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Joseph Cardozo Obituary

Joseph John Bosco Cardozo, Amherst, MA (formerly of Claremont, NH, Mombasa, Kenya and Zanzibar, Tanzania) Bosco passed peacefully in Amherst on Saturday Feb 1 after a brief hospitalization and exemplary care from medical staff at Cooley Dickinson Hospital. He was 88 years old. By his side were his wife and "security blanket" Hazel, who cared for him faithfully for 60 years, all six children, and many grandchildren. The room was filled with music, pride and laughter as his accomplishments and adventures were recalled. Bosco was fearless, funny, and singular - often referred to as "a character." Bosco was born in Zanzibar to Timothy and Beatrice Cardozo of Goa, India, the only brother among one younger and three older sisters. A proud graduate of University College Cork, Ireland for undergraduate and medical degrees, he was first in his medical school class and won the Charles Gold Medal for mastery of human anatomy. He trained as an Obstetrician/Gynecologist in England before practicing in Kenya, the birthplace of his four oldest children, and for 25 years afterwards in his own practice, Valley Ob/Gyn in Claremont, NH, where his two youngest sons were born. His professional skills were deeply admired, while his quirkiness - and signature bright red socks - endeared him to his many colleagues, patients and friends. After his retirement, the family relocated to Amherst in 1997. Bosco lived fully, reveling in good company, spirits, and food (especially Hazel's excellent cooking). He was an avid world traveler and denizen of local pubs in dozens of countries on six continents. He especially loved visiting family in England and now reunites eternally with beloved sisters Theresa Moniz and Sr. Zita Cardozo, as well as brother-in-law and lifelong friend Joseph De Lord. He also enjoyed music, classic movies, and reading, especially mysteries. Bosco had a lovely baritone and often sang around the house and at Sunday mass. He loved gardening, a daily soak in his hot tub, and the occasional cigar. He was a tennis lover who bicycled around the Pioneer Valley well into his 70s (not without mishaps, but you couldn't stop Bosco from hitting the road). Most of all, he loved his family and never stopped smiling good naturedly in their presence. He especially lit up around his grandchildren, who dubbed him "Boppa": Tom Kane and Kelsey Moniz Kane, Jonah Kane and Noeli Vasquez, Lila, Ruby and Jude Cardozo, Sadhana, Keshini and Leo Cardozo, Asha, Milo and Mira Cardozo and Nica Cardozo. Bosco is survived by his wife Hazel (Pinto) Cardozo and families of their six children: Karen Cardozo and Jonathan Kane (Amherst, MA); Timothy Cardozo and Jennifer Fuller (New York, NY), Raymond Cardozo and Latika Malkani (Orinda, CA) Kevin Cardozo and Reba Saldanha (Andover, MA), Joseph Cardozo (Los Angeles, CA), and Michael Cardozo and Rebecca Ossorio (Northampton, MA). He also leaves behind beloved sisters, Genevieve (Genny) De Lord and Eulalia (Lally) McDermott (widow of Peter McDermott), along with many nieces and nephews in the U.K. and in-law families of Elaine and Cleto Dos Remedios as well as Joe and Villa Pinto of Vancouver, Canada, with whom he also shared fond memories. There will be a Mass of Christian Burial at 10AM on Saturday February 8th at St. Brigid's Church in Amherst, followed by a reception. A subsequent burial and memorial service will take place for extended family and friends, tentatively March 29, 2025. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to The Hazel and Bosco Cardozo International Students Endowment Fund at the Newman Center, University of Massachusetts Amherst. https://form.jotform.com/250335516200039 Donations may be made online or sent c/o the Newman Center, 111 Thatcher Road, Amherst, MA 01003. Memorial guestbook can be found at www.douglassfuneral.com

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Published by Franklin County Now on Feb. 5, 2025.

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Corinne De Lord

April 4, 2025

Dearest Cardozos
Unreplaceable Bosco. A brilliant, funny, sociable, kind and family-orientated person. Will be missed by all of us especially the UK family, young and old, who so enjoyed his visits which were always filled with hilarity and copious food and wine. He and my Dad were best chums and they will be having fun together again in the next chapter of their lives.
The memorial was an amazing event and I and my sons felt privileged to have been there and known him. His talented immediate family have all inherited various parts of him and he would have been so proud to have witnessed the beautiful tributes especially from his adorable and much loved grandchildren.
I took inspiration from Bosco in choosing my career in medicine and have one memorable occasion when I was 16 years old and accompanied him to a home delivery. I was so impressed with his skills and bedside manner but the long and agonising labour was too much to witness for a teenager and I promptly fainted. My uncle was then torn between tending to his patient and his niece. Fortunately, the outcome was good for all concerned.
I have so many happy memories of our tennis tournament events especially The Laver Cup in Geneva in 2019. The wine cooler is a permanent fixture in my outings now, something he also taught me as well as trying to enjoy life to the full!
Lots of love Corinne, Jo and Daniel Xx

Brenda Gelhot

March 19, 2025

Dear Cousin Hazel and family,

My heartfelt condolences to Hazel and family. So very saddened to learn about Bosco's passing.
I was fortunate to have met Bosco for the first time in 2010 at a family reunion in Toronto. Enjoyed his company and have fond memories of our visit.
May you be comforted by all the cherished memories you shared.

Karen Cardozo

February 14, 2025

On behalf of the whole Cardozo family, thanks to all who have shared such warm, wonderful memories as well as your condolences. It is comforting and uplifting to be reminded of all that made Bosco such a unique soul and, on occasion, to learn something we didn´t know!

Johnjo McDermott

February 10, 2025

There are so many legendary stories about my Uncle Bosco who I always saw as an inspiration and a real character in all our lives. Here are just few of mine in no particular order:

From a small age I was mystified with his red Beckerbar wine cooler he always travelled with to come and watch the tennis in London! What was in it I wondered, seemingly his elixir of life/white wine and how did it manage to stay always restocked as if by magic ;-)

I remember him singing "Danny Boy" so beautifully on the coach on our way to the cemetery to bury Aunty Zita. It was such a moving and powerful rendition that brought a tear to everyone's eye.

I remember how generous he was with his time and energy. After I worked as a Camp Counsellor one summer during university at Camp Beckett, Massachusetts, he volunteered to drive a friend and I all the way to Toronto so he could " pick up some samosas" he said ;-) I had also been saved each week by Aunty Hazel's gorgeous cooking from the camp food and both went out of their way to give me some creature comforts and for that I was and still am eternally grateful.

I remember his incredible cycling exploits that sometimes ended in injury and Uncle Joe telling us a hilarious story of the time he summited a hill on his bike in Portugal while they all were together and flew over a crest and landed all legs up in the sand!

He was such an inspiration to so many. He has left such a deep impression on all our lives. He was so fun, interested, talkative and thoughtful that he could and would make friends in the unlikeliest of places.

He was a real character and a legendary figure in all our lives. He will be so sorely missed, but his stories and exploits will live long in our hearts.

Stay strong Aunty Hazel and all the amazing US Cardozos!

Rest in peace Uncle Bosco or alternatively have a really good drink/shindig at the bar up there with all the rest of the amazing family members we have recently and not so recently lost

Nolette (Gomes) de Souza

February 10, 2025

It was with great sadness that I learned of the death of Dr. Bosco Cardozo. Being one of his first patients, it brought back great memories as I recall Bosco as a young Obstetrician/Gynaecologist, who delivered my one and only child, Neil, almost 60 years ago in Mombasa, Kenya. As I was praying that my child would be a boy, Bosco took great pleasure in pointing out that my wish had been granted.

I remember about 43 years ago the wonderful opportunity presented itself when Dr Bosco visited Adelaide, Australia. My husband and I were able to meet up with him and our son, Neil, was able to meet the Doctor who delivered him.

My sincere and heartfelt sympathies to his wife and family, as well as his sisters, Genny and Lally. I pray Bosco enjoys eternal rest.

Nolette (Gomes) de Souza

Maria Hogg and family

February 9, 2025

Heartfelt sympath Hazel, and all your family. I know how it feels as my dearDavid passed on last Dec. I remember meeting you briefly, but Lally and I were in school together for many years. Hope to see her soon. Our prayers go out for Bosco´s soul and may God grant you and all the strength to bear his loss. Marie

Anthony De Souza (Desmond's Mombasa classmate)

February 9, 2025

Keeping Bosco and the family in my prayers

Erin Kelly

February 7, 2025

The Cardozo family was an extension of my own and my fondest memories, especially of my grandparents, are entwined with those of the large and raucous Cardozo clan. I am so sad and thinking of them all today and often.

Paul Fogel

February 7, 2025

Hello Ray, Latika, Sadhana, Keshini and Leo, and Ray's brothers, sisters, and their families -- I met Joseph twice, when he and Hazel were visiting the West Coast. I know he was a strong presence in your family's life and no doubt in the development of his amazing children and, eventually their families. I am glad he lived a very full life and was able to experience the joy of raising and seeing grow so many incredible individuals in all walks of life, and in the satisfaction that he imbued so many with values that enable our world to be better, especially in difficult times. I am sorry for your loss, and know that Bosco's legacy will live on for decades as all of you make their way in the world. Yvette and I wish all of you comfort in your grief and joy in your celebration of an incredible life. Paul Fogel

Hugh Helferty

February 6, 2025

Bosco was a force of nature, bringing joy wherever he went. I first met him at our wedding over 40 years ago, and have enjoyed seeing him from time to time since. He made every day count, living life to the fullest.

Miliann Kang

February 6, 2025

Sending deepest condolences to Karen, Hazel and all your family. Thank you for sharing these beautiful memories of Bosco, we were lucky to have enjoyed swimming with him a few times and sitting with him as he brimmed with pride cheering on your band. We will see you on Sat, take care.

Sarita Karve

February 6, 2025

Sending sympathy to dear Hazel and the family.
Bosco was a force of nature, truly one of a kind. I have fond memories from the Mombasa days when he would drop by the house after hospital calls. A funny, kind `uncle´ who took care to stay in touch through all these years.
Rest in peace, Bosco. You will be missed by many.

Aidan Bass

February 6, 2025

Bosco always welcomed Jonah´s friends, including myself, over to their pool and awesome house above Puffers Pond. We could always count on him for a unique and hilarious story. My favorite one was the story about how he drove to Connecticut to get cheaper gas. RIP!

BRIAN BIRNER

February 6, 2025

There are so many wonderful memories. Rest in peace, my friend. My thoughts are with Hazel and the entire Cardozo family.

Debbie

February 6, 2025

Dr. Cardozo performed my classical c-sections for all three of my daughters. After my last daughter he leaned over the screen and asked if I was sure that I wanted a tubal done. I told him to "double knot them" and he burst out laughing in the or!!!
He was a kind and compassionate man to me for all three pregnancies.
You were all blessed to have him as a husband and father.

Kendra

February 5, 2025

Your dad pulled my brother into the world way back in Claremont in 1977. My mother´s story of this enigmatic doctor who was so sure in his mannerisms, so confident in the process, was carried in my heart from my earliest memory. She went on to have four more children. I was convinced that the doctor had done such a good job that she barreled into the subsequent deliveries with a confidence that might have otherwise eluded her. I thank your father for that gift. He was one of a kind.

By chance I met Joe in college. We roomed on the same dormitory floor. Along our friendship I put the pieces of this random connection together. It has been a reminder of how intimate and special our world can be.

Sandra Stevenson

February 5, 2025

Dear Hazel, and family, I am so saddened to hear of Bosco´s recent passing. I have such very fond memories of time spent with you all in Claremont N.H., so many years ago now ; lively conversations around the wonderfully aromatic and supremely delicious curries that we shared at your table. Bosco was a unique human, with a great sense of humour and curiosity for life. I was so delighted when he and Hazel met up with my parents in Portugal and shared a photo of them together on the beach. He was always reaching out to others to connect in some way, and that is a remarkable trait. I know that he will be sorely missed as the patriarch of your large and loving family. Love and hugs to you all. Sandra (Downs) Stevenson

Christine McD

February 5, 2025

Mum (Lally) and I remember cycling in the Bahamas with Uncle Bosco as he boomingly sang our favourite requests such as Moon River and Fly Me to the Moon and we just didn't want the ride to end so we made him do another round with us. Thank you Uncle Bosco for your beautiful resonant singing xxx and your voice was obviously highly distinctive as someone at Karen's PHD celebration recognised your voice and tracked it back to your Meals on Wheels delivery days when you used to sing "Meals on Wheels" up the corridor - I don't think this person was a Meals on Wheels recipient but could hear Bosco's singing voice through her front door - such an amazing story - Karen pl fill in the details or the tune of "Meeeeaaallllsss on Wheeeellllllzzzzzzzzzzzz" loads of love to all those missing him love Lally and Christine (niece and God child) xx

Lally McDermott

February 5, 2025

My high school / college friend May Hamilton (nee Sequeira) at her 85th birthday party told me that my brother Bosco had told her that his wife Hazel had a face that could stop the traffic in Piccadilly Circus - I thought that was wonderful, true and surprisingly highly romantic of him but then he did always say it like it was.

Hazel, his anchor - whilst stopping the traffic! - supported and helped Bosco to be the super man he was.

Her intelligence matches his and May, my friend and I spent her whole party discussing Hazel and Bosco and their lovely, brilliant children.

I was taking a lovely large photograph I have of Hazel and Bosco to show May at her daughter Sara's 50th birthday which is today. Happy birthday Sara.

Hazel and Bosco I love you and Bosco may you rest in peace until we meet again.

Love Lally your baby sister xxx

Zack Forray

February 5, 2025

I´ve been friends with Bosco´s son Joe since our days as summer camp counselors during college, and while I only met Bosco a handful of times, I still remember his kindness, wit, and hospitality. My enduring memory is of a time when I came over to hang out at the Cardozos´ house and use their pool. After Joe and I "swam laps" for what was likely a comically short amount of time, Bosco came out to the pool deck to let us know that they were running a special on pitchers of beer (at the Harp, I think) and suggested that we should all go. Joe looked over at me with a knowing glance, and then after a moment, I awkwardly admitted to his dad that I was, in fact, only 20. Bosco paused for a moment in disbelief, and then nodded his head in acceptance and went back inside. We continued our hangout for a bit longer, and eventually it was time for me to leave. On my way out the door, I gave Bosco a little wave as if to say "thanks for having me over." He waved back, and as I walked out, he said to me "come back when you´re 21."

It was, in a word, hilarious. Though I never really got to know him, that one exchange told me a lot about his personality and sense of humor. He seemed like a great dad. He must have been, to have raised such great children. My heartfelt condolences to the entire family.

Amanda Cox

February 5, 2025

I met Bosco once many years ago and remember him having this amazing energy - I instantly saw how his light reflected in Karen. He made me laugh and was so clearly adored by his big loving family. I´m so sorry for your loss.

Vicki Raymond

February 5, 2025

I was one of Dr. Cardozo´s first patients when he came to Claremont. He delivered our three daughters in 1975, 1977 and 1978. When our third daughter was born, he told us we had our own harem. We so enjoyed his humor and his kindness. Our sincere condolences to the Cardozo family.

Nancy Desmarais

February 5, 2025

I will always owe my life to Dr. Cardoza. He called me his prize patient after saving me at 7 months pregnant with an ectopic pregnancy. He continued by delivering my two children over the years and many other surgeries. I am saddened by this news but he will be an angel to someone else.

John Carroll

February 5, 2025

Dr. Cardozo is such a wonderful soul. He always brought such joy to all those around him. We have all been blessed to know him. He embraced life in a way that inspired. My love and condolences to all the extended Cardozo family members. What a great man.

Avery and Jane Howe / Tunbridge, VT

February 5, 2025

To the Cardozo family,
Dr. Cardozo delivered two of our precious daughters and arrived just as nurses delivered our third daughter because my labor was so quick. I have a picture of him in what looks like his pajamas.
He hurried to hospital as soon as he could. We send our condolences to all the family.

Osmond Remedios

February 4, 2025

I was happy to meet Bosco at Joe DeLord's funeral, recently, in London, England. We originally met, in Mombasa, when he first qualified and opened his practice. I also remember Hazel from Zanzibar. My condolences to the entire family from Osmond and Gloria Remedios.

Julie Scala

February 4, 2025

My love to all Dr. Cardozo's family.

Fr Gerard Theraviam

February 4, 2025

Praying with all Bosco's family and friends. May the consolation of Jesus be yours.
May he rest in peace.

Eugene and luana moniz

February 4, 2025

My dearest beloved Uncle my God father remember him getting me my first toy train all the way from Ireland and was always there in Goa whenever there was a family occasion RIP uncle Bosco always in our hearts Eugene

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