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Stephen Olden Obituary
Stephen is survived by his parents; his wife, Lynn Olden; his children, Christy Pappaceno and husband Derek, Michael Olden and wife Heather; grandchildren, Mason and Blake Pappaceno and Sawyer Olden. He is also survived by his sister Beverly and her husband Paul, his brother Chip and wife Ramona, and several nieces and nephews.
Stephen was born on January 21, 1955 in Savannah, Georgia to Harry and Jeanne Olden. He graduated from The Community College of the Air Force and The University of New Hampshire with a degree in Engineering. He was employed at Velcro as the Quality Engineer.
On January 5, 1975, he married Lynn Pulsifer, a nurse and his high school sweetheart. On March 4, 1976 and September 9, 1981, he welcomed his daughter and son.
Stephen was a devoted grandfather and enjoyed spending time with his three grandsons, especially watching them play baseball, collecting sea glass, and going off on adventures.
SERVICES: A graveside service is scheduled for 10 a.m. on Saturday, June 20, 2020 at the Pine Grove Cemetery in Farmington, N.H., family and friends are welcome to attend. To express condolences, please visit: www.peasleefuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Olden
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Mark Mansfield
July 4, 2020
So sorry to hear of Stephens passing, this world,lost a good man way too soon. Peace and blessings to the entire Olden family. Mark and Kathi Mansfield Kennesaw Ga
Kimberly Jenness DesRoberts
June 22, 2020
So Sorry to hear this news, my heart goes out to your family.
Paul Erickson
June 20, 2020
Steve will be missed at Velcro. He always had a great sense of humor even when there were problems at work. I know he was looking forward to retirement. My deepest condolences to the family.
Linda Michaud
June 19, 2020
Lynn, Steve was a great guy. I enjoyed working with him, always smiling and making jokes. He will be missed .my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Debbie Rupprecht
June 19, 2020
To the Family of Stephen Olden,
My deepest sympathy to you "Lynn" and your entire Family for your loss!!
Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time and kow that I'll keep in touch with you Lynn.
Stephen will be dearly missed by so many of us from Velcro. He was a mentor to me for several years. I've always looked up to him with such respect and admiration for his many skills, funny stories and endless humor !! God Bless you and your entire Family !!
Joe Coleman
June 18, 2020
Steve was always a joy to be around, chat & joke with. The good stories about the grand-kids, cars & airplanes were always in abundance. He was a terrific friend who will be greatly missed. I am very sorry for your loss.
Marsha Murphy
June 18, 2020
Lynn and family, So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Deborah Metcalf
June 17, 2020
My deepest condolences on the passing of a great guy. Steve was one in a million, and always had a smile on his face. He was a kind soul, and I will miss him.
Wayne Despard
June 17, 2020
Our deepest condolences on the recent loss of Stephen. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sending our love.
Wayne & Sandy
Kim Wood
June 17, 2020
In loving memory of such a wonderful person. Stephen was always a genuine, caring, and kind person. He will be missed by many. Our deepest and sincere sympathy to you and your family.♥ Love, Kim and Michael W
Jeff Davis
June 16, 2020
So sorry for your loss. Stephen was a great co-worker and I was honored to have worked with. I could always trust him to be honest and straight forward. A rare quality. He will be missed.
Regina Hall
June 15, 2020
I went to school with Michael, so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Deborah Flagg
June 15, 2020
Dear Lynn, What a shock to hear of Steve's sudden passing. I will always remember him as a kind person, who when we were neighbors, was always willing to give me a hand. I can't even imagine what you are feeling. I am so very sorry for your loss. HUGS
Jay
June 14, 2020
My condolences,Steve was a great guy.
Judith Gemas
June 13, 2020
Lynn so very sorry for you loss. I will alway remember his humor. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Leo Drapeau
June 13, 2020
My sincere condolences to you and your families Lynn. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Laurie Buote Levesque
June 13, 2020
So very sorry Lynn to hear of the loss of your husband. Sending my condolences and prayers to you and your family. May the love and support of family and friends help you through this very difficult time.
Kimberly JB Smith
June 12, 2020
Love & prayers to Lynn & family from Brendan & Kimberly J.B. Smith
Stacey Dailey
June 12, 2020
Lynn and Family, Raymond and I were sadden to hear of your loss. May your family find strength and healing during this tima and may his memory remain eternal. Stacey and Raymond Dailey
Adela and Kerry Glew
June 12, 2020
Lynn,we are so sorry to hear about Steve . Just don't know what to say. We were looking forward to seeing you guys here in Florida. Hope you know that you are welcome anytime here. Love you Kerry and Adela
Crista Woodbury
June 12, 2020
Christy and Family,
I am so sad to hear about your dads sudden passing. I know how close you are with them and you must be heartbroken. You and your family is my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Sonya Koke
June 12, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Steve was a great mentor to me while at Foss as a young engineer.
Elizabeth Nicol
June 12, 2020
Lynn and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy
Liz
Karen Radcliffe-Garland
June 11, 2020
Lynn and Family, So very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pam Dupee
June 11, 2020
Lynn and family, I am so sorry for your loss
Brian Warburton
June 11, 2020
So sad to hear this. Steve and I were such great friends in high school. Prayers for family. Rest In Peace Steve.
Pamela Clements
June 11, 2020
Lynn and family sorry for your loss. Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Diane Hagar
June 11, 2020
Lynn, I am so sorry for your loss. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of your memories and family. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Bette Eaton
June 11, 2020
Lynn and family, Im so sorry to read of Steves passing. Thinking of you with sincerest sympathy. Bette Eaton
Scott Filion
June 11, 2020
I'm so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. He was a wonderful man who carried himself with grace and kindness. With that said, he was very respected at Velcro rightfully so and was a great coworker. Our memories of Steve are numerous and will be lasting to get us through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kimberly Woods
June 11, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mary Lou Monnat
June 11, 2020
Lynne & Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. May all your wonderful memories sustain you in the years to come. Steve will always be with you and not forgotten.
Gregg Jeanson
June 11, 2020
Stephen was a kind soul who afforded time, no matter how busy he was, to help others who needed him. I've only known Stephen for a few years but they have been fruitful, fun and impacting. A fellow Mustang enthusiast and veteran, I could count on him to give me pointers on my restoration to avoid the pitfalls that he overcame with his. A gifted wordsmith and with his ever-calm demeanor, he could talk the most excited person back from the brink and help them excel at their most needful time.
In life, Stephen soared higher than most of us with the Air Force and Air Nat'l Guard and now he soars again, high over us all, keeping watch over us evermore; a husband, a father, a grandfather, a son, a sibling and best of all, a Friend. I will miss you, Stephen.
To his Wife Lynn and the family; there are no words that can convey enough solace to you for the pain you feel over Stephen's passing. You've shared your life with a wonderful man and human being and losing him will feel impossible to recover from. Know that he shared this kindness and wonder with all of us and that we are here with you, for you and share the burden of his loss with you. He will be missed by all.
Shannon Height
June 11, 2020
Deepest sympathies to the Olden Family. Significant loss of a wonderful, kind, caring soul. May memories of Stephen and the love of family surround you and give you strength during this difficult time
Diane Brandon
June 11, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Katherine Pixley
June 10, 2020
Thinking of you all....
Jerome DeGuzman
June 10, 2020
Stephen was always a joy to be around, both as a coworker and friend. It was a tremendous honor to have worked with such an amazing guy. All the great memories of Stephen will always bring a smile to my face.
Susan Goodenough
June 10, 2020
Lynn and family - I was very saddened to hear of Steve's passing. My deepest condolences.
June 10, 2020
Deepest sympathy to all the Olden family. We will keep you in our prayers. Ron & Jeanne Kinsley
Diane Byam
June 10, 2020
What a great spirit to be in the presence of. So sad to hear of Stephens passing. He was always a positive force in our conversations. He so loved his family as he spoke of you often. My heartfelt condolences to all his family and friends. Rest in eternal peace Stephen.
Pat Coble
June 10, 2020
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Steve was a great guy, enjoyed working with him and he will be missed.
Linda Roberge
June 10, 2020
Lynn and family,
Deepest condolences in the unexpected loss of Steve. Praying that you draw on the love, peace and comfort of God as you grieve. We are all grieving with you. Saddened and sorry. May all the good memories of a dear husband, dad and grandpa eventually heal your hearts.
Love,
Linda and Ron R
Judy and Ralph Parent
June 10, 2020
Lynn and Family
We are so sorry for your loss. May all your wonderful memories keep him close in your heart.
Joyce Mosher Stevens
June 10, 2020
Sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Pamela Hunt
June 10, 2020
I am so truly sorry for your loss. What a testimony his life has been! His love for his family was evident every time that he spoke of you, which was often. Always joking and smiling, it was just great to be around him. The respect he had and gave to others, always willing to listen and help out in anyway, such a true gentleman. We have lost a wonderful colleague and he will be so greatly missed!!!
april Quinn-Tierney
June 10, 2020
To Lynne and Family,
I am so sorry about Stephens passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Reach out to me if you need to talk, have coffee or just be. I know this was unexpected and a shock to everyone. Thinking of you all at this time. Love, April Anne Quinn-Tierney
Douglas Vaughan
June 9, 2020
Steve was always one of the few truly honest gentlemen. He called it like he saw it. I always enjoyed seeing him and having a chat about his Mustang modications or about his beloved FB 111 FIGHTER Bombers. He energy could always recharge the weariness of souls. He will truly be missed.
June 9, 2020
Lynn and family,
We were so sad to hear of Steve's passing. Steve was a good man who truly loved and was proud of his family. He will be missed by all. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences,
Lee and Barry Murphy
Pam Kimbrough
June 9, 2020
Lynn,
My deepest condolences to you and your family during this time.
Diane Gray
June 9, 2020
Dear lynn, I am so sorry .. my thoughts and prayers to you and your family. .. diane
Pamela Lord
June 9, 2020
Lynn, I am heartbroken for you and your family. Nothing can prepare us for the loss of our loved ones and nothing I say can alleviate your grief. Please know that Frank and I hold you in our thoughts and prayers and are thankful that you have such wonderful and loving children to help you.
Linda Miller
June 9, 2020
Lynn and family... I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your/Steve's family. May he fly high with the Angels and watch over his family. Hold him close to your heart, and he will never be far away. Let the memories comfort you through this most difficult time. Hugs
Gail and Ron LaPointe
June 9, 2020
Lynn, Christy, Michael Ron and I are so sorry to read about Steve. You are all in our thoughts.
Sean Lobdell
June 9, 2020
Im so sorry for your loss. Ive worked with Stephen for many years. He talked so much about his family and was looking forward to retirement.
Betty Varney
June 9, 2020
Words cannot express my sympathy for You and your family with the passing of Steve. May you find comfort in all of your wonderful memories. My prayers are with you all.
Penny Morin
June 9, 2020
Lynn and family
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May your fond memories of Steve carry you through until you meet again.
Diane Gray
June 9, 2020
Dear lynn, my thoughts and prayers are with you. It is a hard time. God will help you. Diane
Rocky Pageau
June 9, 2020
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Nancy Cassineri
June 9, 2020
So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Kathy B
June 9, 2020
My prayers go out to the entire family in the loss of this wonderful man. I had the pleasure of working with him at Velcro and will miss talking to him. He was a very caring and funny person and I am glad I got to know him. RIP Steve you will be missed.
Steve Veilleux
June 9, 2020
Lynn and Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Steve was a friend and colleague that I could always talk to and trust. His favorite stories were always around his grandkids and the Nerf Gun fights he says he always lost. He will be truly be missed as a leader in our company, a loving husband, father and grandfather. My deepest sympathy to you and your family during these difficult times.
Jean Labrecque
June 9, 2020
Lynn and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you will be surrounded by family and know that your friends will pray for your peace and healing. Such a great loss to you all.
Alisa Randall
June 9, 2020
Lynn, Christy and Michael - I am so very sorry. I will always remember Steve for being kind and understanding. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs to all, Lisa
Sharon Turner
June 9, 2020
Dear Lynn ~ We are sending you and your entire Family our very deepest sympathy. Steve was such a nice guy - he should have had many, many more years. So very sad for all of you. Paul and Sharon
Jackie Brooks
June 9, 2020
So sorry for the loss of you husband,dad and grandpa. Can feel your pain. May god keep you all close and hold your hands through this tremendous loss.
Tom and Sue Dooley
June 9, 2020
Lynn, Christy, Michael and family
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Michelle Doughty-Obermeyer
June 9, 2020
Dear Olden family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Christy, I will never forget the sleepover that your dad had hidden and scared all of us--sending all of us screaming downstairs while he laughed.
Peggy Hapsis
June 9, 2020
So sorry for the passing of Steve. May God surround you all with his love, strength and peace!! Fly high Steve!!
John and Ann Titus
June 9, 2020
Dear Lynn and Family,
Steve was a great guy, everyone liked him. He was funny, kind and a good man. Our condolences to the family.
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