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Thomas Anthony Tiernan

1996 - 2015

Thomas Anthony Tiernan obituary, 1996-2015, Sanford, ME

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1996

DIED

2015

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Thomas Tiernan Obituary

LEBANON, Maine - Thomas Anthony Tiernan, 19, of Lebanon, died at his home on Sunday, August 9, 2015.

Thomas was born in Weymouth, Massachusetts on July 30, 1996, to Timothy and Christine (Feeney) Tiernan. He grew up in Lebanon where he attended local schools, graduating from Noble High School in 2014. He had been attending the University of Southern Maine in Gorham. Thomas was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome when he was a young child. He worked very hard to overcome and even embrace his diagnosis. He was a strong advocate, not only for himself but for anybody challenged with disability and was always happy to speak with others to help educate them about autism.

Thomas was a devout Catholic and had been a communicant of St. Thérèse Parish. He loved movies and learning about the movie industry, especially science fiction. He had a wonderful imagination and an excellent sense of humor that touched everyone around him. He enjoyed reading, writing and going fishing. Thomas will be remembered as a kind and loving son, brother and grandson and being a part of his life was a gift to all of his family and friends

Surviving are his parents, Timothy Tiernan of Lebanon and Christine Tiernan of North Berwick; three siblings, James (Seamus) Tiernan, Finn Michael Tiernan, and Deirdre Agnes Tiernan, all of Lebanon; his paternal grandmother, Patricia Ann Tiernan of Chichester, New Hampshire and his maternal grandparents, Thomas and Maureen Feeney of Braintree, Massachusetts and several aunts, uncles and cousins.

SERVICES: Visitation will be held from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m. on Thursday, August 13th at the Lafrance-Lambert & Black Funeral Home located at 29 Winter Street in Sanford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Friday, August 14th at St. Thérèse of Lisieux Parish, Holy Family Church, located on North Avenue in Sanford. Interment will be at St. Ignatius Cemetery in Sanford.

Those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider Waban Projects, Inc., 5 Dunaway Drive, Sanford, Maine 04073.

Arrangements are under the direction of Black Funeral Homes and Cremation Service, Sanford-Springvale.

To leave a message of condolence for the family please visit www.blackfuneralhomes.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Aug. 12 to Aug. 15, 2015.

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Connie Sargent

August 6, 2020

Forever in our hearts, sweet Tommy.

Love to the Tiernan Family,

Eddie Rippett

August 24, 2015

I'm soo sorry for the whole family and everyone tommy was an amazing person everytime I saw him he had the biggest smile on his face I'll always rember him that way rest in peace buddy

August 20, 2015

I didn't know what to say then and I don't know what to say now. I can't imagine the pain your going through Christine. Because of your son, I have hope. And I'm guessing he spread hope all around him. I do believe he's in God's arms, as he is a child of God, who loves him so much. I also believe he's watching over you, and maybe you don't feel it but he is smiling. I'm sorry he was called home so soon, as we all will be someday. And I believe that one day, you'll all be together as a family again. He's with you in love and spirit now. You haven't left my prayers.

Connie Sargent

August 18, 2015

The more it sinks in, the heavier my heart. I hope you know how much we love and respect you all as a family. You are always on my mind and in my heart, more now than ever. I love you Christine. Please know that I am here for you if you ever need anything.

Tom Strout

August 18, 2015

The Strout family extends their prayers and deepest condolences on Tommy's passing. I had many conversations with Tommy at the hockey rink while Seamus or Finn were on the ice. He was pure and innocent. I will always remember him that way and may he dwell in the house of our Lord forever more.

Annette Perry

August 18, 2015

My Deepest Condolences on the paasing of your son , my nephew has Autism and i wanted just thank you for your son who helped teach people that even with Autism you can achieve things. May he rest in peace and fly with the Angels . Thank You Thomas for helping others with Autism and Asperger's. God Bless You .i did not know you and yet your smile in the pictures says it all , how wonderful you are.Thank You Thomas for helping children like my nephew Jackson.My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family.

Nancy Marchand

August 18, 2015

Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the tragic loss of your beloved Thomas. May happy memories of him sustain you all during this very sad time. Until we all meet again, may God hold Thomas in the Palm of His Hand. God bless.

August 18, 2015

Christine -May the Lord give you and all your family peace to know Tommy is well & enjoying a place of joy & rest. Prayers for strength to you all.
Deanna Lennon

Rick Jensen

August 16, 2015

To my ACTS brother, my heart grieves for your loss, but is consoled knowing His Divine Mercy heals all who ask for it. May you and your loved ones be comforted by this, and know that your ACTS community is there for you, especially in His Spirit.

David Boucher

August 15, 2015

Thomas was a pleasure and joy to know and he touched so many lives in such a positive manner. Coaching Thomas brought such joy to my life and he was quite the character! I remember the first match he won how excited he was and his mom, Christine got so excited she literally picked me right up off the floor! I was grateful to,have had the pleasure of being part of his youth and am deeply saddened by your (our) loss of him . I will always be grateful for the time and memories I had with him.
"coach" David Boucher
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Joanne Miller

August 15, 2015

With deepest sympathy. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Rosalie Peterson Lombardo

August 15, 2015

Christine my deepest sympathies to you and your family. There are no words that can ease your pain. Take comfort to know that thomas is now an angel and will watch over your family.

Anna Murray

August 15, 2015

Christine we are all so sad, Tommy was such a sweet kid you are all in our prayers

August 14, 2015

Christine,
I am so very sorry. I will be in touch soon.
Roberta

Walter G

August 14, 2015

Christine, so sad and sorry to hear of this tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Michael "Buck" Butler (K & E Trans.)

August 14, 2015

Christine, Tim and family, I am very saddened by your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Cherie SIMPSON

August 13, 2015

So very sorry to hear about this. Hugs tomorrow morning for Dierdre and Finn, Shamus,Christine and Tim. Hang on tight to each other.

Mary (TomJack) Coogan

August 13, 2015

I am so sorry to hear about your loss x I have not been in contact with you in years Christine, but when I heard this sad news yesterday I had to try to find you xx Thoughts & prayers with you & all the family. Ar dhéis Dé go raibh a anam x
If you need me anytime just contact me xx

Tricia Keegan

August 13, 2015

Christine, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this time. What an amazing young man you raised. He touched so many lives. He is at peace today in the hands of God.

August 13, 2015

Me and Big Tom go way back rest on peace big guy.

Vannessa,Kora,and Shelly Stevens

August 12, 2015

We are so very sorry for your loss. My daughter was in Tommy's social thinking class at noble. I can't imagine what you are going through at this time please know you are in our prays! God be with your whole family!

Paradis Family

August 12, 2015

Our family sends our deepest condolences. Though words cannot ease your grief, please know that Tom was loved by many of his peers and will be remembered with greatest admiration. I have two children that have gone to school with Tommy. They really thought a lot of him...he was kind, funny, and such a great friend to many.

August 12, 2015

I Felt An Angel
I felt an angel near today, though one I could not see
I felt an angel oh so close, sent to comfort me
I felt an angel's kiss, soft upon my cheek
And oh, without a single word of caring did it speak
I felt an angel's silken wings enfold me with pure love
And felt a strength within me grow, a strength sent from above
I felt an angel oh so close, though one I could not see
I felt an angel near today, sent to comfort me.
~Author Unknown

Alexus D & Matthew B

August 12, 2015

For years we watched you walk the halls of Noble High School, with the biggest more contagious smile on your face. And we will forever remember your happy go lucky personality and that wonderful smiles we will see again someday. Fly high Tommy! See you again!

August 12, 2015

We are so very sorry for your loss and know that these words are of little comfort right now but know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and Tommy and his vivacious smile will never be forgotten.
Love
Mikal, Lee and Sean Copp

Marcy Martel

August 12, 2015

I want to extend my deepest sympathies on the loss of your precious son. My daughter is good friends with your daughter, and it was ALWAYS with great fondness, deep love, and genuine admiration that Thomas was spoken of by your daughter. Words just simply seem so meaningless to me at times like this, but it is my hope that they truly do help. Please know that you have my deepest, most heartfelt sympathies.

Mary Hammond

August 12, 2015

I will forever hold fond memories of having Tommy in my 5th grade classroom. His loss will be felt by many, but his impact will stay in the hearts of those who were privileged to know him.

A B

August 12, 2015

I am deeply sorry for your loss. May you have peace at this time of great sadness (Jeremiah 29:11,12)

August 12, 2015

I am so very sorry for your loss. I know my words cannot help very much, but please know you are in my thoughts.
Love,
Mrs. Langdon

Meredith Dufort

August 12, 2015

Thomas was a very special young man who brought great joy to his school community. Please accept my sympathies.

August 12, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless.

Jayne Perkins

August 12, 2015

Please accept my sincere condolences during this sad time. I was Tommy's sixth grade and eleventh grade teacher, he was a gem.

Paul Tiernan

August 11, 2015

Tim and Christine, We are sorry to know Thomas is no longer with us but know he is in a greater presence than our minds could ever conceive. I know he will be in your hearts forever!

Catherine Larkin

August 11, 2015

Dear Thomas at peace with his beloved Grandfather Jim
RIP

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Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

CLOSED-Lafrance-Lambert & Black Funeral Home

29 Winter St, Sanford, ME 04073

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13

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6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

CLOSED-Lafrance-Lambert & Black Funeral Home

29 Winter St, Sanford, ME 04073

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Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

St. Thérèse of Lisieux Parish, Holy Family Church

North Avenue, Sanford, ME

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