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Phyllis Hoddeson Obituary

PORTSMOUTH — Phyllis G. Hoddeson, 76, of Portsmouth, died Wednesday, March 3, 2010 at Clipper Harbor of Portsmouth Care and Rehabilitation Center after a brief battle with cancer.

She was born in New York City, Aug. 12, 1933, a daughter of the late R. Carroll and Doris (Perkins) Grant.

Phyllis was raised on Long Island, moved to New Hampshire in 1965 and had lived in Portsmouth for the last 30 years.

She received her bachelor's degree in sociology from Skidmore College and earned a graduate certificate in business administration from Radcliffe College. At age 73, Phyllis received her diploma in fine arts from the University of New Hampshire. She worked as a special education aide at Rye Elementary School before her retirement.

Phyllis was a member of Toastmasters International 1094 of Portsmouth, the Seacoast Artist Association in Exeter and the York Writers Club in York, Maine.

Phyllis had a zest for life and for learning. She was an avid gardener, hiker, artist and writer. She enjoyed camping, music, dancing, tea parties and a good book. More than anything, Phyllis loved spending time with her family and her friends.

Family members include her daughter, Karen Hager and her husband, Dean, of Hampton; her son, Alan Hoddeson and his wife, Kari, of Georgetown, Mass.; her brother, Peter Grant and his wife, Joan, of Lakeland, Fla.; her sisters, Linda MacLachlan of San Marcos, Texas, and Lucia Dutton of Halifax, N.S., and her granddaughter, Emily Nicole Hoddeson.

Services will be private. If desired, donations may be made to the Seacoast Artist Association, Attn: Treasurer, 225 Water St., Exeter, NH 03833. An online guest book is available at www.RemickGendron.com.

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Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Mar. 6 to Mar. 7, 2010.

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Nancy M

March 9, 2010

Phyllis, you were such a great breath of fresh air!! I hope that I will have the light inside me that you always did & can bring a smile to others like you did. You WILL be missed!!

March 8, 2010

i will miss you Phyllis. Warmly, Kristin S

Brad Parady

March 8, 2010

Phyllis, I always enjoyed your "song" and your zest for life. Thank you for your experience strength and hope. Brad P.

Paul Lariviere

March 8, 2010

You were such a light, Phyllis. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us!

Love,

Paul

Tom Johnson

March 8, 2010

Thank You Phyllis for being a friend. You were a breath of fresh air in my sometime stuffy life. Watching you in your creativity helped me to explore my creativity.
I keep reminding myself to thank God for allowing us to meet.

Karen Smith

March 8, 2010

No matter what the situation - you always saw the positive. And I loved the hats!!

John J

March 8, 2010

Dear Phyllis, Thank you so much for your experience, strength and hope. God bless you.

Jane Kirk

March 7, 2010

Ahh... Phyllis. You are a remarkable woman who overcame soooo much on your earthly pilgrimage. You were presented with so much friction in your life and you learned, you worked hard... so hard at figuring out how to make sense of things, how to put them into words, and how to get along with it all. I loved you with my whole heart Phyllis... I DO LOVE YOU ... and we'll meet again in God's awesome Kingdom. Thanks for letting me do your hair for all the time that I did... catch you on the other side sister! Love forever... Jane Kirk

linda LeBlanc

March 7, 2010

Miss you Phyllis. Love Linda

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