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Paul Gelinas Obituary
Born March 20, 1930 in Farmington, the son of Ernest J. and Yvonne (Messier) Gelinas, he lived there until 1950, when he moved to New Durham.
Paul was especially known for his 39 years of dedication to the Town of New Durham, serving as Police Chief, Health Officer, Welfare Officer, Fire Commissioner, Fireman, Deputy Forest Ford Warden and Town of New Durham representative on Rural District Health Council, serving as founding President.
He was a member of the Strafford County Sheriff Department since 1970, served as Chairman of commutation subcommittee on the N.H. Governor's Commission on Crime and Delinquency, a member of N.H. Chief of Police, a member of Strafford County Law Enforcement, served as President, and a member of N.H. Association of Retired Law Enforcement.
Survived by his 3 daughters: Jeanne and husband Walter Damon, Carole and husband Robert Ingham, Diane and husband Ricky Rines, his 3 sons: Paul R. Gelinas, Jr. and wife Elizabeth, Michael and wife Grace Gelinas, John and wife Roberta Gelinas, 2 step-sons: James Jennison, Robert and wife Georgette Lord, 21 grandchildren, 25 great grandchildren, a sister Gloria Berry, a brother Robert Gelinas, Sr., also several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his first wife Alice (Gauthier) Gelinas and his second wife Lois A. (Richardson) Gelinas.
SERVICES: Calling hours are Thursday from 6-8 p.m. at Peaslee Funeral Home, 24 Central Street, Farmington, N.H. A Funeral will be held on Friday, October 9, 2015 at 10 a.m. at St. Peter's Church, 88 Central Street, Farmington, N.H. with Deacon Richard Falardeau, officiating. Interment will follow at John C. Shirley Cemetery in New Durham. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Paul Gelinas Memorial Fund, c/o Diane Rines , TD Bank (Account ending in 3774), 92 Main Street, Alton, N.H. 03809 for a memorial bench on Town property.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Gelinas
Carol Worster
October 12, 2015
To The Gelinas family,
We want to extend our heartfelt sympathy. We have so many fond memories of Paulhe was a good man!
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
With Sympathy,
Arvard and Carol Worster
Denice & Ken Hughes
October 11, 2015
Sorry about your loss. I will always remember Chief Gelinas as a wonderful, kind and thoughtful man. The town lost a great Chief when he retired from the force. He was a great boss and also introduced me to my husband 23 years ago.
Maureen Wheeler-Brideau
October 7, 2015
So sorry for your families loss! Paul was a very nice man and so dedicated to New Durham!
Debbie Chagnon
October 7, 2015
Jeanne, Paul, Mike, Carole, John and Diane, So sorry to hear of your father's passing. So many memories of him and all of your family growing up in New Durham. Hope all the wonderful memories you have of him help you through this difficult time.
Korey Gilman
October 7, 2015
Paul & Elizabeth-I was saddened to hear that the Chief passed. I grew up in that town. Elizabeth, you once babysat me, Paul you helped my dad build part of our house, and the Chief was a part of my life too. He did so much for so many. I could always count on him to be-well, everything. Any situation I was in, good or bad, he was there. He was always firm but fair with me. I think of him often, he's what a police chief should be. Please accept my condolences and I pray that your family finds peace.
Shirleen (Goodrow) Small
October 6, 2015
Having grown up in New Durham, I can say every time I needed Paul for a legal matter, he was always there...he was kind, fair and always wanting to help. He was a good man. My condolences to his family
L
October 6, 2015
Please rely on God's help through prayer to comfort you during this time of sorrow. (Psalm 68:19) My condolences for your loss.
Nancy Parker
October 6, 2015
To the Gelinas Family,
I was sadden by the news of your father passing. It feels like our town just lost a great man. Growing up in New Durham you knew who he was. I know how hard losing a parent is. My deepest sympathy to all your family.
Timothy and Dannette Bonner
October 6, 2015
Bob and Georgette and family, We are so saddened for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ryan Pasters
October 6, 2015
Growing up in New Durham where the only recreation at times was being mischievous, I had many encounters with this man. He was always kind fair and caring.... he was the definition of civil duty and the voice of the community for over half a century.... you will be deeply mussed
Lura Meattey
October 6, 2015
I knew Paul as my mother (Edwina Dore) was their cleaning lady. When we didn't have school we would help. I remember Paul coming home for lunch those days. My mom had so much respect for him. Please know we are thinking of you all during this difficult time.
David and Cathy Allyn
October 6, 2015
Although we never knew your father, we certainly knew of him. How many times his name came up in Selectmen's meetings! How much this town owes him! How many people speak of him with respect and affection!
He was a beacon to countless members of this community.
Hang onto that in this, the most difficult of times.
Lindsay Smith
October 6, 2015
Cliff, Niki and Jamey, we are so sorry for your sudden loss. Our prayers are with you and the entire family. - Lindsay, Craig and Brody
Donna Chagnon
October 6, 2015
Paul was so good to all of us kids who grew up in New Durham. He was a kind, gentle man who gave so much to the community he loved. Jeanne, Paul, Mike, Carole, John and Diane, I am sorry for your loss.
October 6, 2015
Our sincere condolences.
The Homemakers Health Services
Cathy and Jesse Box
October 6, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. Paul was a very special man and will be sorely missed by all who knew him.
STEVEN ZARKA
October 5, 2015
wanted to pay my respects to a good man a great police chief and really nice guy..We were neighbors here in New Port Richey and in New Durham ..my condolences to the family
October 5, 2015
Our condolences To the Gelinas family. Paul was a true small town Police Chief and gentleman.......Cecile and Bob Chase New Durham, New Hampshire
October 5, 2015
My thoughts thoughts and prayers are with the family.... Mr. Gelinas was a great man with a compassion for all we all learned so much from his examples.... May God be with his family at this difficult time
Joan Garland
October 5, 2015
My condolences to Pauls family,One of the best..
Leslie Jackson
October 5, 2015
Sorry for your loss. Paul you will never be forgotten. You will be greatly missed by many. Sending prayer and thoughts to those left behind.
Leslie Jackson
Stephanie & Carl Dodge
October 5, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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