015

Rest in peace Jeffrey. Love and Prayers to Jean, Bob, Kristen and Katherine and the rest of the family.

Kathy & Dennis Frye

January 7, 2015

The last time I saw Jeff he was a teenager. We are so sorry for your loss Jeanie and Bob. You are in my most heartfelt prayers.

Katy Hills

January 7, 2015

I am so very sorry. I pray for peace for you all in the days ahead. Keep his memory close.
(Dot's daughter)

Katy Dorfman

January 7, 2015

My heart is very sadden to hear of Jeff's passing we will truly miss you. Thank you for being so very kind to our family and always being there when we needed your help. Our family dog just loved you when you came to our door he coudn't wait for you to come in we will miss you very much. I'm very sorry to the family for your loss. Your all in our thoughts and prayers.

Pat Mullaney

January 7, 2015

I never knew Jeff or his family but he knew my daughter Kate Dorfman and her husband Adam. Only a few weeks ago Jeff went over to their house and found an electrical short which had burned some of the insulation around some wires. I honestly believe he saved the lives of Kate and her family and for that I will forever be grateful to him. I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. Even though I never knew Jeff I know the world has lost a wonderful person.

Sincerely,
Pat Mullaney

kenny everett

January 7, 2015

so sorry bob and jean to hear about little pencel jeff i will pray for you both

sandi whitehouse

January 7, 2015

bob and jean our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jenn loves you like her own and we hope you will stay in touch. she will always be there for you

al & sandi whitehouse

January 7, 2015

bob and jean so sorry to hear about your boy you are in my thoughts and prayers kenny everett

Nathan Shirley

January 7, 2015

I'm so so very sorry for your loss Bob and Jean my heart aches for you both and am here if you need anything. Jeff you were a true friend and was always there for me when I needed anything no matter what. I will never forget that just like I will never forget you, you will be forever missed!!! I know you are in a better place now, rest in peace my good friend see you on the other side. Gone to soon...

Sarah Boyle

January 7, 2015

We are so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. He will be very much missed. our love to all.

Patty Eaton and family

January 7, 2015

Jean and Family,
So sorry for the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

Brenda Cormier

January 7, 2015

Dear Bob and Hillsgrove family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.

Matt Cooke

January 7, 2015

My condolences to his family. I remember Jeff as a kind person who always had a helping hand or kind smile for anyone.

Lois Gile

January 7, 2015

Dear Family: My deepest and heartfelt sympathy is with you. My prayers will be with you during this most difficult time.
Lois Gile, Eliot, Maine

Cindy O'Tash

January 7, 2015

Jean and Bob,
I'm very sorry for your loss.

Seona Lawrance (Class of '99)

January 7, 2015

So sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. Thoughts of love and prayers of healing to family and friends.

Adam Dorfman

January 7, 2015

I am very sorry for your loss. He was a very thoughtful and giving person. He will be missed.

Rhonda Patten

January 7, 2015

Jean,

My dear friend. Words cannot express how deep my warmest thoughts are for you and yours. Hugs and sympathies

Ray & Marianne Lafontaine

January 7, 2015

Jean and Bob,
Sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Angela

January 7, 2015

Gone to soon. :-(

Selena (Picott) Gately

January 6, 2015

You were a great friend through school, Jeff. Thinking of your family at this difficult time. Fly high my friend.

Rebecca Eastman-Derrow

January 6, 2015

I grew up with Jeff though hadn't seen him in years. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. I have so many memories growing up literally on his couch. He was a great guy and will be missed. I had the opportunity in the last few years to meet his beautiful little girl. My thoughts and prayers are with Bob, Jean and the family and loved ones left behind. I prayers your memories of Jeff's amazing smile and sense of humor bring you some comfort in the difficult days to come. Rest in peace old friend.

Rebecca Lee

January 6, 2015

Miss you Jeff. Fly high my friend!

Don & Melissa Viel

January 6, 2015

Bob & Jean,
We are so sorry for your loss. Jeff had a big heart and we enjoyed Kat & his company at our backyard fires. He will be truely missed. If you need anything at all please let us know.

Pamela Elder (Gould)

January 6, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with Bobby and Jean.....and the entire family.

Joe & Terrie Killman

January 6, 2015

Bob & Jean,
So sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Stephanie St. Laurent

January 6, 2015

Rest in peace old friend. I know it's been a long time since we saw each other; but I'll never forget all the fun times we all had as teenagers.
Dear Bob & Jean, I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you find some comfort with time. Prayers for all of you ??

Bonnie &Tim Siranian

January 6, 2015

Dear Bobby & Jean, So very sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts at this difficult time. In the days ahead, I hope you find comfort in all your memories of happy times and in Kathryn, your bright light for the days to come.

Sincerely,

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